The Ultimate Guide to Filipino Girls
Learn about Filipino women; Where and how to meet one, having sex the first date or get marry for life.
When you think about the Philippines, the first things come to my mind is the sexy women.
Filipinas are gorgeous, they come in all the shape, skin colors, boobs size but what is pretty standard is the hair; black and straight.
Beside external attributes, what makes Filipina women attractive is the easiness to bed them.
Every time I’m in the Philippines, I have sex with a different girl, daily! And you’ll too.
I have prepared this Filipino girl’s guide for travelers looking for lust, love and romance in the Philippines.
Are you looking for a wife? Or maybe just a girlfriend to spend your holiday together. Or… you are looking for the ultimate lust holiday having 2-3-4 girls at once in your bedroom.
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Philippine Girls; 7 Things you should know
1 ~ Filipina are very close to the family
This is important if you are planning to MARRY a Filipino woman. The family is the most important thing. In fact, you will always be the number 2 in the equation.
There is a Filipino say; “If you wanna court the girl, court the mother.”
Consider budgeting some money forward the family. In future, whenever some member of the family is in need of some money, your wife will rely on you for support.
2 ~ Filipino women are easy to bed
This is the best part of traveling to the Philippines because is super easy to get laid. If you can’t get laid over there, you better go live in a monastery.
I never had problems to get laid in the Philippines, and with my proven technique in dating Filipina girls on the net, my success rate went skyrocketing.
You don’t need to be tall, handsome or rich to convince some attractive Filipina to sleep with you. Just be yourself, polite and dress smart.
Once I was in a nightclub in Angeles City having a great time drinking and watching girls around me. There was a group of hot and young girls dancing on the floor that constantly were looking at me. I knew what they wanted.
I went over and started to chat up the hottest one of the group. I don’t need to mention that after few drinks and an excellent time together, we were on our way to my hotel room.
Does it happen in the West?
3 ~ Filipina are open to date and marry older men
The rules in the Philippines are different than in the west. It is not uncommon to spot and couple with twenty years of difference, of course, the man is the older.
Not all the girls will accept an older man, of course, but a large number will.
My friend Oscar, a single New Zealand executive on his late 40’s, has dedicated much of his life to the company.
He called me up asking for help. He wanted to get marry to an honest Filipina woman.
“No problem Oscar, do you prefer below 25’s or in her 30’s?”
“Rocco, I would love a girl on her 20’s but no way you will get one for me, I’m 46 years old already.”
Making the story short, 6 months later he got married to a 26 old beauty.
Filipina value the stability of a relationship, so an older man has a better chance than a young man for this purpose.
4 ~ Filipina are slim, attractive and with beautiful exotic features
This applies not only to Philippine girls but all Asian women. The “rice diet” keep them petite and slim.
When you are tired of the obese Western women, this news will give you joy.
Most guys who visit the Philippines are simply blown away by the beauty of the women. Their dark hair, dark eyes, naturally tanned skin, and slender figures are a welcome change of pace for many.
5 ~ Filipino girls are love caring wife and mother
They have good characteristic and personality to be for the rest of your life together. I believe, a good wife should let you do things that you love without a tragedy; watching football, play golf and have few beers in weekends with mates.
Filipina women qualities include being patient, understanding, composed, generous, caring, and supportive. In a fight between couples, Filipinas will just usually keep quiet and are expected to be submissive to their husband.
They are love caring forward the kids. I was impressed to see the patience and constancy in nurturing their children in first-hand.
Filipino women value their relationship, and they are very loyal to their husband. In fact, they will stick with their man no matter what.
If anything, too much responsibility is upon Filipino women. In the Philippines parents always nurture kids stressing the importance of family. Girls are taught to treat their husband well, the importance of serving her husband, how to cook how to clean and care for the family.
All that being said, in the Philippines a woman’s most important role is the be a mother and a wife.
6 ~ Excellent English language skills
They start to learn English during the elementary school years, and they learn it very well. If you have traveled around Asia, you will notice that most five stars hotel and live music venues have Filipino bands.
