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Bangkok Travel Guide For Single Men



Rocco is an avid traveler that love to date local girls wherever he goes. Rocco has helped thousands of men on their journey to meet Asian women for the last 9 years.

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Bangkok City Is Build On Pleasure & Lust
Bangkok guide for single men to meet bangkok girls

“Is Bangkok Paradise on Earth For Single Men? If You Like HOT Girls, Definitely Yes…

I love Bangkok!

By now, you should know that I travel only for one reason: Dating Asian girls.

And let me tell you that “Bangkok girls are super cute, sweet and easy going”.

What if you could meet beautiful girls willing to do anything and… never say “No” to you.

It that case: “Welcome to Bangkok”!

In this guide, I’m going to show the best places where to meet sexy Bangkok girls with tips to get laid. That way, you get instant action the second you land in Thailand.

And that means you don’t have to run the streets like a hungry dog… Instead, you can fly in and immediately meet Bangkok girls HOT for action.



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The Ultimate Men’s Travel Guide to Bangkok
General information about Bangkok

Date Bangkok Women
Here’s the information you need on how to meet Bangkok girls

Bangkok Nightlife
The best of nightlife in bangkok for singles and bachelors

Typical Costs & Tips
An overview of general prices in Bangkok to help to plan your budget

Must Do In Bangkok
My favorite activities I consider a must-do for any single man visiting Bangkok


The Ultimate Man’s Sex Guide To Bangkok

“The City of Angels”

Bangkok has it all:

  • Beautiful girls & hot ladyboys;
  • 3 red light districts – Pay for play areas;
  • Trendy restaurants, bars and nightclubs to meet and date girls or ladyboys;
  • Huge shopping centers not only for shopping but also to pick university girls;
  • Cheap accommodations from bottom to top;
  • Delicious and healthy food;
  • It’s a safe city.

Those are just a few of the good things Bangkok has to offer. It’s truly a multipurpose city to live in, have fun and experience unforgettable holidays.

I guess this is what the end of a perfect day should look like for you: Sex with Bangkok Girl or ladyboy.

Whatever you are looking for – love, sex, party time – you will find it in Bangkok… And don’t forget that the girls and ladyboys are just so sexy…


Now, if you’re a shopping fanatic, you will find Bangkok be your paradise… However, if you’re a womanizer, Bangkok shopping malls are your playground.

Yes, they are the best place to go for day games. You can easily chat up any HOT girls without fear of rejection.

Bangkok girls are just so receptive and respectful that they would never refuse to talk to you.

Aside girls, ladyboys and nightlife in general, Bangkok offer great sightseeing…



If you are a gourmet guy or just prefer to have healthy food, Bangkok streets are harem on earth…


So, let’s start to plan your unforgettable holiday to Bangkok…


When To Visit Bangkok?

Being a business city, any time of the year is a good time to visit Bangkok.

There are no high or low seasons like in other popular Thai destination like Pattaya or Phuket.

Having said that, you should avoid arriving in Bangkok on weekends because the good hotels are usually fully booked.

If you are landing on a Saturday or Sungay, make sure to book the hotel one month in advance to avoid disappointments.


What About Girls, Ladyboys & Sex In Bangkok…

Most of Thailand money is concentrated in Bangkok, besides being an educational center with numerous university.

This attracts a lot of young people that want to run away from the poor rural parts of Thailand.

As you might imagine, it attracts many beautiful girls and ladyboy in search of a better life.

However, not everyone can make it or stay in Bangkok for the long run. Only the finest…

So, if you are looking for the smartest and sexiest Thai girls, you should visit Bangkok.

You can find quality Thai women for either a relationship or marriage.

If you prefer to party and get easy sex, don’t worry bro. As I said earlier, Bangkok has it all.

There are 3 major red light districts with thousands of girls easily available for the right price.

You can get a sexy massage in the many parlors, see naked girls dancing in the infamous Go Go bars or even get escort girls to your hotel doorsteps.

There is an infinity of possibilities for sexual services, however, they aren’t cheap.

If you prefer “pay for play” activities, I recommend looking for sex in Pattaya.


Typical Costs in Bangkok

If this is your first time traveling to Bangkok, you might be wondering how much everything costs.

