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sex guide in kuala lumpur

Kuala Lumpur Guide For Single Men

If you are planning to visit Kuala Lumpur and wish to meet girls hot for action, this guide explains where to go, what do and how to do it.

Kuala Lumpur is the capital of Muslim Malaysia. It might suggest a conservative relationship forward sex and prostitution, but the reality is this city is the hottest destination in Asia for cheap sex.

The best part is you don’t necessarily need to pay for having sex. There is an abundance of horny Malaysian girls eager to hook up with foreign men on dating sites.

Meaning you can pay for sex or find girls genuinely interested in getting laid with you. So, the first section of this guide is going to focus on P4P scene (Pay for Play/Sex), while the second part focuses on how to find Malaysian girls for a relationship or hookup.

This Kuala Lumpur Sex Guide was last updated on 22 January 2020



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Intro to Kuala Lumpur Prostitution
General information about prostitution in Kuala Lumpur

Where to Find Sex in Kuala Lumpur
An overview of the best places where to have sex in Kuala Lumpur

Typical Prices For Sex
Kuala Lumpur girl prices for short and long term rental

What About Girls And Sex In KL?
Kuala Lumpur sex life: how to get laid in Kuala Lumpur

Where To Find Kuala Lumpur Girls
Best sites and apps to meet girls in KL

How To Get A Holiday Girlfriend In Kuala Lumpur
How to meet and date Kuala Lumpur women during your vacation


Intro To Prostitution In Kuala Lumpur

When we think about prostitution in Asia, Thailand and the Philippines pop in the mind. But Kuala Lumpur is rising to be the start for sex tourism in Asia.

There are girls from all over Asia coming here to sell sex. Kuala Lumpur is the hottest destination for cheap escorts and call girls.

kuala lumpur prostitute

For example, you can get a Thai girl about 30% cheaper than in Bangkok. That is crazy and doesn’t make any sense, but the reality speaks for itself. Just have a look at any popular escort booking service like Smooci to get a better idea.

For a better idea about the nationalities operating in the KL sex industry, in 2012, the police arrested 12,234 prostitutes throughout the country, of which 9,830 were foreign nationals: 5,165 Chinese, 2,009 Thais, and 1,418 Indonesians.

Kuala Lumpur sex schene was once the domain of local prostitutes, but now foreign prostitutes have swamped the locals.

Top escorts in Kuala Lumpur offers outcall service as well as incall service in their hotel room. Meaning they offer sex as well as premises. That isn’t always the case in other Asian cities where escorts provide only outcall services.

And as prostitution grows in Kuala Lumpur, it seems police don’t bother to take any action. The streets in the center of Kuala Lumpur after midnight, get busy with streetwalkers…

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There are a few established red-light districts where you can find massage parlors, brothels as well as street hookers. The most popular are:

  • Bukit Bintang – Upmarket red light area in the center of KL popular among tourists. The main street is Jalan Bukit Bintang.
  • Lorong Haji Taib – A place where to get cheap sex in Kuala Lumpur. Indian, Chinese, and local prostitutes operate in underground brothels.
  • Chow Kit – This area gets busy after midnight with transgenders and ladyboys.

The safest red light district is Bukit Bintang, not only in terms of security but also STD (sexually transmitted diseases).

Girls and transgenders operating in Lorong Haji Taib and Chow Kit work in deplorable hygienic conditions… And many girls are trafficked and underage. So avoid those areas.

However, you don’t need to pay for sex to get laid in Kuala Lumpur. There are other ways to meet Malaysian girls and have sex for free… From the student who wants to improve her English to the housewife bored with her sex life.

I’m going to reveal later on this guide how to hook up in KL with ladies interested in foreign men.


Where To Find Sex In Kuala Lumpur

Best places to find girls and have safe sex in Kuala Lumpur are:

1. Online

kuala lumpur prostitute onlineThe sexual activities in Kuala Lumpur are moving forward along technology.

For example, the volume of Malaysian swinging listings on websites like AsianMatchMate make Malaysia has one of the largest swinging populations of the region.

There are also many KL girls straight to the point that offer a girlfriend experience without stress and drama on Seeking Arrangement.

