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jakarta sex guide

Jakarta Guide For Single Men

If you would like to know the best places where to find girls in Jakarta and why not, tips on how to get laid, this guide is for you.

Jakarta is a huge city with a massive traffic problem, and if you want to have an excellent sex holiday, you better know where girls hot for action hang out.

The first part of this guide explains how to meet regular girls in Jakarta like the one working in restaurants, hotels, shops, etc. The second part digs into the P4P scene (Pay for Play Scene).

This Jakarta Guide was last updated on 11 November 2019




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What About Sex And Girls In Jakarta
Jakarta sex life and culture

How To Meet Jakarta Girls Interested In Foreign Men
The best way to meet Indonesia girls in Jakarta

How To Get A Holiday Girlfriend in Jakarta
How to meet and date Jakarta women during your vacation

Where To Find Sex in Jakarta
An overview of the best places to get laid

Typical Prices Not Only For Girls
General prices to have sex with Jakarta Girls


What About Sex And Girls In Jakarta

In simple words: they are hot and horny as hell!

In my opinion, Jakarta girls are the most underrated in South East Asia. Most probably because the majority of the population is Muslim, but the truth is they are very horny and have a fetish for foreigners.

When in public, they act conservative and shy, but once behind closed doors, they get incredibly wild.

There are plenty of educated middle-class ladies that are up for some real fun. They speak good English, like to party and love sex…

hot jakarta girl

I still remember my first time in Jakarta. I dated a girl met online.

At first, she was very distant. I couldn’t touch or stay too close to her. A few hours later, we were drinking wine in my place…

jakarta girl for sex

You can expect to meet easy girls hungry for cash when walking around the red-light districts or nightclubs known for prostitution. But there are way more everyday girls in Jakarta craving to meet a foreign man.

Not only single girls, but some married women need also a good fuck…

Jakarta is the best destination in Indonesia for nightlife and sex.

No need to pay a hooker to have sex, with small talks and some persuasion, you can easily hook up with most girls.

If talking to girls in the streets and shops make you nervous, you can instead meet Indonesian singles on dating sites without any pressure or fear to get rejected.

Jakarta girls on dating sites are there because they want to meet a foreigner, and you want to meet a girl in a Jakarta. It’s a perfect opportunity for both of you.


How To Meet Jakarta Girls Interested in Foreign Men

Jakarta is a cosmopolitan city with an open-minded population. Even though the majority of people are Muslim, many ladies are eager to meet foreign men.

Usually, they are part of the middle class and know to speak English and socialize over the net.

Hardly you can meet them in other social places like nightclubs or bars because they don’t like to mix up with the many prostitutes out at night.

If they go out, usually they are with a large group of friends. It is hard to approach them or start a conversation because they don’t want to be seen speaking with a foreigner.

There is a stigma about foreigners and prostitutes. It’s assumed that Indonesian girls with foreigners are prostitutes.

That’s why Jakarta girls interested in foreign men go online. It is private and indiscreet. They can hook up with a foreign man without being seen by her friends and parents.

The best sites and apps at the moment connecting Jakarta women to foreign men are:

  • Indonesian Cupid – The largest dating site in Indonesia with a wast pool of girls from Jakarta.
  • Asian Dating – The best site in Asia with many girls from Jakarta.
  • Asian Match Mate – The naughtiest site in Indonesia very popular in Jakarta for sex group.

Just imagine chatting online with this gorgeous woman, and once in Jakarta spend time together…

sexy jakarta girl

Just go for small talks online, hold your horses for when you and her meet up.


How To Get A Holiday Girlfriend In Jakarta

jakarta girlfriends

Women in Jakarta are classy, gorgeous and know how to please a man.

If you would like to meet quality girls who aren’t prostitutes, Jakarta is paradise on earth for hookups and dates. You can easily meet a girl to spend a few days together, having long conversations and even longer nights of intense sex.

Just imagine spending your holiday with a young and vibrant girl in Jakarta…

girlfriend in Jakarta for a week

No need to worry about where to go or to deal with the locals. She is going to take care of all the travel annoyances.

Experiencing Jakarta with a local girl who is into you, and not your wallet, it’s a truly unforgettable vacation.

With so many girls craving to meet a foreigner, it doesn’t make sense to hire a hooker. It’s easier to meet girls online for an intimate experience like only a girlfriend is capable of offering.

The best way to get a girlfriend in Jakarta is by using a popular dating site like Indonesian Cupid. The reason for a woman to be on a dating site is to meet a foreign man, and you want to meet a Jakarta girl. It’s a match!

Upload 2-3 photos of yourself, well-groomed, dress properly and smiley. Not drunk, stoned or posing in front of a Maserati that isn’t yours 🙂

Write a genuine profile with your interests and what you are looking for in a woman.

