tokyo sex guide

Tokyo Sex Guide For Single Men

If you would like to have sex in Tokyo and know the best places where to find sexy girls hot for action, this sex guide has all the info you need.

Tokyo is well known for its many red light districts and exciting nightlife, but also for the many Gaijin (foreigner) unfriendly places.

It isn’t uncommon to be turned away from doormen just because you are a foreigner. That isn’t fun but embarrassing and demotivating. That’s the reason why you should know where to go.

I’m going to open up all the good things this city has to offer because you should enjoy the place and the beautiful women instead of worrying about where to go, what to do and most importantly how to do it.

This Tokyo Sex Guide was last updated on 01 September 2022




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Intro to Sex Tourism in Tokyo
General information about Tokyo sex culture

Where to Find Sex in Tokyo
An overview of the best places to get laid

Typical Prices For Sex
General prices for girls in Tokyo to help you budget your adventure

How To Get A Girlfriend In Tokio
How to meet and date women in Tokyo

Must to Do During a Tokyo Sex Tour
Mongering activities in Tokyo


Intro To Sex Tourism In Tokyo

If the reason you are visiting Tokyo is to have sex with local Japanese girls, you’ll not get disappointed. Tokyo prostitution scene is well-established all across the city having a wide range of sex venues.

Whether you are solo and up for some adult fun, or in a loving relationship looking to spice up your sex life, Tokyo is the place to be in order to find all sort of crazy experiences.

From sex toys, through parlours, to innocent maids in cafes…

sexy Tokyo girl dress in air staward uniform

That is what makes Tokyo a unique place for travelers who want to experience a sex holiday in Asia.

However, I wouldn’t recommend it to first-time travelers because there are limited places where foreigners are allowed. Yes, you can’t walk in any sex venues but only the one that accepts Gaijin (foreigner).

Tokyo has several red light districts that cater to a variety of crowds:

  • For the younger: Shibuya, Harajuku and Kichijoji.
  • For the more exclusive and fashionable: Daikanyama, Toyama, Omotesando, Ebisu and Nakameguro.
  • For the more mature or professional: Omotesando, Toyama, Roppongi and Ginza.

A word of caution when looking for women in the red light areas, these places are run by the mafia and are known to be manipulative.

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One search and you will come across crazy stories on how tourists were drugged, had their credit cards maxed out, and worse.

Fortunately, you don’t necessarily need to pay for sex. There are other ways to get laid in Tokyo with civilian girls and couples.

This Tokyo sex travel guide will tell you how much things cost, how to stay safe, the best places to find girls and everything in between!


What About Girls & Sex In Tokyo?

Most women in this country have no interest in talking to foreigners (gaijin). On the other hand, there are a lot of aggressive gaijin hunters in Tokyo that want to get laid with you.

So, you should aim only for girls with a fetish for foreign men if you are after an easy fuck.

What about Tokyo girls and sex?

The nature of girls in Tokyo is to be passive forward sex. This means they can be flaky most of the time and need some convincing to go for the action.

Don’t think is too hard although, Tokyo girls feel lonely in this big city and crave to have a good time with a guy just met. That’s why there are so many love hotels scattered around Tokyo.

Girls in Tokyo are promiscuous and open-minded about sex. You have girls in their early 20s having slept with a few guys, but there are girls that regularly have sex with different men.

And also you have a good amount of Japanese sugar babies looking for intimacy with a mature man.

The thing is, you never know who you are going to hook up with when out hunting for girls. You might meet an easy girl hot for action or the virgin type that never thought about sex.

So, you need to screen the girls as fast as possible avoiding wasting time with women who aren’t interested in sex.

Don’t fall for their innocent looks. They may look shy, but that’s only until you two end up alone at some private place. Meaning, don’t be afraid to show her that you want to fuck her, she knows why you are talking to her.


Where to Find Sex in Tokyo

You are visiting Tokyo because you want to get laid with beautiful local girls but you don’t know where to get started.

Here my review of the best places to hook up with girls in Tokyo, starting with…

1. Online

Never is been a better time to hunt for girls simply by using the internet.

Tokyo has a lot of slutty single girls who are interested in dating or having sex with foreign men, and there are many couples who are happy to have a threesome.

