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Batam Sex Guide For Single Men

If you’re craving for a sex holiday in Batam and want to know the best places where to find sexy girls hot for action, this sex guide has all the info you need.

You should enjoy your trip to Batam, instead of worrying about where to go, what do and most importantly how to do it.

I’m going to cover all the things you need to know to experience the ultimate Batam adult vacation, either you are single or a couple.

So, if you’re serious about having sex in Batam almost every day, please take 10 minutes of your time to digest the full article.

This guide is going to focus mostly on P4P scene (Pay for Play). If you prefer to meet and date everyday Indonesian girls, the one working regular jobs in hotels, restaurants or shops, then get on a popular Indonesian dating site instead.

This Batam Sex Guide was last updated on 11 June 2019




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Intro to Sex Tourism in Batam
General information about Batam sex culture

Where to Find Sex in Batam
An overview of the best places and ways to get laid

Typical Prices For Sex
General prices for girls in Pattaya to help you budget your adventure

How To Get A Holiday Girlfriend
How to meet and date Batam women during your vacation

Best Sex Hotels in Batam
Girl-friendly hotels for your erotic activities


Intro To Sex Tourism In Batam

Batam is only 40 minutes away from Singapore, so it’s a gateway for travelers who are looking for sexy girls but don’t want to break the bank.

For Singaporean resident, Batam is an excellent weekend gateway where to play golf and the girls.

The nightlife is ok, nothing to brag about it. Men don’t go out party, but to hook with the sexy Indonesian women on the island.

The most popular sex venues are massage spas and karaoke bars, but you can also find girls freelancing in nightclubs and bars.

erotic massage girls in batam

Indonesian girls from all over the country come here to work. You might meet a girl from West Java or Sumatra, who knows.

What is sure, it’s the many opportunities to have sex with young and hot girls. You aren’t going to be alone for long once you set foot on the island.

An interesting thing is there isn’t a red light district like in other major destinations in Indonesia. So you need to know where to go and what to do if you want to get laid.

I’m going to show you all the best places where to find sex in Batam in this guide…


What About Girls & Sex In Batam?

In one word: hot!

Not only girls in Batam are beautiful but they are hot in bed. It’s hard to find girls so willing to please, so dedicated to your needs.

During the day there aren’t many girls around Batam but at night the place comes to life…

sex in batam

There is an area called “NED” also known as “Nagoya Entertainment District” which is located in downtown Nagoya. Most of life revolves around Nagoya and Batam center.

When out at night, it’s hard to predict what will happen once you leave the hotel room.  You might hook up with a sexy girl in a nightclub or get the best happy ending massage of your life.

Girls in Batam speak English on about the same level as Thailand and much lower than in the Philippines.

Quality girls, hi-so-ish who drive their own cars and call themselves models, speak better English than the rest as they have a university education.

You’ll find women in Batam have bigger asses and tits, wear high heels more than their other Asian counterparts. That makes them look sexy and sluttier.

batam girl sex

I’m referring about Indonesian girls Westernized, not the one in burkas who are conservative.

It’s hard to find hot girls in shopping malls, beaches or walking around as they only drive around in cars and sit at home to avoid the sun. If you are into 7-10s girls, you better meet them online.

It’s not easy to date them, they tend to be flaky, but once they agree to meet up, in my experience 9 times out of 10 sex is on the plate.

Make sure to have a good logistic: take them out of a drink or meal, let them get used to you and go back to the room for some action. No hesitation, the girls know what is going on.

The first time in Batam, I met a girl online and banged in her car on the first date because I had a terrible schedule and logistic.

She drove me around in some ridiculously tuned Japanese cars, think “Kitty” inner lining.

If you think Indonesia is a strict Muslim country, think again. I had a threesome situation when I was kissing two girls at the same time in a car, letting them touch my dick simultaneously while I was playing with their tits.

RELATED: 3 Best Dating Sites To Meet Indonesian Girls Online


Where to Find Sex in Batam

The best places to find girls and have sex in Batam are:


Nightclubs & Pick Up Bars

batam nightlife

Most nightclubs and bars where you can meet girls in Batam are located in NED (Nagoya Entertainment District).

