seoul sex guide

Seoul Sex Guide For Single Men And Couples

If you would like to experience a sex holiday in Seoul, this adult guide has all the info you need.

Not only it’ll help you to get in contact with hot girls, but also couples and bulls eager to please a hot wife.

Seoul is well known for having the finest Korean women in the country. The city also has several red light districts and private sex parties take place in hotels.

Most of this guide focuses on the play for pay scene. If you want to date or hook up with horny singles and couples, check out these popular sites and apps.

This Seoul Sex Guide was last updated on December 2023


Intro To Sex Tourism In Seoul

If you are visiting Seoul to have sex with the beautiful Korean women, it’s possible but not easy.

Anything that offers full service with Koreans is notoriously hard to get into for foreigners. Put simply, Korean men do not want to see foreign guys with their women.

But there is a red light area only for foreigners to have fun. On top of that, you have a lively nightlife and dating scene where you can meet hot Korean girls.

In case you aren’t much into Korean women, you can find other nationalities. There are Russian escorts as well as Filipina and Chinese ladies working in “juicy bars”.

This is a good thing because Korea’s prostitutes are not always willing to service foreigners (waygookin). Especially if you walk down on the red light area Korean eccentric. Instead, focus on foreign-friendly districts like Itaewon.

Here you can meet girls in clubs and bars interested in foreign men… Or you can engage the services of glass window girls on the street…

sex in itaewon seoul

Popular Seoul red light district: Itaewon.

The sex scene in Seoul is pretty different from other Asian countries. For example, an unusual service is the kiss rooms. You can fool around with students for a fee.

Further, there are window girls exactly like in Amsterdam that offers a quick fuck. I’ve never seen anything similar in Asia.

Just to give you a better idea of the different red light districts in Seoul:

  • Cheongnyangni 588 – Closed in 2018
  • Miami – this red light district has girls staying in the road trying to pull you in their rooms for sex.
  • Yeong Deung Po – A red light area with sexy window hookers. Girls avoid foreign men, it’s a Korean area.
  • Hooker Hill – Located in Itaewon, this red-light district is foreign-friendly.

In the red light areas, you can find different types of establishments selling sex, from the hostess bar to the massage parlors.

However, pay sex is only one way to get laid in Seoul, you can meet Korean girls online with a fetish for foreign men. From the student that needs extra cash to divorce woman that needs a good fuck.

Not only it is economical, but it’s more fun and less risky then have sex with a prostitute.


What About Girls And Sex

There is quite a lot of pretty, bright and beautiful girls with great bodies in Seoul. They know how to dress and look after themselves.

Like in Japan, also in Korea the girls don’t speak much English, especially the prettiest one. You might start a conversation but it’s hard to keep going.

The best way is to talk with girls on dating sites and use the translator to communicate. That helps to learn about each other and create sexual attraction. That way when you meet up face to face you can get physical.

Girls here are a kind of passive. They expect men to lead the conversation and everything else for that matter.

You are going to decide where to go, how to do it and when do it. That puts you in a position of advantage because you can get her in your room without resistance.

In fact, I never got refused when a Korean girl was in my room, I can’t say the same with Western women.

If you want to get an easy laid, look for single women that are open minded and into foreign men like the one in this video:

Girls who aren’t married by the age of 30 are over the ripped age, but still, they need sexual satisfaction. Actually, they seem to be horny all the time.

The good news is that 30% of Korean women between 30 to 34 years old never got married. In other words, if you play your cards well with women in their 30s, you can be assured to get laid.

Many hot girls in Seoul use sites like Seeking to connect with foreign men.

They are looking for all sort of relationships, so make sure to be clear about your intentions.


Where to Find Sex in Seoul

While visiting Seoul you might want to get laid, but you don’t know where to get started. Here’s my review of the best places to hook up with girls in Seoul, starting with…


1. Online

In recent years the internet has opened new opportunities to hook up with local girls. From the university girls that need extra cash to couples who are into threesomes.


When you are into your 40s+ and you want a much younger lady for a relationship with benefits, your only option is to use a site like Seeking.

There you’ll find many university students eager to meet your needs without all the drama that usually comes with a regular relationship.

In the case you’re only after casual sex, on an adult dating site site like Asian Match Mate you’ll find horny singles and couples.

Just create a profile, let the community that it’s your first time in Seoul, and it won’t take long before someone invite you for a booty call, threesome or an invitation to a private sex party.


2. Nightclubs & Pick Up Bars

If you would like to party and meet Korean girls into foreign men, you should consider hanging out at Itaewon and Hongdae.

Hongdae is home to four really large Korean universities so the crowd is younger. Instead, Itaewon is a mixed bag.

Before clubbing, visit a pub-like Prost which is a casual meat market. Casual pubs/bars are the way to go because the girls are willing to socialize.

Avoid exclusive nightclubs and high-end bars in Gangnam. There are only stuck up psycho girls that don’t want to fuck.