On open-minded dating sites like Asian Match Mate, you can find single girls and couples eager to explore new sexual fantasies.

No need to go for long and boring conversations but straight to the point of the encounter: sex.

2. Nightclubs & Pick Up Bars

If you want to pick up Tokyo girls who are into foreign men, Roppongi is the area where you should go.

This area has by far the highest concentration of bars/clubs frequented by English-speaking Japanese women who are into gaijin (foreigners).

Roppongi is one of the most famous neighborhoods in Tokyo and it’s been known as a foreign area for a very long time.

The best part is that many girls in Tokyo have the guts to start a conversation with you. If a girl wants to talk to you, that means she wants to have sex with you.

Just talk to her for a few minutes, then suggest a move to somewhere quieter and less crowded. If she agrees, then you’re all set because there is only about one place in Tokyo that is quiet and less crowded, and that is a love hotel.

The best nightclubs and pick up bars in Roppongi are:

  • GasPanic is a bar in Roppongi. It is the most popular bar among Japanese girls who want to meet foreign guys, a fact of which you should take advantage.
  • Muse is a well-known place where professional women usually in their mid to late 20s, go to get down with foreign guys.
  • Rigoletto has a rectangular bar near the entrance-way of the restaurant and a great view overlooking the city and Tokyo tower.
  • Hub bar is a great place to pick up drunk Japanese girls. Yeah, it’s easy to get laid there.

It’s also worth a visit to Kabukicho in Shinjuku and Dogenzaka in Shibuya after dark. There are several hostess bars.

3. Escorts – Deriheru

It’s very easy to find call girls in Tokyo thanks to the advertising handouts usually placed in the home and apartment mailboxes, telephone booths, and restrooms.

If you aren’t in Tokyo yet, you can book in advance an escort online on sites like Hentai Tokyo.

tokyo escort girl

The girls go directly to your hotel room or you can meet in a love hotel. The prices start at 20.000 yen up to the moon for 60 minutes of pleasure.

4. Pink Salons In Tokyo – Blow Job Bars

Pink Salons are dimly light bars with sofas where the girls service you. They cost between 3.000 yen to 9.000 yen for 30 minutes.

tokyo pink salon

I’ve already reviewed the top pink salons in Tokyo and explained a better way to get sexual satisfaction regularly.

Yet, I can say that they are one of the least foreigner friendly sex services available in Tokyo.

In fact, I only discovered 6 pink salons in Tokyo that accept non-Japanese nationals, and the bests are:

  • Hinomaru – The girl really lets you pretty much do what you want while being serviced.
  • Jan Jan – it’s the cheapest blow job bar, however, it’s no less fun.
  • Emotion/Dio – Girls here are younger then Hinomaru and Jan Jan, but it’s costly. They have a special service with 2 girls rotation sucking you off.

The working girls at pink salons suck hundreds of cocksper month with only a small wet hand towel used to “disinfect” each clients penis before service. Meaning the chances of catching a “Sexually Transmitted Infection” are extremely high.

5. Soaplands In Tokyo

In a soapland shop the girl’s bath, you then provide blow jobs, hand jobs, body slides and full sex…

Soaplands In Tokyo

The highest concentration of soaplands in all of Tokyo is Yoshiwara, with about 60 soaplands.

Many of these have doormen out the front who will greet you if they are Gaijin (foreigner) friendly and take you in to show you photos of the girls available.

The most known soapland for foreigners in Tokyo are:

  • Paradise – Great place with a good selection of girls that speak English.
  • Ousama To Watashi – Top-notch soapland with model girls. The price reflects the quality: 62,000 yen / 90 min.
  • Chateau Petrus – The majority of the Japanese hotties here are above 25, it’s probably the skills that make the place flock to with sex tourist.


6. Strip Clubs

Strip clubs in Tokyo come in many forms, some are famous for their shows others have topless dancers who provide companionship.

You pay for the dancer’s time as well as the drink itself which is very expensive. In other words, it’s an expensive way to meet Japanese girls.

