Thinking that you’d like to date an Asian girl?
This article is for you!
Today I’m going to share with you some crucial things you need to know before you jump in.
Preparation is king to success not only with Asian women but women in general.
Dating Asian women is a little different from dating Western women. The playing phase is much the same, but if you are planning to take it to the next level, there are essential steps to learn.
Following these advise will save you heart breaks and frustrations in dealing with Asian girls.
1 ~ Not All Asian Girls Are The Same
Asia is a big continent with different countries, cultures and girls. Imagine your own continent, let’s take Europe as an example which has 50 countries.
A Norwegian women would be tall, white skin, blonde with blue eyes and a “rigid” character in general terms, but her Greek sister (both are Europeans) would look much different being short, tanned skin, black hair, with dark eyes and “warmer” personality than the Norwegian sister.
Asia is huge, there are so many nationalities with different esthetic futures, not only in appearance but also in heritage.
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An Indonesia girl will be short, tan skinned, black hair with huge tits. Instead, the Chinese sister from Dalian will be tall (yes, Chinese girls from the north part of China are tall), white skinned, and small tits.
So, an Indonesian girl has more similarities to a Greek girls than a Chinese. That is awkward, isn’t it?
To make up your mind in finding the perfect Asian girl for you, pin out all the Asian girls using Google image to search “Thai girls”, Cambodian girls”, “Japanese girls” and have a look at their physical characteristics. Pick your favorite to start with.
They might look similar at first if it’s your first you look at an Asian girls, but with time you will notice their differences.
The physical aspect is easy to spot, but personality and culture will take time and experience to learn.
The last two are the most important factors when dating an Asian girl. What a lot of men focus when choosing a girl to date is by her appearance, but with time she will not be so beautiful and exotic as she was in her 20s, so you better know her and get along with her personality.
As I’ve said before, learn about Asian cultures and differences before jump in the Asian dating world.
2 ~ Appearance Matter
In a land so influenced by media and fashion, appearances is so important that make the difference between you getting laid or not.
Just take for example the airline business, where in Europe most flight attendants are old and not so beautiful, instead in Asia they are young and hot.
But don’t take my word for it, there is an excellent article talking about how much appearance is important for flight attendants from the two world. I’ve traveled around Asia, and I confirm the pleasure to look at hostess during my trips around Asia, I can’t say the same for Europe.
You might have noticed Asian men don’t have any facial hairs, thinks like beard or mustache. They are considered dirty. So, if you’ve any facial hairs, you’re going to struggle.
The second point is the way you dress. At least, you want to dress “smart”. Jeans and a quality t-shirt would do, but the ideal is to wear a shirt.
The good news is Asian men have no clue about fashion so for you will be a piece of cake to out dress your competitors and stand out from the crowd.
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Looking “Smart” is going to boost your success with Asian girls instantly. You’ll get noticed in clubs and malls, making you more comfortable in approaching local women.
What a lot of guys don’t understand is that Asian girls want to meet a guy who can make them feel sexually attracted and make her feel proud to show you to her friends.
So, look at yourself in the mirror before going out, and be a bit critical about your appearance and invest some dollars in looking good. Investing in yourself will pay off.
3 ~ Polite And Sincere
The general conversation for the first date in the West would be all around her. Negative comments pepper the conversation like “My boss is an asshole” or “I want to be a model“.
By the end of dinner, your head would be spinning, and your only wish is to get the bill and get out of the situation ASAP. Does it sound familiar? There is more…
Once the bill arrives, not only she pretends to want to pay the bill (she doesn’t), but she will not have sex with you. It’s all about to play “hard-to-get” games.
Your Asian date would proceed in a different way. For an Asian girl, this means listening and politely asking questions while showing a genuine interest.
She doesn’t interrupt the conversation and be genuinely happy to be there with you. The conversation is pleasant, and she answers all your questions with a refreshing authenticity.
After dinner, you will take her back to your room to have some romantic moments together, perhaps a kiss and something more.
