The Economic Table In Asian Relationships
In Asia, most relationships between a foreign man and a local woman have a strong economic side to it. Always! Like 98% of the time.
The reason is simple: if a local girl can get nothing in return for her time, affection and body from a foreign man, she would be better off having a relationship with a local man.
Why? Because it’s much easier.
These are the main reasons:
- They understand each other by speaking the same language.
- They share a common culture and religious beliefs.
- There is less stigma than dating a foreigner.
I’m telling you this so you don’t get your spirit (heart) broken. But also because you don’t get taken advantage of by a romantic manipulator.
I’m proposing to you a relationship economic table so you can place her in the appropriate slot. By doing this you’ll always know where your relationship with her stands.
And by learning the Economic Table in Asian Relationships you’ll understand how to be in the 2% part: finding a love relationship without economic influence.
Contents
Understand The Economic Relationship Table
Type Of Women
Pro: The classic brothel prostitute. But also the pro freelancer who hangs out in nightclubs or in the streets every other night… And the escort who offers companionship as well as sex.
Basically fucking is her full-time job.
Semi Pro: The girls in this category give it out occasionally because they don’t want to be labeled “hooker”.
Think about sugar babies, models, showgirls, hostesses, and so on. They fuck and/or offer a romantic relationship for money or gifts, but they don’t want to feel like a hooker.
No Pro: This is the classic girl looking for a serious relationship or a friend-with-benefits arrangement that doesn’t involve money.
Economic Arrangement
Free: No money or gifts for companionship and sex. Mostly, the girl has similar age and social status to him.
Cheap Indirect Pay: She accepts gifts which usually amount to less than having sex or companionship with a pro. If you spend $50 on dinner to have sex with her, while a whore would cost $100, it’s a cheap indirect pay.
The girls in this economic arrangement often prefer that you spend on experiences for them, rather than things that stay with them like a handbag, car or condo.
These types of girls want to believe in being in love so they don’t feel like a prostitute.
Expensive Indirect Pay: The gifts you give to fuck or have a relationship with her are more expensive than a Pro of similar beauty.
Usually, these types of women don’t feel ashamed to receive gifts as compensation for their time/service. Think about expensive sugar babies and trophy wives.
They want you to spend on things that remain with them (branded handbags, jewelry, cars, properties and so on).
The Free Column
For free I mean don’t pay her directly/indirectly or with other utility goods. Basically have sex/relationship with her for free.
Let’s see some typical situations for the cell 1,5,9.
Situations For Cell 1 (Pro – Free)
If a man have sex with a Pro and then run away, he fucked a pro for free.
For sure she will be pissed off, and the guy might have to pay heavy consequences that aren’t worth the risk. She might become violent, call the cops, mafia friends or Papasan.
Another situation could be when you meet a professional outside her workplace, date, and have free sex/relationship. This is great for obvious reasons.
Situations For Cell 5 (Semi Pro – Free)
If you dig into the world of sugar relationships, you often hear women complaining about “John’s” who convinces them to have sex on the first date, and then get away without paying.
This situation is so common because the men can get away without consequences. I feel sorry for all those honest sugar babies that got deceived.
It also happens often in Thailand and the Philippines when you meet a girl in a nightclub, there is no talk about compensation, and you start to date/have sex with her.
After a few dates/sex she just disappears (usually in Thailand) or starts to demand things (usually in the Philippines).
The relationships in cell 5 are short-lived.
Situations For Cell 9 (No Pro – Free)
The classic long-term relationship is based on attraction and love. No financial benefits. She doesn’t ask anything, actually she is happy to split the bills.
Be careful because in Asia this type of relationship is rare when it involves a foreign man. This type of women are independent and live a comfortable lifestyle. So there is little incentive to date a foreign men as they can easily date quality Thai men.
A warning: If you manage to date an independent woman, once you get kids she’ll become an housewife. The relationship will change to an indirect pay (you start to support her and her family) which becomes your burden.
The Cheap Indirect Pay Column
The cheap indirect pay is when you buy gifts and/or experiences that cost less to have sex/companionship with an escort in that country.
For example, in the Philippines, an escort costs from $30 to $150. If on average the gift or dinner you offer to have sex/companionship cost less, you allocate her in this column.
Situations For Cell 2 (Pro – Cheap Indirect Pay)
Very unlikely you’ll get the services of a prostitute at a discount because it doesn’t make any sense.
Unless you meet outside her work environment, and you start dating unaware of her profession.
Situations For Cell 6 (Semi Pro – Cheap Indirect Pay)
There are girls who fuck or get into a sugar relationship on the side in exchange for gifts and experiences.
Usually the cheap indirect pay are students or young girls with a regular job who are just starting as semi pro. They don’t have any issue asking for gifts/experiences in exchange for sex.
They give it away cheaply because they aren’t still aware of their worth in the market.
Situations For Cell 10 (No Pro – Cheap Indirect Pay)
With No Pros, the interpersonal aspect matters a lot. They want the illusion that what they receive isn’t payment for a service.
They believe it (or want to believe it), and often their ‘partners’ believe it (or want to believe it) too.
