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Batam Sex Guide For Single Men

If you’re craving for a sex holiday in Batam and want to know the best places where to find sexy girls hot for action, this sex guide has all the info you need.

You should enjoy your trip to Batam, instead of worrying about where to go, what do and most importantly how to do it.

I’m going to cover all the things you need to know to experience the ultimate Batam adult vacation, either you are single or a couple.

So, if you’re serious about having sex in Batam almost every day, please take 10 minutes of your time to digest the full article.

This guide is going to focus mostly on P4P scene (Pay for Play). If you prefer to meet and date everyday Indonesian girls, the one working regular jobs in hotels, restaurants or shops, then get on a popular Indonesian dating site instead.

This Batam Sex Guide was last updated on 02 February 2020




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Intro to Sex Tourism in Batam
General information about Batam sex culture

Where to Find Sex in Batam
An overview of the best places where to find ladies in Batam

How To Meet Batam Girls Online
The best way to find girls in Batam

Typical Prices For Sex
General prices for girls in Pattaya to help you budget your adventure

How To Get A Holiday Girlfriend in Batam
How to meet and date Batam women during your vacation

Best Sex Hotels in Batam
Girl-friendly hotels for your erotic activities


Intro To Sex Tourism In Batam

Batam is only 40 minutes away from Singapore, so it’s a gateway for travelers who are looking for sexy girls but don’t want to break the bank.

For Singaporean residents, Batam is an excellent weekend gateway where to play golf and the girls.

The nightlife is ok, nothing to brag about it. Men don’t go out party, but to hook with the sexy Indonesian women on the island.

The most popular sex venues are massage spas and karaoke bars, but you can also find girls freelancing in nightclubs and bars.

erotic massage girls in batam

However, meeting girls on dating sites is the easiest way to get laid with quality girls.

Indonesian girls from all over the country come here to work. You might meet a girl from West Java or Sumatra, who knows.

What is sure, it’s the many opportunities to have sex with young and hot girls. You aren’t going to be alone for long once you set foot on the island.

An interesting thing is there isn’t a red light district like in other major destinations in Indonesia. So you need to know where to go and what to do if you want to get laid.

I’m going to show you all the best places where to find sex in Batam in this guide…


What About Girls & Sex In Batam?

In one word: hot!

Not only girls in Batam are beautiful but they are hot in bed. It’s hard to find girls so willing to please, so dedicated to your needs.

During the day there aren’t many girls around Batam but at night the place comes to life…

sex in batam

There is an area called “NED” also known as “Nagoya Entertainment District” which is located in downtown Nagoya. Most of the nightlife revolves around Nagoya and Batam center.

When out at night, it’s hard to predict what will happen once you leave the hotel room.  You might hook up with a sexy girl in a nightclub or get the best happy ending massage of your life.

Girls in Batam speak English on about the same level as Thailand and much lower than in the Philippines.

Quality girls, hi-so-ish who drive their own cars and call themselves models, speak better English as they have a university education.

You’ll find women in Batam have bigger asses and tits, wear high heels more than their other Asian counterparts. That makes them look sexy and sluttier…

batam girl sex

I’m talking about westernized Indonesian girls, not the ones in burkas who are conservative.

It’s hard to find hot girls in shopping malls, beaches or walking around as they only drive around in cars and sit at home to avoid the sun. If you are into 7-10s girls, you better meet them online.

It’s not easy to date them, they tend to be flaky, but once they agree to meet up, in my experience 9 times out of 10 sex is on the plate.

Make sure to have a good logistic: take them out of a drink or meal, let them get used to you and go back to the room for some action. No hesitation, the girls know what is going on.

The first time in Batam, I met a girl online and banged in her car on the first date because I had a terrible schedule and logistic.

She drove me around in some ridiculously tuned Japanese cars, think “Kitty inner lining”.

If you think Indonesia is a strict Muslim country, think again. I had a threesome situation when I was kissing two girls at the same time in a car, letting them touch my dick simultaneously while I was playing with their tits.

