Hanoi Sex Guide For Single Men

If you’re craving to get laid in Hanoi and want to know the best places to find sexy girls hot for action, this guide has all the info you need.

Hanoi is a stop for the nearby world-famous Ha Long Bay. But also a strategic location to hook up with beautiful Vietnamese women.

In this guide, I cover for the most part the P4P scene (Pay for Play scene). But I also get into the hookup scene in the nightclub section and the girlfriend experience in the holiday girlfriend section.

This Hanoi Sex Guide was last updated on April 25, 2025

Before your trip, I advise contacting some Vietnamese lady if you want to have companionship the moment you arrive. So you don’t waste time hoping around the nightlife venues to get some action.

Intro To Sex Tourism In Hanoi

Hanoi isn’t anymore as quiet as it used to be. Men from all over the world fly here not only to visit Ha Long Bay, but to have sex with local girls.

The city is getting a reputation for sex tourism but also for its nightlife. Beer Street and the Old Quarters is where all the fun happens. Later in this guide, you’ll find all the details.

The prostitution in Hanoi isn’t confined to the red-light districts. There are working girls in nightclubs, bars and online.

Even part-time students that need extra money…

Many people aren’t into brothels or ordering hookers to the hotel for a short time. They prefer to meet someone on a dating site or hookup app and enjoy a girlfriend experience for a few days together.

Prostitutes, Hookers And Gaito Girls

Working girls in Hanoi operate in different forms.

You have many call girls referred to as Gaito girls. They offer sex in hotel rooms (basically a brothel hotel) for about 300k-800k (about USD 15-35) per shot. Below in the “call girl section” I explain how to proceed to book one.

Then you have freelancers in nightclubs that offer all-night deals. Expect to pay them at least 1.5 million, but don’t expect a girlfriend experience like in Thailand.

Massage salons are also popular because they offer an interesting sexual experience.

Sauna, hot bath with the naked therapist, massage, hand job, and finish in her mouth after a blow job. See the section below for more info.

Karaoke bars have many young and beautiful girls but at a high price.

The street hookers operate in the red light district mentioned earlier like Hanh Dong, Dong Anh, and Gia Lam. If you bring a street prostitute to your hotel room, you may be asked for additional payment. Make sure to save your valuables, because if given a chance, they can rob you.

Red Light Districts

Hanoi city doesn’t have any former red light district area. But there are five informal red-light districts with street hookers, girlie bars and erotic massage parlors:

• Quoc Oai District: 30 km outside Hanoi center, you’ll find girls offering a “quick train” (prostitutes for one service).
• Ha Dong District: hookers are sitting in coffee shops along Duong Noi and Ba La waiting for customers.
• Gia Lam District: the small Phan Dang Luu road in this district is a hot spot for prostitution. In the dim red light cafes, girls wearing sexy dresses sit at the front to invite men.
• Dong Anh District: visit Mai Lam Road to find several girlie bars.
• Linh Lang Street: this area is called Little Tokyo (photo above). There are many girlie bars where you buy overpriced drinks and get some company. You may or may not be able to negotiate other “services” with the girls.

Not So Friendly Hotels For Working Girls

Some hotels and Airbnb places don’t allow unregistered guests for fear of police raids. Places get tagged as potential brothels if frequented by unmarried couples.

If you plan to have your Viet girlfriend stay with you, simply add her name as the second guest when booking.

Problems happen only when tourists bring in prostitutes. Just bribe the receptionist to turn a blind eye.

What About Sex & Girls In Hanoi?

They are beautiful and generous, but less liberal and open-minded than girls in Saigon. However, once they feel comfortable with you, girls in Hanoi know how to please a man.

You’ll find them to be shy and reserved, but extremely feminine and erotic. They are going to satisfy most of your requests to make sure you have a good time with them.

Don’t try to pick up girls randomly around the city, girls here aren’t used to this kind of approach. Also, they feel uncomfortable trying to communicate with you in English. Just imagine being in her shoes.

They prefer to meet foreign men on dating sites because it’s private and they can use a translator. Unfortunately, girls in Hanoi rarely speak English. Don’t forget to buy a gift and take her for a nice meal before having sex.

An excellent place to take your dates is Hoan Kiem Lake. It’s an easy walk where to convince her that you are the right man…

Hoan Kiem Lake is the best place to warm up the local girls

It’s a quick way to get to know a girl and see how she interacts before things progress… And more importantly, it’s a great way to see how comfortable you feel with the girl before bringing her back to your room 😉

Where to Find Girls For Sex in Hanoi

There are several ways to have sex with girls in Hanoi. Some work better than others, but it comes down to personal preferences.

1. Meet Girls Online

There is an abundant amount of girls online to score.

Although meeting men at clubs and bars used to be enjoyable for some girls, the majority of them have now turned to online dating as an alternative.

They use hookup apps and dating sites to connect with tourists visiting the city.

You have the curious student looking for a quicky with a foreign man, sugar babies looking for a sugar daddy, and mature women that want to fuck for their selfish reasons.

