bangkok sex guide

Bangkok Sex Guide For Single Men

If you’re craving a sex holiday in Bangkok and want to know the best places where to find sexy girls hot for action, this sex guide has all the info you need.

You should enjoy your trip to Bangkok, instead of worrying about where to go, what to do and most importantly how to do it.

In this guide, I’m going to show the best places where to meet sexy Bangkok girls with tips to get laid. That way, you get instant action the second you land in Thailand.

And that means you don’t have to run the streets like a hungry dog… Instead, you can fly in and immediately meet Bangkok girls HOT for action.

This Bangkok Sex Guide was last updated on 04 July 2023

Before your trip contact girls online so you won’t be alone when you’ll arrive in Bangkok.

Just imagine having a young and hot girl waiting for you…

Bangkok girl in bedroom


Intro To Sex Tourism In Bangkok

Bangkok is a great city, and like the capital of Thailand it has its share of sex tourism.

There are three official red light districts, but several unofficial red light areas. However, in recent years the best action has moved online, and several Thai dating apps are been hijacked by sex workers and part-time freelancers.

They look like innocent girls but in reality, they are everyday girls turned into part-time working girls

Then there are professional hookers working in the numerous soapy massage, GoGo bars, blow job bars and in the streets.

Not only Thai hookers, but also foreign prostitutes.

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All in all, Bangkok has a massive market of girls that are ready to sell their goods. It’s hard to find a better sex destination in Asia.


What About Girls & Sex In Bangkok?

If you can’t get laid in Bangkok, you have no chance to get laid somewhere else in the world. That how easy is to get laid here.

Although it can be tricky to hook up in Bangkok if you don’t know how to behave and the right places where to hang out.

For example, many foreigners tend to be touchy and that is a real turn-off for Thai ladies. In Thai culture, you should never touch someone in public.

Even though the girls might seem cold in public, once behind closed doors they get easily horny.

I still remember the first time I visited Bangkok. I went out clubbing and hook up with a young spinner, very outgoing and naughty (back then there weren’t hookup sites or apps where to meet girls for casual sex like nowadays).

I just went over to her table, and say something silly… And after two hours I was back in my hotel room having fun with her. It was one of the best sexual experiences in my life 🙂

Now thanks to the adult dating sites like Asian Match Mate you can find all sorts of escapes from sex parties to threesomes and partner swapping.

Girls in Bangkok are generally open-minded and don’t mind trying different sexual experiences.


Where To Find Sex in Bangkok

If you want to get laid in Bangkok, start to search for girls…


1. Online

Thai girl online profile

There is a big community of open-minded people in Bangkok that love to have no string attached sex.

You can find Thai women that need a good fuck as well as couples into swinging activities and threesomes.

The most practical and private way to find sex partners in Bangkok is to use a site like Asian Match Mate.

Create a profile, contact other members and meet up for some fun. That’s it!


2. Nightclubs & Pick Up Bars

The best areas where to pick up girls are Sukhumvit Road, Khao San Road and RCA (Royal City Avenue).

In Sukhumvit Road, you’ll find mostly East Europe women and Bangkok girls freelancing. Khao San Road is a backpacker area where can find girls on the cheap, sometimes also for free.

If you are young, know how to flirt and don’t want to pay for sex, RCA is the place for you. There are plenty of young Thai girls that love to party and get laid. No prostitutes.

The best nightclubs and pick up bars are:

Insanity Nightclub – In the center of Bangkok (Sukhumvit Road), this club is popular among tourists. Many Thai girls are freelancing, about 90%, you’ll not have a problem to get laid.

• Brick Bar – The best place to visit on Khao San Road. Foreigner friendly atmosphere and cheap booze. Many young Thai girls with a fetish for foreigners.

Route66 Club – An impressive megaclub with four distinct areas that could each be a legitimate club in its own right. Entrance fee 300 baht with a drink.

A lot of smoking hot young Thai girls, but you better be an excellent playboy because there aren’t any hookers.