2. Nightclubs & Pick Up Bars

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Kuala Lumpur nightlife is exciting, and there are different opportunities to meet girls and get laid even though you have to pay. Yes, the majority of single girls out at night are prostitutes.

The best pick up places in Kuala Lumpur are:

  • Beach Club Cafe is the most popular pick up open bar in KL. There are prostitutes from Vietnam, Lao, Thailand, Philippines, and Africa.
  • Zeta Bar in Hilton is the place to pick up milf type women. The best time to visit is when they have Noche Latina night.
  • Wicked is a nightclub for the rich. If you want top-class ladies, this is your playground.
  • Zouk Club has a young crowd, multiples nightclubs and many hot chicks. Girls are hard to pick up, go on the weekend and get bottle service to get attention.


3. Escorts – Call Girls in Kuala Lumpur

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If you don’t have the time to pick up girls around Kuala Lumpur, book an escort. There are several agencies with all types of nationalities, but most are disorganized and don’t regularly update the girl’s photos.

There is a site called that has streamlined the escort industry in KL. If you would like to more about it, check out my Smooci review.

4. Spas

Getting an erotic massage in Kuala Lumpur is pretty easy. Walk down Changkat Bukit Bintang near the intersection with Jalan Bukit Bintang to get offered massage with extras.

There are so many erotic massage parlors that it can actually be annoying. Expect to pay 60 Ringgit for the massage and 60 Ringgit extras for a handjob.

If you want to get a full service, consider visiting a sauna with hookers. Try Saboon Spa and E2 Spa, which have a wide selection of girls and for about 300 Ringgit are going to make you happy.

5. Red Light District – Brothels

kuala lumpur red light district

Several brothels are operating in the red light districts of KL. If you visit Lorong Haji Taib, you can find girls from other Asian countries but no Malaysian.

In Chow Kit, there are ladyboys and transgenders in the streets at night.

6. Kuala Lumpur Hookers in The Streets

hooker in kuala Lumpur

Streetwalkers operate around Brickfields and Jalan Petaling at night. They take you nearby short time rooms for a quick fuck.

You can find a bit of everything, from the Indonesian girls to the Thai, but most are Chinese.

The standard rate is 40 Ringgit for old lady up to 70 Ringgit for the youngest.

If you prefer black ladies, walk outside the Beach Club or around Bukit Bintang.

7. Strip Clubs

kuala lumpur strip club

If you would like to see a show with girls stripping, there isn’t such thing in KL. The closer entrainment places would be East Club.

There is a gentleman club on the second floor with Thai girls ready to do most things after a few drinks.

Alternatively, book a girl online and ask her for a private show in your room.

8. Sex Hotels

There are a few hotels with girls and pimps hanging around in the lobby.

A popular one is the Hotel Soleil at Bukit Bintang. Take any elevator and press the 5th floor… Girls from China, Vietnam, and Thailand will welcome you for 170+rm.


Typical Price For Sex

The average street price for girls is between 40 to 70 Ringgit with escorts charge 250+ Ringgit per hour.

The cheapest way to have sex and most rewarding is to get a temporary girlfriend in Kuala Lumpur. There are so many Malaysian girls craving to meet a foreign man that is a shame to pay for a prostitute.

But if you prefer to pay for having sex with hookers, the ongoing rates for working girls in KL are:

  • Illegal brothels: 50-80 Ringgit for a shot.
  • Erotic sauna: basic service like handjob is 90 Ringgit, for a blowjob is 150 Ringgit and full service 200-300 Ringgit. Add an extra 60 Ringgit for the massage.
  • Freelancers in clubs and pick up bars: above 300 Ringgit for all night.


What About Girls And Sex In Kuala Lumpur?

The thing is Kuala Lumpur is cosmopolitan. You can find girls from most Asian countries, Africa, even Russia, and of course Malaysian girls.

Malaysians women come in different flavors: Malays, Indians, and Chinese. It’s a huge girl’s feast.

The Malays are Muslim, traditional and reserved. Indian girls are incredibly horny, but not many around to approach. Chinese girls are the most outgoing, and they love to party in clubs and bars.

The majority of foreign men hook up with Malaysian Chinese girls. The reason is they know how to dress to impress, super sexy, and they are easy to fuck…

chinese malaysian girls in Kuala Lumpur

Another issue is that by Sharia law, Malay girls should not be in a room alone with a man who isn’t a family member. That keep foreigners away from trying to approach Muslim girls in KL.

