Vietnam Sex Guide For Single Men

If you want to get laid in Vietnam or to learn about the best locations where to find sexy girls hot for action, this guide has all the info you need.

Vietnam is known for the long war with the US and its communist regime, not much for the many sex activities available for tourists and residents alike.

I’m going to open up all the good things this country offers because you should enjoy the country and the beautiful women instead of worrying about where to go, what to do, and most importantly, how to do it.

This Vietnam Sex Guide was last updated in June 2025

Before traveling, make sure to get in contact with Vietnamese girls online so that once you’re there, you’ll have a great time.

Intro To Sex Tourism In Vietnam

Sex Tourism in Vietnam has been on the rise in recent years, thanks to relaxed visa requirements.

But what makes Vietnam so attractive to most foreign men is the abundance of sex venues and the beautiful local women.

From the massage parlors offering happy endings to the barbershops providing blow jobs while shaving your face, there is something for everyone.

That is what makes Vietnam a “different” place for travelers who want to experience a sex holiday in Asia. To be clear here, prostitution in Vietnam is illegal, but it is regulated and accepted.

There are several red light districts in Hanoi and Saigon with thousands of Vietnamese girls offering sexual services.

But expect high prices (tourist prices) and not quality service.

If you want to enjoy yourself without breaking the bank, read my city adult guides where I list all the best places where locals go to have a great time. Those places offer great services at a low price.

Where to Find Sex in Vietnam

Most of the action takes place online these days, either you pay for it or you’re looking for a relationship. But there are still good places to hang out for a full service.

Let’s start with…

1. Online

Thanks to smartphones, the internet, apps and hookups sites, it’s never been easier to get laid in Vietnam.

The easiest way to connect with women and couples for sex is to use sites like Asian Match Mate. It’s a community site where people share their sexual preferences and look for sex partners.

2. Nightclubs & Pick Up Bars

The nightlife in Vietnam is happening in the big cities where you can pick up girls hot for action…

There are typical party girls who don’t mind giving out their phone number and meeting you the next day. With some talk and convincing, they’ll go back to your place.

If you prefer sex the same night, plenty of hookers freelancing in the clubs ready to sleep with you for some cash.

Expect to pay about 700k Dong for all-night service with a freelancer. Remember to keep your valuables safe while having a shower in your room; they tend to steal money.

Either way, girls at night are eager to meet you. You’ll find Ho Chi Minh to be an easier playground, while Hanoi is a bit harder, with Da Nang in the middle.

3. Blow Job Bars – Hot Toc

Hot Toc means hairdresser, but when stepping in, you get offered much more than a haircut.

You can recognize these places having a pink light by the door and cute girls sitting out in front…

Pick the girl you like, bargain the price for a BJ and massage – the standard rate is 400k Dong – but on the weekend the price increases as the place gets busier.

You’ll get escorted to a private room where you can relax and unload your pipe.

4. Vietnam Hookers In The Streets & Parks

When walking down certain streets and parks you’ll find Vietnamese hookers ready to go with you for a quicky. The best part is that you can find them during the day as well as at night.

Expect to be approached by girls on their motorbike asking if you would like to have sex. It’s a very unique experience to get approached by a Vietnamese hooker on a scooter, I think it happens only here…

The ongoing rate for a short time is anywhere between 300k-500k. It is uncommon to get her all night, but if that is your thing, expect to pay at least 900k.

However, I recommend visiting a brick and mortar place if you want to engage the services of a prostitute because street prostitutes tend to cause problems.

5. Red Light District In Vietnam

Officially, there aren’t any red light districts. But you’ll find many dedicated streets with sex venues and prostitutes all around the place.

It’s pretty obvious when you walk down these streets what is going on. Girls are wearing sexy uniforms and soliciting your attention.

For example, in Hanoi, the most famous areas are Dong Anh District, Ha Dong District, Gia Lam District, and Thuy Khue District. Many cafes and Hot Toc offer all sorts of sexual services.

In Saigon, the most popular red light area is Hao Bin Park. The girls will approach you on a motorbike offering sexual services.

6. SPAs – Vietnamese Sex Massage

Many massage parlors in Vietnam are cover-up shops for sexual services. They might look like “health centers,” but in reality, the only thing they take care of is your manhood and wallet.

Yes, these places are expensive, starting with a basic service with HJ for 500K Dong. For full service, expect to spend 1.5 million Dong.

