jakarta sex guide

Jakarta Sex Guide For Single Men

If you are planning to visit Jakarta and you want to know how to meet sexy girls hot for action, this guide is for you.

I’ll cover all the important info you need to know so you can get laid in Jakarta whenever you want.

There are so many hookup opportunities hidden from inexperienced travelers, that would be shameful to miss.

This Jakarta Sex Guide was last updated on 14 June 2023

Before your trip to Jakarta contact some girls online so that once you arrive there you’ll have a hot holiday girlfriend craving for you.

Just sign up and write on your profile what you’re looking for. You’ll be surprised how friendly and eager Jakarta girls are to have fun.

Intro To Sex Tourism In Jakarta

Sex tourism in Jakarta is declining rapidly, and it was never a big thing anyway. In recent years several places selling sex are been shut down.

For example, the infamous Kalijodo red light district is been bulldozed down like several other red light areas. There are still a few red light areas that operate under the radars like Kotah Inda…

Kelapa Gading working girls in Jakarta

Massage girls in Kelapa Gading area in Jakarta

While places get shut down, working girls move to online apps and sites to look for customers.

Some ladies might be straightforward by adding their phone number to the profile while others will ask for gifts and tea money after a quick chat.

However, there are still a few brothels around the city operating inside buildings that look and function like hotels. They offer erotic massages, companionship, and renting rooms for a short time.

Some hotels also have a private strip club…

Jakarta sex tourism girls

But it seems they won’t last for long as police raids are more common. There is some change in the air, but fortunately, technology and the internet are the solutions to get you in contact with working girls in Jakarta


What About Sex And Girls In Jakarta

In simple words: hot and horny!

In my opinion, Jakarta girls are the most underrated in South East Asia. Most probably because the majority of the population is Muslim, but the truth is they are very horny and have a fetish for foreigners.

When in public, they act conservative and shy, but once behind closed doors, they get incredibly wild.

There are plenty of educated middle-class ladies that are up for some real fun. They speak good English, like to party and love sex. You can have some real short-term romance in this city…

jakarta girl for sex

You never know what surprise the night hold for you, maybe an amazing erotic massage in a spa or getting laid with a civilian girl met online.

There are plenty of young girls in Jakarta craving to meet a foreign man… And there are also mature women hungry for a good fuck.

No need to pay a hooker to have sex, with small talk and some persuasion, you can easily hook up with most girls. Nurses, lawyers, waitresses, and students.

If talking to girls face to face makes you nervous, you can meet Indonesian girls on dating sites without any pressure or fear to get rejected.

Jakarta girls on dating sites are there because they want to meet a foreigner, and you want to meet a girl in Jakarta. It’s a perfect opportunity for both of you.


Where To Find Sex In Jakarta

It’s pretty easy to get laid in Jakarta if you know where to look for girls and sex in Jakarta.

1. Online

Jakarta girl online offering sex

In recent years raids to sex venues in Jakarta have intensified. It isn’t worth risking the trouble to get caught by the police while having an erotic massage when you can simply find girls online ready for action.

You have Badoo and Tinder. A decent option if you are already in Jakarta and in your 20s. Users of those apps are young and value aesthetics. So not suitable for mature men.

For men in their 30s and up, a better option to meet and fuck is to join Asian Match Mate community. People on this platform want to have fun and sex, and occasionally they organize sex parties in Jakarta too.

2. Strip Tease Clubs

indonesian striptease club in jakarta

The nude striptease shows were banned all over Jakarta in 2017. However, the girls still dance in sexy lingerie, and you can always ask for a private striptease.

There is a lounge inside the Malioboro hotel with hot girls wearing miniskirts and high hills. They love to play around with you while you’re having a drink. It feels natural and not forced.

You can choose any girl for 900k to 1.5 million.

Another strip club is Terminal in Classic Hotel. The girls are average and can’t speak much English apart from “Hello”. But you can get laid for half the price of Malio girls. If you are only interested to have sex without communication with the girls, check it out.

The girls on the fifth floor are slightly better than the girls on the second floor, and the price difference isn’t that great. So go straight to the fifth floor.

Then you have King Cross offering live music and the company of some hot girls. It opens at 4 pm and closes at midnight. I recommend going there around 5 pm because the girls are at their best.

3. SPAs – Jakarta Sex Massage

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Jakarta is home to countless dirty massage parlors. They are inside large hotels functioning as massive brothels.

