Bangkok Sex Guide For Single Men

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Bangkok is a great city to visit and live in if you enjoy an active sexual life.

Not only it’s easy for single men to get laid in this city, but also for those couples into swinging and sex parties.

In this guide, I’ll tell you exactly where to go, what to do and how to do it without getting into trouble.

 

This Bangkok Sex Guide was last updated on 13 March 2025

Before your trip contact girls online so you won’t be alone once in Bangkok.

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Intro To Sex Tourism In Bangkok

Bangkok is a great city, and being the capital of Thailand, it has its share of sex tourism.

There are three official red light districts, but several unofficial red light areas. However, in recent years the best action has moved online, and several Thai dating apps are been hijacked by sex workers and part-time freelancers.

They look like innocent girls, but in reality, they are everyday girls turned into part-time working girls

Then there are professional hookers working in the numerous soapy massage, GoGo bars, blow job bars and in the streets.

Not only Thai hookers, but also foreign prostitutes.

All in all, Bangkok has a massive market of girls that are ready to sell their goods. It’s hard to find a better sex destination in Asia, unless you visit Pattaya.

 

What About Girls & Sex In Bangkok?

There are Thai girls from all over Thailand coming to study and work in Bangkok.

You have the typical Bangkokian lady, which is slim, white ski, and with Chinese features. Then you have ladies from the provinces, who are tan and have stronger/muscular bodies.

If you can’t get laid in Bangkok, you have no chance to get laid somewhere else in the world. That’s how easy it is to get laid here.

Although it can be tricky to hook up in Bangkok if you don’t know how to behave and the right places where to hang out.

For example, many foreigners tend to be touchy and that is a real turn-off for Thai ladies. In Thai culture, you should never touch someone in public.

Even though the girls might seem cold in public, once behind closed doors they get easily horny.

I still remember the first time I visited Bangkok. I went out clubbing and hooked up with a young spinner, very outgoing and naughty.

I just went over to her table, and said something silly… And after two hours I was back in my hotel room having fun with her. It was one of the best sexual experiences in my life 🙂

Girls in Bangkok are generally open-minded and don’t mind trying different sexual experiences. There are also a few that enjoy  streaming online their naughty fantasies.

 

Where To Find Sex in Bangkok

If you want to get laid in Bangkok, start your search…

 

1. Online

There is a big community of open-minded people in Bangkok. You can find Thai women that need a good fuck as well as couples into swinging activities and threesomes.

The most practical and private way to find sex partners in Bangkok is to use a site like Asian Match Mate. There are couples into swinger activities and women looking for hookups.

Another great app is TF, but remember it’s not a “sex” app so not all the girls aren’t into hookups.

But there are several freelancers offering outcall services. I’ve found most of them close to their profile photos. You can always do a video call just to be sure.

 

2. Nightclubs

Bangkok has a great nightlife for all budgets. There are several nightlife areas where to pick pros and non-pros:

  • RCA (Royal City Avenue): A nightlife hub with a young crowd. Mostly locals.
  • Thonglor Soi 10 and Ekkamai: Upscale areas with trendy bars and clubs.
  • Soi 11 (Sukhumvit): Popular area with bars and nightclubs for expatriates and tourists.

In Sukhumvit Road, you’ll find mostly East European women, African and Thai freelancers.

If you are young, know how to flirt and don’t want to pay for sex, RCA is the place for you. There are plenty of young Thai girls that love to party and get laid. No prostitutes.

Some popular pick-up places like Isanity Nightclub have been closed, but there are still plenty of clubs to hook up and pick up working girls:

  • Brick Bar (Khao San Road)

The best place to visit on Khao San Road. Foreigner friendly atmosphere and cheap booze. Many young Thai girls have a fetish for foreigners.

  • Route66 Club (RCA)

An impressive megaclub with four distinct areas that could each be a legitimate club in its own right. Entrance fee 300 baht with a drink. A lot of smoking hot young Thai girls, but you better be an excellent playboy because there aren’t any hookers.

  • Mixx Discotheque (Sukhumvit)

Hip Hop nightclub popular among tourists. Full of freelancers ready to spend all night with you for 1500-2000 Baht. The fun start after 1 am.

  • Levels (Soi 11- Sukhumvit)

This nightclub is full of prostitutes that pretend to be high-society. There are plenty of high candy girls but expect to spend heavily on drinks.

 

3. Pick Up Bars

There are several nightlife areas in Bangkok filled with bars and ladies willing to have sex in exchange for some cash. Depending on the area, you’ll find pros and semi-pro girls.

Soi Cowboy is a popular red light street near Sukhumvit Road with about 40 go-go bars. There you’ll find ladies dancing on a stage waiting for a customer to offer a drink. After a short conversation, you make the deal with the gogo dancer to have sex.

Just outside Soi Cowboy there are also several massage places offering happy endings (check out the erotic massage section).

Similar red light areas are Nana (Sukhumvit) and Patpong (Silom). But they also have other nightlife venues like beer bars, nightclubs, and erotic massage places.

