sex guide in kuala lumpur

Kuala Lumpur Guide For Single Men


If you are planning to visit Kuala Lumpur and wish to meet girls hot for action, this guide explains where to go, what to do and how to do it.

Kuala Lumpur is the capital of Muslim Malaysia. It might suggest a conservative relationship forward sex, but the reality it’s different. KL is the most underrated destination in Asia for cheap sex.

This Kuala Lumpur Sex Guide was last updated on 23 May 2023



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Intro to Sex Tourism In Kuala Lumpur
General information about Kuala Lumpur sex culture

Where to Find Girls For Sex in Kuala Lumpur
An overview of the best places to get laid in Kuala Lumpur

Typical Costs + Tips
General prices in Kuala Lumpur to help you budget your adventure

How To Meet Sexy Girls Online
Best sites and apps to meet girls in Kuala Lumpur

How To Get a Girlfriend in Kuala Lumpur
Find and date girls in KL

Nightlife And Girls In Kuala Lumpur
Sex and prices at night


Intro To Sex Tourism In Kuala Lumpur

Kuala Lumpur is a rising star in Asia for sex tourism. There are girls from all over Asia coming here to sell cheap sex.

For example, you can get a Thai girl about 30% cheaper than in Bangkok. That is crazy and doesn’t make any economic sense, but the reality speaks for itself.

Kuala Lumpur sex schene was once the domain of local prostitutes, but now foreign prostitutes have swamped the locals.

Top escorts in Kuala Lumpur offer outcall service as well as incall service in their hotel room. Meaning they offer sex as well as premises. That isn’t always the case in other Asian cities where escorts provide only outcall services.

And as prostitution grows in Kuala Lumpur, it seems police don’t bother to take any action. The streets in the center of Kuala Lumpur after midnight, get busy with streetwalkers…

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There are a few established red-light districts where you can find massage parlors, brothels as well as street hookers.

The most popular are:

  • Bukit Bintang – Upmarket red light area in the center of KL popular among tourists. The main street is Jalan Bukit Bintang.
  • Lorong Haji Taib – A place where to get cheap sex in Kuala Lumpur. Indian, Chinese, and local prostitutes operate in underground brothels.
  • Chow Kit – This area gets busy after midnight with transgenders and ladyboys.

The safest red light district is Bukit Bintang, not only in terms of security but also STD (sexually transmitted diseases).

Girls and transgenders operating in Lorong Haji Taib and Chow Kit work in deplorable hygienic conditions… And many girls are trafficked and underage. So avoid those areas.


What About Girls And Sex In Kuala Lumpur?

The thing is Kuala Lumpur is cosmopolitan. You can find girls from most Asian countries, Africa, even Russia, and of course Malaysian girls.

Malaysian women come in different flavors: Malays, Indians, and Chinese. It’s a huge girl’s feast.

The Malays are Muslim, traditional and reserved while Indian girls are incredibly horny. But Chinese girls are the most outgoing, and they love to party in clubs and bars…

The majority of foreign men hook up with Malaysian Chinese girls. The reasons are they know how to dress to impress, super sexy, and they are easy to fuck.

Another issue is that by Sharia law, Malay girls should not be in a room alone with a man who isn’t a family member. That keep foreigners away from trying to approach Muslim girls in KL.

In general, all Malaysian girls in KL are sweet, friendly and know how to please a man. It is all about you, not her, and that is especially true when having sex.

If you want her to do something for you, hardly she is going to say no. They want to make you happy at all costs.


Where To Find Girls For Sex In Kuala Lumpur

The best places to find girls and have safe sex in Kuala Lumpur are:

1. Hook Up Sites

Sexual activities in Kuala Lumpur are moving forward along with technology. The volume of Malaysian swinging listings on sites like Asian Match Mate makes Malaysia one of the largest swinging populations in the region.

There are several couples looking for some excitement outside the marriage. They usually seek for a man to please their wife.

You can also find plenty of horny mature women in Kuala Lumpur that need a good fuck. Some are married, but most are singles in their 30s-40s.

2. Nightclubs & Pick Up Bars

Kuala Lumpur’s nightlife is exciting, and there are different opportunities to meet girls and get laid. Someplace have only working girls while others are part venues where you can pick up party girls.

So, here is a list of the happening nightlife spots in Kuala Lumpur to pick up pro and non-pro girls:

  • Thai Club – Pick up bar in the center of Kuala Lumpur is busy only on weekends.
  • Zeta Bar – Located in Hilton, it’s the place to hook up with milfs and cougars. The best time to visit is when they have “Noche Latina night”.
  • Wicked – If you want to meet top-class ladies, this is your playground. Do you have the money?
  • Zouk Club – Young crowd and many hot girls. No pros.

Working girls in clubs and bars ask for 500 ringgit for a short time. But the real price is 350 ringgit.

3. Spas

Getting an erotic massage in Kuala Lumpur is pretty easy. Walk down Changkat Bukit Bintang near the intersection with Jalan Bukit Bintang to get offered massage with extras.

There are so many erotic massage parlors that it can actually be annoying. Expect to pay 60 Ringgit for the massage and 60 Ringgit extras for a handjob.

If you want to get a full service, consider visiting a sauna with hookers. Try the Federal Hotel spa and E2 Spa, which have a wide selection of girls and for about 300 Ringgit are going to make you happy.

4. Escorts – Call Girls in Kuala Lumpur

Expect call girls sites to have old photos and receive escorts who have no resemblance to the photos. But there are some gems in the dust.

