The secret of how to flirt with girls online is to believe that it’s okay to do so. It should be natural as talking to a friend instead of coming off as awkward, weird or forced.
If you have trouble to flirt with girls in an everyday situation like at the bar or at work, then you are going to fail the online game too.
Learning how to flirt is an important skill if you want to succeed with women while is essential if you want to succeed online.
Flirting is sexy to a woman when the guy believes in himself and isn’t afraid to show his attraction for her in a discreet way. The thing is that it has to come out from words stroke on a keyboard instead of physical touching, look or verbal communication.
Here are some basic tips to help you level up your online game.
Say Something Funny About Her Profile
Most men online are boring and methodical in their approach, they copy and paste a message and send out to as many girls as possible.
The worst of it all is the typical “Hi”.
Now, just imagine being a hot chick on a dating site where you get most of men attention. Are you going to answer that “hi”?
If you want to get the attention of hot girls, you need to learn how to flirt. The best way to do that is by taking the time to read her profile and say something funny about her profile.
Why? Two reasons.
First, that states that you have read her profile. Any girl appreciates that effort and feels obligated to respond you back.
The second reason you want to make a joke about it is that women love jokes while they feel attracted to confident men. Yes, confident men love to joke and they don’t take too seriously women as well.
By making a joke about her profile not only you are displaying confidence but you are hurting her self image at the same time. It might sound like a bad thing to do but it isn’t, women want a man to make them feel that way, they find it intriguing.
And when a woman is intrigued by you, she is going to reply to your messages.
Be A Challange
Now that you got her attention and become friends, you need to get out of the friend zone. What you need when you flirt online ongoing conversation is to be a challenge.
Most guys can’t go more than two lines before asking her out, that is a real turn off for most women.
You want to be sociable but also pushing back a little bit, this way of flirting communicate “you have to impress me”. That put you on a pedestal or being the prize.
She is going to crave for your attention and interest in her, leading her to ask you out. Instead of saying yes or no, just ignore her request, you aren’t obligated to give a clear answer.
By doing this you are taking away control from her making her feel powerless, women hate and love that at the same time.
Keep Going But Don’t Give In Just Yet
Now you are in full control of the game, she is already yours but you don’t want to give in just yet.
At this point, she is trying desperately to meet you, saying things like: “I like you because you are funny, a bit crazy and mysterious”.
The thing is she is fantasizing about you, that is when she turns hot only for you and ignore all other dudes online that speak the same boring language.
Keep talking to her time to time on a social level, the same way you do with a friend without mentioning that you should meet, just yet.
You are in control of the situation and she is going to obey you, that doesn’t mean she isn’t going to play tricks to make you crumble.
Thing like: “I know you don’t like me, it’s better we don’t talk to each other anymore”. Instead of giving in, just make a joke about it: “Really! I thought you didn’t like me”.
Accept Her Date
By this point, you can accept her invitation to meet. That is going to make her feel better, but worrying about not to be able to impress you.
Don’t be surprised if she turns up the meeting looking like “Madonna”, that is a normal reaction because you have a position of strength – You are the price, not her.
At this point, she is yours as far as you don’t blow it up. Just be yourself without overdoing, Asian girls are easier to date then what you might be thinking.
If you are still not able to get dates, send an email to me at firstname.lastname@example.org