I’ve heard all kinds of myths, theories and fabrications about Filipino dating sites.
Some people seem to think only hookers, scammers and easy women go there… Others believe that only goody-two-shoes hang around.
Personally, though, I’ve used all the Filipino dating apps and sites out there… Gotten dozens of lays and multiple girlfriends online… And found the following to be true:
- 10% of the profiles belong to scammers.
- 40% belong to working girls who charge for sex.
- 50% are regular girls looking for a man. This includes all sorts of girls, from Christian, family-oriented ladies to thrill-seeking party-chicks looking for an affair.
Now, the scammers are who you want to avoid – and in a minute, I’ll tell you how to do just that.
For the moment, though, focus on what I’m about to say… Because if you know how to look, you can find your dream girlon Filipino dating website.
What You Can Find Online In The Philippines
If you’re looking for a good girl who wants a man to love, cherish and pamper, going online is your best choice. The reason is “good girls” try to distance themselves from the hordes of sex-hungry tourists visiting their country.
If you’re looking for casual sex, you’ll find plenty of young women curious to try sex with a foreigner – and line up as many dates and one-night stands as you want.
I met and dated mostly girls in their twenties, eager to experience an affair without commitment. I like to be FREE.
However, there are been several emotional moments. You get to know her, spend a great time together while doing the bad and good things.
Still, I’ve to move on…
Keep in mind that Filipino women are very emotional. They can fall in love with you quickly. So, be clear in advance about your intentions, what you expect and how is going to be.
The clearer you are… the BETTER. No drama or emotional moments.
Lastly, if you’re looking for a no-strings-attached, pay-for-play sex, there are a good amount of freelancers on dating sites, happy to meet during your next holiday to the Philippines.
Some are happy to get a FREE vacation while spending time with you, others charge as tourist guides with the difference that you can sleep with them.
Working girls on dating sites are far better looking, cleaner and overall offer a better value for money than girls working in bars and red light district brothels.
The only question is, what is it that you want – and is looking for it online, realistic?
In this article, I’ll help you figure out the answer to this question by going over what really happen on Filipino dating websites – and the one thing you will not find there, no matter how hard you look.
Let’s start by looking at:
~ Good Girls Looking For A Relationship ~
This is possibly the most numerous kind of girl in the Philippines: the regular, girl-next-door type looking for a relationship… Preferably with a foreigner.
But, why a foreigner?
- First reason is that Filipino women view people from abroad as inherently superior to themselves. There’s a strong colonial mentality in the Philippines, and young Pinay women view men – young or old – as exotic, mysterious and sexy.
- Second reason is that Filipino men are anecdotally viewed as unfaithful, selfish, low-brow and prone to bad habits like gambling and alcoholism.
This is repulsive to Filipino women (actually, any women) who are raised conservatively.
- Third, you look like an exotic prince, a common Asian female fantasy. Filipinas are no exception.
What does all of this mean?
In a nutshell, it means that if you want a good girl to date, you’ll find her. Unlike the average Western woman, who is excited by “bad boy” types and “emotionally dramatic”, Filipino women just want stability with a decent man.
Because, at the end of the day, they are Christian while having Western family ideals but without the feminist malaise plaguing Europe, Australia and America.
Of course, this doesn’t mean you can’t find a lot of…
~ One Night Stand Filipino Girls ~
Like I said above, Filipino girls find Westerners very attractive. As a result, even those that would never marry a foreigner, want at least experience a night of casual sex with a guy from abroad.
I could go through all the reasons for why they fantasize about us, from our comparatively large penis (Filipinos have an average penis size of only 4.3 inches, which is among the world’s smallest) to our white skin.
But I won’t, because the point is; lots of young Filipino girls want nothing more than a “safe” and discrete sexual experience with a foreigner.
Many of these types of girls would die of embarrassment if they were seen by friends or relatives with you – so they go on dating websites to find the naughty, kinky sex they want.
And here’s a little secret…
Lots of these girls don’t know if they’ll get another chance with a guy from abroad – so they treat each and every sexual experience like it’s their last one. Meaning, they’ll do all kinds of things they’d never try with a regular boyfriend or husband.
It’s your duty, to help those young girls to satisfy their HOT fantasies 🙂
~ Working Girls (Freelancers) ~
Like every respectful Asian country, the Philippines has its fair share of working girls; maybe even more than average, considering parts of the country are poor.
Obviously, the hottest and brightest of these would never take to city sidewalks or red light district brothels to drum up business.
What do they do, instead?
They go online.
This means the hottest, kinkiest and brightest girls are what you’ll find on dating sites.
Whereas most bar girls (80%) are either too frigid, too old or too plain – which is why they need the bar to get customers.
I always tell my friends the same thing I’m telling you now: “if you want the finest pay-for-play females, online is the way to go!”
Which Site for Which Kind of Girl?
Now, for the most important part…
WHERE can you find these girls – and HOW do you avoid the one thing you DON’T want: scammers?
Glad you asked, my friend!
Your friend Rocco is about to give you the blow-by-blow on the Philippines’ 2 main dating websites – and the kinds of women who visit them:
- Filipino Cupid – the largest website. It’s got plenty of good girls, one night stand girls and working girls. There’s a lot of screening for scammers, so this is a good place for beginners.
- Pina Love – lots of good girls and one night stand girls; not quite as many working girls as F.C. Recommended if you’re looking for real affection, and mature women. Screen for scammers too.
My general advice is that you start at the top of the list, working your way down once you feel a little more confident about differentiating good girls from bad girls from workers from scammers.
First and foremost, though, use your common sense when having fun out there! You’ll be just fine.