Before getting into a relationship with a Thai girl, you should know the importance to look for her in the right place. This is the biggest mistake foreign men do when searching for a Thai girlfriend.
What happens is they fall in love with the first girl they meet in Thailand, and usually, that is a bar girl or working girl.
That’s why you hear so many stories of infidelity and men cleaned up by their Thai girlfriend. They just met the wrong type of girl.
The reason why this happens is pretty simple: Thai girls that easily give attention to a foreign man do it with the intent to get a financial gain.
And because those women are so charming and manipulative, the man misinterprets the situation by thinking the girl is in love with him.
In other words, he is unaware she is just using his male ego to get financial gains.
So the reality is pretty simple: any man who thinks to fly to Thailand and to find a proper girlfriend just by walking the streets, it’s in danger to end up with a gold digger.
Now, there are interesting things you should know before having a Thai girlfriend as explained in this video…
But there are two essential things you should know about Thai dating culture that can make or break your chances to get a sincere Thai girlfriend.
I’ll also tell you where to look for a Thai girlfriend so you can immediately get started without wasting time, effort and money.
Money, Girls, And Relationships
Money in Thailand plays an interesting role in relationships between men and women.
Thailand is developing fast and it isn’t a poor country anymore. Yet most of that wealth is in the hands of men, no matter the social status.
Men get the priority to study and for career advancement over women simply because in Thai society men are seen as breadwinners. On the other hand, women are supposed to look after kids and family.
So the dynamics of relationship and money in Thailand revolve around this fact. As a result, Thai women are dependent on men for financial support for almost anything.
And that isn’t necessarily a bad thing when you understand how to take advantage of it.
For example, there are plenty of university girls that struggle to make ends meet. If you offer financial support – which is a normal thing in Thai society – you can get yourself a young and beautiful rental Thai girlfriend for about 10.000-15.000 baht per month.
The good thing when renting a Thai girlfriend is you don’t have to deal with jealousy, drama and nagging like in a regular relationship. Yet, you get all the benefits like intimacy, friendship and companionship.
Now, where the financial support gets mess up is when foreign men make deals with working girls like bar girls and freelancers.
Tourists fall for the bar girl’s stories that they are forced to work in the sex industry to support their family. The reality is they are too lazy to work a regular job that doesn’t pay so well and it isn’t as fun.
Anyway, foreign men fall for it and give money every month so the girl can leave the bar. But this foolish action incentive the girl to look for more benevolent sponsors while she carries on to work in the bar.
No wonder why so many foreign men wonder if Thai girls are faithful when there are so many such stories online.
Are Thai Girlfriends Faithfull?
Yes, they are.
Thai girls are very supportive and strongly believe in a monogamous relationship. In fact, once a Thai girl is been taken, it’s extremely hard for any other men to talk with her.
For example, every morning I go for a coffee at 7 am sharp. And there is an attractive Thai girl that walks in for a cup of coffee.
So, one day I talked to her in a friendly manner out of curiosity and interest. But she was distant and not up for a conversation.
And that was weird because usually Thai girls are friendly when approached properly.
After a few days, I saw her with her foreign boyfriend. That moment I understood why she didn’t want to talk with me a few days earlier. She was already taken.
As a matter of fact, Thai girls are conservative and they don’t talk to other men more than necessary when they are already in a relationship. Let alone having sex with someone else.
The stories you might hear about unfaithful Thai girlfriends are always from foreign men in a relationship with a bar girl.
As said earlier, bar girls are gold diggers and they don’t think twice to sleep with another man for financial gains.
In conclusion, it’s all about finding the right type of Thai girlfriend in the right places if you don’t want to be taken advantage of or cheated.
Where To Find A Sincere Girlfriend In Thailand
It depends on where you are resident at the moment.
If you are living in Thailand, you should date girls working with you or meet Thai women in places like the gym, library, or yoga classes. But if you live abroad, then you want to meet girls on a dating site as explained below.
You Are Resident In Thailand
If you want to find a sincere Thai girlfriend, you should look in places where good Thai girls hang out. Places where unlikely you’ll find lazy and uneducated Thai girls that work in the sex industry.
Your workplace is a sure bet because companies that hire foreigners employ only Thai girls with a university degree. Education is a strong indicator of good values in a Thai woman.
Another good place is the library or a book shop. Plenty of intelligent and worldly Thai women in those places. Also, you have a chance to find a girl that can speak proper English.
The places you shouldn’t expect to meet good Thai girls are bars and nightclubs. While some good girl hang out with friends occasionally, most won’t.
Thai girls who are girlfriend material don’t drink, smoke or party.
You Are Resident Outside Thailand
When searching for a Thai girlfriend while living abroad, you need to take a different approach than a foreign man resident in Thailand.
First, you need to get in contact with several Thai girls to find the right partner. Second, you need to get in contact with Thai girls who are looking for a foreign boyfriend.
The best place to find a Thai girlfriend is to use a popular dating site.
There are Thai girls with sexy photos because they are looking for a boyfriend with benefits rather than a sincere relationship.
In popular tourist destinations like Pattaya and Phuket, some of the girls on dating sites might be Thai freelancers looking for customers.
And those girls aren’t suitable candidates if you’re looking for a serious Thai girlfriend, but they can be an option in case you want a holiday girlfriend.
Permanent Or Temporary Thai Girlfriend?
You can get a temporary or permanent girlfriend in Thailand, but if you have the choice, go for a temporary girlfriend.
When you get a temporary Thai girlfriend, she gets an immediate benefit which is financial support. Meaning she doesn’t expect any financial gain in the future.
On the other hand, when you start a regular relationship with a Thai woman, she expects to get married and have kids in the future. And that isn’t something that every man wants.
The only thing you should avoid at all costs is to make a bar girl or working girl your girlfriend. Not only they have bad habits like drinking and smoking, but they are liars and cheaters.
In conclusion, you decide the sort of relationship you want to have with your Thai girlfriend.
If you’re living in Thailand, meet Thai girls at your workplace or where educated ladies hang out. Instead, if you’re living abroad, search for a Thai girlfriend on a dating site.