Note: Be careful with Tinder, there are about 80% profiles with fake or photoshopped photos. If you see a profile in the Old Quarters, just skip it. Too many scammers in that area. These young girls take you to a club/bar with overpriced drinks so they can get their commission.

2. Nightclubs And Pick Up Bars

Hanoi has a vivid nightlife with a vast amount of nightclubs and bars to pick up girls. But keep in mind that the nightlife venues close between 12 and 2 am in most cases, so I suggest getting out early to have fun.

If you go out to party during the week, in the Old Quarter the tourists and some locals keep the area alive. On the weekend in the Tay Ho/Quang An area there are several nightlife venues worth visiting to hook up with some local hottie.

It isn’t always clear who are the working girls and party girls, so watch out who is who.

The best bars and nightclubs in Hanoi to pick up girls are:

• Hero Club

Great club to pick up young Vietnamese girls. The place is a destination for students, so you’ll find many hotties. But beware that there are many working girls too.

It’s a late-night party destination, and after 11 pm starts to get filled. Among all the clubs in Hanoi, the music is best, drinks are cheap and there is no entrance fee.

• 1900 Le Theatre

Before 10 pm the entry is free, after that is 200k. This club is located in the Old Quarters, and often guests worldwide DJs.

The atmosphere is great, and the girls are in a party mood. It’s pretty full every single day of the week, and on weekends is packed.

• Savage Club

Not the cheapest with its 200k fee entrance, but has great music, atmosphere, and friendly girls.

The nightclub has a rooftop terrace and indoor dance floors that play electronic dance music (EDM) and techno.

Open until 4 am!

Prices: 150K spirits, 30K/small water bottle and 50K/beer.

• Local Bar

The local bar is located in the Old Quarters. It’s busy on weekends with many girls (foreigners and locals) hot for action. Don’t miss out on the happy hours.

If you aren’t into clubs, the old quarter area is filled with several bars and freelancers (self-employed prostitutes). Corner Pub and Tom’s Bar are worth the visit.

3. Erotic Massage – Happy Ending Experience

In Hanoi, most erotic parlors offer an interesting experience: steam room, hot bath with the naked therapist, body to body massage, hand job, and blow job… But no sex in most cases. I say most cases because occasionally you can bribe the massage lady for full service.

You can’t choose the therapist like in Saigon as there is no line up. You’ll be escorted to the room and then sent over a lady or two to choose.

If you don’t like her, ask for another masseur. To avoid all the drama of getting average therapists, just tip 300k to the manager and ask for the hottest lady. He’ll send you the best of the cream.

In the Old Quarter area, you’ll see several Spas with a hot girl sitting outside…

Stay away from these happy-ending massage parlors because they are going to scam you. Instead, visit reputable erotic massage parlors.

4. Blow Job Places – Tam Quat

In Hanoi, the local blow job places are called “Tam Quat”. Instead around Vietnam, they are called “Hot Toc” or “Goi Dau”. You can recognize them by the pink neon near the entrance. 

It’s much easier to spot at night because of the pink glow signage.

They are in most districts in Hanoi, especially in Long Bien and Man Thuy Chue. The girls are usually in their 30s and offer impersonal cheap blowjobs for as low as 250k. Occasionally they let you finger them.

5. Hair Salon

Some hair salons are front for brothel activities.

A famous chain called Hair Salon New Seoul offers haircuts that end with a blowjob. They are located in Trung Hoa and Dinh Ton.

They have a line of about 10-15 girls at the entrance. Pick a girl and have fun.

There are several packages: for one girl service the price starts at 300k up to 700k, instead for two girls the price starts at 500k up to 800k. The tip for each lady is about 500k.

6. Freelancers – Massage at Home

There are also freelancers offering massage at-home services. You can contact them by using the Line App “nearby future”.

In most cases, the person you’re texting with is their pimp who manages several girls. So if you don’t like the first girl, ask to send more photos until you find the right lady.

The girl come to your room for around 1.5 million (short time) or you can also ask the pimp to arrange a nearby love motel for about 200-300k. Of course, you can negotiate the price.

For all night deal is about 3 million. It’s not worth it as Vietnamese freelancers don’t offer a quality girlfriend experience.

7. Escorts – Call Girls in Hanoi

There are escort directories where you can get in contact with high-class women. These suit those men who prioritize companionship and class above sex.

For those who are looking for just sex, there are many Gaito girls on Banhbeo for home service. But read the description because some won’t do full sex service, but only hand and blow jobs.

Ask for her latest photos and don’t pay in advance because in Hanoi call girls use fake profiles and as well bait and switch techniques.

She’ll send the address where to meet which is a short time hotel. Of course, you have to pay about 150k for it.

And be aware that behind some profiles might be an agency. They send random girls who look different from the photo.

