Batam Sex Guide For Single Men


If you want to hook up in Batam and learn the best places where to find sexy girls hot for action, this guide has all the info you need.

You should enjoy your trip to Batam, instead of worrying about where to go, what to do and most importantly how to do it.

I’m going to cover all the things you need to know to experience the ultimate Batam adult vacation, whether you are single or a couple.

If you want to get a holiday girlfriend or get into a long-term arrangement, I recommend these sites where you can find Indo girls eager to meet foreign men.

This Batam Sex Guide was last updated on May 2024

Intro To Sex Tourism In Batam

Batam is only 40 minutes away from Singapore. It’s a gateway for travelers who are looking for sexy girls but don’t want to break the bank.

The interesting part is many Singaporean residents have sugar babies in Batam thanks to the growing popularity of arrangement sites. And of course, the availability of young and hot girls looking for sugar daddies.

If you plan to visit Batam and hope to have wanderlust nights out, think again. Men don’t go out party, but to hook with the sexy Indonesian women on the island.

The most popular sex venues are erotic massage spas and karaoke bars. But you can also find working girls freelancing in nightclubs and bars…

erotic massage girls in Batam

Indonesian girls from all over the country come here to work. The majority of ladies are from Sumatra, and West Java.

The opportunities to have sex are present but not so abundant like in other parts of the country.

I’m going to show you all the best places where to find sex in Batam in this guide.


What About Girls & Sex In Batam?

In one word: hot!

Not only girls in Batam are beautiful but they are hot in bed. It’s hard to find ladies so willing to please, and dedicated to your needs.

During the day there aren’t many girls around Batam but at night the place comes to life…

sex girls in Batam bar

There is an area called “NED” also known as “Nagoya Entertainment District” which is located in downtown Nagoya. Most of the nightlife revolves around Nagoya and Batam center.

When out at night, it’s hard to predict what will happen once you leave the hotel room.  You might hook up with a sexy girl in a nightclub or get the best happy ending massage of your life.

Girls in Batam speak English on about the same level as Thailand and much lower than in the Philippines.

Quality girls, hi-so-ish who drive their own cars and call themselves models, speak better English as they have a university education.

You’ll find women in Batam have round asses, generous tits, wear high heels more than their other Asian counterparts. That makes them look sexy and sluttier…

I’m talking about westernized Indonesian girls, not the ones in burkas who are conservative.

It’s hard to find hot girls in shopping malls, beaches, or walking around as they only drive around in cars. If you are into 7-10s girls, you better meet them online.

It’s not easy to date them cause they tend to be flaky. But in my past experiences, once they agree to meet up, 9 times out of 10, sex is on the plate.

The first time in Batam, I met a girl online and banged in her car on the first date because I had a terrible schedule and logistics.

She drove me around in some ridiculously tuned Japanese cars, think “Kitty inner lining”.

If you think Indonesia is a strict Muslim country, think again. I had a threesome situation when I was kissing two girls in a car, and let them touch my dick simultaneously while I was playing with their tits.


Where To Find Sex

If you are wondering how to hook up in Batam or simply want to know the best places for sex, I would start with…


1. Online

online in call girl in batam

When you travel often, it’s worth contacting girls and couples online for hookups. Asian Match Mate helps to find sex partners around the world.

You can get to know the sexual preferences in advance so you can pair with the right partners. And skip the awkward introduction once you meet up.


2. Nightclubs & Pick Up Bars

Batam nightlife girls

Most nightclubs and bars where you can meet girls in Batam are located in NED (Nagoya Entertainment District).

Don’t expect great clubs like in Jakarta or Bali… But definitely, you’ll find friendly women.

There are girls who prostitutes themselves as freelancers, so if you don’t want to pay, make sure who you’re dealing with.

Weekends days are best to hook up with office girls who are there to have fun. Before 1 am is best to pick up girls in the bars, after that visit a nightclub.

The best nightclubs and pick-up bars in Batam are:

No Name Pub

Located on the ground floor of the Harmoni Hotel which is one of the best accommodations for nightlife in Batam. The majority of ladies here are working girls.

Barfly in Kampung Bule

It’s a bar where you can play pool and meet mature Indo girls in their late 20s and early 30s. The girls are horny as hell and good fun.

Pacific Discotheque

It’s a happening club during the weekends located inside Pacific Palace Hotel.

Square Club

Happening Club with Live Music and Dance! Inside you will find many girls offering companionship to drink and else.

F1 Club

It’s the most popular club in town where you can find sexy hostess girls.