Below is a breakdown summary of what you should expect to pay while in Bangkok, helping you budgeting your vacation:


• Bangkok Guest Friendly Hotel’s Prices

Bangkok is packed with hotels and accommodations. But keep in mind that the big city isn’t so friendly forward unregistered guests in most areas outside the red light districts.

A decent hotel starts at 1.000 baht per night without breakfast.

If you book a room for a week or more, most places are willing to give you a discount. In this case, book a room for a night and if you like it, bargain the price for a long stay.

Whenever I’m in Bangkok, I usually stay in:

  • If I want to party hard and change girls every day, I stay in Dream Hotel between Soi Cowboy and Nana Plaza red light districts.
  • If I want to relax while enjoying the vacation with a girlfriend, I stay in the Fusion Suites Hotel.They have got a few rooms with an outside Jacuzzi, perfect to have naughty moments with my partner. And the bathroom has a glass wall where I can watch her taking shower.

However, if you’re serious to have sex with Bangkok girls, stay away from the hostels. Do as Rocco do, stay in a guest friendly hotel…


Guest friendly hotels don’t charge extra if you bring a girl or ladyboy back to your room.

If you would like to learn more, check out the 20 Guest Friendly Hotels in Bangkok to Bang Girls.

In case you are into ladyboys, your options for guest friendly hotels are less.

The most popular one are Citichic by iCheck Inn in Nana or FuramaXclusive Asoke.



Thai girl smiling and dating

If you are looking for more than just a pop or bang, wish to meet a Thai girl to spend a romantic holiday together and why not, fall in love, I have the right and easy solution for you to date a local woman.

Thai girls love the idea to meet a foreign man. We look exotic as much they look exotic to us.

We have white skin, are tall and look handsome to their eyes (much better than the typical Thai man that has dark skin and short body).

There are hundreds of university and office girls that would love to spend time with you to improve their English language skills.

Dating university girls are more exciting than bang only bar girls.


How to Meet Local Women in Bangkok

When it comes to meeting Thai women you basically have three options:

  • Walk around Bangkok looking for cute girls working in restaurants, shops, malls and so on. It is a bit like to flirt with women back to our western countries but much easier.

    Just smile, give a compliment and carry on the conversation. Once the conversation is flowing and she feel comfortable, ask to have a coffee together.

    This approach works 30% of the time, thus every three girls, one will accept your offer.

    You can’t lose, it’s a number game.

  • Visit discos and nightclubs. There are few type of girls in these clubs; educated girls, freelancers and curious girls.

    The educated girls will be found mostly in Thai nightclubs which are packed with office and local women.

    If you are young, dress smart and know how to flirt with Thai women (you need to have a basic of Thai language), this place might work out well for you.

    Freelancers are girls looking for money because they can’t bother to work. They hang out in clubs frequented by foreigner and tourist.

    Get ready to hear drama stories. “Me have job as nurse”. “Me work in shop” “Me here with friends to have a good time”.

    It’s a lie.

    You will recognize them by the way they dress (extremely sexy) and make up, plus they can speak proper English.

    These girls are excellent to take around the city or Thailand as companion and tour guide. They will help you to deal with local people, teach you some trick and ensure you’ve got a great time.

    The “curious girls” are usually young. Speak little English so making the conversation harder.

    They want to meet with Western men to learn more about our world. It’s fascinating to know about the “white man”.

    You will have a hard time to meet one, but if you do, she is the perfect girlfriend experience with real feelings and dedication to you.

    I hooked up a few on dating sites. I notice them by their “funny” profile like “I am looking to meet men for friendship that are polite and kind”. “Me good girl looking for love.” You got the style.

  • Online Dating Sites in Thailand. With the rise of smartphone and internet, many Thai girls are meeting Western men online. It is convenient and easy enough, plus is less embarrassing to talk on chat.

    Thai women are crap at English, probably the worst in Asia after Chinese.

    Chatting on dating sites help to overcome the language barrier. Both of you can take the time to know each other, build trust and get ready for a face to face date.

Thai women love the idea of meeting first-time foreigners in Thailand (you are not a sex tourist in their mind).

They get excited, and if you ask, they will meet you up at the airport to welcome you to “The land of smiles.” Great start for a holiday, isn’t it? Learn How to Date Asian Women Online

Do you feel lonely – and worry that you’re doomed to a single life?

