If you want to get laid in Vietnam or to learn about the best locations where to find sexy girls hot for action, this sex guide has all the info you need.
Vietnam is known for the long war with the US and its communist regime, not much for the many sex activities around the country.
I’m going to open up all the good things this country offers because you should enjoy the country and the beautiful women instead of worrying about where to go, what do and most importantly how to do it.
This guide is going to focus on P4P scene (Pay for Play). If you prefer to meet and date quality Vietnamese girls, then get on a popular Vietnam dating site instead.
This Vietnam Sex Guide was last updated on 15 April 2020
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Intro to Sex Tourism in Vietnam
General information about Vietnam sex culture
Is Getting Laid In Vietnam Easy?
Getting laid in Vietnam as a foreign man
Where to Find Girls For Sex in Vietnam
An overview of the best places and ways to have sex in Vietnam
General prices for girls in Vietnam to help you budget your adventure
Where To Find Girls In Vietnam
Best sites and apps to meet Vietnamese girls
How To Get A Holiday Girlfriend In Vietnam
How to date Vietnamese women during your vacation
Best Destinations To Get Laid In Vietnam
Best place for sex tourism in Vietnam
Intro To Sex Tourism In Vietnam
Sex Tourism in Vietnam is on the rise in recent years thanks to relaxed visa requirements. But what makes Vietnam so attractive to most foreign men is the abundance of sex venues and the beautiful local women.
From the massage parlors offering happy endings to the barbershops providing blow jobs while shaving your face, Vietnam offers something for everyone.
That is what makes Vietnam a “different” place for travelers who want to experience a sex holiday in Asia. To be clear here, prostitution in Vietnam is illegal, but it is regulated and accepted.
Sex in Vietnam can be found in designed red light districts but also in massage parlours, spas and nightclubs around the city…
The two biggest sex destinations are Hanoi and Saigon (Ho Chi Minh City), and the less know city of Da Nang. There are thousands of Vietnamese girls offering sex, you’ll not find it difficult to get laid.
A word of caution when engaging sex with prostitutes: wear a condom. The reason is the high HIV rate among working girls.
The good thing is you don’t need necessarily to pay for sex in Vietnam and risking to get some disease or robbed.
There are ways to book everyday Vietnamese girls online even if you aren’t in the country yet. That way you can make sure to have a nice girl waiting for you, so you can get laid immediately.
This Vietnam sex travel guide will tell you how much things cost, how to stay safe, the best places to find girls and everything in between!
What About Girls & Sex In Vietnam?
Vietnamese girls are more conservative than say Thai or Filipino girls. I have met girls on dating sites insisting to meet her mother and get her approval before dating me. That is how conservative they can be.
Having said that, I’ve met a fair amount of liberal Vietnam girls who are into kinky stuff on this site.
Some are more conservative than others, and how much they are willing to play to gain your affection will differ. You can easily test this by touching the subject of sex in your communication and see how they respond.
Generally speaking, most open-minded women can be found in Ho Chi Minh. While Hanoi girls are more traditional and conservative.
In other words, Ho Chi Minh it’s an easy playground to meet girls for a nightstand or for a casual relationship. Hanoi is the place to find yourself a serious relationship.
Keep in mind that North is more communist minded than South. It reflects on how the girls dress and act. While Hanoi girls strive for a pure and plain look, the sexy Saigon girls value and exhibit fashionable clothes and revealing attire…
Having said that, don’t think Hanoi is a boring place to visit if you are into nightlife and hookers.
In terms of paid sex, there are 3 red light areas where you can find easy women: bar girls, massage girls, freelancers, and hard hookers.
But the best part is that it isn’t all about paid sex in Vietnam. There are many ladies who want to have sex with foreign men without financial compensation.
Vietnamese ladies are sweet, upfront, and very affectionate… They are so proud of the way they take care of men.
What about sex and Vietnamese women?
They are generally horny and hot for action, but it takes a few dates before get in their panties. So nightstands aren’t a common occurrence.
Vietnamese slow-paced lifestyle is reflected in the way locals approach dating and sex. Meaning it’s easy to have sex in Vietnam either you pay for it or you want to fuck for free, only it takes a little more time when dating nice girls.
But once she opens up to you, she is going to make you a happy man. They are proud of their sexuality and eccentric when it comes to pleasing man’s desires.
Is Getting Laid In Vietnam Easy?
In Vietnam your dick is big, your look exotic and your skin attractive.
I’m a mediocre Western man that doesn’t get noticed in Europe, yet in Vietnam, I get stare a lot by women and I get compliment how big my cock is. It’s a boost to one self-esteem.
When you land here as a foreigner, you are immediately on the 20% top of the food chain. If you are considered a 5 in your country, in Vietnam you become a solid 8.
In a country like Vietnam, your look, weight, and age don’t matter much, what really matters is what value you bring to the table. In the eyes of a Vietnamese lady, you are considered a valuable male.
For every low and middle social status Vietnamese lady you are seen as a prize, and there are a lot of hot ones…
It takes little effort to get intimate with a Vietnamese lady if you treat her with respect, kindness and generosity. Meaning it’s all about how you approach the girls over here.