In the Nana area there is the infamous Nana Plaza, which is a three-story entertainment complex with numerous gogo bars and strip clubs.

Near Patpong, Thaniya Street is a popular road with go-go bars and KTVs that cater to Asian customers. Yet, everyone is welcome. The girls are cute, slim, small, and without tattoos.

If you prefer a more relaxed ambiance like open beer bars and cocktail bars, Soi 11 (Sukhumvit) is what you’re looking for. It’s a trendy area with bars, clubs, and restaurants, especially busy with professionals after office working hours.

In this area you’ll find many freelancers and beer bar ladies. There are also massage shops with ladyboys.

Talking about freelancers, Thermae is a popular hot spot to pick semi-pro ladies looking for extra cash to make ends meet.

Pricing (Freelancers)

  • Short-Time (ST): 2,000–3,000 THB.
  • Long-Time (LT): 4,000–5,000 THB.
  • Drinks: 200–400 THB per drink, depending on the venue.
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Below is my favorite list of pick up places in Bangkok:

  • Thermae

This is the most famous pick up joint in Sukhumvit Road to find freelancers. It’s located in the basement of Ruamchitt Hotel.

Any night of the week, there are hundreds of ladies waiting for punters. Girls of all shapes, sizes, ranging from ugly and fat to cute, beautiful, and sexy. The majority of ladies prefer short time because the next day they have to go to work.

The girls stand/sit around the place, and punters move around in a circle checking out the goods. If a girl catches your attention, just have a small talk and make the deal—no more, no less.

Price: the standard rate is 2500-3000 Baht for short time and 4000-5000 Baht for all night.

Tip: Thermae closes at 2 am but girls will stand outside for a bit. You can get a girl for all night at the price for a short time. You’ll get 2 pops at the cost of one.

 

3. Escorts – Call Girls

Escort agencies in Bangkok are horrible. The vast majority of reviews and photos are fake, and the prices are at least double of what you would pay for a woman of similar beauty and skills found somewhere else.

Sites like Smooci have tried to improve the online escort offering, but they have failed. Even though the profile photos are real, you should add 10 years and a few kilos to match the reality.

The best thing you can do is to use a site like TF and hire a freelancer. But remember it’s a dating site, so only a minority are working girls. Just write on your profile what you’re looking for so the right type of ladies will contact you.

 

4. Erotic Massage Parlors

There are several streets filled with erotic massage parlors, especially in the alleys of Sukhumvit Road.

Soi 22 and 23 are perhaps the most visited by tourists looking for a massage with a happy ending. You can get a massage with full sex for around 1500 Baht. For less than 1000 Baht you’ll get a blow job or hang job.

If you head to Ratchada and Rama 9, you’ll find several soapy massage parlors that offer body to body erotic massages. These buildings are luxurious brothels with Jacuzzy rooms and hookers.

To make things easier for you, I’ve selected only the best places that offer happy endings:

  • Poseidon Entertainment Complex has many girls available, even side liners (university girls working part-time).
  • Analisa Massage offers happy endings with young masseurs who specialize in tantric massage.
  • Dream Heaven Massage offers Nuru massages: slippery, warm, and wet.
  • Annie’s Massage inside the Blow Job Alley, also known as Sukhumvit Soi 7/1.

 

5. Blow Job Bars

The infamous Sukhumvit Soi 7/1 is also known as “Blow Job Alley”. This street is home to Wood Bar, which is the most popular blow job venue in Bangkok. But there is also Magic Table Bar.

This type of venue is a great place to get blown from one or two ladies for only 800 baht. And they take the load in the mouth or on the tits.

If you’re into deep throat blow jobs, it’s a sure bet to visit a BJ bar. Also, you can have sex with the ladies for an extra fee.

For more info check out my latest Bangkok BJ Bar Guide.

 

6. Brothels

Phrom Phong legal brothel

In every part of Bangkok you’ll find a brothel. Some areas use erotic massage parlors as a front for brothel activities, others have hotels with ladies working from the room, and so on.

I wrote an entire brothel guide to Bangkok based on location so you can find the best places near where you’re staying.

 

7. Streets With Hookers

There are many street prostitutes in Bangkok, but only in a few areas. Walk down Sukhumvit Road from Soi 4 until Soi 11, and opposite Nana Plaza.

You’ll find plenty of girls freelancing in the streets, not only Thais but also African ladies. Keep eyes open for ladyboys.

The best time is between 7 pm and 10 pm, later the quality of the girls starts to drop.

The standard price for street hookers is 1.500 baht for 2 hours of fun. Rates are negotiable, of course.

 

Typical Prices

• Accommodation: There are accommodations for all budgets. Hostels start at 200 baht for a bed in sharing rooms, while rooms in decent hotels start at 1200 baht. Luxury hotels start at 2500 baht based on location.