Don’t expect great clubs like in Jakarta or Bali… But definitely, you’ll find friendly women.

Most girls are prostitutes freelancing, only at weekends, you can find some party girls. Before 1 am is best to pick up girls in the bars, after in the nightclubs.

The best nightclubs and pick up bars are:

No Name Pub

Located on the ground floor of Harmony Hotel which is one of the best accommodations for nightlife in Batam. Most girls are freelancing prostitutes.


It’s a bar where you can play pool and meet experience Indo girls in their late 20s and early 30s. The girls are horny as hell and good fun.

Pacific Discotheque

It’s a happening club in the weekends located inside Pacific Palace Hotel.

F1 Club

It’s the most popular club in town where you can find sexy hostess girls. Located in Planet Holiday Hotel.



You can find plenty of girls online nowadays. The online things took some time to develop in Indonesia compared to the Philippines and Thailand, but now it’s booming.

You can find genuine girls looking for a relationship, but also freelancer girls ready to go to your room for some cash. Some time can be hard to understand who is who.

sexy batam girl online hook up

Freeelancer girl online

The best site and apps to get laid are:

Indonesian Cupid – It’s the most popular dating site in Indonesia where you can find Indo girls with a fetish for foreign men.

You can start using the site even if you aren’t in Indonesia just yet. That helps you to get the ball rolling sort of speak.

It’s ridiculously easy to start a conversation as the women are quite eager to follow up. You’ll find the girls anxious to hook up with you.

WeChat – When in Batam, download this app on your phone and use the function scout out girls nearby you. When in NAD, you’ll get sex offers from hookers.

Tinder – This app work wonders for young dudes with a six-pack. If you aren’t a handsome man with a great physique, you better don’t waste your time as this experiment has revealed.

Asian Match Date – It’s a community of open-minded people that love sex. The site looks like a porno channel, but it’s more like a kinky Facebook kind of thing. It’s uselss Batam because there aren’t any members, but in nearby Singapore the site is popular.


Happy Ending Massage In Batam

happy ending massage girls in batam

If you like erotic experiences and don’t mind a dirty massage, many Spas around the island offer sex massage services.

So, to make things easier for you, I’ve selected only the best places that offer happy endings:

  • Delta SPA has hot girls and offers excellent massages with HJ included in the price.
  • Octopus SPA offers happy endings with young masseur.
  • King’s Massage offer incall and outcall services directly to your hotel room.

If you would like to learn more, I’ve written a guide about erotic massages in Batam, not only in the Spas but also how to get a sex massage directly to your room.

Strip Club

There is a strip club in Batam above Lucy’s Oarhouse in Kampung Bule called PP Banana Lounge…


Don’t expect young spinners but rather girls in their 30s happy to take off their cloth for 200.000 Rupiah. Add 500k if you want to take the girl upstairs for sex.


Karaoke In Batam

This type of bars/lounges employs young and beautiful hostesses offering company.

dragon ktv girls in batam for sex

You rent a room by the hours, sometimes it includes drinks and you pay the girls sitting with you by the hours.

If you need more then companionship, KTV’s girl’s prices range from 800k to 1.2m for a pop.

The best KTVs in Batam are:


Escorts – Call Girls in Batam


As I said earlier, you can Batam escorts online offering outcall sexual services. Just have a look on the internet to get a better idea.

The thing is there are many fake profiles and heavily photoshopped.

I don’t recommend escort girls in Batam. However, in nearby Singapore, there are quality Indonesian escorts offering a hassle-free experience. You can find the information in my guide: sex in Singapore.


Map Of Batam Sex Venues


Typical Prices For Sex In Batam

If this is your first time traveling here, you might be wondering what is the cost for sex in Batam…

• Fix Prices For Sex

When visiting a business selling sex, the prices are fixed and can’t be negotiated.