Most strip clubs are located in the Roppongi entertainment district and in Kabukicho. The best are:

  • Black Rose Bar – An expensive strip club that provides amazing ambiance and shows.
  • New Hot Point in Kabukicho – It’s a peep show with service. Basically, you pick your girl, have a quick striptease, then she services you with an HJ or CBJ in a private booth.


7. Tokyo Sex Clubs

sex club in tokyo

There are several clubs for swingers. Bliss Out is probably the most foreign-friendly if you don’t speak Japanese. There is also a place in Shinjuku called Ubu that’s pretty neat.

However, those places have a Japanese base clientele that prefers to get involved only with people that can speak Japanese.

If you want a swinger experience in Tokyo, the best way is to hook up with singles and couples on Asian Match Mate. Local people speak fluent English and feel comfortable hooking up with foreigners who don’t speak Japanese.


Typical Prices For Sex In Tokyo

There are several businesses that sell sex in Tokyo, and you can choose the service from their menu. Also, you can contact independent escorts that clearly state their prices online and they are fixed.

To give you a better idea, here a list of prices for sex in Tokyo:

  • Pink Salon: Standard blow job 3.000-4.000 yen, rotation blow jobs starting at 7.000 yen for 20 minutes.
  • Soapland Massage: The average price is 25.000 yen, but you can spend up to 75.000 yen for young and cute girls.
  • Strip Clubs: 3.000 yen for a hand job in a private booth, plus the entrance fee of 2.000-3.000 yen.
  • Escorts: starting at 15.000 yen per hour for foreigner Asian girls. Japanese girls start at 25.000 yen.

If you don’t want to pay for sex maybe because you value genuine intimate moments, you can get a temporary girlfriend in Tokyo. There are many Japanese girls in Tokyo with a fetish for foreign men.


How To Get a Girlfriend in Tokyo


Do you want to get a girlfriend in Tokyo? Maybe someone who would show you around the city, have intimate moments together and enjoy each other’s company.

A temporary girlfriend helps to plan all sorts of nice things during your visit and be your best friend in Japan. Even if sex isn’t in your mind, there is no better way to learn about Japanese culture and enjoy Tokyo.

However, it isn’t easy to find a Japanese girl who speaks English. Most girls in Tokyo don’t understand English, and maybe you don’t have time to learn the language.

In that case, the best way to meet Japanese women that can interact in English and have a fetish for foreign men is to use the online game. Use dating apps and sites that Japanese women use to meet foreign men.

Going to Tokyo without knowing the Japanese language and not using dating sites and apps is just crazy because it helps you to meet locals before you arrive.

That way you can know each other’s desires beforehand so that when you meet you can start having some real fun. Why try to pick up girls in random places when you can simply meet girls with a fetish for foreign men conveniently on a dating site?

Japanese girls use a dating sites in English language because they want to meet a foreign man… And you want to meet a Japanese girl. It’s a Win-Win.

Just create a profile, introduce yourself, message a few girls and meet up once you are in Tokyo. That is how easy it is to meet up with Tokyo girls online.


Must To Do During a Tokyo Sex Tour

If you are visiting Tokyo for sex, you want to visit places and do things to make your adult holiday memorable.

Here is a list of things to do during your sex tour in Tokyo:


• Get A Blow Job In A Pink Salon

It’s an exciting experience to sit on a sofa having a drink while a girl blows you off…

pink salon in tokyo blow job girls

Also, you can do erotic activities such as kiss, body touch, finger fuck, eat pussy, etc. except for sex.


• Go For A Soapy Massage

When in Tokyo, you can’t miss out on visiting a soapland for a happy ending massage. It is a recommended sexual service when you want to enjoy slowly while relaxing…

Girls wash you and body to body massage on an air mattress before sex. It’s a pleasant feeling.


• Get Laid With An Everyday Girl In Tokyo

What is better than getting laid with a genuine girl that is into you, not your money. Hookers are an easy option for sex, but they are robotic, dirty and banging a dry p…y isn’t inviting.

Imagine visiting the country with a sweet and loving caring woman next to you… And at night making love to her…

Instead, spending a day or even the whole vacation with an everyday Japanese girl is going to make your holiday – unforgettable!

This concludes this sex guide to Tokyo, I wish you a happy journey.