7. Karaoke Bars

Karaoke bars employ young hostesses – usually students – to provide company to their guests…

You get a private room for 200-300k per hour plus 100k/h for each girl in the room. Some places might offer unlimited drinks, others charge what you order.

If you would like to have sex with the girls, the rates range from 500k for a short time to 1 million for all night.

8. Escort – Call Girls

I don’t recommend escort services in Vietnam because they are controlled by pimps. Not only you’ll find the girls don’t offer good services, but also face trouble with their pimps if you get into an argument with a lady.

Instead, use apps and sites to recruit civilian girls who need some money on the side. They can spend a night or a few days with you like an escort girl, but for much less money and trouble.

Most escort agencies offer terrible services. Vietnamese call girls often ask for money first, then, within a few minutes during sex, ask you to finish quickly, or they might leave.

And don’t try to argue with the ladies cause the pimp is waiting outside.

For more info, check out the Vietnam escort guide.

Using Dating And Adult Sites To Meet Girls in Vietnam

There are many hookers in Vietnam, but you don’t necessarily need to pay for companionship and intimacy. It’s so easy to meet everyday girls eager to hook up and date a foreign man, that doesn’t make sense to pay a prostitute.

The majority of travelers use the services of hookers simply because they don’t know where to meet everyday girls.

The easiest way to meet Vietnamese girls who are into foreign men is to use dating and adult sites in the English language popular in Vietnam. And these are the best:

• Sugar Daddy Meet – On this site, you’ll find relationships on your terms.
• Asian Match Mate – Adult site with naughty girls and couples looking for sexual experiences.
• Tinder – Popular dating app in Vietnam for young guys and girls in their 20s.

To get started, create a profile and search for girls or couples in Vietnam. Start a few conversations, get to know each other, and meet up once you’re there.

Typical Costs

I’ve already covered the price for girls in Vietnam in great detail, down to each sex tourism destination, and not only for sex workers.

Below is a general summary of prices for working girls in Vietnam:

• Fix Prices For Sex

When visiting a business that sells sex, the prices are fixed and can’t be negotiated. You can ask for the menu and pick the service you need.

Here is a list of standard prices for each business type:

• Spas: The price for a happy ending massage starts at 500k for the massage plus 400k tip for an HJ.
• KTVs: KTV’s girls’ prices range from 500k for a short time to 1 million for all night. It doesn’t include rent for the karaoke room 200-300k per hour, plus 100k/h for each girl in the room.
• Hot Toc – Hair Salon: 400k for a massage and BJ.
• Escorts: 800.000+ Dong.

• Variable Prices For Sex

This refers to girls that work for themselves life freelancers and street hookers or everyday girls that need a side income.

Their prices are variable based on their location, age, the way you interact and present yourself.

These prices are just an indication to guide you:

• Street hookers: 500k for a short time up to 900k for all night.
• Freelancers in the nightclubs: from 500k to 900k Dong, but on average they cost 600k for all night.
• Working girls online: starting at 800k for one shot up to 1.6M for all night.

A rule of thumb is never to ask the girls how much they want, wait for them to offer. That way you show confidence and as a result, they lower their asking price.

When they give you their price, offer half of that amount and start bargaining from there. Don’t be conscious of offending or losing her, there is always another girl around the corner.

If paying all this money just to have sex isn’t your thing, consider reading the next section where I explain how to get laid for the price of a meal or coffee.

Is Getting Laid In Vietnam Easy?

In Vietnam your dick is big, your look exotic and your skin attractive.

I’m a mediocre Western man that doesn’t get noticed in Europe, yet in Vietnam, I get stare at a lot by women and I get compliments on how big my cock is. It’s a boost to one self-esteem.

When you land here as a foreigner, you are immediately on the 20% top of the food chain. If you are considered a 5 in your country, in Vietnam, you become a solid 8.

In a country like Vietnam, your look, weight, and age don’t matter much, what really matters is what value you bring to the table. In the eyes of a Vietnamese lady, you are considered a valuable male.

For every low and middle social status Vietnamese lady you are seen as a prize, and there are a lot of hot ones…

It takes little effort to get intimate with a Vietnamese lady if you treat her with respect, kindness and generosity. Meaning it’s all about how you approach the girls over here.

Many foreign men make the mistake of thinking Vietnamese ladies are easy only because they value their foreign status. It doesn’t work like that.