If you make them feel like sluts/whores, they’ll likely disappear out of shame.
The Expensive Indirect Pay Column
The expensive indirect pay happens when you buy experiences and/or gifts that are more expensive than the cost of having sex or companionship with an escort in that country.
Situations For Cell 3 (Pro – Expensive Indirect Pay)
Happens often that an escort makes her customers fall in love.
She takes advantage of this emotional manipulation by asking for expensive gifts and experiences like luxury handbags, a car, or exotic vacations in places like Maldives together and so on. Basically she is an expensive sugar baby.
Let’s say a man spends $5000 for a week in the Maldives with her and fucked her 5 times during the trip.. That translates into $1000 per shot.
If she charges customers less than $1000 for sex (direct pay), it means the man is getting a bad deal.
You can apply the same calculation for companionship in case of an escort that gets paid by the hour.
Of course, many men will reason that they are getting a girlfriend experience, she loves him, and so on…
But when it comes to the economic relationship table, this column is where she must be allocated. No exceptions.
Situations For Cell 7 (Semi Pro – Expensive Indirect Pay)
The semi-pro that usually are an expensive indirect pay are models, actresses, show girls and so on. Think about the girlfriends and wifes of important people to understand the type of women that get into this column.
These type of women don’t fuck for direct pay because that would ruin their self-esteem, image, and reputation.
But in the name of love and an expensive maintenance fee, they are happy to give it to the lucky wealthy man who can afford it.
Situations For Cell 11 – (No Pro – Expensive Indirect Pay)
It’s hard for a foreign man to get into a relationship with a No pro who expects expensive gifts because they are usually inaccessible.
These women are from well off families who only date high-caliber local men. Dating a foreign man would ruin their reputation, and often her parents would be ashamed.
An exception might occur if you meet her abroad while she’s pursuing a higher degree and she develops feelings for you.
They’re accustomed to a high standard of living, so it’s natural for them to expect expensive gifts and experiences. They enjoy the finer things in life, such as exotic vacations, designer gifts, and gourmet dining.
The Pay Direct Column
This column is simple to understand: pay cash in exchange for a service.
Situations For Cell 4 (Pro – Pay)
Not much to say, the Pro Pay is the classic hooker. In cities like Bali and Manila, you’ll find them in abundance.
I respect hookers because they are honest about the economic transaction; If you want to fuck me, this is the price.
Straight honesty, a wonderful moral to have.
Situations For Cell 8 (Semi Pro – Pay)
The Semi Pro – Pay are common in South East Asian countries. Usually, they are student girls who struggle to make ends meet and decide to sell themselves on weekends.
They don’t want to get into the sex industry full time but they aren’t so innocent either.
Most of these girls would love to get into an indirect pay situation by getting a sugar daddy or generous boyfriend.
But it’s difficult to find one who can afford to provide for them.
Situations For Cell 12 (No Pro – Pay)
This is interesting, but I consider it unethical. Basically it’s to corrupt an innocent girl to have sex in exchange for money.
For example, an old man likes this 20-something-year-old lady working in a restaurant as a waitress. He doesn’t have a chance with her due to the wide age gap, etc.
Yet, an emergency happens and she needs money immediately. The old man offers to pay in exchange for sex.
This is a classic No Pro – Pay situation.
How To Get The Best Value For Your Money
You might think that having sex or a relationship for free in Asian countries is the absolute best. Not really, not always.
A free relationship doesn’t last long in Asia. In my experience, the freebies didn’t last more than two sexual encounters..
Considering the time and energy invested in chatting up the girl, eating something together, or going to the cinema, just for 1-2 shots… It isn’t totally free after all.
The sweet spot is the “Cheap Indirect Pay”. You keep her coming back because she is immediately getting something out of it with the hope of upgrading to “Expensive Indirect Pay”. In the meanwhile, you get her by paying less than fucking or enjoying the companionship of an escort.
The longer you can keep her in this sweet spot, the better for you. Over time the companionship and sexual experience tend to improve thanks to the personal connection. With an escort, this isn’t possible.
And if you ask me which cell I prefer, 6 and 10 are my answers.
The Asian No Pros are great fun because they are innocent, want to be loved, and offer love as well as having a great time.
Yet, don’t expect her to satisfy crazy sexual fantasies. Most are into vanilla sex due to their conservative upbringing. In Europe and the USA, it is a completely different story.
If you want more than vanilla sex or don’t want to spend the time to train her into wild kinks, I suggest going with the Semi Pro.
She’ll cost you more, but she’ll please you better. But keep in mind that she won’t stay around for too long because soon or later she’ll find out her true value in the marketplace. Someone will come along offering a better deal.
Contact me at [email protected] to book a consultancy via email or phone to avoid wasting money and time. Explain your situation to me and in return get a personal plan on how to go about the situation.
Many men think they are in a free relationship when in reality, they are paying a high price for it. And many others don’t know how to get started.
With more than a decade of experience in the economic management of Asian women, I can guide you in the right direction.
Don’t lose thousands of dollars just because you think you know better.
With that said, if you think you need my advice, feel free to reach out – I’m here to help!
