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jakarta sex guide

Jakarta Sex Guide For Single Men

If you are planning to visit Jakarta for business and you want to get sexy girls hot for action, this guide is for you.

It’s important to be prepared for your visit to Jakarta, so you don’t waste time to find the right girls. I’ll cover all the important info you need so you can get laid in Jakarta whenever you want it.

Most of this guide focus on the pay for play scene. If you want to meet and date civilian girls you should consider using a popular Indonesian dating site.

This Jakarta Sex Guide was last updated on 28 April 2020



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Intro to Sex Tourism in Jakarta
General information about Jakarta sex culture

Where To Find Sex in Jakarta
An overview of the best places to get laid

Jakarta Girls Price
General prices for sex in Jakarta to help you budget your adventure

How To Get A Holiday Girlfriend in Jakarta
How to date Jakarta women during your vacation

Girl Friendly Hotels in Jakarta
No need to pay extra for overnight guests


Intro To Sex Tourism In Jakarta

Sex tourism in Jakarta is declining rapidly, and it was never a big thing anyway. In recent years several places selling sex are been shut down.

For example, the infamous Kalijodo red light district is been bulldozed down like several other red light areas. There are still a few red light areas that operate under the radars like Kotah Inda…

Kelapa Gading working girls in Jakarta

Massage girls in Kelapa Gading area in Jakarta

While places get shut down, working girls move to online apps and sites to look for customers. Some lady might be straightforward by adding her phone number in the profile while others will ask for gifts and tea money after a quick chat.

However, there are still a few brothels around the city operating inside buildings that look and function like hotels. They offer erotic massages, companionship, and renting rooms for a short time. Some also have a private strip club…

Jakarta sex tourism girls

But it seems they won’t last for long as police raids are more common. There is some change in the air, but fortunately, technology and the internet are the solutions to get you in contact with working girls in Jakarta


What About Sex And Girls In Jakarta

In simple words: hot and horny!

In my opinion, Jakarta girls are the most underrated in South East Asia. Most probably because the majority of the population is Muslim, but the truth is they are very horny and have a fetish for foreigners.

When in public, they act conservative and shy, but once behind closed doors, they get incredibly wild.

There are plenty of educated middle-class ladies that are up for some real fun. They speak good English, like to party and love sex. You can have some real short term romance in this city…

jakarta girl for sex

You never know what surprise the night hold for you, maybe an amazing erotic massage in a spa or to get laid with a civilian girl met online.

There are plenty of young girls in Jakarta craving to meet a foreign man… And there are also mature women hungry for a good fuck.

No need to pay a hooker to have sex, with small talks and some persuasion, you can easily hook up with most girls. Nurses, lawyers, waitresses, students.

If talking to girls face to face makes you nervous, you can meet Indonesian girls on dating sites without any pressure or fear to get rejected.

Jakarta girls on dating sites are there because they want to meet a foreigner, and you want to meet a girl in a Jakarta. It’s a perfect opportunity for both of you.


Where To Find Sex In Jakarta

It’s pretty easy to get laid in Jakarta if you know where to look for girls and sex in Jakarta.

1. Online

Jakarta girl online offering sex

In recent years the raids to the sex venues in Jakarta have intensified. It isn’t worth risking the troubles to get caught by the police while having an erotic massage when you can simply find girls online ready for action.

Badoo and Tinder are apps that you can install on your smartphone to hook up with girls in any city you happen to be in. They are decent options if you are already in Jakarta and in your 20s. Users on those apps are pretty young and modern.

For older men and people not yet in Jakarta, a better option to meet girls is to use Indonesian Cupid. This dating site caterer specifically for Indonesian women and foreign men.

It isn’t all about dating as it might seem, but there are working girls and mature women that need a good fuck. They don’t make it clear in their profile, yet they’ll bring up the money matter in the conversation.

Play along with the game without shame them, offering a “tip” to visit you. It’s pretty easy to set up the whole thing.

Although it’s a pay for play arrangement, the whole thing feels like to deal with a real girlfriend. You’ll chat with her every day prior to your arrival and exchange photos to spice up things.

When you want to dine and wine with a hot girl 20-30 years your juniors and have intelligent conversations, you better to recruit a Jakarta girl on an Asian sugar dating site. Some girls are looking for long term arrangements while others don’t mind to go for a date.

Keep in mind that girls on sugar dating sites knowns their worth, they are in demand and want to get paid for their time. In return, you’ll get a great time with a fine and stylish lady.

If paying for sex isn’t your thing, and you don’t mind having sex with mature women 30+ and couples, join the Asian Match Mate community. People on this platform want to have fun and sex, and occasionally they organize sex parties in Jakarta.

2. Strip Tease Clubs

indonesian striptease club in jakarta

The nude striptease shows were banned all over Jakarta in 2017. However, the girls still dance in sexy lingerie, and you can always ask for a private striptease.

There is a lounge inside the Malio hotel with hot girls wearing miniskirts and high hills. They love to play around with you while you’re having a drink. It feels natural and not forced.

You can choose any girl for 900-1-1.1m.

Another club is Terminal in Classic Hotel. The girls are average and can’t speak much English apart from “Hello”. But you can get laid for half the price of Malio girls. If you are only interested to have sex without communication with the girls, check it out.