For Asian girls is natural to have SEX if two people feel attract to each other, no need to wait or play games.
4 ~ Asian Girls Love Social Online Sites
Asian girls love the internet, especially social media. You can become friend on Facebook or meet girls ready to date/marry on Asian dating sites.
You know already Facebook if you didn’t live under a rock for the last ten years. Facebook has 1.55 billion users in the world; that is BIG. Every single Asian girl has a profile on Facebook; I’ve never met one without it.
Usually, girls on Facebook connect with friends, form groups to share their personal daily life. It’s difficult to break the ice on Facebook, but not impossible if you are young, outgoing and handsome.
However, for the older crowd, I recommend AsianDating where you can meet thousands of Asian girls interested in dating/marrying foreign men which can provide stability in a relationship.
I use the site to pick up girls before traveling somewhere while having fun doing it I have learned a lot about dating women online over the years.
The online dating arena has grown in the last five years, and appears to be speeding up, not slowing down. Asia now has the highest penetration of social network usage among internet users of anywhere in the world.
This is a good news for men looking into a digital alternative in picking up Asian girls.
5 ~ Age Matter Less With Asian Girls
You’ve undoubtedly heard stories about Asian girls in their 20’s dating American, Canadian, and European men in their 40’s, 50’s, 60’s and beyond.
When visiting Asia, you’ll notice older man with young girls, sometime 10-20 years of difference. You might think “they are desperate” or “she is ugly“, sorry to disappoint you, that isn’t the case.
I saw stunning girls walking hand in hand with fat and old men; I thought they might be rich but after investigating, I’ve found a different reality.
Being a young block help to attract Asian women, but isn’t a priority for an Asian girl. The truth is many times girls prefer dating men considerably older than themselves, even more than dating men of their age.
Most Asian girls aren’t self-independent and rely on you to lead the relationship, take decisions and provide safety.
Mature men are providers, this is a key attraction component for young Asian girls.
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Receiving affection, the love and physical ple20s-year-old girl has to be one of the greatest experiences a 50 year plus man can ever experience. You feel totally invigorated, rejuvenated, and forever young.
Older men, Younger women – it can work, but take the time to think it through.
6 ~ Asian People Are Obsessed With White Skin
You have a natural advantage when dating Asian girls; You are white!
Let’s say your skin is very white, and for you is a down point in your home country because women prefer tanned men. Here you are, trying to get sun bath whenever possible to please girls. What to do instead?
Keep your skin white of course and look for Asian girls!
For example, my fellow friends from Berlin is white, and he isn’t even the whitest. But whenever we go out in Thailand, girls go crazy for him.
What’s more awesome is that he don’t have to lay down on the beach all day to improve appearance, it’s skin tone is natural and attract Asian girls.
Just watch any TV advertisement or movie in Asia to notice that all the actors are white, but the majority of the population in South East Asia is dark skinned. The exceptions are for Korea, Japan, and China (they have got yellow skin).
White skin is a very long-honed determinant of beauty in Asia, and go back in time long before Marco Polo ever set foot in Asia.
7 ~ She Might Be A Virgin
I never had nothing to do with a virgin in my life, perhaps isn’t my karma.
However, while having a good time in Angeles City, I notice some bar girls with “virgin” badge. Cool!
You might think “They are underage.” No, they were not.
I learnt it was their choice to give up their virginity to the lucky man who would marry them or offer big cash for the privilege.
According to a worldwide study of sexual behavior and contraceptive use published by Durex Network
Japanese girls lose their virginity first, with Malaysian lacking behind with a staggering 23 years old age for the first time sexual experience. The Philippines is out of this chart, but I assume to be between Thailand and China.
What I do know is that Malaysia being a Muslim country has an impact on sexual behaviors.
When I was living in Malaysia, I had a hard time to get laid with girls in their early 20s. They might have been virgin, and I wasn’t the right man to give it up.
8 ~ Be A Gentleman Still Work
Asia girls appreciate a man that show proper manner and treat them well. The West has lost time ago this treat, in fact, is better to be a bad boy when comes to Western women.