3. Escorts – Call Girls in Bangkok

If you are passing by Bangkok in a hurry or you can’t bother to visit the red-light districts, a Bangkok escort is the solution for you. It’s a convenient sex service at your doorstep.

I use a site called, an escort booking system popular in Bangkok.

If you would like to learn more about the pro and cons of this escort booking system, consider reading my Smooci review.


4. Erotic Massage Parlors In Bangkok

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You can find many erotic massage parlors around Bangkok, almost everywhere. But most don’t have beautiful girls or provide sloppy extra services.

To make things easier for you, I’ve selected only the best places that offer happy endings:

  • Poseidon Entertainment Complex has many girls available, even side liners (university girls working part-time).
  • Analisa Massage offers happy endings with young masseur who specialize in tantric massage.
  • Dream Heaven Massage offers Nuru massages: slippery, warm, and wet.

If you would like to learn more, I’ve written a guide about erotic massages in Bangkok. Not only do I review the best massage places offering happy endings, but also how to get a cheap sex massage in your hotel’s room.


5. Bangkok Street Hookers


There are many street prostitutes in Bangkok, but only in a few areas. Walk down Sukhumvit Road, from Soi 4 until Soi 11 and opposite Nana Plaza.

You’ll find plenty of girls freelancing in the streets, not only Thais but also African ladies. Keep eyes open for ladyboys.

The best time is between 7 pm and 10 pm, later the quality of the girls starts to drop.

The standard price for street hookers in Bangkok is 1.500 baht for 2 hours of fun. Rates are negotiable, of course.


6. Bangkok Bar Girls

To conclude this section on where to find sex in Bangkok, the bars are your last option. There are two types of bars: beer bars and gogo bars.

gogo bar girls in bangkok

Beer bars are open places without aircon with hostesses usually in their 30s. Instead, gogo bars employ young spinners who dance in bikini and sometimes naked.

Gogo bars are more expensive and you can find the cost for a lap dance here.

In recent years the quality of girls working in bars is gone downhill while the prices went up.

The general prices are:

  • drinks 180 baht
  • lady drinks 200+ baht
  • short time starts at 3.000 baht which includes bar fine and sex.


7. Hook Up With Transsexuals And Ladyboys

If you are into transsexuals and ladyboys, the best way to hook up or have virtual intimacy is to use a site like TSdates. There are trans in Bangkok that want to hookups.

Alternatively, in Nana, you’ll find street ladyboys and trans massage parlors that offer more than a rub.


Casual Sex With Couples

There are several husbands and boyfriends in Bangkok happy to let you fuck their partners.

Some enjoy watching you while you bang her while others prefer to wait in the next-door room until you are done.

If it’s something that might interest you, you can learn more here:


Typical Prices In Bangkok

  • Bar girls working in beer bars – Pay 800 baht to the bar owner (bar fine), 1.500 baht to the girl for a short time and 2.000 baht for all night.
  • Bar girls working in gogo bars – Bar fine of 1.000-1.500 baht, 1.500+ baht to the girl for a short time (2 hours) or 3.000+ baht for all night.
  • Bar girls working in BJ bars – 800 baht for a blow job, 1.300 baht for sex if available.
  • Escorts Online: starting at 2.500 baht per hour.
  • Masseur in erotic massage shops – 1.000 baht for massage and HJ, and 1.500 baht for massage and full service.
  • Masseur in soapy massage parlor – 2.200 to 10.000 baht for full service (90 minutes).

There are also self-employed working girls. and you can bargain their rate. Bangkok girl prices are variable based on their location, age, and the way you interact and present yourself.

The ongoing at the moment are:

  • Street hookers: 1.000 baht for a short time up to 1.800 baht for all night.
  • Freelancers in the nightclubs: 1.500-2.500 baht for all night


How To Get a Holiday Girlfriend In Bangkok

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If you wish to meet girls in Bangkok to spend romantic and intimate moments together while touring the city, a temporary girlfriend is what you need.