What if there was a way to meet 1, 3 – even 10 or more – attractive girls right now – even while you’re on the other side of the planet?

I recommend:

Thai girlfriends for datingThai Cupid – It is the biggest dating site in Thailand with thousand of women looking for romance, relationship and why not, a night stand.

What I like about this dating site is:

#1. – There are hundreds of girls any time of the day or night.

#2. – The chat is easy to use.

#3. – I can talk to girls of any age located all around Thailand. I love girls from Surin.

By signing up with Thai Cupid you will access to thousand of Thai girls.

Thai dating website with women and girlsThai Friendly – Not as many women as in Thai Cupid dating website but definitely enough to get you started.

I have found some good girls here, however always watch out for women asking you for money.

Good girls don’t do that and only foul men would wire money to a girl never met before.

I hear horror stories all the time from travelers being cheated by women online. I never have them with Thai Friendly.

They do a good job in keeping their users in check, trying to remove scammers and fake accounts.

I’ve done a personal review on How to Easily Meet Thai Women With Thai Friendly after years of using this tool to date local Thai women.



Bangkok’s nightlife has a reputation for being wild and naughty.

There are 3 red light districts for single men that prefer to pay girls to have fun.

Alternatively, you can pick up “non-business” Bangkok girls in the numerous nightclubs and bars scattered around the City.

Whether your trip is for business or pleasure, Bangkok bursts with choices.

I’ve selected the best places for singles men to experience the nightlife in Bangkok.

Rapidly establishing itself as Asia’s capital of “cool” — Bangkok’s diverse nightlife scene features everything from excellent live music and good jazz clubs to ultra cool bars, trendy clubs and great restaurants. Go far beyond its once upon a time sleazy and naughty image.

Red light districts in Bangkok

Go-Go bar girls on the left. A view of Soi Cowboy on the right
Bangkok red light districts are world famous and main tourist attraction in the city. Bangkok’s nightlife is the most vibrant in Asia and offers sexual entertainment for everybody, from local brothels to HISO clubs.

Every night behind the neon scenes and the sounds of a bustling metropolis, thousands of sexy Thai women walk around looking for a Western man to have fun with… and why not, maybe love.

A movie which shows the craziness of this city is “Hangover 2“; it’s been shot mostly in Bangkok, but the beginning and last scenes are in Phuket.

The most popular red light districts are:

  • Soi Cowboy
  • Patpong
  • Nana Plaza

For those looking to escape the nightlight of the red light districts, head down to Sukhumvit Soi 11 to visit the expat bars and clubs.

“Cheap Charlies” is an ex-pat institution and you will find people every night of the week. Visit Thong Lor or RCA to hang out with the local Thais and get down to Thai bands and Thai whiskey.

If you aren’t into Thai girls, no worries, Bangkok has a wide range of Western women from Russia, Kenya, Turkey, Europe just to name the most common nationalities.

Some are there for a holiday, some for business and some is living and working in Bangkok full time.

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TIP; If you want to meet a Thai girl right away, I recommend to sign up with a Thai dating site. It’s easy and busy with HOT girls.


Red Light Districts


Nana Plaza


As Bangkok’s biggest red light district in terms of pay for play options, the area surrounding Nana Entertainment Plaza (NEP) is hard to compete against.

There are a lot of small beer bars, especially along Sukhumvit Soi 4 where you can pick up ladies. Nana Plaza’s Courtyard Beer Garden is my favorite.

Ladyboys freelancing are all over Nana district too. Though it’s a safer bet to bar fine one from a ladyboy Ago-go bar inside NEP for safety reasons. Mind the ladyboys working around Sukhumvit road and on Soi 4 with the intent of robbing and cheating.


Lady Boys AGo-Go Bars

Voodoo – The latest Ago-go bar with lady-boys. Just goes to show how popular this type of venue is in Nana. “Girls” working there are kind and cute.

There are twelve to fifteen “girls” on stage at any time. Ladyboys here are surprisingly educated and not pushy, which makes the experience relaxing.

They go ST for 2.000 baht. Talk about supply and demand!

Obsessions – Ladyboy Ago-go bar. A favorite for many and known for non-pushy lady-boys. The “girl”s that are not dancing move around the bar, chat with the customers, try to get a drink, etc.