Not only Filipino are great singers, but their English level is staggering.
This can be a significant advantage if you are thinking about finding romance and love in the Philippines because it is nice to communicate and understand each other.
7 ~ Don’t use condoms
Rarely a Philippines girl has asked me to use a condom. Giving a percentage would be around 5%.
I think has something to do with their religion (Christianity), if not mistaken they preach don’t use condoms because is against the Lord.
You should be careful in having sex with any girl without condoms because you don’t know how many blocks have passed by before you.
Type Of Filipino Women
I will briefly go over 6 general profiles of Pinay girls you are likely to meet online, in hostess bars, freelancer’s joints, in streets and discos during your vacation.
~ The Newbie in the city ~
These girls just left home in the country side to work and support their family. Everything is new to them; city, people, restaurants, hotels, sex, etc.
They are from some village or provincial capital, they are naive and don’t know almost anything about the world.
You will find this type of Filipino woman to be sweet, love caring and possibly will follow in love with you if you are the first foreign man. She will be attracted to you because you look so exotic as much as she looks to you.
You will be able to mold her as you are pleased, teach her what you like and don’t, so she will be a perfect partner to satisfy any of your desires.
For example, you like to read the newspaper in the morning while having your scrambled eggs and coffee?
Just show her once how to cook your meal or just tell her to google it, and every morning for the rest of your life you will get your breakfast.
But the best part is that she will deliver with a smile on her face and much respect for you. How does feel to be the king?
The perfect match for; men looking for a long relationship or even marriage.
Where? They usually work in basic jobs like restaurant, shop attendant in malls, study university. You can also plan a tour around the countryside, where the girls are “farm fresh”(untouched by any modern corruption).
~ Taking all the punters ~
Definitely in the hooker class, this hardcore type of woman try to maximize her time to get the most out of the day.
They are usually in their late twenties, look sexy and fit and love to work in Ago-go clubs because they have a good exposure to wealthy men.
Charming talker, manipulative, and sex oriented, I wouldn’t surprise if she has multiple relationships going at the same time.
For her is simple, more men equal to more money. However, this isn’t such a bad thing if you can align your goals with hers.
I deal a lot with this type of business women because I love kinky games, and they are
I’m not looking for love, I’m not jealous, and I believe in “sharing is caring”. This is my philosophy when comes to girls and traveling.
But if you are a possessive man, you are going to get hurt. Big times!
The perfect match for; men looking to have a blast of sex holiday with a young and playful lady. You are:
- into kinky stuff.
- love to have a super hot woman next to you.
- you are all about “play the game”, so no hard feelings.
Where? You can meet this type of women in Hi So clubs, top A Go-go clubs, online dating site, and escort services. You might spot them in malls and shopping center, but it’s are to figure out who you are dealing with.
~ Waiting for the big score ~
A “taking all the punter woman” but 10 years older. She knows her time is almost over, and need to get sponsored forever; MARRIAGE.
There is some exception in this class. You can meet a smart “waiting for the big score” lady in her early 20’s instead of over the 30’s, but this is the exception that confirms the rule.
Often very well dressed, graceful, and excellent in talking about almost any topic, she can make you feel special and the time spent together unforgettable.
You will be taken into a new dimension of erotic teasing with sexual performance unmatchable by any other type of woman.
Remember that she has mastered these skill by BANGING thousands of dude before you.
The perfect match for; men who are looking for a dream and want to go broke. At first, everything seems magical; a beautiful woman next to you, a lot of sex and quality performance.
After she locks you in, she will suck you dry and all her bad habits will surface. Few common habits are; drinking, smoking, bang other dudes, gambling, shopping like a maniac and eat your brain day in and out.
Where? You can meet this type of women in Hi So clubs, top A Go-go clubs, online dating site and escort services. You might spot them in malls and shopping center, but it ‘s hard to separate from the Hi So local women.
“Hey, Rocco, why did you copy the “taking all the punter woman” profile?”
Because they are the same, just in a different age bracket and with a different goal; from make money now to let’s get secured for the long term.
~ The Party Gul ~
These girls genuinely like partying. Akin to party girls who work all week and party all weekend in the west.
