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Asian Match Mate Review

Kinky Asian Hookup Site For Open-Minded People

When you don’t know anyone to have sex with, it can seriously be depressing… And with the urge of wanting to get laid, your only solution is to pay the services of an escort — but is it?

One way to improve your chances is to be part of a community of like-minded people that enjoy meeting others for sexual experiences.

On AsianMatchMate you can meet open-minded people all over Asia passionate about sex.

This Site Is All About Sex

If you are tired with traditional ways to meet Asian women, is your ticket to instant sex.

Don’t expect to send a message to another member and hookup the same day, you need to know each other first like on any other dating site. But you don’t have to fake your intentions of having a relationship first and then sex when in reality, you want sex first and maybe later a relationship.

Instead, on traditional dating sites, you get to know her personality first, only later her sex vibe. The problem is if she doesn’t match your sexual expectations, you have wasted time, feelings and money along the way.

There is also a personality test to help you to find the right girls or couples for you. As you can imagine, most questions in the test are sexual, things like “how many times per week you feel the urge of having sex”… Or “favorite sexual positions”.


Finding A Match

Asian Match Mate is more about finding a hookup buddy than an actual friend

Like a traditional dating site, AsianMatchMate gives you a number of potential matches at the top of your personal home page after sign up.

If you would like to refine your preferences, you can do it manually by choosing your preferred gender(s), age range, location and mile radius, race, sexual orientation, body type, and marital status.

They’ll let you know who’s online ready to chat, which matches are closest to you, people who liked or messaged you, and all of that stuff.

Unlike more traditional dating sites, people don’t need to talk and get to know you for weeks before the meeting.

If you’re tired of things moving too slowly or require a change of pace, it’s pretty awesome to know you can hookup for the upcoming weekend. But don’t expect instant hookups like in a few hours. It isn’t an escort service site.

Sure, you may go on there and you see someone who happens to need a quick hookup, but in my experience, it would happen with someone I had already been chatting for a while.

Keep in mind that there are fake users and inactive profiles, which can be an annoyance. However, they can be easily avoided after a few days of knowing the community.

The website has real members and activities, and here are some of the things I have noticed using the site for many years, and I’m going also to outline some good and some bad things I have experienced…


The Good

  • You can sign up for free and get a feel for the site before you decide to spend money.
  • A big pool of girls and couples in all major Asian cities.
  • Straight to the point – It’s all about sex at first, relationship and friendship maybe later.
  • You can see how girls and couples look when naked. That way you avoid bad surprises.
  • The ability to livestream and watch other users’ livestreams, and a host of resources and dating advice, including a sex academy!
  • The community is polite, clean and from a good social level. I’ve met some girls having and requesting an STL test before hooking up.


The Bad

  • This dating site looks like a porn site, genitals are quite literally in your face from the moment you make an account.
  • No smartphone app in the Google Play Store. But you can use it on your smartphone like any other site.
  • You can’t do much without paying for the gold membership – only searching and looking at the profiles. Meaning if you want to hook up, you need to buy a subscription at least for a month.
  • Due to their massive success in the adult dating scene, they have become inundated with many people who are inactive and clutter the site. Meaning there are several inactive members.
  • It seems that they have not put much work into redesign the site as it has the same look for a few years now, which is probably because people keep using the site anyway.
  • The main thing I dislike about AsianMatchMate is the many options they give you once inside the site. There are things like sexting, video-chat, cams, gifts, etc. I wish they toned it down a little. So to avoid this, go on chat rooms.



Is it worth buying a subscription on AMM? It is if you plan to be active on the site and interact with other members.

If you are going to troll the profiles looking at the photos… Or adding the ones you like to your hotlist waiting for the women and couples to contact you, then it is not worth it.

I noticed most of the women or couples who contact you directly are fake ones. So it’s way better you take the initiative to contact other members.

On this dating site, you are joining a community of kinky people who have chosen this open-minded way to meet others.

You are going to meet – and sometimes become friends – with people living and traveling all around Asia who want to have sexual experiences without paying for prostitutes or strings attached. In other words: It’s a lifestyle.

The gold membership allows you full access and flexibility to use the site. You can upload pictures, videos, send messages and at the same time see all the photos, videos and receive messages from others.

Don’t be surprised to see members’ profiles with hundreds of naked photos and videos. Those are people who are living this lifestyle for years.

The gold membership is US$41 per month if billed monthly or US$28 per month when billed quarterly.

You can also buy for a few dollars the permission to unveil photos and videos of a profile or allow you to message them. But in my opinion, it isn’t worth it.

Furthermore, other gold members would not take your profile seriously without membership. It’s easier to believe that someone is a real person and active members if they’re paying. It’s also nice to know that they’re taking it slightly seriously.


The Final Verdict

AsianMatchMate is possibly the easiest, most low-pressure way to find a friends-with-benefits situation without insulting anyone. Everyone is pretty much there for the same reason, so you don’t have to worry about feelings getting involved or a couple not being on the same page.

It’s is pretty obvious, but AsianMatchMate is the place for people who want a quick hookup, people who are in a sexual rut, people who are tired of porn, and people who find regular dating sites to be lame.

On the other hand, this site is not for cynics and people looking for a genuine friendship/relationship.

The site may look like an ad for a porn channel, but don’t judge it by its cover. If you’re willing to look past the questionable design choices, AsianMatchMate can seriously expand your sexual horizons and introduce you to individuals you would never have met otherwise.

This site is the best tool out there for hookups in Asia thanks to the variety of people.


How To Use Asian Match Mate

Upon landing on the AsianMatchMate’s homepage, new users are prompted to register. Next, your email, create a username, choose a password, and write a short 10-word minimum introduction.

For example, my intro read: “I’m looking for my cat woman, but she shouldn’t bite”. Don’t have to say that my profile name is “Batman” 🙂

After signing up, you can find several potential matches at the top of your personal home page.

If you would like to look for members in other destinations or to refine your preferences, you can do it manually by choosing your preferred gender(s), age range, location and mile radius, race, sexual orientation, body type, and marital status.

Searching for profiles on AMM is one way to find real members, but I found the discussion groups are where you meet most of the genuine people. Some of these people have huge issues and love drama, but most are real and prove it on these boards.

If you want to get many hookups, you need to work hard on your profile photos and videos. 

As with all dating sites, your chances of being pursued are way higher if you have a lot of pictures of the same person (AKA you), videos, and a genuine profile that lets people know they’re not dealing with something sketchy.

Keep in mind that you will get nowhere if you are thinking to use the site for free. Think about it, if you can’t pay for the membership, who would take you seriously?

Yes, reputation online is essential… And that is earned by getting a membership and be an active contributor to the community.

Good luck — and don’t try this at work!