Below are the steps with a Gaito girl:

1. Find the phone numbers on the website.
2. Send an SMS text asking for a “date”.
3. The girl will reply with a hotel name and address. She will meet you there.
4. Reply with the time you’ll be there.
5. Go to the hotel and book a room for 2 hours for about 150k. Send another message to let her know the room number.
6. Have fun, no rush as you pay the lady for the shot not her time.
7. Pay the girl.
8. After having fun, pay the girl the price as listed on the website (on average 300k-800k/shot, about USD 15-25).

8. Street Sex Workers

If you are searching for the services of a street hooker in Hanoi, pay a visit to Tran Duy Hung. It’s a popular street among streetwalkers. The ongoing rate for a short time is around 500k + 150k for the hotel room.

Alternatively, visit any red-light streets such as Gia Lam, Ha Dong, or Dong Anh. Some of the pictures above were taken in Linh Lang Street known as Little Tokyo.

You’ll notice street prostitutes standing in the small alleys or sitting on their motorbike. Sometimes they might approach you with the scooter while you’re walking down the street.

Note: Look after your valuables because street prostitutes in Hanoi are known to steal things.

9. Karaoke Bars

Several karaoke bars in Hanoi serve Japanese and Koreans, but everyone is welcome.

The most famous is BossKTV in Fortuna Hotel. It’s a high-end business karaoke bar with stunning girls in their 20s. If you want to have sex with a girl here, you need to have a room in the Fortuna Hotel.

Another good one is the KTV bar on the second floor of the Hanoi Hotel. Not as many girls as in BossKTV, but the quality is good.

How To Meet Hanoi Girls Online

Most local girls in Hanoi are shy when approached in person by a foreign man. The reason is their lack of English speaking skills and cultural values (conservative).

The girls seem to be more open when they chat with you online… And it’s also the best way to meet beautiful girls in Hanoi…

You have access to all types of girls that are open to meet foreigners:

• everyday girls who are looking for a serious relationship
• girls for casual sex

These popular dating sites in Vietnam are helpful to contact girls for casual dating or to find a serious relationship.

If you are into hookups, Asian Match Mate is a popular site for casual sex and threesome not only in Vietnam but all around Asia.

How To Get a Holiday Girlfriend In Hanoi

If you are searching for a girlfriend in Hanoi, I’m going to show you where to find one.

Spending a vacation with a Vietnamese girlfriend is the best way to visit the city, try new food and clash with a new culture. Let alone having long conversations and longer nights of intense sex.

Being alone in a foreign city is boring and not fun. Having someone to share leisure and romantic moments with is a must for a single man.

Just imagine being with a young, beautiful, and horny woman in Hanoi…

Spend time with her and enjoy each other company.

There are many prostitutes in Hanoi, but they don’t offer intimate moments as only a girlfriend can offer.

Many single men visiting the city end up spending the holiday with a hooker. They don’t know there are plenty of everyday girls dreaming of meeting a foreign man.

I always take my time to search for Vietnamese girls online before my trip, and only later to book the flight and accommodation. Finding a girlfriend in Hanoi is the most important part when planning a vacation.

Just think about this: you are at home chatting with this adorable girl in Hanoi waiting for the moment to meet each other.

She wants you so badly, and you want to feel her. What will be once you meet face-to-face in Hanoi? When both of you are finally behind closed doors.

The best way to find a Vietnamese girlfriend is to use Seeking. A popular site that connects beautiful and young women with successful men.

To begin, write your profile with a realistic view of life. Your hobbies, interests, favorite food… And what you are looking for in a Vietnamese woman.

Then upload several photos looking at your best. Not drunk, stoned, or posing in front of a Ferrari that isn’t yours

Make sure to verify your profile as this puts you straight up on the search… And you get a “verified badge” that helps to get more attention from the girls.

Just search for your perfect match and start the conversation with the girls. That’s it! Build your list of potential girlfriends, and once in Hanoi, just meet up.

The best girls for a girlfriend experience are young university girls. They act grateful and happy that you’re helping them out.

When you spend time with a young university girl, you are going to have fun and feel younger because of their playful attitude.

Read Also: How To Rent A Girlfriend In Vietnam

Girl-Friendly Hotels In Hanoi

Most hotels in Hanoi discourage foreign males from bringing Vietnamese females into their hotel rooms – especially those who appear to be prostitutes.

However, there are a few establishments that allow you to bring in your female friends. You need to register them in the hotel registry for your safety.

My favorite girl-friendly hotels in Hanoi are:

• Fortuna Hotel – It’s a kind of brothel having a casino, a dancing floor with many hookers, and an erotic massage parlor offering happy endings. You can bring as many girls as you want, no questions asked.

• Essence Hanoi Hotel – Great location in old quarters, near the nightlife and restaurants. The service is amazing and the staff friendly. I love the window separating the bedroom from the toilet so that you can keep an eye on the girls.

• Tirant Hotel – It’s a boutique hotel walking distance from Hoan Kiem Lake. The perfect hotel if you are planning to date girls in Hanoi. This place is classy and romantic.

• A25 Hotels – It’s a chain of hotels well managed with clean rooms. Several Gaito girls work out from these properties. You can also book a room for 2 hours for 150k.

Just be respectful and discrete when you sign in your “guest”.

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