She would show you around Bangkok, enjoy spending time with you and share the bed when nightfall.

Rent a girlfriend in Bangkok to plan things for you and be an active companion is the best way to enjoy the country while learning about Thai culture.

Most men look for a Thai girl in the wrong places like nightclubs, bars or even the red light districts. Those types of girls aren’t genuinely interested in you but only interested in your money.

Not only it’s exhausting to deal with them, but you feel cheated and not appreciated.

If you are serious to get a girlfriend in Bangkok and spend a wonderful time together, consider using the online game. Use dating apps that women in Bangkok use or even better, use apps Bangkok girls who love foreigners use!

The most popular dating site connecting foreign men with Thai girls is Thai Friendly.

Visiting Bangkok and hoping to meet girls on the hook without this app is insane because it helps you to connect with Thai girls in Bangkok before your arrival.

Learning about each other, and build intimacy and trust is essential if you want to have some real fun with her. What’s the point try to hook up with random girls in Bangkok when you can simply meet girls with a fetish for foreign men conveniently on a dating site?

They are on that dating site because they want a foreign man, and you want a Thai girl… It’s a Win-Win situation.

Just upload a few nice pictures, introduce yourself, message a few girls and meet up once you are in Bangkok. Simple as that.


Must to Do During a Sex Tour In Bangkok

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Here a list of things to do during a Bangkok sex tour:

• Visit a Soapy Parlor For a Happy Ending Massage

Those places employ gorgeous girls that know how to please. It’s a unique experience that can be found only in Thailand. For more info, check out my Bangkok soapy massage review.

• Visit Nana Plaza

The most interesting red light districts area in Bangkok where you can find girls for sex. There are also a few ladyboy bars.

• Get Laid With A Regular Girl In Bangkok

There’s a greater satisfaction to get laid with an everyday girl. Don’t miss this opportunity.


Best Sex Hotels In Bangkok

Bangkok has one of the best hospitality services in Asia. Not only you can get cheap accommodation, but when you go for luxury, you pay way less than in other Asian countries.

Now, if you are visiting Bangkok for sex vacation, you want to book a hotel that is:

  • Guest friendly – you can bring back as many girls as you want without extra fees and shame.
  • Erotic rooms – the right atmosphere for your sexual adventure.
  • Value for money – why pay more when you can pay less?
  • Location – near the nightlife, red light district areas and pick up places like malls.

These are my standards when I choose accommodations, and this is the list of my favorite sex hotels in Bangkok:

The Fusion Suites Hotel
It’s a small boutique hotel with intimate rooms. There are rooms with a wonderful Jacuzzi on the balcony where you can play with the girls.

If that isn’t good enough, its location is perfect for picking up girls during the day in the nearby Terminal 21 mall and to monger at night in the adjacent red light area: Soi Cowboy.

And last, this area has the most bj bars in Bangkok.

ICheck Inn Nana
A budget hotel located right in the middle of erotic massage shops and blow job bars. In this street the atmosphere is great, with many girls searching for your attention when you walk through.

You are within walking distance of the most infamous red light area: Nana Plaza.

There are many beer bars, gogo bars, nightclubs with freelancer girls and street hookers.

The rooms are modern, clean and have more than the essentials. There is a window wall between the bedroom and the toilet where you can watch the girls taking a shower or sitting on the toilet.

Aloft Bangkok Sukhumvit 11 Hotel
This is the best hotel to stay in if you love to party and pick up hot girls. One of the most popular nightclubs is home here: levels club. You’ll find hot girls from all over the world, and of course, Hi-So Thai women.

Just walk outside for bars, restaurants, other nightclubs, and Nana Plaza if gogo bars are your thing. A perfect location for single guys looking to meet Thai girls.

Those hotels are my favorite whenever I’m in Bangkok, but there are many more. Just make sure they are guest friendly, you don’t want to be ashamed when coming back with a girl.


Map Of Bangkok Sex Venues

That wraps this Bangkok sex guide. Have fun!





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