You don’t see many Malaysian Indians girls with foreigners simply because they are a minority ethnic group.

In general, all Malaysian girls in KL are sweet, friendly and know how to please a man. It is all about you, not her, and that is especially true when having sex.

If you want her to do something for you, hardly she is going to say no. They want to make you happy at all costs.

And if the sex is excellent in this city, probably the best thing is the easiness of hookups in Kuala Lumpur.

Talking of that, if you want to meet girls in Kuala Lumpur, load up Malaysian Cupid and text a few ladies. Invite them to a rooftop bar like Luna on the Pacific Regency Hotel or Sky Bar on the roof of the Trader’s Hotel.

The girls enjoy it because it is romantic and you enjoy it because it is your ticket to get laid…

sexy kuala lumpur girl


Where To Find Kuala Lumpur Girls

Kuala Lumpur isn’t the right city to meet girls at clubs. Most nightclubs are full of tourist and hookers that ask for stupid amounts of money.

If you want to meet proper Malaysian girls that are horny for you, not your wallet, day game in malls or game online.

Meet girls online is much easier than picking up girls in the malls. The reason is single girls in Kuala Lumpur use dating sites to meet foreign men. So they are eager to talk with you and to hook up.

In shopping malls, you never really know if she is single or if she likes foreign men. It’s a hit or miss. You need to be able to accept rejection over and over again.

So, if you want to hook up in KL with girls interested in foreign men, you have two options.

The first option is to use a traditional dating site like Malaysian Cupid. Plenty of Malaysian women looking for a relationship.

If the dating courtship isn’t for you, and you want to avoid the games and false pretenses prevalent on dating sites, sites like Seeking Arrangement might be a better option. Girls here are straight to the point, letting you know what they want and what they offer in return.

Can you imagine talking with her online waiting for the moment to meet in Kuala Lumpur?

girls in kuala lumpurTo make things easier for you, below my personal online strategy that I use whenever I’m going to visit Kuala Lumpur…


How To Get A Holiday Girlfriend In Kuala Lumpur

kuala lumpur girlfriend

If you are searching for a Kuala Lumpur girlfriend to have exciting moments together, I’m going to show the easiest and fastest way to get one.

To be honest, It isn’t that hard to meet girls in Kuala Lumpur. They are strongly attracted to foreign men, and they can speak English very well, so communication isn’t a problem.

Getting a KL girlfriend is awesome because she can help you plan things, let you discover places only locals know and offer nights of intense sex.

Can you imagine to have a beautiful, young and horny girlfriend in Kuala Lumpur?

malaysian girlfriend in Kuala lumpur

Have romantic dinners, visit the city and when nightfall, get intimate. You will not feel lonely, lost in a foreign city wondering around to find companionship. She is going to make you feel at home.

In other words, a Kuala Lumpur girlfriend is your ticket to experience the city safely and with the eyes of a local. Don’t fall victim to the usual tourist traps.

Those are the main reasons when I travel, I give priority to find a local girlfriend first, and then book the hotel and flight.

Instead, most travelers go the opposite way. First, they book the flight and hotel, and at last search for local girls usually by visiting pick up bars and nightclubs. The result is they end up with hookers or gold diggers.

No wonder when they go back home, they feel cheated and disappointed with their trip. It isn’t because of Kuala Lumpur but because their plan was weak.

So, what to do about it?

Instead of leaving the girl’s search for the last minute, make it a priority.

You don’t have to pay an expensive escort or pick up a freelancer in a nightclub if you want to get laid with girls in Kuala Lumpur. There are so many local girls online craving to meet a foreign man.

The fastest way to get a girlfriend in Kuala Lumpur is to use a popular site like Seeking Arrangement. Girls on this site are foreign obsessed, and ready to do anything for you.

To begin, write a profile about yourself and what type of arrangement you are looking for. Upload a few photos looking at your best. No need to wear a suit, an iron shirt will do.

Search for girls in Kuala Lumpur, start a few conversations and meet up once you have found the right match for you.

I hope this Kuala Lumpur sex guide has given you useful tips. Have fun in Kuala Lumpur. 


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