They don’t just sit down and look bored, like in some other Ago-go bars. As a result, it is very lively and you get to see all the girls standing and moving. What you see is what you get.

It is a fun place to visit but Obsession might not be a bar for beginners – The ladyboys there are hardcore and get very horny, which makes them aggressive.

Casanova – A mostly pre-op ladyboy Ago-go bar. This is a classic “Dude looks like a lady” Ago-go bar. There are some of the tallest katoeys in Bangkok in this small venue.

Be careful, they are aggressive and “masculine”.

Temptations – Another ladyboy Ago-go bar. Walk past there and you just might get groped.


Girly AGo-Go Bars

Angel Witch – A popular bar with many girls inside and well known for its nightly shows. The atmosphere is like “cinema” style with nice comfortable seats and you’re not too far off from the stage to get a better look at their lineup.

Spanky’s – The bar looks like a giant dressing room. Girls are comfortable walking around topless and that is a thumb up for me. Check out the shows they put on at night too.

Bill Board Go G0 – A big bar with the girls wearing a sexy yellow uniform.

The shows are a good. The Billboard‘s carousel has an on-stage shower and water drain system.

Lollipop – A decent place to check out bar girls. A bit too aggressive on customers for drinks and bar fines, though.

Other Popular Bars: Hollywood , Rainbow, PlaySchool

I’ve done a full review of the 10 Best AGo-Go Club in Bangkok where I spend countless night enjoying myself with hundred of HOT AGo-Go dancers.

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Book a guest friendly hotel in the area so you can bring in as many girls as you want without paying extra fees and avoid to use the short time rooms above the AGo-Go bars. These short time rooms are dirty, underwhelming and disappointing. Every detail counts.

Soi Cowboy

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Soi Cowboy is popular with the expat community in Bangkok.

Going where the locals patronage is a good indication of quality and value for money.

The drinks in the Ago-go bars at Soi Cowboy have gone up in price. But don’t worry, it’s still not so bad.

The best thing of all is that most of the bars in Soi Cowboy do have Happy Hours or drink specials such as a 2 for 1 or cheap draft beers.

Girly AGo-Go Bars

Baccara – One of the most popular bar with a good quantity of cute bar girls. This bar is patronage mostly by Japanese, so if you are a Westerner, don’t expect the girls jump on your arm.

Shark AGo-Go Bar – Has a reputation for employing the most attractive girls in Soi Cowboy. And they do deserve it.

Though I’ve only bar fined a few girls from Shark Bar, I must say they have the best attitude in the area.

Spice Girls – Mostly great looking girls, busy bar, but beware of expensive drinks too.

Doll House – One of the oldest bars in Bangkok. Dollhouse bar is a concept that has been adopted by many other night venues around the globe.

Quite a popular Ago-go bar renowned for large-breasted bar girls. Have specials on drinks starting at 9:30 pm.

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There’s are so many a go go bars in Bangkok to keep you busy for many nights, more likely weeks. You might like to read my full AGo-Go bar review; Top 10: Best Bangkok a Go-Go Bars and Clubs


Bangkok Freelancer Scene

Bangkok girls freelancing 2Thai freelancers, prostitutes, call girls or whatever you wish to call them, can be found in certain spots between Nana and Soi Cowboy.

Starting from Sukhumvit Soi 4 there are particularly more hookers, but as you walk down from Sukhumvit to Soi Cowboy there you will see less.

I recommend 5 different hot spots where usually freelancers hang out.

1. The Bus Stop – The bus stop is not the official name, but it’s a name I made up because it’s an area where you’ll find a mixed group of freelancers. You’ll find Africans, possibly Laos, Thai and ladyboy freelancers standing around right next to a public bus stop lane.
This location is between Sukhumvit Soi 5 and Soi 7.

2. Entrance of Nana Entertainment Plaza – This is a ladyboy’s area (transvestites). Starting hanging out around 9 pm (they wake up late).

3. Nana Hotel Parking Lot – Located right on Sukhumvit Soi 4 at the Nana Hotel, and it’s no coincidence the hotel has a no joiner fee policy. About 6 or 8 girls show up around 7 pm but once the night rolls, you’ll find dozens more standing around.