Here a list of standard prices for each business type:

  • Bar girls working in bars – Pay 150k to the bar owner (bar fine), 800k to the girl for a short time. Lady drinks 140k.
  • Escort girls: 700k per hour.
  • Masseurs in erotic massage spa – 300k for massage. Extras: HJ – 300k, BJ – 500k and full service – 800k.
  • Karaoke girls – 800k – 1.2m for a pop.

• Variable Prices For Sex

This refers to girls that work for themselves life freelancers or everyday girls that need a side income.

Their prices are variable based on their location, age, the way you interact and present yourself.

These prices are just an indication to guide you:

  • Freelancers in the nightclubs: 600-900k depending the time of the year and her attractiveness.
  • Girls on dating sites looking for a tip: starting at 200k for a blow job or 400k for a pop. You can give more if you feel generous. This doesn’t include the monthly subscription of US$20 for the membership on an a popular Indonesia dating site.

A rule of thumb is never to ask the girls how much they want, wait for them to offer. That way, you show confidence and as a result, they lower their prices.

If paying all this money to have sex isn’t your things, consider reading the next section where I explain how to get laid for the price of a meal or coffee.


How To Get a Holiday Girlfriend in Batam

batam girlfriend

Girls in Batam know how to please a man and love to have a good time. The best part is the so-called “hi-so girls”, speak English and want to meet a foreign man.

They find their countrymen too traditional, close-minded and boring.

So, if you are looking for a Batam girlfriend for a week or two to get lost in long conversations and longer nights of passionate sex, I’m going to show you where to find her.

Most of these girls are independent, have a car and don’t mind to drive you around the island for a good time.

Just imagine spending time in the company of a young, attractive and horny woman while visiting the island…


No need to wasting money on dirty hookers, there are many quality girls eager to meet you for a simple affair or a serious relationship.

That’s why I never go out in NED at night when I’m in Batam. It’s much easier to hook up with girls online and get intimate. Having sex with a girl that is into you and not your wallet, it’s a wonderful experience.

Before I set foot in Batam, I chat with the girls creating trust and sexual attraction. We learn about each other preferences, hobbies and why not, sexual preferences.

Just think about this: you are at home chatting with this adorable girl waiting for the moment to meet each other in Batam.

She feels strongly attracted to you, and you want her so badly. Imagine what is going to happen once you arrive in Batam.

However, meeting attractive and love caring women is terrific but is only one benefit…

… Experience new locations, eating different food, and clash with a new culture are all common side effects of traveling.

The best way to get in touch with a quality girl in Batam is by using a popular dating site like Indonesian Cupid.

Girls on dating sites are there because they want to meet a foreign man, and you want to meet an Indonesian girl.

It’s a Win-Win for both of you.

To get started, upload a few groomed photos, well dressed and look at best. Not drunk, stoned or posing in front of a Maserati that isn’t yours 🙂

Feel up your profile with a realistic view about your life and what you are looking for in a Batam girl. Keep it brief.

Make sure to verify your profile as this offer to your profile more visibility. That “verified badge” is going to land you more attention and response from the girls.

Just use click the search link on the top bar, select Indonesia, then Riau and lastly Batam. Batam is a city in the province of Riau.

That’s it!

Build your list of potential girlfriends, and once in Batam, meet up.


Best Sex Hotels In Batam

If you are visiting Batam because you want to get laid with local girls, you need a girl-friendly hotel with good logistics and erotic rooms.

You don’t want the receptionist to cockbloc you while taking a girl to your room, it’s embarrassing. Also, you want the right type of accommodation that gets her turn on, so she drops her clothes faster…


The good thing in Batam is the hotel rooms are dirt cheap:

  • If you want to go out at night and pick up hookers, consider staying in Nagoya Hill Hotel or Harmoni Hotel (there is a club in the basement packed with freelancers).
  • If you prefer a place where you can bring quality girls met online without passing as a sex tourist, consider booking an apartment in BCC Hotel & Residence next to BCS mall.

There are either cheaper or more expensive options, depending on your travel standards.

However, if you’re serious about banging quality girls in Batam, stay away from the hotels. Do as Rocco do, stay in an apartment…

girl in lovel hotel batam

This concludes this sex guide to Batam, I wish you a happy journey.

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