Many foreign men do the mistake to think Vietnamese ladies are easy only because they value their foreign status. It doesn’t work like that.
Although being a foreigner in Vietnam employ that you can afford things that the majority of Vietnamese can’t, you still need to treat the ladies with respect and good manners.
In conclusion, getting laid in Vietnam as a foreigner is easy when you treat the girls with kindness and respect. And it’s hard to stay in a monogamous relationship because there is always a younger and hotter girl interested in you.
Where to Find Sex in Vietnam
You are visiting Vietnam because you want to get laid with beautiful local girls but you don’t know where to get started. Here my review of the best places to hook up with girls in Vietnam, starting with…
Thanks to smartphones, the internet, apps and hookups sites, it’s never been easier to get laid in Vietnam. While there are plenty of prostitutes in the red light districts screaming for your money, there are far more everyday girls online dreaming to meet a foreign man.
You can use any popular dating site like Vietnam Cupid to get laid. Contact the girls with a direct message: Hey -) My name is XXX and your profile caught my interest. Let’s meet this evening or the date you plan to arrive… Are you up for it?
It’s a yes or no. Don’t need to write long stories, it’s yes or no. If she accepts your invitation, it means she is up for a fuck. Take her to eat something, have a conversation, and be nice. By nice means don’t talk dirty.
Most girls on dating sites are nice girls looking for romance, some financial help, and anything between. Sex is in their mind but not the primary reason to meet you. Also keep in mind that they are shy in bed, so be patient.
If you prefer to hook up with horny and experience girls or couples, traditional dating sites fall short. Cougars, milfs, and swingers use sites like Asian Match Mate to meet foreign men for sexual adventures.
2. Nightclubs & Pick Up Bars
The nightlife in Vietnam is happening in the big cities where you can pick up girls hot for action…
There are typical party girls who don’t mind to give out their phone number and meet you the next day. With some talk and convincing, they’ll go back to your place.
If you prefer sex the same night, plenty of hookers freelancing in the clubs ready to sleep with you for some cash.
Expect to pay about 700k Dong for all-night service with a freelancer. Remember to keep your valuables safe while having a shower in your room, they have a tendency to steal money.
Either way, girls at night are eager to meet you, you’ll find Saigon to be an easier playground while Hanoi a bit harder with Da Nang in the middle.
3. Blow Job Bars – Hot Toc
Hot Toc means hairdresser, but when stepping in you get offered much more than a hair cut.
You can recognize these places having a pink light by the door and cute girls sitting out in front…
Pick the girl you like, bargain the price for a BJ and massage – the standard rate is 400k Dong – but on the weekend the price increases as the place get busier.
You’ll get escorted to a private room where you can relax and unload your pipe.
4. Vietnam Hookers In The Streets & Parks
When walking down certain streets and parks you’ll find Vietnamese hookers ready to go with you for a quicky. The best part is that you can find them during the day as well at night.
Expect to be approached by girls on their motorbike asking if you would like to have sex. It’s a very unique way to get approach by Vietnamese hooker on a scooter, I think it happens only here…
The ongoing rate for a short time is anywhere between 300k-500k. It is uncommon to get her all night, but if that is your thing expect to pay 700k.
However, I recommend visiting a brick and mortar place if you want to engage the services of a prostitute because street prostitutes tend to make problems.
5. Red Light District In Vietnam
In Vietnam, officially there aren’t any red light districts but you’ll find many dedicated streets with sex venues and prostitutes all around the place.
It’s pretty obvious when you walk down these streets what is going on, there are girls wearing sexy uniforms and soliciting your attention.
For example, in Hanoi, the most famous areas are Dong Anh District, Ha Dong District, Gia Lam District, and Thuy Khue District. Many cafes and Hot Toc offering all sorts of sexual services.
In Saigon, the most popular red light area is Hao Bin Park. The girls will approach you on a motorbike offering sexual services.
6. SPAs – Vietnamese Sex Massage
Many massage parlors in Vietnam are cover-up shops for sexual services. They might look like “health centers” but in reality, the only thing they take care of is your manhood and wallet.
Yes, these places are expensive starting with a basic service with HJ for 400K Dong and the poor quality massage for 500k Dong.
7. Karaoke Bars
Karaoke bars employ young hostesses – usually students – to provide company to their guest…
You get a private room for 200-300k per hour plus 100k/h for each girl in the room. Someplace might offer unlimited drinks, others charge what you order.
If you would like to have sex with the girls, the rates range from 500k for a short time to 1 million for all night.
8. Escort – Call Girls
Don’t use escort services in Vietnam, that’s the norm. Instead, use apps to recruit civilian girls that need some money on the side. They can spend a night or a few days with you like an escort girl, but for much less money and troubles.
Most escort agencies offer terrible services. Vietnamese call girls often ask for money first, then within a few minutes during sex ask you to finish quickly or they might leave. And don’t try to argue with the ladies cause the pimp is waiting outside.
Professional hookers in Vietnam are terrible, go for the civilian girls that make money on the side. Not only they are cheaper, but more fun. Check out these apps and sites to get in contact with the girls.
