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Thailand sex guide & Tours

Thailand Sex Guide For Single Men

If you are planning a sex holiday to Thailand and you want to know the best adult destinations where to find sexy girls, you are going to get all the info in this sex guide.

That way, you can focus all your energy to enjoy your vacation instead of worrying about where to go, what do and most importantly how to get laid.

This guide is going to focus on P4P scene (Pay for Play). If you prefer to meet and date quality Thai girls, then use a popular Thai dating site instead.

This Thailand Sex Guide last update was 04 June 2019




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Intro to Sex Tourism in Thailand
General information about Thailand sex culture

Where to Find Sex in Thailand
An overview of the best places to get laid

Typical Costs + Tips
General prices in Thailand to help you budget your adventure

How To Get A Holiday Girlfriend
How to date Thailand women during your vacation

Top Thai Sex Tourism Destination
Best red light district’s destinations

Must to Do During a Thailand Sex Tour
Mongering activities in Thailand


Intro To Sex Tourism In Thailand

Thailand is well known to be one of the best sex travel destinations in the world.

The country has a tourist-friendly policy as well as a vast network of infrastructure and hotels that cater to a diverse array of business and leisure travelers.

However, what makes Thailand so popular for single travelers is the many red light districts with its Go Go bars, nightclubs, amazing nightlife, hot ladyboys and sexy Thai girls…

Thailand is the number one sex tourism destination in the world.

It’s an easy country to travel where you can have fun all day and night!

Thailand has a lot to offer to travelers – no matter your budget or sexual orientation. You can get laid with girls, ladyboys, lesbians and even men if that is your kind of thing.

The country has something for everybody.

Most tourists visit the red light districts in Thailand to get laid, but there are many other ways to meet sexy Thai girls without the need to pay a prostitute.

This Thailand sex travel guide will tell you how to travel the country like a pro, how to stay safe, how much things cost, the best places to find girls and ladyboys, and everything in between!


What About Girls, Ladyboy & Sex In Thailand?

As I said earlier, sex tourism is huge and millions of men visit Thailand to meet mostly girls and ladyboys.

sex in Thailand with ladyboy

Thai ladyboy

What I didn’t say is how open-minded Thais are forward sex.

You might not believe this but sex in Thailand is a taboo topic in public.

In fact, most Thai girls refrain from showing too much flesh as opposed to the Western countries.

When you think about Thailand, you think about sexy girls wearing short skirts, ladyboys and red light districts…

sexy thai girls in a red light district in thailand

Sexy Thai girls working in a bar in Pattaya. Most bar girls are from a region called Isaan.

The truth is they are only a minor part of Thailand culture. They are just magnified by the media industry that loves sex trafficking stories.

So, the girls and ladyboys are victims of sex trafficking?

Not the one in contact with foreigners.

They are free from doing what they do for as long as they feel like it.

I think all this get confusing for first-time travelers to Thailand…

… And you might be wondering what is a Go Go bar is… Or which parlours offer sex massages… Or if the hookers in the street are safe to be taken back in the hotel room.

Those are just a few questions you might have while planning your sex trip to Thailand.

You are going to find all the answers in this guide.

One thing you might know already is that men don’t go to Thailand only for women, but to experience ladyboys.

In fact, Thai kathoey (another expression for ladyboy) are world famous for their beauty and naughtiness.

Thai ladyboys

Thailand is well known for the abundance of lady boys. It is been estimated that Thailand has 650.000 lady-boys, one every hundreds of Thai peoples. Thus, if you are into lady-boys and would love to try a different experience, Thailand will be your mecca.

But what makes Thailand one of the most exceptional and exotic adult travel destinations is how Thais make you feel.

Just imagine being surrounded by young, beautiful, and willing to please girls – day and night.

Getting a sensual massage… Or having a romantic dinner on the beach… Or be served drinks by a semi-naked dancer.

As anyone who has been to Thailand knows, Thai women offer the ultimate girlfriend experience.

You’ll be surprised to have intense sexual activities from the very first time. You will never get a “NO” to your desires.



Best places to meet girl or ladyboys to get laid – fast!