RELATED: 3 Best Dating Sites To Meet Indonesian Girls Online


Where to Find Sex in Batam

The best places to find girls and have sex in Batam are:

1. Online

online call girl in batam

You can find plenty of Batam girls online nowadays on dating sites like Indonesia Cupid. Ladies in Batam use this dating site to meet foreign men.

If you can’t bother with the traditional dating courtship rules, and you’re looking for a long term relationship with benefits and without drama, on Seeking Arrangement you can make a deal with the girls beneficial for both of you.

2. Nightclubs & Pick Up Bars

batam nightlife

Most nightclubs and bars where you can meet girls in Batam are located in NED (Nagoya Entertainment District).

Don’t expect great clubs like in Jakarta or Bali… But definitely, you’ll find friendly women.

Most girls are prostitutes freelancing, only at weekends, you can find some party girls. Before 1 am is best to pick up girls in the bars, after in the nightclubs.

The best nightclubs and pick up bars are:

No Name Pub

Located on the ground floor of Harmony Hotel which is one of the best accommodations for nightlife in Batam. Most girls are freelancing prostitutes.


It’s a bar where you can play pool and meet experience Indo girls in their late 20s and early 30s. The girls are horny as hell and good fun.

Pacific Discotheque

It’s a happening club at the weekends located inside Pacific Palace Hotel.

F1 Club

It’s the most popular club in town where you can find sexy hostess girls. Located in Planet Holiday Hotel.


3. Happy Ending Massage In Batam

happy ending massage girls in batam

If you like erotic experiences and don’t mind a dirty massage, many Spas around the island offer sex massage services.

So, to make things easier for you, I’ve selected only the best places that offer happy endings:

  • Delta SPA has hot girls and offers excellent massages with HJ included in the price.
  • Octopus SPA offers happy endings with young masseur.
  • King’s Massage offer incall and outcall services directly to your hotel room.

If you would like to learn more, I’ve written a guide about erotic massages in Batam, not only in the Spas but also how to get a sex massage directly to your room.

4. Strip Club

There is a strip club in Batam above Lucy’s Oarhouse in Kampung Bule called PP Banana Lounge…


Don’t expect young spinners but rather girls in their 30s happy to take off their cloth for 200.000 Rupiah. Add 500k if you want to take the girl upstairs for sex.

5. Karaoke In Batam

This type of bars/lounges employs young and beautiful hostesses offering company.

dragon ktv girls in batam for sex

You rent a room by the hours, sometimes it includes drinks and you pay the girls sitting with you by the hours.

If you need more then companionship, KTV’s girl’s prices range from 800k to 1.2m for a pop.

The best KTVs in Batam are:


6. Escorts – Call Girls in Batam


As I said earlier, you can Batam escorts online offering outcall sexual services. Just have a look on the internet to get a better idea.

The thing is there are many fake profiles and heavily photoshopped.

I don’t recommend escort girls in Batam. However, in nearby Singapore, there are quality Indonesian escorts offering a hassle-free experience. You can find the information in my guide: sex in Singapore.


Map Of Batam Sex Venues


How To Meet Batam Girls Online

If you are wondering where to find ladies in Batam, the simplest way is to meet girls online.

A few guys think to book girls online by using an escort agency, others plan to visit clubs or pick up bars while others have no clue.

Thinking this way is only going to land you a prostitute, have an average sexual performance and no intimacy at all.

Who wants to have sex with dirty hookers when there are so many girls in Batam craving to meet a foreign man?

I’m referring to everyday girls, the ones working in hotels, restaurants and so on…

restaurant girl in batam

Imagine having her with you during your stay in Batam. Not only she can offer you that intimacy only a girlfriend can offer, but she is going to show around town and experience the local culture.

If you want to meet ladies in Batam, the best way is to use a dating site like Indonesian Cupid. Batam ladies use this site to meet foreign men, and you want to meet girls in Batam. It’s the perfect deal.

