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Hanoi Sex Guide For Single Men

If you’re craving for a sex holiday in Hanoi and want to know the best places where to find sexy girls hot for action, this guide has all the info you need.

You should enjoy your trip to Hanoi, instead of worrying about where to go, what do and most importantly how to do it.

I’m going to cover all the things you need to know to experience the ultimate Hanoi sex vacation, either you are single or a couple.

The first part of the guide focuses on P4P scene (Pay for Play scene), while the second part explains how to meet everyday Hanoi girls by using the most popular dating site in Vietnam.

This Hanoi Sex Guide was last updated on 24 November 2019



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Intro to Prostitution in Hanoi
General information about Hanoi sex tourism

Where to Find Sex in Hanoi
An overview of the best places to get laid

Hanoi Girls Price
General prices for sex in Hanoi to help you budget your adventure

How To Meet Regular Hanoi Girls Online
The best way to hook up with everyday girls (no prostitutes)

What About Sex & Girls In Hanoi?
Sex Life in Hanoi

How to Get a Holiday Girlfriend In Hanoi
How to date Hanoi women during your vacation

Girl Friendly Hotels In Hanoi
Accommodations that allow Vietnamese girls without need to bribe


Intro To Prostitution In Hanoi

Hanoi isn’t anymore as quiet as it used to be. Nowadays it has an amazing nightlife and four red-light districts with coffee bars and girls for sex.

The four main red-light districts in Hanoi are:

  • Quoc Oai District
  • Ha Dong District
  • Gia Lam District
  • Dong Anh District

The interesting thing is the red light areas are visited by local men as well as foreigners. Don’t be surprised to find yourself shoulder to shoulder with a Vietnamese guy.

Anyway, Hanoi prostitution isn’t confined to the red-light districts. You can meet working girls freelancing in nightclubs, hook up with freelancers online and even find part-time students that need extra money.

sex tourism in hanoi city

freelancer online

There are plenty of ways for paid sex in Hanoi, but there are also plenty of opportunities if paying girls for sex isn’t your thing. Later in this guide, I’m going to show you how to meet horny girls in Hanoi that aren’t pros.


Where to Find Sex in Hanoi

If you want to get laid in Hanoi, the best places to meet horny girls are…

1. Online

hanoi girl online

You can meet Hanoi girls on sites like Vietnam Cupid. There are plenty of women interested in foreign men on this site. Some lady is looking for a serious relationship… And others are happy to have sex in exchange for cash.

It’s a great way to build a list of girls eager to meet you. So once you land in Hanoi, you and your new Vietnamese girlfriend can enjoy the night together.

2. Nightclubs

hanoi girls clubbing

Hanoi has a vivid nightlife with a vast amount of nightclubs and bars to pick up girls. It isn’t always clear who is a prostitute or a party girl, that complicate things.

You need to be confident in approaching women, although, don’t expect them to make contact with you.

The best nightclubs in Hanoi are:

Dragonfly Bar

One of the best bars in Hanoi, it’s popular among young Vietnamese girls and foreigners visiting the city.

Hero Club

A big nightclub located in the red light district of Hanoi. Most girls are freelancers and drinks are cheap.

The Bank

An upmarket nightclub with a good vibe. A mix of working girls and party girls.

3. Pick Up Bars

hanoi bar girls

An alternative to meet girls is to walk down the old quarters. There are several bars with freelancers (self-employed prostitutes).

Corner Bar and Tom’s Bar are popular places among foreign single guys.

Have a few drinks with the girls while having fun conversations so you put them in the right mood to please you.

The standard rate of an attractive girl is 700k for the night. Of course, you can negotiate.

4. Hanoi Happy Ending Massage

happy ending massage in hanoi

In Hanoi, you can get an erotic massage in any of the red light districts. The steps they follow is usually: bathtub, oil massage, and a happy ending. You’ll get a handjob or blob job during the massage but no sex.

The best massage places offering happy endings in Hanoi are:

Neko Massage – This spa offers erotic Nuru massages (body to body massage) by professional girls. You get finished off by a blow job.
Fortuna Hotel Massage – Beautiful hostesses willing to please.
Oasis Massage – Great place to play with two girls in the bathtub, and then get massaged all over.

5. Hanoi Hookers in Streets & Hotels

If you are searching for the services of a hooker in Hanoi, Tran Duy Hung is the street where the prostitutes hang out. The ongoing rate for a short time is anywhere around 500k.

Another way to engage the services of hookers is by staying in Fortuna Hotel. They have a casino, dancing floor with hookers and a massage parlor offering happy endings. It’s a sort of brothel.


Hanoi Girls Price

You can find Hanoi girls for rent around the city. Here a list of the typical prices:

• Fix Prices For Sex

When visiting a business that sells sex, the prices are fixed and can’t be negotiated. Ask for the menu or speak to the manager, and choose the service.

Here a list of standard prices for each business type:

  • Spas: The price for a happy ending massage can be broken down like this: 400k for the massage, 500k for a hand job and blow job.
  • Blow Job Salon: 400k for a massage with BJ.
  • Escorts: 800.000+ Dong.


• Variable Prices For Sex

Under this category are girls working for themselves like street hookers, freelancers and everyday girls in need of extra cash. Their prices aren’t fixed, change based on their age, the way you approach and interact.