1. Online

sexy thai girl online 1

If you walk anywhere in Thailand, you realize immediately how addicted girls are to their smartphone… And that my friend, it’s a great opportunity for you to get in front of their screen and start a conversation going without fear of getting rejected.

There are a few Thai dating apps packed with horny girls hot for action. With a few messages and some convincing, you can get laid in no time.

There is also a horny community of kinky people that are looking for casual sex all over Thailand. You can find my review here.


2. Nightclubs & Pick Up Bars

hot Thai girl clubbing during a sex holiday

Club and bars are great if you love to party and meet girls.

If you are into ladyboys, I’m sorry, they aren’t allowed in most nightclubs and bars in Thailand.

There are pick up places exclusively filled with “non-working” girls, and if you want to score there, you need to dress sharp, be young, speak Thai and know how to approach girls.

Otherwise, there are plenty of mixed up nightclubs and bars where you can meet freelancers (another name for hooker) or “party girls” that happen to be into foreign men.

Don’t expect to find sophisticated women that can speak fluent English, if that is your thing you better off to pick up Hong Kong women instead.


3. Go Go Bars (Bikini Bars)

naughty go go girls in walking street bar

Most red light districts in Thailand have a hand full of Go Go bars.

Cities like Bangkok, Phuket and Pattaya have the most and best Go Go Bars in Thailand.

They are close bars with a center stage where the girls dance, dressed or fully naked.

You can pick one and have a drink together. In some Go Go bar you can only talk to the girls, in others, you can touch them.

If you click with the girl, you can pay a bar fine to release her from the working duties. The sex price is extra to the bar fine and you deal it with the girl directly.

Bar fine price is between 800-1.500 bath and the girls want from 2.000-3.000 baht for a short time. Rarely they go for long time.

There are also ladyboys Go Go bars but not as many as girlie Go Go bars.


4. Beer Bars

Thailand sex vacation - Beer bar girl

Isaan girl working in a beer bar in Bangkok.

The cheaper version of the Go Go bars.

They are open bars located in clusters inside or outside the major red light districts.

The girls are usually less attractive and older of Go Go bar’s ladies. But you can find a diamond in the rough time to time.

The good thing is that the girls are cheap as the beer and the free pool tables.

The bar fine is between 300-500 bath and the girls range from 1.000-2.000 baht.


5. Blow Job Bars

Blow job bar girl during a Thailand sex tour

They are exactly as they are called: bars where you can have a drink while a girl sucks you off.

Most BJ bars offer two option. Either you get sucked off in the main room with all other customers – there is a curtain that separates each table – or you go for the privacy of a bedroom.

If you go for the curtains, it’s a fun experience because you can hear the girls sucking off the other guys.

Most blow job bars charge about 800 baht for a BJ, and a few places offer also full sex for 1.300 baht.

The only two destinations in Thailand with BJ bars are in Pattaya and Bangkok.


6. Soapy Massage Parlours

pattaya sopay massage and sex

You can find pleasure and relaxation in a soapy massage.

They are a unique tradition in Thailand and they are a must to do for any serious man traveling to Thailand.

As opposes to the small massage shops that offer happy endings – I’m going to talk about them later – soapy massage parlours are located in massive buildings similar to five stars hotels.

You can’t bargain the price or separate the services, it’s a set package.

It doesn’t come cheap – Starting at 2.000 baht for a standard soapy massage in Pattaya up to 10.000 baht for the models in a Bangkok soapy massage.


7. Happy Ending Massage Shops

To the contrary to the soapy massage parlours, these shops are small, intimate and the sex is cheap.

Besides sex, they offer services like any other Thai massage shops: oil massage and Thai massage.

The only problem most first-time travelers face is to recognize the traditional massage shop from the Thai happy ending one.

When the massage girls aren’t wearing the Thai traditional massage uniform but wearing casual dresses, most probably they are offering massage and sex…

sex massage and traditional thai massage in Thailand

In doubt, just ask the massage girls if they offer any extras. Don’t be shy, they are used to be asked this question quite often.


7. Escorts – Call Girls

call girl in pattaya

Escort service is the most expensive way to have sex with Thai girls.

They are worth the money only if you have limited time at your disposal and deep pockets.

The escort girls are nothing special, just ordinary bar girls that cross-promote their services with an escort agency.

