Best Apps And Sites To Meet Girls In Asia – My Personal Experience
Hi guys!
I often get asked where to meet girls around Asia online.
Finding the right sites with real results can be a challenge, and who wants to waste time testing out every app out there?
I first started chatting with girls online in 2012, back when my go-to was FindFriendInAsia. I had a lot of dating and hookup successes.
Since then, the options have exploded. New sites and apps focusing on hookups to dating to sugaring have emerged.
After a decade of experience testing all the platforms, here are my favorite picks right now:
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1. Tinder
Why Did I Choose It?
Tinder is one of the most popular apps in Asia (perhaps the world) for meeting girls, especially in countries like Thailand and the Philippines.
The sign-up process is simple and quick, with an easy-to-navigate interface.
It’s great for casual dating and hookups with most users aged 18 to 35. The app’s competitive nature pushes you to create a profile that stands out.
But investing time to write a nice bio and adding high quality photos really pays off, especially as a foreigner. I’ve also tried half-assing my profile and barely got any matches.
My Experience:
My experience with Tinder in Asia has been varied. In the Philippines, I had great success, with dozens of matches over a few days.
But the majority of women were looking for a sugar relationship, or green card. I only found a few girls who were genuinely interested in casual sex without ulterior motives.
Then there’s Thailand where I received a lot of attention. My profile blew up with more than 25 matches in a week.
I slept with a new girl I met online every other day in Bangkok. In tourist destinations like Pattaya and Phuket expect a lot of prostitutes.
Features I Liked:
- Quick matches: Swipe through profiles easily.
- Location-based: Match with people nearby.
- Premium options: Tinder Plus, Gold, and Platinum offer extra features like unlimited swipes and seeing who liked you.
- Passport Feature: Swipe in different cities or countries, great for talking to girls before arriving in the
Subscription Cost:
- Free Version: Users can swipe a limited number of times per day and access basic features without any cost.
- Tinder Plus: Costs approximately $24.99 per month, allowing unlimited swipes, the ability to rewind swipes, and access to Tinder Passport to swipe in different locations.
- Tinder Gold: Priced around $39.99 per month, this plan includes all the benefits of Tinder Plus along with the ability to see who has liked you and daily Top Picks.
- Tinder Platinum: Roughly $49.99 per month, it offers all Gold features plus the ability to message users before matching, priority likes, and enhanced visibility.
Pros:
- Large user base
- Easy-to-use interface
- Free version available
Cons:
- High competition
- Some fake profiles and scammers
2. Asian Match Mate
Why Did I Choose It?
Asian Match Mate is a site for people looking for casual hookups and sexual fun.
Signing up is easy and quick, and it connects you with others who have similar interests.
Most users are young adults aged 25 to 34, but there are also older members, including those over 65.
You’ll find singles and couples from different countries, especially many attractive career women in their 30s and 40s who are open to new experiences.
My Experience:
Using Asian Match Mate has been interesting. The site is very active, with many users from Philippines.
While most people are looking for hookups, I met couples who wanted to try swinging and cuckolding.
It especially worked great during my time in Manila where I found lots of attractive women hot for action.
And in Bangkok, Singapore and Phuket it was great to find horny couples and get invitations to sex parties.
But remember that while many members are genuine, there are just as many bots.
Features I Liked:
- Diverse Members: Active community with singles and couples, especially from Taiwan, Singapore, Thailand and the Philippines.
- Free Messaging: All members can send and receive initial messages for free.
- Community Events: Invitations to private gatherings and events like fetish and sex parties.
Subscription Cost:
Free Version: Access to message inbox and basic profile browsing.
Gold Plan:
- 1 Month: $39.95
- 3 Months: $26.95/month
- 12 Months: $19.95/month
The paid plan includes unlimited messaging, virtual gifts and other features.
Pros:
- Everyone is to be point and there for casual encounters
- You can explore the site without purchasing the subscription
- Fun features like live streams, chat rooms and community events
Cons:
- Too much explicit content, makes it feel like a porn site
- Message limit without purchasing the Gold Plan
- Many inactive members and bots
3. Seeking
Why Did I Choose It?
Seeking is a dating site that connects successful men with young and attractive women. Unlike traditional dating, it focuses on chemistry and mutual interests rather than just money.
On Seeking, you can meet women who are open to casual dates or find someone special to travel with.
The best part is that you can be honest about what you want right from the start, avoiding any drama or misunderstandings.
If you’ve ever felt stressed by conventional dating, where things can get emotional quickly, Seeking offers a refreshing alternative.
You and your date can set clear expectations, making it easier to connect without the usual baggage.
My Experience:
Using Seeking has been straightforward. The site is filled with women looking for fun and companionship.
Many are polite and eager to please, which makes interactions pleasant.
I found that the atmosphere is relaxed, allowing for honest conversations about what both parties want.
You can meet women for various reasons, whether it’s just dinner or a short vacation together.
The emphasis is on intimacy and companionship first, with the option for a serious relationship later if desired.