Think of them like promiscuous girls who go out to pick up a guy to have a one night stand, but with a few significant differences than a Western weekend girl.
She may or may not have a day job and just go with a customer to finance the cost of partying.
The perfect match for; young men who are looking to party with sexy women. If you are a young, outgoing person with confidence in picking up girls regularly, you will find this type of Filipino girl will fit you.
Where? Nightclubs and night venues that usually keep open till late at night and offer promotions focus on attracting party women.
Just a few of the promo; special discount lady card, prizes for the sexiest girl of the night, regular superstar appearance.
~ The University Girl ~
This group is my favorite one. University Filipina girls are educated and belong to middle and high society, so they don’t need your money. They are curious about having a relationship or sex with a foreigner.
I’m always eager to help university girls go deep into their practical study and find out how a Caucasian cock make her feel.
Classic statement; “Wow, it is big”.
I love to go around with university girls as they are young, willing to explore and great fun to be together.
The perfect match for; young and below 40’s men, looking for a relationship without much of a compromise. You can visit her few times per year or spend the weekends together.
Usually, university girls are independent, and they prefer long distance relationship or occasional sex adventures.
Where? University and campus. Just walk around the main university and you can meet girls in coffee shops, restaurants, convenient stores and in the streets.
~ Submissive Filipino Woman ~
These type of girls are always happy and seem like they never have problems with the world. They just say “yes” to any of your requests and please you in all the possible ways.
Usually, she will work hard with her job, take care the family and keep the house spot clean. She will never bother you or take problem too seriously.
They sex drive is below average, so in a long-term relationship, you might get bored, but there is a solution which has a lover.
The perfect match for; older men that required care and to be looked after, without the pain to hear complaints.
Where? You will meet them during your daily activities. For example, the cashier that help you with your remittance or while having a coffee in the shop near your condo.
These girls have regular jobs and seem they rarely go out in the evening, instead they prefer spend their free time cleaning their room, wash the cloths and watch TV.
Where? Places to Meet Filipino Girls
Now that you got an idea about Filipino girls, the next natural step is to look for them in the appropriate places.
Meeting your future wife in a beer bar, will not be sensible but if you are into hookers, it will work perfectly for you.
The Philippines is a vast country, but there are few destinations where you get better chances to meet with local women.
- Angeles City is the destination if you are looking for lust, lot of sex and massive amount of bar girls willing to do anything for you.
There are hundreds of bars and thousands of girls, and you will notice that every 10 girls there is only 1 man, so the odds are in your favor.
- Manila is the pearl of Asia where you can meet university girls, model type of girls, naughty Filipino women, basically a bit of everything.
The most attractive Filipino girls I banged over the years are from this city, and please feel free to read my last manila’s trip report to get an idea about sex traveling in Manila.
- Cebu is a beautiful island and the women are just so exotic.These ladies are perfect mixtures of original Pinay genes and the remnants of the Spanish colonial era.
There are two types of girls in Cebu.
First, the potential girlfriend and future wife with a good background and strong tradition in taking care their man.
The second option is the naughty girls who are happy to show you a good time for the right price.
These are the main destinations for tourist, however there are hundreds of other places where you can meet some hot girl and spend a great holiday.
Meet Filipino Girls Online
Ten years ago I was struggling to meet girls during my trips. I was visiting clubs, bars, karaoke or any nightlife places trying approaching women and bed them. It was HARD, unpredictable and rarely I was getting laid.
Which is why I wish I knew that I could date girls online before my trips. The convenience of meeting Filipino women online is the simplest way to get in contact with beautiful local women, build trust and enjoy the holiday together.
If you follow my blog for some time, you know I’m a strong believer in preparing well for a holiday, never go by the fly.
What if you could pick 1,2 even 10 girls from the comfort of your couch without fear of being rejected?
And because dates are a sure thing to get laid in the Philippines, the more dates you get, the more fun will be your holiday. Simple equation, right?
You might wonder: “Where can I meet Filipino girls online, right?”