I’ve already covered the price for girls in Vietnam in great detail down to each sex tourism destination, and not only for sex workers.
Below a general summary of prices for working girls in Vietnam:
• Fix Prices For Sex
When visiting a business that sells sex, the prices are fixed and can’t be negotiated. You can ask for the menu and pick the service you need.
Here a list of standard prices for each business type:
- Spas: The price for a happy ending massage starts at 500k for the massage plus 400k tip for an HJ.
- KTVs: KTV’s girls’ prices range from 500k for a short time to 1 million for all night. It doesn’t include rent for the karaoke room 200-300k per hour plus 100k/h for each girl in the room.
- Hot Toc – Hair Salon: 400k for a massage and BJ.
- Escorts: 800.000+ Dong.
• Variable Prices For Sex
This refers to girls that work for themselves life freelancers and street hookers or everyday girls that need a side income. Their prices are variable based on their location, age, the way you interact and present yourself.
These prices are just an indication to guide you:
- Street hookers: 500k for a short time up to 900k for all night.
- Freelancers in the nightclubs: from 500k to 900k Dong, but on average they cost 600k for all night.
- Working girls online: starting at 800k for one shot up to 1.6M for all night.
A rule of thumb is never to ask the girls how much they want, wait for them to offer. That way you show confidence and as a result, they lower their asking price.
When they give you their price, offer half of that amount and start bargaining from there. Don’t be conscious to offend or lose her, there is always another girl behind the corner.
If paying all this money just to have sex isn’t your things, consider reading the next section where I explain how to get laid for the price of a meal or coffee.
Where To Find Vietnamese Girls
If you are wondering what is the best way to meet girls in Vietnam, the answer is regular and adult dating sites.
In Vietnam, there are red light districts in most cities, but there are only prostitutes that ask silly money… And that it’s a shame because there are so many everyday girls craving to meet a foreign man…
Vietnamese girls who want to hook up with a foreign man, go online to make the first contact.
Not only it’s private, but there aren’t any other valuable opportunities for girls in Vietnam to get in contact with a foreign man. Unless they go out at night and don’t mind to be taken as a working girl.
So, if you want to get in contact with girls that aren’t after your money but they want a relationship, the options are:
- Vietnam Cupid – The largest dating site in Vietnam.
- Asian Match Mate – Adult dating site for no string attached sex.
To get attention from Vietnamese girls online, it’s important to have a sound strategy. Over the years I’ve experimented with different strategies, and I’ve found this to be the best…
Online Strategy To Pick Girls In Vietnam
Vietnam Cupid is a dating site with people interested in personal connections and intimate relationship.
When writing your profile, it’s important to write about hobbies, interests as well as look friendly in the profile’s photo. A head-shot works best for the profile picture, but add one in social setting too.
On the other hand, Asian Match Mate community is all about finding a sex partner. It’s important to show sexuality in the photos and to be clear what kind of sexual experiences you are into.
How To Get a Holiday Girlfriend in Vietnam
You can find someone who would show you around the city, have dinners with you, share your bed and generally enjoy each other’s company.
Having a temporary girlfriend planning all sorts of nice things for your visit, be your lover and friend is the best way to learn about Vietnamese culture and enjoy the country.
Can you imagine having a beautiful, young and horny Vietnamese girlfriend?
Have romantic moments and enjoy each other company. No need to wonder around lonely, lost in a country searching for companionship in some seedy area.
A girlfriend in Vietnam is your ticket to have an unforgettable holiday that could become something more.
That’s the reason why before my travel, I focus to find a local girlfriend first and only later book flight and accommodation.
Unfortunately, most travelers buy only the flight ticket and leave the search for girls at the last minute. They end up in the red light districts throwing silly money on hookers. No wonder they feel resentful when they go back home.
You don’t have to pay for girls if you want to get laid in Vietnam, there are plenty of girls eager to meet you and to be your girlfriend.
The best way to find a girlfriend in Vietnam is to use a popular dating site like Vietnam Cupid. Vietnamese girls go online to meet foreigners, and you want to meet a lady in Vietnam… It’s a deal.
To get started, write a profile mentioning your hobbies and interests. Then upload a few of your best photos with a big smile on your face 🙂
Verify your profile and upgrade the membership so you get more attention from the girls. Start conversations and build a list of potential girlfriends. Once in Vietnam, meet up.
Read Also: How To Rent A Girlfriend In Vietnam
Best Destinations To Get Laid In Vietnam
The best destinations to get laid in Vietnam are:
Da Nang Sex Guide – It’s a beach resort town clean and well organized. There are several erotic massages around the city and many escorts/ freelancers online.
Ho Chi Minh Sex Guide – The financial center of Vietnam. Where there are money, there are beautiful girls and many possibilities to have sex.
Hanoi Sex Guide – A conservative city in the North of Vietnam. A great place to look for Vietnamese girlfriend, but also to have fun in the numerous red light districts.
Saigon Sex Guide – An awesome nightlife, open-minded girls and several red light districts.
Map Of The Best Cities to Meet Vietnamese Girls
This Vietnamese sex guide comes to an end. Enjoy Vietnam and the girls!