Make sure to upgrade the standard membership as it is going to land you more replies and attention from the girls.

There’s no need to be aggressive or direct over text. Just be polite and girls will invite themselves to your room.


Where To Find Sex In Jakarta

It’s pretty easy to get laid in Jakarta if you know the right places, and the best are…

1. Online

meet girls in jakarta

In recent years the internet has become the number one place in Jakarta to meet girls. There are singles and couples interested to have sex with foreign men.

For example, on sites like Asian Match Mate, there is no need to have long conversations to hook up.

2. Nightclubs & Pick Up Bars

jakarta nightlife girls

The best nightclubs and bars where you can pick up girls in Jakarta are located near Senayan metro station.

The bars are best in the early hours and a must on Wednesday night (ladies night). Walk in the nightclub after midnight if you want to get some action.

There are freelancer girls as well as regular girls, so make sure to recognize who is who.

The best nightclubs and pick up bars are:

Blowfish – This bar attracts a high-class crowd, so dress appropriately. Hot girls in their 20s.

Fable – A nightclub that attracts a young crowd. There are as many freelancers as regular girls.

X2 – It’s a massive nightclub with three floors. If you are looking for easy girls, go to the main hall on the second floor.

3. SPAs – Jakarta Sex Massage

girl for sex in Jakarta spa plus

Jakarta is home to countless dirty massage parlors. They are inside large hotels functioning as massive brothels.

The Spas below are the one with the hottest girls and offer happy endings:

  • Malioboro Hotels and Spa – is one of the most luxurious in Jakarta with many local and foreign girls available at your service.
  • Sun City Luxury Spa – is an entertainment hotspot offering not just happy ending massages, but also a KTV, hotel, Chinese restaurant, and a ballroom.
  • Comfort Spa – fairly pricey but with an excellent selection of masseurs.


4. Jakarta Street Hookers

street hookers in jakarta

There are street hookers in different parts of Jakarta, but the most notorious area is Jalan Falatehan I.

In the red light district areas, the street hookers are supervised by a pimp, so usually is only short time deals. Instead, if you want a girl all night, outside famous clubs like Immigrant and X2, you can find freelancers.

The standard price for Jakarta girls walking the streets is 400k Rupiah for a short time. Rates are negotiable, of course.

5. Escorts


Many agencies are offering sexual services at your doorstep. It’s convenient but expensive. Not many independent escorts in Jakarta and the few are unreliable.

I don’t recommend to book a Jakarta escort service because they don’t provide a valuable service.

6. Strip Tease Clubs

indonesian striptease club in jakarta

The nude striptease was banned in 2017 all over Jakarta. However, the girls still dance in sexy lingerie and you can always ask to strip in the private room.

Malio Club is one of the best places to visit. There are up to 10 girls on stage at any time and the girls are just: Hot! Hot! Hot!


Typical Prices Not Only For Girls

• Sex – You can have sex with a girl in Jakarta for as little as 300k for a happy ending massage up to 1.5 million for a top spinner in a KTV.

As a rule of thumb, you are going to spend 600-800k per girl. But money isn’t the only important point. I believe getting value for your money is more important.

Sideliners on dating sites are the best deal out there. With a tip of 150k, you can get a student or a girl with a regular day job to your room for some fun.

If you aren’t afraid to pick up girls, the nightclubs are excellent venues to recruit freelancers at 500k for all night. However, add an extra 300k for the entrance fee and drinks.

• Accommodation – In Jakarta, you can find hotels for all pocket starting at $30 up to the moon. If you are looking for paid sex, stay around Cipinang and Bongkaran, the two major red-light districts.

The best girl friendly hotels are:

  • Marc Hotel Passer Baroe: Located in North Jakarta near a red light district and many “happy” massage parlors. If you are into paid sex, this place is for you.
  • Ritz Carlton Hotel: Located in the city center this luxury is dirt cheap with a rate of only $150. Nearby there are sexual entrainments like spas, karaoke and sex clubs. If you prefer to pick regular girls, many pick up bars and nightclubs in the area.
  • The Falatehan Hotel: Located in South Jakarta, this hotel is super nice and nearby to an area of girlie bars called Block M.

• Food – It can be expensive if you prefer foreign food, the price starts at 100k up to 500k per meal without including beverage.

Instead, local food is readily available in the streets or small restaurants all around Jakarta, starting price at 50k rupiah.

• Transportation – The city center takes 1 hour by the newly Soekarno-Hatta Airport Train which costs 70.000k.

Within the city, you can move around with buses or motorcycles if you are on a budget and taxis aren’t so expensive either. But the problem isn’t the transportation prices but the horrible traffic.


Map of Jakarta Sex Venues

This conclude the Jakarta Sex Guide – Enjoy your stay.


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