My two favorite dating sites in the Philippines are:
The only regret I’ve is that I didn’t find out about this website earlier.
In the old days, I used to fly to the Philippines and search for girls in the usual tourist area. Picking up girls in bars and clubs was intimidating, and I felt the next scam was behind the corner.
Girls in the red light districts are “easy” but they are just average.
They might seem welcoming, sexy and up for anything… but the truth is they get banged every day from any man walk up to her with some cash. You’re just a number.
Do you want to be the NEXT John?
Sleeping with a girl that can’t get WET for you is just SAD… and I can’t blame them because they are with you only to make ends meet.
Which is why I use Filipino Cupid to meet genuine girls looking for a relationship with a foreign man. Some Filipina is looking for a long term relationship, others for a night stand just to spice up their life.
People think online sites are a SCAM. While I admit, there are some fake accounts and gold diggers, you shouldn’t be discouraged. This website does an excellent job in monitoring, and you can report any members if you suspect “bullshit.”
I hear horror stories all the time from travelers dealing with fake profiles on other dating sites. I rarely encountered them with Filipino Cupid.
This website is own by CupidMedia Group, an Australian company with many years of experience in dating sites. It’s easy to use, professional run, excellent scam detection system and great value for money.
They have got a translation service with their Gold package (US$24.99 per month) that can be handy if your English isn’t so great. For higher search rankings and video messaging capability go Platinum for US$29.99, it’s well worth it.
What I love most about Pina Love is that they allow users to upload as many pictures as they would like so you get to see the full package.
One more thing. You can search ladyboys separately from ladies. That’s is GREAT because it might get confusing if you aren’t able to see the difference. And believe me, some ladyboy looks 100% woman.
Like Filipino Cupid, this site does a great job of getting rid of the fake accounts and scammers.
I started to use Pina Love one year ago, and I have dated successfully 5 girls (my relationships don’t last long because I love to keep on changing).
What I like the most about this dating website is the friendly interface and how simple is to chat with multiple girls at the same time. There are some real cuties on this site, check it out.
Meet Filipino Girls Face To Face
“Offer your phone number”
This is for travelers like me that want to meet university girls. This approach works well but it is time-consuming, so you should have at least a 2 weeks vacation to make it work.
Search in Google= university+destination (Manila, Cebu,etc).
Get your ass there before lunch time (12 am) and walk around or inside the campus looking for a coffee shop or restaurant where the students are.
How to approach university girls
Have a lunch or a coffee, you will be surrounded by cute university girls that will look at you, wondering what a foreigner is doing there.
Be discrete, but smile to the cute one that seems curious about you. You will not be able to have a lengthy conversation or even sit down with her because of her friends are all around, and she will feel embarrassed.
So, the best way to move is to ask her for some general information that she will be happy to help you with, thanks to her by shaking her hand and pass the piece of paper with your phone number saying “would be fun to meet you again.”
Move on and wait for her text message. That’s it.
I get a phone call the next day by half of the girls I approach in this way, so you have a 50% chance os success.
NOTE; I know how hard is for some guys to approach a girl, let alone in a foreign country. If you don’t don’t know how to meet Filipina girls or just feel shy, use my 5 steps system to overcome anxiety before your trip to the Philippines.
“How to pick up girls”
This is super easy compared to the university campus approach. You will have mainly two type of girls in the mall;
The working girls which can be approach by asking products related questions and usually you will meet after work.
The shopping girls which are all around you and can be stopped, spend some time together in a coffee shop to know each other better and go to your hotel room.
How to approach working girls
While walking around, if you see a cute girl working at the store, just get nearby her pretending to look at some merchandise.
The item on your hand can’t fit you, so ask that cute girl to help you with the size, and don’t forget to smile.
Be friendly and funny during your conversation. Involve her during the approach by asking what she thinks about the color of the T-shirt, or if the jeans suit you. Imagine she is your girlfriend already.
After some minutes of conversation, just tell her that she is cute and would be fun to meet after work.
Take the lead and ask for some simple questions by creating a funnel tunnel to close your first date.
- What time do you finish work?