Features I Liked:
- No Drama:Relationships are clear from the beginning, reducing emotional stress.
- Large User Base:There are many attractive women in major cities around the world.
- Easy Navigation:The site is user-friendly, making it simple to search through profiles.
- Video Chat Feature:You can have video chats directly on the platform for added convenience.
- Free Trial:You can explore the site for free before deciding to upgrade your membership.
Subscription Cost:
Free Version: You can browse profiles and read messages without paying.
Premium Membership:
- 30 Day Premium Subscription: $109.99
Includes features such as unlimited messaging, boosted profile visibility and incognito mode.
Diamond Membership:
- 30 Day Diamond Subscription: $274.99
Includes all features of premium membership plus you’ll be featured in attractive members dashboard and have a diamond badge on your profile.
Pros:
- You’ll meet an insane amount of hot girls in pretty much every major city.
- Companionship and intimacy is prioritized right from the start.
- No drama, the girls are there to please you.
- You can browse the site for free and upgrade your membership later.
Cons:
- No app for iPhone users; only available on Android.
- You need a paid membership to send messages.
- Some users may be fake profiles (catfish), but the site works hard to remove them.
- The search filters can be complicated; it’s easier to search by location and age.
4. ThaiFriendly
Why Did I Choose It?
ThaiFriendly stands out as Thailand’s largest dating site, with a massive user base of over 2 million members.
It’s ideal for meeting Thai women and ladyboys. You can sort them by gender, which is great because sometimes it’s hard to tell the difference.
Whether you’re interested in hookups, dating or relationships, ThaiFriendly offers plenty of options that suit different preferences.
My Experience:
ThaiFriendly’s simple design makes it easy to jump right into the platform, which was a big plus for me.
After signing up, I could immediately see the variety in user types, from students to office workers, many of whom are specifically looking to connect with foreign men.
Messaging is straightforward, though free users have some limits. The app worked well in most major Thai cities, but not so much in smaller towns.
Features I Liked:
- Gender-Specific Search: Easily toggle between searching for women and ladyboys.
- Large Member Base: Millions of profiles with users seeking everything from friendships to serious relationships.
- Translation Software: Helpful for overcoming language barriers.
- Mobile App: Even easier to use than the desktop version.
Subscription Cost:
Free Plan: Limited messaging (one message every 10 minutes).
Premium Plans:
- 1 Month: $24.95
- 3 Months: $49.95
- 6 Months: $69.95
- 1 Year: $99.95
Premium membership includes unlimited messages, better search filters and other features.
Pros:
- Free to join and start messaging quickly.
- Easy-to-use interface with various filters.
- Most women clearly state what they want, simplifying the process.
- Translation tool to make communication easier.
Cons:
- Free plan limits you to one message every 10 minutes.
- Some users may not be serious about meeting in person.
- Limited search filters on the free account.
5. PinaLove
Why Did I Choose It?
PinaLove is the most popular dating site in the Philippines, making it an ideal choice for anyone looking to meet Filipina women.
You’ll not only find inexperienced college girls there but also mature women.
The reason I like it is because it’s great for both hookups and dating.
Many women there are looking for a foreigner boyfriend and would do anything to please one.
My Experience:
My experience with PinaLove has been mostly positive. Upon signing up, I was quickly able to connect with numerous Filipinas eager to chat.
The site allows you to message members without needing to match first, which you don’t see often.
While there are some scammers, like on any dating site, they reveal themselves early in conversations by asking for money.
Now, keep in mind that Filipinas are usually reserved at first. I always start with a basic conversation, build rapport, flirt and ask her out for coffee.
Don’t mention anything about casual sex, if she agrees to meet you, there’s a high chance she’ll sleep with you.
It might sound counterproductive but I hooked up with 90% of the women I talked to on the site through this strategy.
Features I Liked:
- Large User Base: A high number of active users daily.
- Gender-Specific Searches: Easily filter profiles by gender.
- Messaging Flexibility: You can message for free every 10 minutes.
Subscription Cost:
- Free Plan: Limited messaging features.
- Premium Plan: Full access to messaging and other features, priced around $24.95 per month.
Pros:
- One of the more affordable dating sites
- Lots of active Filipinas seeking foreigners
- Used for both casual dating and serious relationships.
Cons:
- Many women are looking for financial support
- Limited messaging capabilities in the free plan
How To Pick The Right Dating Site?
Now that you know the best apps for meeting Asian women, the next step is choosing the right one for you.
Most apps have limited free features and require a premium subscription, so it’s smart to invest wisely. Also keep in mind that using a site or apps freemium doesn’t bring results.
Start by deciding what type of connection you’re looking for. If unsure, use this “Economic Tool in Asian Relationships” to assess your options.
For example, Tinder and Asian Match Mate focus on hookups. While Seeking emphasizes companionship and intimacy with some financial expectations.
Meanwhile, ThaiFriendly and PinaLove are more about dating with long-term potential.
Decide what kind of arrangement you’re after, then choose the app that fits those needs while considering factors like subscription costs.