The Spas below are the ones with the hottest girls offering happy endings:

Malioboro Hotels and Spa – is one of the most luxurious spas in Jakarta with many local and foreign girls available at your service.

Sun City Luxury Spa – They have a friendly mamasan that can speak English and pair you with girls to your taste.

Comfort Spa – fairly pricey but with an excellent selection of masseurs. It’s the most popular nightlife spa in Jakarta thanks to the wide selection of girls after 8 pm.

• Emporium Hotel Spa – ladies are warm and polite. Men visit to get a body to body massage with happy ending. You have two selections of girls for 1.1 million and 1.3 million. 

• Classic Hotel Spa – if you’re looking for a soapy massage (slippery body to body massage with soap) this is the place to visit. Go to the second floor and pick your lady.

4. Nightclubs & Pick Up Bars

The best nightclubs and bars where you can pick up girls in Jakarta are located near the Senayan metro station.

The bars are best in the early hours and a must on Wednesday night (ladies’ night). Walk into the nightclub after midnight if you want to get some action.

There are working girls freelancing as well as regular girls. So make sure to recognize who is who.

The best nightclubs and pick up bars in Jakarta are:

Blowfish This bar attracts a high-class crowd, so dress appropriately. Hot girls in their 20s.

• Fable A nightclub that attracts a young crowd. There are as many freelancers as regular girls.

• Club 36 – The entry fee is 100k. The club offers three rounds of girls that you can choose from.

• Colosseum Club – This is one of the biggest nightclubs in Jakarta. There are often International DJs performing that attract the party girls of the city. It’s easy to hook up here.

5. Jakarta Street Hookers

street hookers in jakarta

There are street hookers in different parts of Jakarta, but the most notorious area is Jalan Falatehan I.

In the red light district areas, the street hookers are supervised by a pimp. You can deal with him or the girls directly.

Street hookers accept only short time deals. If you want a girl all night, outside famous clubs like Immigrant and X2, you can find freelancers.

The standard price for Jakarta girls walking the streets is 400k Rupiah for a short time. Rates are negotiable, of course.

Stay away from the streets around Marriott Courtyard, the sexy girls in miniskirts and high hills are ladyboys (transgender).


Typical Prices

• Entrainment And Companionship – You can get a happy ending massage in Jakarta for as little as 300k up to 1.5 million for the company with a top spinner in a KTV.

As a rule of thumb, you are going to spend 600-800k per girl. But money isn’t the only important point. I believe getting value for your money is more important.

If you aren’t afraid to pick up girls, the nightclubs are excellent venues to recruit freelancers at 500k for all night. However, add an extra 300k for the entrance fee and drinks.

• Accommodation – In Jakarta, you can find hotels for all pockets starting at $30 up to the moon. If you are looking for paid sex, stay around Cipinang and Bongkaran, the two major red-light districts.

• Food – It can be expensive if you prefer International food, the price starts at 100k up to 500k per meal without including beverages.

Instead, local food is readily available in the streets or in small restaurants all around Jakarta, starting price at 50k rupiah.

• Transportation – The city center takes 1 hour by the new Soekarno-Hatta Airport Train, which costs 70.000k.

Within the city, you can move around by bus or motorcycle if you are on a budget.

Taxis aren’t so expensive either, but the problem isn’t the transportation prices but the horrible traffic.


Sugar Babies In Jakarta

girlfriend in Jakarta for a week

The sugar baby scene is nothing new and there are plenty of young and beautiful girls looking for a sugar daddy.

The easiest way to find a sugar baby is to use Seeking Arrangement. There are many young and beautiful girls eager to look after the needs of a senior man.

If you want to start just create a free account on Seeking Arrangement and pick a girl that you like.

Many of the girls are students eager to offer companionship and intimacy to one fortunate man.


Girl Friendly Hotels In Jakarta

Some hotel is more appropriate than others to bring back unregistered guests.

The best girl-friendly hotels in Jakarta are:

  • Marc Hotel Passer Baroe: Located in North Jakarta near a red light district and many “happy” massage parlors. If you are into paid sex, this place is for you.
  • Ritz Carlton Hotel: Located in the city center this luxury is dirt cheap with a rate of only $150. Nearby there are sexual entrainments like spas, karaoke and sex clubs. If you prefer to pick regular girls, many pick up bars and nightclubs in the area.
  • The Falatehan Hotel: Located in South Jakarta, this hotel is super nice and nearby to an area of girlie bars called Block M.


Map of Jakarta Sex Venues

This concludes the Jakarta Sex Guide – Enjoy your stay.





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