The girls on the fifth floor are slightly better than the girls on the second floor, and the price difference isn’t that great. So go straight to the fifth floor.

3. SPAs – Jakarta Sex Massage

girl for sex in Jakarta spa plus

Jakarta is home to countless dirty massage parlors. They are inside large hotels functioning as massive brothels.

The Spas below are the one with the hottest girls and offer happy endings:

  • Malioboro Hotels and Spa – is one of the most luxurious in Jakarta with many local and foreign girls available at your service.
  • Sun City Luxury Spa – They have a friendly mamasan that can speak English and pair you with girls upon your taste.
  • Comfort Spa – fairly pricey but with an excellent selection of masseurs. It’s the most popular nightlife spa in Jakarta thanks to the wide selection of girls after 8 pm.


4. Nightclubs & Pick Up Bars

The best nightclubs and bars where you can pick up girls in Jakarta are located near Senayan metro station.

The bars are best in the early hours and a must on Wednesday night (ladies night). Walk in the nightclub after midnight if you want to get some action.

There are working girls freelancing as well as regular girls. So make sure to recognize who is who.

The best nightclubs and pick up bars in Jakarta are:

Blowfish – This bar attracts a high-class crowd, so dress appropriately. Hot girls in their 20s.

Fable – A nightclub that attracts a young crowd. There are as many freelancers as regular girls.

5. Jakarta Street Hookers

street hookers in jakarta

There are street hookers in different parts of Jakarta, but the most notorious area is Jalan Falatehan I.

In the red light district areas, the street hookers are supervised by a pimp, so usually is only short time deals. Instead, if you want a girl all night, outside famous clubs like Immigrant and X2, you can find freelancers.

The standard price for Jakarta girls walking the streets is 400k Rupiah for a short time. Rates are negotiable, of course.

Stay away from the streets around Marriott Courtyard, the sexy girls in miniskirt and high hills are ladyboys (transgender).


Jakarta Girls Price

• Sex – You can have sex with a girl in Jakarta for as little as 300k for a happy ending massage up to 1.5 million for a top spinner in a KTV.

As a rule of thumb, you are going to spend 600-800k per girl. But money isn’t the only important point. I believe getting value for your money is more important.

Students on dating apps in Indonesia is the best deal out there. With a tip of 300k, you can get a naive girl to your room for some fun.

If you aren’t afraid to pick up girls, the nightclubs are excellent venues to recruit freelancers at 500k for all night. However, add an extra 300k for the entrance fee and drinks.

• Accommodation – In Jakarta, you can find hotels for all pocket starting at $30 up to the moon. If you are looking for paid sex, stay around Cipinang and Bongkaran, the two major red-light districts.

I’ve reviewed the best girl friendly hotels at the bottom of this guide.

• Food – It can be expensive if you prefer International food, the price starts at 100k up to 500k per meal without including beverage.

Instead, local food is readily available in the streets or small restaurants all around Jakarta, starting price at 50k rupiah.

• Transportation – The city center takes 1 hour by the newly Soekarno-Hatta Airport Train, which costs 70.000k.

Within the city, you can move around with buses or motorcycles if you are on a budget, and taxis aren’t so expensive either. But the problem isn’t the transportation prices but the horrible traffic.


How To Get A Holiday Girlfriend In Jakarta

girlfriend in Jakarta for a week

If you are looking for a girlfriend in Jakarta, I’m going to show you how to get one.

Having a temporary Indonesian girlfriend is the best way to enjoy the city and learn about Indonesian culture while having long conversations and even longer nights of intense sex.

While there are plenty of prostitutes in Jakarta, it isn’t the same thing to spend time together with a local girl genuinely interested in you, not only your money.

Imagine chatting with her online, waiting for the moment to meet face to face. She wants you, and you want to feel her so badly. How is it going to be once you meet her in Jakarta? When you can finally be together in privacy.

The best way to get a girlfriend in Jakarta is by using a popular dating site like Indonesian Cupid. Plenty of girls craving to meet a foreign man.

To get started, set a profile with 2-3 photos well-groomed, dress properly, and smiley. Not drunk, stoned or posing in front of a Maserati that isn’t yours 🙂

Write a genuine profile with your interests and what you are looking for in a woman.

Make sure to upgrade the standard membership as it is going to land you more replies and attention from the girls.

There’s no need to be aggressive or direct over text. Just be polite, and girls will invite themselves to your room.


Girl Friendly Hotels In Jakarta

Some hotel is more appropriate than others to bring back unregistered guests.

The best girl friendly hotels in Jakarta are:

  • Marc Hotel Passer Baroe: Located in North Jakarta near a red light district and many “happy” massage parlors. If you are into paid sex, this place is for you.
  • Ritz Carlton Hotel: Located in the city center this luxury is dirt cheap with a rate of only $150. Nearby there are sexual entrainments like spas, karaoke and sex clubs. If you prefer to pick regular girls, many pick up bars and nightclubs in the area.
  • The Falatehan Hotel: Located in South Jakarta, this hotel is super nice and nearby to an area of girlie bars called Block M.


Map of Jakarta Sex Venues

This concludes the Jakarta Sex Guide – Enjoy your stay.