Behind the profiles, there are escort agencies that send girls randomly. So, when the girl arrives at your place, accept or reject her. The pimp will send a new girl to you.

5. Sex Hotels In KL

There are a few hotels with whores and pimps hanging around in the lobby.

A popular one isthe infamous Richmond Hotel in the Ace building, a seedy place with many whores as you can see in this video…

Another one is the Hotel Soleil at Bukit Bintang. Take any elevator and press the 5th floor… Girls from China, Vietnam, and Thailand will welcome you for 170+rm.


6. Street Hookers

Streetwalkers operate around Brickfields and Jalan Petaling at night. They take you nearby short time rooms for a quick fuck.

You can find a bit of everything, from Indonesian to Thai girls, but most are Chinese.

The standard rate is 40 Ringgit for an old lady up to 70 Ringgit for the youngest.

If you prefer black ladies, walk outside the Beach Club or around Bukit Bintang.


7. Brothels

There are many brothels located in the Bukit Bintang area. Most seem legit massage centers, but they offer happy endings.


Typical Costs

• Accommodation: You can get quality hotel rooms in the center of Kuala Lumpur for about 150-400 ringgit. All the hotels are girl-friendly so you should not worry to get charged a guest fee.

If you want to avoid the walk of shame (enter the lobby with a prostitute), book either the Westin or The Federal Hotel. Both have a back entrance where you can sneak in the girls.

• Food: The price for the local food is fairly cheap, expect to pay around 20-50 ringgit. International dishes have similar prices to your home country.

What’s expensive is the booze. A beer is around 15 ringgit at the bar and a bottle of wine about 120 ringgit at the restaurant.

• Transportation: The MRT line takes you across the city with fares from 1 ringgit to 6 ringgit. For short distances, use Grab or Uber. The taxis are a bunch of pirates.



Tips & Tricks

• Contact girls online – If you don’t plan to have sex only with prostitutes, there are plenty of civilians eager to meet a foreign man online.

• Be direct – Go straight to the point of the conversation: “Hey, my name is… Are you free to meet up this evening (or the date of your arrival?)”

• The legal age of consent – Doesn’t matter with she is a working girl or a civilian, she must be over  18.

• Condoms – Civilian girls in Kuala Lumpur love to fuck without condoms. Be safe!

• Bargain hard – When dealing with working girls in pick up bars, discount 30% from their asking price.

• Use the safe – Freelancer girls are notorious for stealing valuable once in your room.


How To Meet Sexy Girls Online

In Kuala Lumpur, there are many girls genuinely interested to meet a foreign man. And the best thing is they can speak proper English.

You can meet up with a beautiful local girl who can show you around the city and make your stay more fun…

kuala lumpur girl online dating

The thing is most of the girls in Kuala Lumpur are shy to speak with strangers in public places. In fact, they prefer to meet up online.

This is the reason is best to use those apps and sites where the local girls hang out to meet foreign men.

At the moment, the most popular site is Asian Match Mate. Not only you’ll find Malaysian girls but also foreign ones. And most are university students.

To get started, you can sign up for free. Create a profile writing about yourself and what you’re looking for in a girl, and you’re ready to go.

Talk with several girls, and meet up once you feel ready.


How To Get A Girlfriend In Kuala Lumpur

If you are searching for a Kuala Lumpur girlfriend to have exciting moments together, I’m going to show you the easiest and fastest way to get one.

Getting a KL girlfriend is awesome because she can help you plan things, let you discover places only locals know, and offer nights of intense sex.

Can you imagine having a beautiful, young and horny girlfriend in Kuala Lumpur?

girls in kuala lumpur

She’ll look after your needs and do things that please you.

And because you support her financially, she won’t cause problems or be jealous like a regular girlfriend usually does.

Meaning that renting a girlfriend is the best way to enjoy companionship, friendship and intimacy but without nagging and drama.

You don’t have to pay an expensive escort if you want to have a good time with a beautiful girl while in Kuala Lumpur.

There are plenty of girls online offering companionship while others look for a long-term sugar daddy.

To begin, write a profile about yourself and what you are looking for. No need to upload a profile photo, but if you do make it private.

Search for girls in Kuala Lumpur, start a few conversations and meet up once you have found the right match for you.


Nightlife And Girls In Kuala Lumpur

Kuala Lumpur nightlife offers a good opportunity to hook up with sexy girls. On weekends you can meet everyday girls while during the week there are plenty of working girls for sex.

Visit a popular pickup bar like Beach Club to find girls for sex for rates between 300-500 ringgit for hours. Enjoy their company while negotiating down the price.

Walk down to Brickfields and Jalan Petaling at night to find several street hookers offering sex for under 100 ringgit. There are short-time hotels in the area for a quicky.

There are more budget nightlife areas in Jalan Alor and Jalan Hicks. Plenty of erotic massage parlors offering happy endings for 120 ringgit.

If you have the money and wish to buy the hottest girls in Kuala Lumpur, you should look around Japanese bars and karaoke in Klang Valley.

But you need to spend time and money on drinks before the girls agree to negotiate a price for the night.

In conclusion, the nightlife in Kuala Lumpur has girls for any price. You can get laid on the budget for less than 300 ringgits or spend 1.000s ringgits for a top spinner.

I hope this Kuala Lumpur sex guide has given you useful tips. Have fun in Kuala Lumpur.