Offer your jacket if she feels cold. Gift some flowers to show your love and respect. She will respect your kindness and not abuse it.
I’ve date Asian girls for years now, and I always treat them with gentle manners. Not only they appreciate, but they pay me back in the form of great sex. As I please them, they feel obligated to please me.
Don’t feel shy to show the gentleman in you, be natural, because is a normal way a confident man should treat an Asian woman.
9 ~ Asians Have Large Families
Traditionally, Asians tend to have a large extended family, usually up to four generations living together. Asian family’s members are much closer to each other compared to the Anglo families, and members have an obligation to care each others.
For example, grandparents and older siblings care for the young and adult children care for their aging parents. Family relations are clearly defined.
So, if you get involved in a relationship with an Asian girl, expect to be part of the family and have obligations forward their aging parents.
In this regard, I suggest marrying middle-class girls who have enough wealth to sustain events like parent’s hospitalization. In the case you marry a poor woman, be ready to shell out money for her parent’s welfare.
I’m not saying that you need to avoid completely poor girls, but I am saying that you should understand your role as a provider and know that her parents will always play a significant role in her life.
If this concept is a turn, off you should probably reconsider dating an Asian woman. You will have to get used to being the second after her family if you want to have a successful relationship or marriage.
I believe Westerner should learn from Asian people in this regards, instead of sticking their parents in homes and neglecting them after they have given us everything they could.
10 ~ You Are Going To Be Authoritarian
Women in traditional Asian cultures are considered subordinate, so the dominant part is taken by you.
A girl is taught to obey her father; when she marries, she is taught to obey her husband. Be ready to lead and take the decisions that matter, and be willing to be responsible for consequences.
When dating a Western woman you might ask her where she would like to go out or what to do, but in Asia this is unthinkable. Of course, there are exceptions if you date an highly educated and wealthy woman, she is more inclined to Western thinking.
Sometimes can be irritating to take all the decisions because an open discussion is stimulating and usually the outcome is better. Unfortunately, this isn’t common in Asia.
There isn’t nothing wrong to ask her what movie she would love to watch, but don’t expect much of an answer.
In a relationship with an Asian girl, you will feel more masculine and respected because you are the leader, the man look upon by your new girlfriend.
11 ~ Asian Girls Will Change (but not really)
Globalization is changing the face of the world, and Asian culture isn’t immune to it. I will not go into details about these changes, either I’ll offer my opinion on the globalization matter.
But something I’ve been noticing in recent years is the bad habits Asian girls are embracing, like smoking and get trashed with alcohol.
There is only a minority at the moment, maybe a 5% percent of the entire population, but with time, this trend is going to increase.
The key here is to avoid Asian girls with bad habits. There are so many girls out there with traditional manners and proud to be feminine.
Ask yourself, “Am I so disperate to accept anyone in my life?”.
So please, avoid girls that behave like truck drivers.
12 ~ Asian Girls Are Eager To Please
Asian girls treat their boyfriends very well with honest and love caring attentions, no matter where they come from.
They don’t usually make their own decisions or have a philosophic thinking because throughout their life have been told what to do by their parents, teachers and bosses.
They conform well with society, and Asia society is male-dominated culture. Your Asian girlfriend will take care of you to make sure you feel well, the few treats are:
~ Massage you; in wonderful places.
~ Cook for you; home made food is the best.
~ Remind you to eat; if she notices that you jump meals, she will ensure to buy or cook food for you.
~ Take you around; show you their beautiful country.
~ Pick another girl; if you like a threesome, get her to find the third girl for you, it’s easier than do it by yourself.
There are more I could add to the list, but I think you get the point. Treat them well, and they will treat you like a king in return.
These are the few reasons Asian girls are my favorite in the world. At this point, it’s pretty obvious why.
What Else Do You Need To Know About Dating Asian Girls?
I’d really appreciate to know what you dudes think about dating Asian girls. Is it worth it? Do you disagree with any of the points I’ve made above?
Please leave a comment and let me know what you think.