- I come to pick you up, where should we meet?
You will notice my questions don’t give much of a choice to the girl other than meet me after work. I make sure to pick her up after work, making her life easier and showing my genuine interest forward her.
Where do you think you should go after picking her up?
Restaurant, coffee shop or your hotel room?
The answer is obvious, so make sure to have some snack and drinks in your hotel room (she will feel thirsty and hungry), don’t forget the romantic movie and condoms.
How to approach the shopping girls
Here you want to close the deal as fast as possible; now.
The Filipino girls strolling around the mall have nothing to do which is the reason they are there in the first place.
The approach should be creative and isn’t standard for all the type of girls, so you need to try different variable. Make sure to approach the girl frontally because can be intimidating if you approach from the back or side.
Variable #1; “Hi, I’m new in town and feel hungry, what restaurant has good food?” BLA BLA BLA. “Do you join me, would be nice to know you.”
Variable #2; “Hi, you look super cute, do you know that? BLA BLA BLA. “Let’s have a conversation while drinking some coffee. You pick the place.”
Now, I could write a book about the variable but what you will have notice is that I engage the woman with a question, and it is an open question.
Not all the girls will pick up your offer, but don’t let yourself down because you are playing a number game.
In average every 5 girls, one will accept your offer. I can chat up 5 girls in 30 minutes, and walk away with the prize.
Your enemy isn’t the girls refusing your invitation but the time. There will always be more girls, but your time is limited.
Ok, now you are having a good time having a coffee with this sexy Pinay girl, so what’s next?
Of course, you need to click the chemistry between the two of you and conversation is an important factor to make her feel confident about you. You can read talking tips in coffee shop to keep the conversation going.
Stop talking, now is time to seal the deal.
Take out your phone, read a text message and say “ho no, my phone is low on battery and I’m waiting for an important call.”
Look at the girl and say; “Do you have a charger for my phone?”
She will feel sorry that she can’t help you.
Here the deal; “Let’s get the phone charged and after let’s go to watch a movie”.
Pay the bill and take her with you to your hotel room. Of course, you will only charge your phone and creampie that little Pinay pussy.
“Party and Sex”
You will find Philippines nightlife to be exciting and an excellent opportunity to meet beautiful Filipino women.
These venues are frequented mostly by hookers and freelancers, so you will have a small chance to meet an honest and hard working girl. Hookers are easy to spot, they are the only girls who stand glued to the spot desperately looking for customers.
I have enjoyed meeting and banged some good girls as many hookers. I love sexy girls and I’m a player, so I don’t mind what she is after as far I get my night of lust.
These places suit the travelers looking for partying, drinking, dancing and have fun.
How to approach Philippine girls in the clubs and bars
In the clubs, it isn’t much different than approaching a girl in your home country. Girls are the to have a good time and if you can provide that, you are set to get a lot of attention.
When in a beer bar or bikini bar, there isn’t much of art in approaching girls. Just call her over, offer a lady drink and get on with your conversation. If you like her, pay the bar fine and take her to your hotel room for some good sex.
You can learn more in approaching women in clubs by the numerous pickup artists out there. SeductionScience.com is kind of cool with a video tutorial to help you in approaching women.
There isn’t much of difference in approaching a Western or Asian woman. The only difference is the result. In Asia, when you are hooked up with a woman in a club, 80% of the time she will sleep with you the same night if she likes you.
This is the reason why I love Asia, no more western drama just to have some sex.
Other Pick Up Strategies That Works With Philippines Girls
It is worth reading Observation on Dating and Banging Girls in the Philippines by Matt Forney.
Matt has an extensive experience in dating Filipino women, and he is open in providing some of his successful technique in dating and banging local women.
I agree and share the difficulties to overcome the Filipino women games when setting time and location to meet for a date. All the sort of bullshit they might come up might result in wasting your precious holiday time and missed opportunities.
As Matt explained, if a girl seems to play around with you asking for money or any dishonesty, cut off the contact immediately and move to next one.
There are so many honest and beautiful Filipino women willing to meet you, that isn’t worth waste your time with a gold digger.