Although being a foreigner in Vietnam employ that you can afford things that the majority of Vietnamese can’t, you still need to treat the ladies with respect and good manners.

In conclusion, getting laid in Vietnam as a foreigner is easy when you treat the girls with kindness and respect.

And it’s hard to stay in a monogamous relationship because there is always a younger and hotter girl interested in you.

What About Girls & Sex In Vietnam?

Vietnamese girls are more conservative than, say Thai or Filipino girls.

I have met girls on dating sites insisting to meet their mother and get her approval before dating me. This is how conservative they can be.

Having said that, I’ve met a fair number of liberal Vietnamese girls who are into kinky stuff on this site.

Some are more conservative than others, and how much they are willing to play to gain your affection will differ. You can easily test this by touching on the subject of sex in your communication and seeing how they respond.

Generally speaking, most open-minded women can be found in Ho Chi Minh. While Hanoi girls are more traditional and conservative.

In other words, Ho Chi Minh it’s an easy playground to meet girls for a nightstand or get yourself a Vietnamese sugar baby. Hanoi is the place to find a girlfriend for a serious relationship.

Keep in mind that the North is more communist-minded than the South. It reflects on how the girls dress and act.

While Hanoi girls strive for a pure and plain look, the sexy Saigon girls value and exhibit fashionable clothes and revealing attire…

Having said that, don’t think Hanoi is a boring place to visit if you are into nightlife and hookers.

In terms of paid sex, there are 3 red light areas where you can find easy women: bar girls, massage girls, freelancers, and hard hookers.

But the best part is that it isn’t all about paid sex in Vietnam. Many ladies want to have sex with foreign men without financial compensation.

Vietnamese ladies are sweet, upfront, and very affectionate… They are so proud of the way they take care of men.

What about sex and Vietnamese women?

They are generally horny and hot for action, but it takes a few dates before getting in their panties. So nightstands aren’t a common occurrence.

Vietnamese slow-paced lifestyle is reflected in the way locals approach dating and sex.

This means when you date a girl, it takes a few dates to get laid. But if you pay for it, it’s easy to have sex in Vietnam.

It’s worth taking the time to date a girl because once she opens up to you, she is going to make you a happy man. They are proud of their sexuality and eccentric when it comes to pleasing men’s desires.

How To Get a Holiday Girlfriend in Vietnam

You can find someone who would show you around the city, have dinners with you, share your bed, and generally enjoy each other’s company.

Having a temporary girlfriend planning all sorts of nice things for your visit, being your lover and frien,d is the best way to learn about Vietnamese culture and enjoy the country.

Can you imagine having a beautiful, young and horny Vietnamese girlfriend?

Have romantic moments and enjoy each other’s company. No need to wander around lonely, lost in a country searching for companionship in some seedy area.

A girlfriend in Vietnam is your ticket to having an unforgettable holiday that could become something more.

That’s the reason why before my travel, I focus on finding a local girlfriend first and only later book the flight and accommodation.

Unfortunately, most travelers buy only the flight ticket and leave the search for girls to the last minute. They end up in the red light districts throwing silly money on hookers. No wonder they feel resentful when they go back home.

You don’t have to pay for girls if you want to get laid in Vietnam; there are plenty of girls eager to meet you and be your girlfriend.

The best way to find a holiday girlfriend in Vietnam is to use a popular dating site. Vietnamese girls go online to meet foreigners, and you want to meet a lady in Vietnam… It’s a deal.

To get started, write a profile mentioning your hobbies and interests. And what you’re looking for in a girlfriend.

Contact the girls, find your perfect girl and meet up to have a feel of her.

Read Also: How To Rent A Girlfriend In Vietnam

Best Destinations To Get Laid In Vietnam

The best destinations to get laid in Vietnam are:

Da Nang Sex Guide – It’s a beach resort town clean and well organized. There are several erotic massages around the city and many escorts/ freelancers online.

Ho Chi Minh Sex Guide – The financial center of Vietnam. Where there is money, there are beautiful girls and many possibilities to have sex.

Hanoi Sex Guide – A conservative city in the North of Vietnam. A great place to look for a Vietnamese girlfriend, but also to have fun in the numerous red light districts.

Map Of The Best Cities to Meet Vietnamese Girls

This Vietnamese sex guide comes to an end. Enjoy Vietnam and the girls!

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