In other words, you pay escort girls double of what you would pay if you take them directly from the red light districts.

You pay extra for the convenience to have the girl coming directly to your hotel room at a fixed time.

As said before, if you haven’t much time they might be your only option to have sex in Thailand.

RELATED: How To Book A Girl in Pattaya


8. Street Girls & ladyboys – Freelancers

Thai freelancer offering sex in Thailand streets

This Thailand sex guide wouldn’t be completed if I don’t mention the thousands of freelancers patroling the red light districts and nearby areas.

You can recognize them because they stand still one after another one.

The ladyboys are straightforward and they usually walk up to you offering sex.

However, the girls expect you to do the first move. Just say “Hi” – “How are you?” and other small talks, and if you like her, just ask how much she wants.

There are all type of street freelancers from young to old, sexy to ducks just like in any other venue in the city.

The only warning is to make sure to use a condom because these girls don’t go for a periodical check-up.

The price starts at 1.000 baht for a Pattaya prostitute up to 2.000 baht for a hooker in Bangkok.

sexy single thai girl


Typical Costs

• Sex: The prices for sexual services in Thailand is relatively cheap and the availability of sexy girls is stuggering.

Thailand girl prices vary according to your knowledge about the type of girls, the way you approach the matter and lastly the time of the year you are visiting.

But to keep things simple, these are the common prices for sex in Thailand:

To take a girl out of Go-Go bar, you will have to pay a bar fine to let the bar release the girl from her duties which cost approx 1.000-2.000 baht. This doesn’t include sex.

You need to bargain directly with the Go Go dancer for sex which the standard rate is between 2.000-4.000 bhat.

When you take a girl out of a beer bar instead, you pay as little as 500 baht in bar fine and 1.000-2.000 baht to have sex with her.

The cheapest option is to meet Thai girls online where you can find regular girls who are happy to get some “tea money” like 1.000 baht in exchange for sex.

• Sex Activities: Most of the action will be found in Pattaya, Bangkok and Phuket.

In other major cities there are some sex activities but usually, they cater to the local Thai men.

Thailand offers a broad range of sex venues like massage parlours, short time bars, beer bars, a go go bars and night clubs.

• Accommodation: The cheapest hotel’s rooms in Thailand go for between 500-1.500 baht per night.

You can get comfortable hotels for 1.500+ baht with air-con, TV and other amenities.

After that, the sky is the limit, but I’ve never needed to spend more than 2.000 baht per night for luxury in this country.

Most of the accommodations are guest-friendly, meaning they don’t charge extra if you bring in a guest.

• Food: Speaking of street food, don’t be afraid to eat it, it’s safe.

You’ll find the best of Thailand’s food on the street, and it will cost you a fraction of what you pay at the restaurant.

Street food cost you about 100 baht per meal and restaurant food will cost between 300-1.500 baht per meal.

• Transportation: Local transportation is cheap, costing below 200 baht in most distances.

You can get anywhere in touristic town for less than 100 baht, except for Bangkok.

Renting a driver for the day will cost you between 1.000-2.000 baht per day


Tips & Tricks

• Negotiate Price: Always negotiate the price with freelancers and street hookers.

• Valuables in the safe: When you leave the room and while you are showering. Hear many times of girls stealing money and cameras.

• Lady drinks: Cut down on them, they are useless to the purpose of good fun and sex.

• Go local: The easiest way to save money in Thailand is to live simply like a local. Take local buses, eat street food, and drink local beer.

The average Thai lives on a less than 7.000 baht per month in Bangkok, even less in the countryside.

If you stay at cheap guesthouses and eat street food, you can spend as little as 800 baht per day.

• The legal age of consent is 18 and you are strongly advised to stay clear of anything younger than that.




Are you looking for more than just a pop or bang? Wish to meet a Thai girl to spend your holiday together, and why not, fall in love?

I have the right and easy solution for you for getting a Thai girlfriend.

But first, let’s understand better how Thai girls think so you can have the upper hand in dating one.

Thai girls love the idea to meet a foreign man, we look exotic as much they look exotic to us.

We have white skin, are tall and look handsome to their eyes (much better than the typical Thai man that has dark skin and short body).