To get started, create a simple profile with your best photos and a short description of yourself. Upgrade the membership not only to be able to talk with the girls but also to get your profile rank higher and more credible. Then search for girls in “Riau” which is the province of Batam.

When you start a conversation with a girl online, don’t send more than 5 messages without asking out. Keep the stories for the date.

Apps and dating sites are only a tool to break the ice, not a place to have a long conversation.

Once you hook up, you can spend an hour to know each other and then take her to your room…

sexy girl in batam


Typical Prices For Sex In Batam

If this is your first time traveling here, you might be wondering what is the cost for sex in Batam…

• Fix Prices For Sex

When visiting a business selling sex, the prices are fixed and can’t be negotiated.

Here a list of standard prices for each business type:

  • Bar girls working in bars – Pay 150k to the bar owner (bar fine), 800k to the girl for a short time. Lady drinks 140k.
  • Escort girls: 700k per hour.
  • Masseurs in erotic massage spa – 300k for massage. Extras: HJ – 300k, BJ – 500k and full service – 800k.
  • Karaoke girls – 800k – 1.2m for a pop.

• Variable Prices For Sex

This refers to girls that work for themselves life freelancers or everyday girls that need a side income.

Their prices are variable based on their location, age, the way you interact and present yourself.

These prices are just an indication to guide you:

  • Freelancers in the nightclubs: 600-900k depending the time of the year and her attractiveness.
  • Girls on dating sites looking for a tip: starting at 200k for a blow job or 400k for a pop. You can give more if you feel generous. This doesn’t include the monthly subscription of US$20 for the membership on an a popular Indonesia dating site.

A rule of thumb is never to ask the girls how much they want, wait for them to offer. That way, you show confidence and as a result, they lower their prices.

If paying all this money to have sex isn’t your things, consider reading the next section where I explain how to get laid for the price of a meal or coffee.


How To Get a Holiday Girlfriend in Batam

renting batam girlfriend

If you are searching for a beautiful Batam girlfriend either for a long term relationship or for the time you are in Batam, this is one of the easiest destinations in Indonesia.

Having a girlfriend in Batam is the best way to experience the local culture, try new things and not only in bed.

When you are with her, you feel energized and young again…


No need to wasting money on dirty hookers, there are many quality girls eager to meet you for a simple affair or a serious relationship.

The best way to find a girlfriend in Batam is by using a popular dating site like Indonesian Cupid. Girls on dating sites are there because they want to meet a foreign man, and you want to meet an Indonesian girl. It’s a Win-Win for both of you.

Visiting Batam without using this app is foolish because it connects you with local girls interested in foreign men. What is the point to spend the night in clubs and bars when you can simply connect with eager girls in a matter of minutes.

To get started, upload a few groomed photos, well dressed and look at best. Not drunk, stoned or posing in front of a Maserati that isn’t yours 🙂

Feel up your profile with a realistic view about your life and what you are looking for in a Batam girl. Keep it brief.

Make sure to verify your profile as this offer to your profile more visibility. That “verified badge” is going to land you more attention and response from the girls.

Then search for girls in “Riau” which is the province of Batam. That’s it!


Best Sex Hotels In Batam

If you are visiting Batam because you want to get laid with local girls, you need a girl-friendly hotel with good logistics and erotic rooms.

You don’t want the receptionist to cockblock you while taking a girl to your room, it’s embarrassing. Also, you want the right type of accommodation that gets her turn on, so she drops her clothes faster…


The good thing in Batam is the hotel rooms are dirt cheap:

  • If you want to go out at night and pick up hookers, consider staying in Nagoya Hill Hotel or Harmoni Hotel (there is a club in the basement packed with freelancers).
  • If you prefer a place where you can bring quality girls met online without passing as a sex tourist, consider booking an apartment in BCC Hotel & Residence next to BCS mall.

There are either cheaper or more expensive options, depending on your travel standards.

However, if you’re serious about banging quality girls in Batam, stay away from the hotels. Do as Rocco do, stay in an apartment…

girl in lovel hotel batam

This concludes this sex guide to Batam, I wish you a happy journey.

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