3. Happy Ending Massage Parlors

happy ending massage girls in Batam

If you like erotic experiences and don’t mind a dirty massage, many Spas around the island offer sex massage services.

So, to make things easier for you, I’ve selected only the best places that offer happy endings:

  • Delta SPA has hot girls and offers excellent massages with HJ included in the price.
  • Octopus SPA offers happy endings with young masseur.
  • King’s Massage offer incall and outcall services directly to your hotel room.

If you would like to learn more, I’ve written a guide about erotic massages in Batam, not only in the Spas but also how to get a sex massage directly to your room.


4. Strip Club

There is a strip club in Batam above Lucy’s Oarhouse in Kampung Bule called PP Banana Lounge…

PP Banana strip club in Batam

Don’t expect young spinners but rather girls in their 30s happy to take off their cloth for 200.000 Rupiah. Add 500k if you want to take the girl upstairs for sex.

5. Karaoke In Batam

This type of bars/lounges employs young and beautiful hostesses offering company…

You rent a room by the hours, sometimes it includes drinks and you pay the girls sitting with you by the hours.

If you need more then companionship, KTV’s girl’s prices range from 800k to 1.2m for a pop.

The best KTVs in Batam are:


6. Escorts – Call Girls in Batam

If didn’t plan properly for your trip, you can book a Batam girl online by using an escort directory. These advertisements are posted by pimps that have a few girls.

The problem is they employ bait and switch tactics. So, don’t expect the girls in the photo to show up.

In conclusion, I don’t recommend escort services in Batam. For that kind of service, nearby Singapore has high-quality Indonesian escorts offering a hassle-free experience. You can find the information in my guide: sex in Singapore.


Map Of Batam Sex Venues


Typical Prices

If this is your first time traveling here, you might be wondering how much things cost in Batam…

Here a list of standard prices for each business type:

  • Bar girls working in bars – Pay 200k to the bar owner (bar fine), 1.2 million to the girl for a short time. Lady drinks 180k.
  • Escort girls: 900k per hour.
  • Masseurs in erotic massage spa – 500k for massage.
  • Karaoke girls – 1k – 1.6m.

This refers to girls that work for themselves life freelancers or everyday girls that need a side income.

Their prices are variable based on their location, age, the way you interact and present yourself.

These prices are just an indication to guide you:

  • Freelancers in the nightclubs: 600-900k depending on the time of the year and her attractiveness.

A rule of thumb is never to ask the girls how much they want, wait for them to offer. That way, you show confidence and as a result, they lower their prices.

If paying for companionship isn’t your things, consider reading the next section where I explain how to get laid for the price of a meal or coffee.


How To Get a Holiday Girlfriend

If you are searching for a beautiful Batam girlfriend either for a long term relationship or for the time you are in Batam, this is one of the easiest destinations in Indonesia.

Having a girlfriend in Batam is the best way to experience the local culture, try new things and not only in bed.

When you are with her, you feel energized and young again.

No need to wasting money on dirty hookers, there are many quality girls eager to meet you for a simple affair or a serious relationship.

The best way to find a girlfriend in Batam is to use a popular sugar site. There are so many Indo girls looking for a foreign boyfriend that hardly you won’t find what you’re looking for.

Visiting Batam without using a dating site is foolish because it connects you with local girls interested in foreign men. What is the point to spend the night in clubs and bars when you can simply connect with eager girls in a matter of minutes.

To get started, upload a few groomed photos, well dressed and look at best. Not drunk, stoned or posing in front of a Maserati that isn’t yours 🙂

Feel up your profile with a realistic view about your life and what you are looking for in a Batam girl. Keep it brief.

Make sure to verify your profile as this offer to your profile more visibility. That “verified badge” is going to land you more attention and response from the girls.

Then search for girls in “Riau” which is the province of Batam. That’s it!


Best Sex Hotels

If you are visiting Batam because you want to get laid with local girls, you need a girl-friendly hotel with good logistics and erotic rooms.

You don’t want the receptionist to cockblock you while taking a girl to your room, it’s embarrassing.

The good thing is the hotel rooms are dirt cheap in Batam:

  • If you want to go out at night and pick up hookers, consider staying in Nagoya Hill Hotel or Harmoni Hotel (there is a nightclub in the basement packed with working girls).
  • If you prefer a place where you can bring quality girls met online without passing as a sex tourist, consider booking an apartment in BCC Hotel & Residence next to BCS mall.

There are either cheaper or more expensive options, depending on your travel standards.

However, if you’re serious about banging quality girls in Batam, stay away from the hotels. Do as Rocco does, stay in an apartment…

This concludes this sex guide to Batam, I wish you a happy journey.





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