  • Street hookers: 500k for a short time up to 900k for all night.
  • Freelancers in the nightclubs: from 500k to 700k for all night.
  • Girls on dating sites: start at 100k tip to the moon, it is up to you.

Make sure to bargain the price with the girls, it’s a normal way to deal in Vietnam.

If paying all this money just to have sex isn’t your things, consider reading the next section where I explain how to get laid for the price of a meal or coffee.


How To Meet Hanoi Girls Online

Most local girls in Hanoi are shy when approached in person by a foreigner man. The reason is their lack of English speaking skills and cultural values (conservative).

The girls seem to be more open when they chat with you online… And it’s also the best way to meet beautiful girls in Hanoi…

sexy hanoi girls online

You have access to all types of girls that are open to meet foreigners:

  • everyday girls who are looking for a serious relationship
  • girls for casual sex
  • freelancers who are looking for customers

Dating sites like Vietnam Cupid is more appropriate to meet girls for casual datings or a serious relationship. If you are into hookups, Asian Match Mate is a popular site for casual sex.

Start by writing a profile about yourself. Then upload a few good photos, showing your personal life. Look at your best, not stoned or drunk 🙂

To get more attention and responses from the girls, verify your profile and upgrade the membership.


What About Sex & Girls In Hanoi?

Hanoi girls are beautiful and generous, but less liberal and open-minded then girls in Saigon. However, once they feel comfortable with you, girls in Hanoi know how to please a man…

girl in hanoi

You’ll find Hanoi girls to be shy and reserved, but extremely feminine and erotic. They are going to satisfy most of your requests to make sure you have a good time with them.

If you don’t want anything serious with a girl in Hanoi, make sure to speak upfront because most women are serious about getting in a relationship.

An excellent place to hook up is near Hoan Kiem Lake. It’s easy to walk around and it’s a great place to meet local girls before bringing them back to your room.

Load up a Vietnamese dating site, message a few girls and meet them at Hoan Kiem Lake. They enjoy it because it’s romantic and I enjoy it because it cost me nothing…

hanoi girl at Hoan Kiem Lake

Hoan Kiem Lake is the best place to warm up the local girls

It’s a quick way to get to know a girl and see how she interact before things progress… And more importantly, it’s a great way to see how comfortable you feel with the girl before bringing her back to your room 😉


How To Get a Holiday Girlfriend In Hanoi

girlfriend in hanoi

If you are searching for a girlfriend in Hanoi, I’m going to show you where to find one.

Spending a vacation with a Vietnamese girlfriend is the best way to visit the city, try new food and clash with a new culture. Let alone having long conversations and longer nights of intense sex.

Just imagine being with a young, beautiful and horny woman in Hanoi…

hanoi girlfriend in bedroom

Spend time with her and enjoy each other company.

There are many prostitutes in Hanoi, but they don’t offer intimate moments as only a girlfriend can offer.

Many single men visiting the city end up spending the holiday with a hooker only because they don’t know there are plenty of everyday girls dreaming to meet a foreign man.

I always take my time to search for Vietnamese girls online before my trip, and only later to book the flight and accommodation. To find a girlfriend in Hanoi is the most important part when planning the vacation.

Just think about this: you are at home chatting with this adorable girl in Hanoi waiting for the moment to meet each other.

She wants you so badly, and you want to feel her. What will be once you meet face to face in Hanoi? When both of you are finally behind closed doors.

The best way to find a Vietnamese girlfriend is to use a popular dating site like Vietnam Cupid. Plenty of eager ladies that want to meet a foreign man.

To begin, write your profile with a realistic view of life. Your hobbies, interests, favorite food… And what you are looking for in a Vietnamese woman.

Then upload several photos looking at your best. Not drunk, stoned or posing in front of a Ferrari that isn’t yours 🙂

Make sure to verify your profile as this puts you straight up on the search and that “verified badge” is going to land you more responses and attention from the girls.

Just search for your perfect match and start the conversation with the girls. That’s it! Build your list of potential girlfriends, and once in Hanoi, just meet up.

The best girls for a girlfriend experience are the young university girls. They act grateful and happy that you’re helping them out.

When you spend time with a young university girl, you are going to have fun and feel younger because of their playful attitude.


Girl Friendly Hotels In Hanoi

hanoi girl friendly hotel

Most hotels in Hanoi discourage foreign males from bringing Vietnamese females into their hotel rooms – especially those who appear to be hookers.

However, there are a few establishments that allow you to bring in your female friends. You need to register them in the hotel registry for your safety.

My favorite girl friendly hotels in Hanoi are:

  • Fortuna Hotel – It’s a kind of brothel having a casino, dancing floor with many hookers and a massage parlor offering happy endings. You can bring as many girls as you want, no question asked.
  • Essence Hanoi Hotel – Great location in old quarters, near the nightlife and restaurants. The service is amazing and the staff very friendly. Love the window separating the bedroom from the toilet so that you can keep an eye on the girls.
  • Tirant Hotel – It’s a boutique hotel walking distance from Hoan Kiem Lake. The perfect hotel if you are planning to date girls in Hanoi. This place is class and romantic.

Just be respectful and discrete when you sign in your “guest”.

That wraps this Hanoi sex guide. Have fun!


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