• Girls: I’ve written a detailed guide for girls’ prices in Bangkok. Below is the short version:

  • Bar girls working in beer bars – Pay 800 baht to the bar owner (bar fine), 1.500 baht to the girl for a short time and 2.000 baht for all night.
  • Bar girls working in gogo bars – Bar fine of 1.000-1.500 baht, 1.500+ baht to the girl for a short time (2 hours) or 3.000+ baht for all night.
  • Bar girls working in BJ bars – 800 baht for a blow job, 1.500 baht for sex if available.
  • Escorts Online – starting at 2.500 baht per hour.
  • Masseur in erotic massage shops – 1.000 baht for massage with HJ and blow job. 1.500 baht for massage and full service.
  • Masseur in soapy massage parlor – 2.200 to 10.000 baht for full service (90 minutes).
  • Freelancers – from the street they are about 1500-2000 baht. In pickup places like Thermae Cafe, it is 2500 baht for short time and 4000+ baht for all night.

• Food: If you eat in the streets, it’s so cheap. You can eat a meal of shusi for just 150 baht. Local dishes are about 60 baht each. So by eating in the street, budget 200 baht per day.

In the Thai restaurants, the average dish is 300 baht with drinks for less than 100 baht. A meal in a restaurant that prepares foreign food, the price is similar to Western standards. Buffets in international hotels start at 1000 baht per person up to 300o baht for seafood nights.

• Transportation: The metro is cheap and covers most of  Bangkok. In general, the average one way is around 70 baht.

Then you have taxis, that cost between 50 to 400 baht for the outskirts of the city. I suggest downloading Grab.

 

How To Rent a Holiday Girlfriend In Bangkok

If you wish to meet girls in Bangkok to spend romantic and intimate moments together while touring the city, a temporary girlfriend is what you need.

She would show you around Bangkok, enjoy spending time with you and share spicy moments together.

Rent a girlfriend in Bangkok to plan things for you and be an active companion is the best way to enjoy the city while learning about Thai culture.

Most men look for a Thai girl in the wrong places like nightclubs, bars or the red light districts. Those types of girls aren’t genuinely interested in you but only interested in your money.

Not only it’s exhausting to deal with them, but you feel cheated and not appreciated.

If you are serious to get a girlfriend in Bangkok and spend a wonderful time together, consider using a popular site and apps that Bangkok girls who love foreigners use!

Get to know each other before the trip help to build intimacy and trust, which is essential if you want to have some real fun with her.

What’s the point to hook up with random girls in Bangkok when you can simply meet girls with a fetish for foreign men conveniently on a dating site?

 

Must-Do During a Sex Tour In Bangkok

Here is a list of things to do during a Bangkok sex tour:

• Visit a Soapy Parlor For a Happy Ending Massage

Those places employ gorgeous girls that know how to please. It’s a unique experience that can be found only in Thailand. For more info, check out my Bangkok soapy massage review.

• Visit Nana Plaza

The most interesting red light district areas in Bangkok, where you can find girls for sex. There are also a few ladyboy bars.

• Get Laid With A Regular Girl In Bangkok

There’s a greater satisfaction in getting laid with an everyday girl. Use hookup apps and sites.

 

Best Adult Hotels In Bangkok

Bangkok has one of the best hospitality services in Asia. Not only you can get cheap accommodation, but when you go for luxury, you pay way less than in other Asian countries.

Now, if you are visiting Bangkok for a sex vacation, you want to book a hotel that is:

  • Guest friendly – you can bring back as many girls as you want without extra fees and shame.
  • Erotic rooms – the right atmosphere for your sexual adventure.
  • Value for money – why pay more when you can pay less?
  • Location – near the nightlife, red light district areas and pick up places like malls.

These are my standards when I choose accommodations, and this is the list of my favorite sex hotels in Bangkok:

• The Fusion Suites Hotel
It’s a small boutique hotel with intimate rooms. There are rooms with a wonderful Jacuzzi on the balcony where you can play with the girls.

If that isn’t good enough, its location is perfect for picking up girls during the day in the nearby Terminal 21 mall and to monger at night in the adjacent red light area: Soi Cowboy.

And last, this area has the most bj bars in Bangkok.

• ICheck Inn Nana
A budget hotel located right in the middle of erotic massage shops and blow job bars. In this street the atmosphere is great, with many girls searching for your attention when you walk through.

You are within walking distance of the most infamous red light area: Nana Plaza.

There are many beer bars, gogo bars, nightclubs with freelancer girls and street hookers.

The rooms are modern, clean and have more than the essentials. There is a window wall between the bedroom and the toilet where you can watch the girls taking a shower or sitting on the toilet.

• Aloft Bangkok Sukhumvit 11 Hotel
This is the best hotel to stay in if you love to party and pick up hot girls. It’s home to the most popular nightclub in Suchumvit: Levels. You’ll find hot girls from all over the world, and of course, Thai women.

Just walk outside for bars, restaurants, other nightclubs, and Nana Plaza if gogo bars are your thing. A perfect location for single guys looking to meet Thai girls.

Those hotels are my favorite whenever I’m in Bangkok, but there are many more. Just make sure they are guest friendly, you don’t want to be ashamed when coming back with a girl.

 

Map Of Bangkok Sex Venues

That wraps this Bangkok sex guide. Have fun!

 

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