If you want to meet and date quality Vietnamese girls, your best bet is to use a dating site.
Dating online isn’t a taboo in Vietnam, but a practical way to meet people of the opposite sex.
Girls who are into foreign men, don’t have others ways to hook up because good girls don’t go out clubbing and definitely don’t walk around the red light districts.
The most popular dating site in Vietnam is called “Vietnam Cupid”, this site is the best way to meet local girls as a foreigner in Vietnam without local friends. I’m going to tell you how to make the most out of it…
Why Use Vietnam Cupid?
It’s the easiest way for single guys visiting Vietnam or expatriate living here to get to know Vietnamese women…
It doesn’t matter if you are in your 20s or in your 50s, there are young girls for guys in their 20s and a fair share of 30+ women for retirees and older men.
What is the point trying to pick up girls in the nightclubs or bars when you can easily meet Vietnamese girls online? They are on this dating site for your same reason, it’s a win-win situation.
It’s perfect for tourists who are coming here on holiday for a few weeks and want to see what the country has to offer and get a few free girls along the way.
You can find yourself a local holiday girlfriend to take you around being a tour guide during the day and a lover at night. Two in one.
Meeting girls online is much easier than approaching girls in clubs and bars by yourself. You don’t need to come up with pick up lines and confront women in a foreign environment, you can simply do that from the comfort of your home.
On my last 3 weeks visit, I jumped on the site 3 weeks before landing, set up around 11 dates, ending up meeting 5 girls and slept with 4 of them. I would never be able to do that by randomly picking up girls in Vietnam social venues.
Are Girls Beautiful & Hot For Action?
Like any other social places, online there are many types of girls: sexy, cute, serious, fun, tall, small, not hot girls. It’s a mixed bag, but a big one. Here’s a screenshot I just took…
You can scroll through hundreds of Vietnamese girls in seconds and start a conversation right away. No need to hesitate or be scared of rejection, just say “hi” and the game is on.
The site lets you filter girls based on location, so whether you’re going to Hanoi, Ho Chi Minh, Da-nang or any other city, the city filter makes it super easy.
But the best part is that girls on a dating site are always hot for action, that’s the main reason why they are there. Like you, they want to meet someone to spice up their life.
How To Get Started…
Sign up with your name an email address here.
Upload a few nice photos where you are groomed, well dressed and look at best. Not drunk, stoned or posing in front of a Maserati that isn’t yours 🙂
Fill your profile with an honest view about your life, what you are looking for in a woman… and keep it brief. Add a little bit of Vietnamese in your profile (use Google Translate), just add something simple like “Hello” or “How Are you”.
I find this gets more messages from the girls as they are surprised that you know a little bit of Vietnamese. Then just tell them you’re trying to learn it, that is a real turn on for them for obvious reasons.
Once your images and profile are up, within the day you should receive a few messages and interests. But be proactive, message a few girls letting them know a little about yourself.
Don’t overthink what to write, Vietnamese girls are so friendly and they are not going to judge you for anything you write like Western girls.
One more tip, take the paid membership on Vietnam Cupid for two reasons:
- you can’t chat with the girls without gold/platinum membership
- when upgrading your membership, your profile gets verified landing you more attention and response from the girls
Build your list of potential candidate that you would like to meet, and once in Vietnam, just hook up with them. The girls love when you take them to a sky bar because it set a romantic atmosphere where you can make your first move.
If you like local food ask the girl to take you where you can eat the local food, cheap and they love it when you eat local food with them. It’s fun.
Don’t be afraid to take her back to your room on the first date. By chatting with her on the dating site you have already build up enough attraction and trust, the date is only a mean to go physical about it.
Would The Site Work For Me?
If you are on your seniors year (50-70) and traveling alone, it’s easier to meet someone in their late 30’s and early 40’s. The age gap is modest.
But if you would like to meet girls in their 20s, you should be open and say you’ll pay for everything and give them a little extra. Why would they want to date you when they can date younger guys? (Sorry, not being mean).
Another concern is gold diggers. The site does a good job to look for fake profiles and scammers but there are still a few bad apples.
If they message you first, they sound too eager to meet or demand money and their profile photo looks too good to be true, well probably is too good to be true.
Vietnam is a poor country, but not so poor to have women desperate for your attention.
In conclusion, this site works very well either you are a young guy or an older man or with hair or bold. Your physical appearance isn’t much important as to your personality.
If you think dating online is something you would like to explore more, you can create a Vietnam Cupid account here.