Simply put: I think every man — no matter age or social status you’re in — can attract beautiful Thai girls.

I also believe that if you are a senior man, then you have better chances to attract younger girls.

For those reasons, I truly believe Thai girls are wonderful for men that aren’t able to date in their home country — no matter the circumstances.

So, below, I’m deep diving into the Thai dating scene with the most popular Thai dating sites:

Thai girlfriends for datingThai Cupid – It is the biggest dating site in Thailand with thousands of women looking for romance, relationship and why not, a nightstand.

The chat is easy to use, and you can talk with multiple girls at the same time because Thai women write very slow because sometimes they have to check the dictionary for words.

This can maximize your time and effort to create multiple “relationships” at the same time.

By signing up with Thai Cupid you will access to thousands of Thai girls all around the country.

Thai dating website with women and girlsThai Friendly – Not as many women as in Thai Cupid dating website but definitely enough to get you started.

I have found many good girls here. However, always watch out for women asking you for money.

Good girls don’t do that, and only fool men would wire money to a girl never met before.

I hear horror stories all the time from travelers being cheated by women online.

I never have them with Thai Friendly. They do a good job in keeping their users in check, trying to remove scammers and fake accounts.

If you are into ladyboys, Thai Friendly is better than Thai Cupid because has a function to let you search only for ladyboys.

Very useful if it’s your first time trying to meet a ladyboy.


Top Thai Sex Tourism Destinations

Bangkok – The heart of Thailand, this crazy city is a must see.

It’s the perfect destination for any single guy that wants to meet Thai single girls.

The nightlife scene is hot for action, in fact, picking up girls in Bangkok it’s super easy. Don’t get surprised to get laid after have just met.

PattayaPattaya is a whore town. There are thousands of girls working in the 3 main red light districts, but all the city is a prostitution area.

Best place in Thailand to get a sex massage and find cheap sex.

Phuket – Phuket is Thailand’s largest island and the biggest destination for sex tourism in Thailand.

Wonderful white sand beaches, sexy Thai girls in Bikini and fun nightlife.

Chiang Mai – is the largest and most culturally significant city in Northern Thailand.

Chiang Mai girl prices are reasonable, especially the university students who are looking for a sugar daddy.

Krabi– Located in the coastal region of South-West Thailand, the province has miles of beaches and lush greenery to explore, and many sexy Thai girls, of course.

Best Cities in Thailand to Meet Girls


Must To Do During a Thailand Sex Tour

• Visit the infamous Soi 6 in Pattaya
Soi 6 girls in Pattaya offering sex
Well away from Pattaya’s nightlife central, Walking Street, is one of Sin City’s more infamous naughty boy areas.

It might only be a few hundred meters long, but Soi 6 is home to more than 50 bars and perhaps 1,000 naughty girls.

On the back of Soi 6, you will find a small soi with few Khatoey happy to satisfy your curiosity in case you aren’t into girls.

• Experience A Full Moon Party

Full moon party - sex - drug and rock

If you like partying, there’s no better party in the world than the famous Full Moon Party.

It’s 20,000 people partying until sunrise on a beach on Haat Rin, Koh Phangan.

Sure, it is super touristy but that doesn’t mean it’s not a lot of fun and it’s as much a part of Thailand as anything else.

• Try a Soapy Massage in Bangkok

soapy massage pattaya

Thai massage is a long tradition, but the soapy massage is a new addition provided to tourist and residents looking for relaxation and an happy ending experience at the same time.

• Have sex with a Kathoeys

sexy ladyboy during a Thailand sex trip

Kathoeys are lady-boys that usually look much better than a real lady.

In Thailand, you can find the most beautiful kathoey on earth, and for this reason is a must to do experience while in the kingdom.

• Visit a Go Go Bar

go go bar girl met during a Thai sex holiday

Thai Go-Go bars are unique, and the concept is something between a strip club and a bar.

You will see girls dancing on a center stage, sometimes dressed or naked.

Some a go-go bar will have sexy shows, shower shows and different type of activities that are unique.

The best Go-Go bars are in Bangkok (Nana Plaza and Soi Cowboy) and Pattaya (Walking Street). For more info: