hanoi sex guide

Hanoi Sex Guide For Single Men

If you’re craving to get laid in Hanoi and want to know the best places where to find sexy girls hot for action, this guide has all the info you need.

Hanoi is a stop for the nearby world-famous Ha Long Bay. But also a strategic location to hook up with beautiful Vietnamese women.

In this guide, I cover the P4P scene (Pay for Play scene) talking about freelancers, massage shops, and how to rent a holiday girlfriend in Vietnam.

This Hanoi Sex Guide was last updated on 13 April 2023

Spoiler Alert: Hanoi receive tourist and no self-isolation is required. You only need a negative RT-PCR test and travel insurance.

And don’t forget to get in contact with Vietnamese ladies online if you want to have companionship the moment you arrive.

Intro To Sex Tourism In Hanoi

Hanoi isn’t anymore as quiet as it used to be. Men from all over the world fly here to have sex with Vietnamese girls.

The city is getting a reputation for sex tourism but also for the great nightlife.

Not only you’ll find four red-light districts with bars and girls for sex, but a wide range of massage parlors that offer happy endings.

The four main red-light districts are:

  • Quoc Oai District
  • Ha Dong District
  • Gia Lam District
  • Dong Anh District

The interesting thing is the red light areas are visited by local men as well as foreigners. Don’t be surprised to find yourself shoulder to shoulder with a Vietnamese guy.

Anyway, Hanoi prostitution isn’t confined to the red-light districts. There are working girls in nightclubs and online.

Even part-time students that need extra money…

sex tourism in hanoi city

Hanoi working girl online

There are plenty of ways for paid sex in Hanoi, but there are also plenty of opportunities if paying girls for sex isn’t your thing.

Later in this guide, I’m going to show you how to meet horny girls in Hanoi that aren’t pros.


What About Sex & Girls In Hanoi?

Hanoi girls are beautiful and generous, but less liberal and open-minded than girls in Saigon.

However, once they feel comfortable with you, girls in Hanoi know how to please a man.

You’ll find Hanoi girls to be shy and reserved, but extremely feminine and erotic. They are going to satisfy most of your requests to make sure you have a good time with them.

Don’t try to pick up girls randomly around the city, girls here aren’t used to this kind of approach.

Also, they feel uncomfortable trying to communicate with you in English. Just imagine being in her shoes.

They prefer to meet foreign men on dating sites because it’s private and they can use a translator.

If you don’t want anything serious with a girl in Hanoi, make sure to speak upfront because most Vietnamese women are serious about getting into a relationship.

An excellent place to take your dates is Hoan Kiem Lake. It’s easy to walk around and convince the ladies that you are the right man for her…

hanoi girl at Hoan Kiem Lake

Hoan Kiem Lake is the best place to warm up the local girls

It’s a quick way to get to know a girl and see how she interacts before things progress… And more importantly, it’s a great way to see how comfortable you feel with the girl before bringing her back to your room 😉


Where to Find Girls For Sex in Hanoi

There are several ways to have sex with girls in Hanoi. Some work better than others, but it comes down to personal preferences.

1. Meet Girls Online

hanoi girl online

There is an abundant amount of girls online to score.

Although meeting men at clubs and bars used to be enjoyable for some girls, the majority of them have now turned to online dating as an alternative.

They utilize hookup apps and dating sites to connect with tourists visiting the city.

You have the curious student looking for a quicky, sugar babies looking for a sugar daddy, and mature women that want to fuck for their own selfish reasons.

You can start chatting with Hanoi girls way before your visit. This allows you to have a Vietnamese companion waiting to hook up with you the moment you step foot in the city!

2. Nightclubs And Pick Up Bars

Hanoi has a vivid nightlife with a vast amount of nightclubs and bars to pick up girls. It isn’t always clear who are the working girls and party girls, so watch out who is who.

Hanoi girl clubbing

The best bars and nightclubs in Hanoi to pick up girls are:

Hero Club

Great club to pick up young Vietnamese girls. The place is a destination for students, so you’ll find many hotties. But beware that there are many working girls too.

It’s a late-night party destination, and after 11 pm starts to get filled. Among all the clubs in Hanoi, the music is the best and the drink prices the cheapest.

Savage Club

Not the cheapest with its 200k fee entrance, but definitely has great music, atmosphere, and friendly girls.

The nightclub has a rooftop terrace and indoor dance floors playing electronic dance music (EDM) and techno.

The Bank Hanoi

Located in a historic building, this club has multiple levels with different music genres, including hip hop, EDM, and house.

You can find all sorts of girls here, and they usually get wasted. For this reason, they are easy to approach.

Dragonfly Bar Lounge

If clubs are too loud for you, Dragonfly is the place to chill out and find hookups.

Local Bar

Local bar is usually busy on weekends with many girls (foreigners and locals) hot for action. Don’t miss out on the happy hours.

If you aren’t into clubs, the old quarter area is filled with several bars and freelancers (self-employed prostitutes). Corner Pub and Tom’s Bar are worth the visit.

3. Happy Ending Massage

Hanoi massage girls in Fortuna hotel

In Hanoi, most erotic parlors offer only massage and blowjobs. Full service is unlikely and up to the lady.

The old quarter in Hanoi is where you can find the majority of happy-ending massage parlors. It’s impossible to report all the erotic parlors in the city, they are too many.

Below I’ve mentioned only the very best places for a happy ending massage. Let’s start with…

Neko Massage

This spa offers erotic Nuru massages (body to body massage) and you get finished off by a blow job or Hand job. No full sex is allowed.

You can choose among about 20 girls at any given time once you pay the room charges.

The best feature in the room is the long rectangular mirror on the ceiling over the bed.

Spa De Palace

Located inside a four stars hotel called Fortuna, here you’ll find beautiful girls that you can take back to your room for some sex.

I suggest booking in advance because this place is popular.

JSP Massage

Great place to play with two girls in the bathtub, and then get massaged all over.

The rooms are clean and the girls are well-trained.

Vip Massage Windy 

Are you looking for a soapy massage offering a happy ending at an affordable price? Windy is your place.

Not the finest rooms, but the girls know how to use their mouths.

4. Blow Job Barbershop

In Hanoi, there aren’t blow job bars like in Thailand but fake barbershops called Hot Tocs. The girls are usually in their 30s and offer impersonal cheap blowjobs for as low as 300k.

They are much easier to sport at night because of the pink color signage that says “tam quat”…

Tam Quat in Hanoi

They are everywhere in every district in Hanoi, especially in Long Bien.

If prefer better-looking girls or simply value privacy, you can use different apps and sites out there to hire girls for a blowjob in your room. The average price for a blowjob is 700k dongs.

5. Escorts – Call Girls in Hanoi

sexy escort girl in Hanoi

There are escort directories where you can get in contact with call girls. Ask for her latest photos and don’t pay in advance.

She’ll send the address where to meet which is a short time hotel. Of course, you have to pay for it.

Don’t hope for an outcall service, escorts in Hanoi don’t provide it… And be aware that behind some profiles might be an agency. They send random girls who look different from the photo.

6. Streetwalkers

If you are searching for the services of a street hooker in Hanoi, pay a visit to Tran Duy Hung.

It’s a popular street among streetwalkers. The ongoing rate for a short time is around 300k.

Alternatively, visit any red light streets such as Gia Lam, Ha Dong, or Dong Anh.

Another way to engage the services of working girls is by staying in Fortuna Hotel. It’s a sort of brothel.

They have a casino, a dancing floor with hookers and a massage parlor offering happy endings.


How To Meet Hanoi Girls Online

Most local girls in Hanoi are shy when approached in person by a foreign man. The reason is their lack of English speaking skills and cultural values (conservative).

The girls seem to be more open when they chat with you online… And it’s also the best way to meet beautiful girls in Hanoi…

sexy hanoi girls online

You have access to all types of girls that are open to meet foreigners:

  • everyday girls who are looking for a serious relationship
  • girls for casual sex

These popular dating sites in Vietnam are more appropriate to meet girls for casual dating or for a serious relationship.

If you are into hookups, Asian Match Mate is a popular site for casual sex and threesome not only in Vietnam but all around the world.


How To Get a Holiday Girlfriend In Hanoi

If you are searching for a girlfriend in Hanoi, I’m going to show you where to find one.

Spending a vacation with a Vietnamese girlfriend is the best way to visit the city, try new food and clash with a new culture. Let alone having long conversations and longer nights of intense sex.

Stay alone in a foreign city is boring and not fun. Have someone to share leisure and romantic moments with is a must for a single man.

Just imagine being with a young, beautiful and horny woman in Hanoi…

hanoi girlfriend in bedroom

Spend time with her and enjoy each other company.

There are many prostitutes in Hanoi, but they don’t offer intimate moments as only a girlfriend can offer.

Many single men visiting the city end up spending the holiday with a hooker. They don’t know there are plenty of everyday girls dreaming to meet a foreign man.

I always take my time to search for Vietnamese girls online before my trip, and only later to book the flight and accommodation. To find a girlfriend in Hanoi is the most important part when planning a vacation.

Just think about this: you are at home chatting with this adorable girl in Hanoi waiting for the moment to meet each other.

She wants you so badly, and you want to feel her. What will be once you meet face to face in Hanoi? When both of you are finally behind closed doors.

The best way to find a Vietnamese girlfriend is to use a popular dating or arrangement site in Vietnam. There you’ll find plenty of eager ladies that want to meet a foreign man.

To begin, write your profile with a realistic view of life. Your hobbies, interests, favorite food… And what you are looking for in a Vietnamese woman.

Then upload several photos looking at your best. Not drunk, stoned, or posing in front of a Ferrari that isn’t yours 🙂

Make sure to verify your profile as this puts you straight up on the search… And you get a “verified badge” that helps to get more attention from the girls.

Just search for your perfect match and start the conversation with the girls. That’s it! Build your list of potential girlfriends, and once in Hanoi, just meet up.

The best girls for a girlfriend experience are young university girls. They act grateful and happy that you’re helping them out.

When you spend time with a young university girl, you are going to have fun and feel younger because of their playful attitude.

Read Also: How To Rent A Girlfriend In Vietnam


Girl Friendly Hotels In Hanoi

Most hotels in Hanoi discourage foreign males from bringing Vietnamese females into their hotel rooms – especially those who appear to be prostitutes.

However, there are a few establishments that allow you to bring in your female friends. You need to register them in the hotel registry for your safety.

My favorite girl friendly hotels in Hanoi are:

  • Fortuna Hotel – It’s a kind of brothel having a casino, dancing floor with many hookers and a massage parlor offering happy endings. You can bring as many girls as you want, no question asked.
  • Essence Hanoi Hotel – Great location in old quarters, near the nightlife and restaurants. The service is amazing and the staff very friendly. Love the window separating the bedroom from the toilet so that you can keep an eye on the girls.
  • Tirant Hotel – It’s a boutique hotel walking distance from Hoan Kiem Lake. The perfect hotel if you are planning to date girls in Hanoi. This place is class and romantic.

Just be respectful and discrete when you sign in your “guest”.

That wraps this Hanoi sex guide. Have fun!





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