Around 3 am, this area get busy with AGo-Go bar girls switching over to do some freelancing after Nana Entertainment Plaza shut down.

4. Rajah Hotel Coffee Shop – I mentioned African freelancers at the Bus Stop didn’t I? It’s not uncommon these days to find multinational sex workers in Bangkok..

But if you have an itch for ladies of the former Soviet Bloc check out the coffee shop inside of the Rajah Hotel, located right behind the Nana Hotel. Last time I checked, they were asking 2500 baht for short time.

5. Thermae Bar & Coffee Shop – Located by Sukhumvit Soi 15. As surreal as Bangkok may seem regarding the availability of women for hire, the Thermae takes the cake.


Russian & African

Bangkok is having a growing number of foreigner women entering the night scene, with nationalities from Russia, Uzbekistan, Kazakhstan, Turkish and the African women usually from Kenya and Nigeria.

You can meet them in the street, got delivered in your room (ask your hotel reception for help) or just contact the escort agency which will arrange everything for you.

If you want to know all the hot spots, prices and more about Russian and African hookers, read “Not only Thai girls; Meet western women in Bangkok“.

African women in Bangkok - NanaHowever, not only foreign hookers are available in the city, but you can meet up with resident expatriate women that are looking for fun and companionship.

I have written a lengthy article about “Where and How to Meet Expat Women in Bangkok“, that will help you to meet western women any day of the week.


Bangkok Nightclubs

The following is a list of the High-End Nightclubs and After Hours Nightclubs in Bangkok.

High-End Nightclubs are usually situated within an HI-SO hotel (Novotel, Hyatt, Sheraton, etc.) and are the expensive and trendy nightclubs of Bangkok. They usually close around 2 am.

Bangkok Hiso Clubs to meet local girls

After Hours nightclubs are cheap nightclubs (both by the entrance ticket price and by the way they look) that start late (around 2am, when other places close) and finish very late.

After Hours Night Clubs

Mixx Discotheque Bangkok

This very popular after hours club is right behind the Intercontinental Bangkok Hotel by the Ploen Chit BTS station. It’s one of the poshest hotels to stay in the city.

So you can kind of figure out for yourself that there are many high classed Thai hookers working the crowds of foreigners.


That said, it’s an institution in Bangkok’s red light industry and has been around for god knows how long.

A vast majority of the girls working inside are full-time professionals. You’ll also find a mix of Ago-go bar girls, perhaps some ladies from soapies that need to make some extra cash after hours.

Spicy is located a little past Pratunam, not far from Sukhumvit. Though even if I tell you the street address, you would still have a problem finding it since there are not a lot of landmarks or major hotels right next to this club.

Club Insanity

One of the main reasons why I love going to Insanity is the beautiful waitresses and bar staff.

And oh yeah, their club dancers are hot. It’s a good thing the club is dark because I’m sure every single guy is popping a boner while the ladies work their magic on stage.

So there are also a lot of Thai freelancers inside as well though most of them are full-time professionals you will find some part-timers too.


HI-SO Clubs


Chic, funky and exciting, BarSu is one of Bangkok’s leading night venues.

Designed for sophisticated fun-loving people who enjoy interesting wines and cocktails, creative fusion cuisine, and a diverse range of music, BarSu also features top international DJs.

Q-Bar Bangkok

Q Bar has for over a decade, set a new standard for bars and nightclubs in Thailand.

Located on Sukhumvit Road, Soi 11, since December of 1999, Q Bar hosts the largest selection of spirits and cocktails in Bangkok.

It is also the place which showcases many of the world’s top international touring DJ’s.

All this packed into a New York lounge style atmosphere.

What about Women? It’s just paradise… The hottest and high-class Bangkok chicks all in one venue.

Please, make sure to dress properly for Q Bar, the standard bar is high.

Whenever I feel to meet a good looking Bangkok girl that have a taste for the good things in life, Q Bar is my place.

The girls are hard to get, but with some proper manner, talk and push, you’ll get laid the same night.

Ready for the challenge?


Typical Costs

  • Sex: Bangkok was the mother capital of sex (was because now is Pattaya).

    However, there are still 3 red light districts which cater mostly to tourist.

