So you want to find a Vietnamese girlfriend but you don’t know where to get started.
It doesn’t matter if you’re already in Vietnam or don’t plan to move there, I’m going to show you how to get yourself a nice Vietnam girlfriend.
And by “nice” I mean only those Viet girls that respect a man, are polite and listen more than talking.
Furthermore, you want only to meet girls that are honest and with genuine intentions to find a foreign boyfriend.
As a matter of fact, there are some entitled girls in Vietnam and living oversea, plus gold diggers in the mix.
There are several stories of foreign men been taken to the cleaner by their Vietnam girlfriend. But fortunately, there are many more stories of successful relationships.
Before I reveal how to get in contact with Vietnamese girls interested in a relationship with a foreign man, I’m going to lay out a few tips to avoid the “bad apples”.
What Type Of Vietnamese Girls Aren’t Girlfriend Material?
Vietnam is an emerging sex tourism destination and as such, there is a good number of easy girls looking for a foreign boyfriend just for financial interests.
And that isn’t necessarily a bad thing because it gives you the possibility to rent a girlfriend in Vietnam on the cheap, instead to get into a serious relationship.
But when the girl isn’t honest about her true intentions and takes advantage of the kindness of her generous boyfriend, that’s a gold digger.
Fortunately, they are pretty easy to spot. As you’ll meet most Vietnamese girls off a dating or arrangement site, let’s start from there.
If she asks you for money even before you both meet up face to face, she is a scammer. Don’t listen to her pity stories, you aren’t a priest. So move on.
When you meet up, the girl you don’t want as girlfriend is the one that go back to your room on the first date. Decent Vietnamese girls are conservative and shy, and they won’t sleep with you so easily.
And if she drinks alcohol or likes to party, she might be a suitable holiday girlfriend for a few weeks, but not a permanent girlfriend.
Where To Find A Vietnamese Girlfriend
It depends on what sort of relationship you are looking for.
For example, if you’re looking for a serious relationship, there is no better place then a dating site or through your social circle. But if you’re looking for a girlfriend with benefits (sugar baby), use an arrangement site.
If you are after a Vietnamese girlfriend for a serious relationship, perhaps you’re a young guy that would like to settle down.
The good news is Vietnamese girls are the sweetest, most loving and loyal women you’ll ever find. On top of that, they take great care in how they look…
Meaning they are a great choice as a life partner if you value beautiful and feminine women.
If you’re an expatriate working in Vietnam, your best option to find a girlfriend is through your social circle. Ask your Vietnamese friends, coworkers, and even the neighbor if they know any girl interested to date a foreigner.
You’ll be surprised how helpful your social circle is to get you into a relationship with a Vietnamese girl. And don’t be shocked when they’ll introduce sisters, cousins, and best friends to you.
If you don’t live in Vietnam or don’t have any local connection, the best way to find a good Vietnamese girlfriend is to use a dating site like Cherry Blossom. There are many girls looking for a serious relationship with a foreign man.
Create a profile, upload a photo and you are ready to go. Message several girls, set up a few video calls, and pick carefully your new girlfriend.
To get into a quality relationship with a Vietnamese girl take patience. So if you’re short on time, you better go for a relationship with benefits.
Relationship With Benefits
Having a serious relationship isn’t for everybody. Even though Vietnamese women are great partners, they are always women.
This means they have tantrums from time to time, are jealous and possessive. So if you don’t appreciate restricted freedom or to get into unreasonable arguments, simply get yourself a “sugar baby”.
A sugar baby in Vietnam is usually a young student who needs financial assistance to complete her studies. She offers friendship, companionship and intimacy exactly like a girlfriend but without drama, jealousy and nagging.
Just imagine having a young and beautiful Vietnamese girlfriend…
She offers companionship and intimate moments on your terms. Meaning you set the conditions and she’ll follow.
As you set clear terms of the relationship from the beginning, no need to waste time in arguments or deal with unreasonable demands.
The best way to find a Vietnamese sugar baby is by using a site like Seeking Arrangement. There are many Viet students looking for an arrangement.
When you contact the girls, go straight to the point. No need to waste time in romantic talks. First see if she is a good fit for your needs, then when you meet up you can get affectionate and intimate.
Best And Worst Vietnamese Girlfriends
The best Vietnamese girlfriends are university girls and ladies working a office job…
Both have a good education that isn’t granted to everyone in Vietnam. In fact, the majority of girls have low or no education at all!
Educated women are more likely to have better relationships values like honesty, loyalty and trust. On the other hand, women who lack higher education are more likely prone to cheating, conning and lying.
In fact, the worst Vietnamese girlfriends are the ones working in the nightlife industry and hookers. Even as holiday girlfriends they aren’t worth the trouble.
In conclusion, uneducated Vietnamese girls aren’t good girlfriends whereas girls with higher education are your best bet.
For a serious relationship, search for a Vietnamese girlfriend on a dating site or through your social circle. Instead, use an arrangement site if you prefer a girlfriend with benefits.