Having said that, the best pick up joints are:

  • ProstGood selection of beers, wines, cocktails, and hot ladies.
  • Glam On top Prost, another floor of sexy Korean girls.
  • Mike’s Cabin – Popular among 20s girls, the bar/club plays Latin music, old school pops and hip-hop.


3. Red Light Districts

There are several red light districts in Seoul but the most popular for expats and tourists is Hooker Hill in Itaewon. There are several juicy bars, clubs and window brothels.

In the bars and clubs, most girls are from the Philippines and Thailand. The standard rate for sex is 50.000-100.000 wan. Buy them a drink for 20.000 won before proceeding to the bedroom, they will be a lot nicer.

If you fancy a Korean girl, head to the window brothels. Prices start at 120.000 wan for 30 minutes and one shot.


4. Erotic Massage Parlours – Anma

Like the rest of Asia, also Seoul has a good amount of massage parlors offering happy endings. They are known as Anma…


Unfortunately in most Korean Anma foreigners are denied admission. Here is a comprehensive list of the most famous foreign-friendly Anma in Seoul:

  • Belle Massage in Gangnam – For those who like a rub with handjobs.
  • Castle Anma in Seolleung – If you fancy getting massaged by two girls, Castle offers threesome experiences. Avoid rush hours after 9 pm, the best time is morning and afternoon.

Prices for an erotic massage start at 90.000 wan with handjob up to 450.000 wan for full service with two girls.


5. Escorts

Seoul has plenty of call girls. Just do a quick search online to find an infinite amount of escort sites like

It’s easy to book a girl and wait for her to knock on your door. But the downside is the stiff prices and the bait and switch tactics. You rarely get the girl you see in the photo. These reasons make Seoul escorts the least bang for your buck.

The cheapest Seoul escort charges 250.000 won per hour while top spinners want 400.000 won per hour.

Most of the escort girls are business-oriented. So not much space is given to conversation and personal interaction. The service is rather mechanical, no intimate.


6. Kiss Rooms

Also known as “kiss bang”, these types of entrainment is unique to South Korea.

kiss room entrance in seoul

If you want to try this out, you need to be nearly fluent in Korean or the girls would be cold.

You get to sit down with a girl for 30 or 60 minutes and kiss her while playing with her tits and your dick. The girl might help you out and if she likes you, she might let you lick her nipples. That’s all, no BJ or sex.

If it’s something you might like to try, walk around university areas and pay attention to this sign: 키스방. The standard rate is 40.000 Won.


Typical Prices

When visiting a business that sells sex, the prices are fixed and can’t be negotiated.

Here a list of standard prices for each business type:

  • Hostess Bars: Also known as juicy bars, you can have sex with foreign girls with 70.000 won.
  • Erotic Massage Parlors: In the barbershops about 40.000-50.000 won for a quick ride. Anma parlors standard rate is 230.000 won for a bath session, massage and sex. Independent massage rooms go for 70.000 won for full service.
  • Love Hotels: For one hour at least 25.000 won, they can call a girl for you that usually charges 70.000 won per hour.
  • Escorts: starting at 250.000 won up to 400.000 won per hour. I don’t mention the daily price for escorts because is outrageous.

If paying a girl for sex isn’t your thing, consider reading the next section where I explain how to get a vacation girlfriend in Seoul.


How To Get a Holiday Girlfriend in Seoul

Are you searching for a girlfriend in Seoul? But you don’t know where to get started. Don’t worry, I’m going to show you how to find one.

A girlfriend is the best way to enjoy your stay in Seoul and never to feel lonely. Enjoy each other company, visit places and get intimate are just a few of the benefits.

Imagine having a Korean girlfriend…

Korean girl online

She is ready to do anything to please you. Expect all the good things only a girlfriend is capable of offering.

That is a boost to your self-confidence, without mention how invidious your friends and colleagues will be.

Most men who visit Seoul have no idea how to access the top Korean girls. That’s the reason why they end up with average women.

The best way to get a top-notch girlfriend in Seoul is to use a site like Seeking. Plenty of Korean girls looking for friendship and more.

Just be friendly and sociable, enjoy talking to the girls and when you find the perfect match just tell her you’ll come soon to see her.

Have a memorable holiday!


Best Sex Hotels In Seoul

Sex hotels are commonly known as love hotels in Korea. They sound romantic but at all effect couples and single hunters go there to get laid with sexy Korean girls.

So, if you are planning to hunt down girls in Seoul, these are my favorite erotic hotels to stay:

  • IP Boutique Hotel – Located near restaurants and bars in Itaewon, it’s the perfect place to bring girls to have fun.
  • Hotel the Designers Seoul Station – If you like design, class, and convenient location and are looking for a great erotic playground, this hotel offers it all.
  • Seoul Shilla Hotel – This hotel is a great choice to impress the girls and get them wet. The window overlooking the bathroom is great to watch the girls taking a bath.

This concludes this Seoul Sex Guide. Have fun!