    Bangkok has so much more in offers for the single men wishing to hook up with Thai girls. Sukhumvit road (the main street in Bangkok) is populated with venues; massage parlors, nightclubs, cocktails bars, restaurants and much more.

    Girls can be meet anywhere at any time; You walk in the mall, and you can start a conversation. While having a glass of wine in the popular bars in Soi 11, just smile and be friendly to meet some hot local girl.

    So Bangkok is still a great destination to experience the best holiday of your life.

    Read More: How Much to Pay For Girls in Bangkok

  • Accommodation:

1. Budget Hotel Prices: Basic rooms start at 600 baht($18), but nicer rooms in prime locations and good view can cost up to 1500 baht($50).

2. Medium Hotel Prices: For me this is the best value for money accommodations which cost between 1500 – 6000 baht($50-200) per night. Rooms with Jacuzzi and balcony will be on the higher end price bracket.

3. High-End Hotel Prices: A wide selection of luxury hotel in any part of the city, with prestigious names such Mandarin Oriental and Michelin stars restaurants. Price start from 6000 baht($200) to any price upwards, only the sky is the limit in Bangkok.

I put together a list of the Best 20 Guest Friendly Hotels In Bangkok which don’t charge extra for unregistered guests.

To fully enjoy your vacation, you need to have some cute girl and a comfortable/safe hotel located strategically near the city nightlife.

  • Food: Street food will cost you about 60 baht(2$) per meal and restaurant food will cost between 150 baht(3-5$) per meal.

    Like the rest of Thailand, if you eat at the street vendors like the locals, you’ll be hard-pressed to spend a lot of money on food.

    Also, Thai girls generally prefer to eat their own food, so don’t be too fancy.

    Western meals at nice restaurants cost more, from 300 bath+ ($10 and upwards). You can get some really world-class food and live a posh life in Bangkok if you have some cash to burn.

  • Transportation: Say goodbye to traffic jams – thanks to the city’s modern sky train and underground systems that cover a large area. Or explore the riverside area by a long-tail speedboat or river taxi.

    If you hire a private driver to be sure to always negotiate prices beforehand.


Tips & Tricks

  • Do not carry unnecessary valuables on your person, especially something that will catch attention as watches , bling, etc.
  • Patpong Scam – The good old Patpong scam still works just a smoothly as it did twenty years ago, taking advantage of the naughty curiosity of unsecured male tourists, especially (but not only) those with that obvious guilty look.
  • LD (Lady drinks) – Don’t offer a drink as the girls sit with you. First, let her earn the drink by pleasing you.
  • Minimum legal age is 18 – Never forget this rule.
  • Avoid fighting – Thai people are peaceful. Avoid any type of confrontation, you are not going to win a fight.
  • Drugs on the street – If you get caught, you might face 20+ years in one of the worst prison in the world. Avoid at all cost any type of drugs, it isn’t worth it.
  • General Scams – Bangkok attract million of tourist every year, and like most of the tourist destinations, there are plenty of scammers.

    Most scam are innocent and try to estort few Thai bahts from you (these people try to make a living after all), mostly involve gem shops, tuk tuks, and tailors.

    Keep in mind that there isn’t such thing as FREE in Thailand.


Tips and hint sexy girlsSCAM TIPS: While it is normal for people to help you (looking for your hotel street, etc), it is very suspicious when someone offers you help without you asking.
A friendly unknown Thai guy speaking English a little too well, especially near a tourist area is usually a pro. He often carries a map and an umbrella because it’s hot for him to be out there all day long.



Best AGo-Go Clubs in Bangkok – An overview of the top AGo-Go bars and clubs where to meet sexy and friendly girls in Bangkok.

Blow Job Bars – If you’re wondering where to go for some daytime action in Bangkok then blowjob bars are a good alternative.

Night in Patpong – Patpong is still a pure Agogo area and prostitution is at the forefront even when there are grandparents in the background sorting through souvenirs.

Pick Up Bangkok Girls – Any place in Bangkok is a hunting ground; nightclubs, bars, streets, shopping malls, BTS, etc.

Soapy Massage Parlors – The best areas for a soapy massage with tips, prices and how to get out the best sex experience with your masseurs.

Best Restaurants in Bangkok – A guide to the best restaurants in town to spend a great evening with your sweetheart.