Seeking: Is The Easiest Way To Meet Young And Attractive Girls?

Seeking promises to connect successful men with young and beautiful women. In other words, you need to be loaded to attract the girls on this platform.

Unless you’re a successful businessman who can afford to upgrade her lifestyle, you would just waste your time and money on an expensive membership. So it’s easy to meet young and attractive girls only if you’re wealthy.

But there are plenty of dating sites in Asia that make it easy to hook up, get easy-going dates, find your dream girlfriend, or find a travel companion for a few days or weeks.

I’ve spent 12 years hooking up and dating girls around Asia, without being a successful businessman or good-looking either.

Read my personal experience for Seeking below:

Finding A Match

Since Seeking used to be not a general dating site, it has built-in specific filters for types of relationships like:

• open relationship
• long-term relationship
• marriage-minded
• discrete relationship
• non-monogamous
• vacation together

You can also look for girls by location, body type, height, drinking habits, and similar stuff like any other standard dating site.

But the best part is you can scout for girls all over the world, even in your neighborhood.

For example, in major Asian destinations like Bali, 530 girls are looking for a gentleman… In Tokyo, about 720… In Manila 2.800… And in Singapore, a massive 2.106.

That is a lot of young girls ready to get to know you! No need to visit any nightclub, bar, or other social venues when you have so many girls hot for action one click away.

Like any other dating site, there are fake profiles and inactive users. But you can easily avoid them after a few days of knowing the community.

However, Seeking does a great job of offering a safe environment for the kind of relationship and connection that it encourages.

Keep in mind this: “To find gold, you have to filter through a lot of mud”. It takes some effort to find a serious and genuine girl, but when you do, you have got your piece of gold.

Here are some of the things I have noticed by using the site…

The Good

• Several girls in all the major cities. But not as many as on Asian Match Date.
• Straight to the point – It’s about intimacy and companionship first, friendship and relationship maybe later.
• No drama from the girls because they’ll fit your lifestyle.
• Most women are polite, not shy, and want to please you.
• You can get a feel of the site for free, then decide to upgrade the membership later.
• Easy to navigate the profiles with search and filters.
• One membership allows you to contact girls all around the world.
• You have video chats and live streams built into the platform.

The Bad

• You need to be loaded to get the girls interested in you.
• There is an app only for Android phones. iPhone users don’t have an app, but they can use it on mobile.
• You can’t message without upgrading the membership. Only to search and read other profiles.
• The membership is expensive.
• Many catfish and gold diggers.
• The thing that I dislike the most is the many filters and searches available to find the right match. Too many and too complicated to use. To avoid this mess, just search for girls based on location and age.

Is Seeking.com Safe?

This site is working hard to keep scammers at bay and to protect your interests. They monitor suspicious activities, but scammers and crazy women still contact you from time to time. You need to figure it out with common sense.

The best way to use this site while protecting your privacy is to use a general email that doesn’t contain your name and surname. It’s also worth using an extra phone number.

It’s obvious but worth repeating: “don’t send personal info, don’t give money, and if girls offer you pics just say no thank you and move on”.

Membership

Is it worth a membership on Seeking.com?

Not really. It’s much cheaper to use Thai Friendly in Thailand and Pina Love in the Philippines to find a girlfriend on your terms.

But if you’ve the money to spend, women on Seeking naturally expect a man to make the first move. They chose the one that offers the best opportunities, but he’s also the real deal-maker.

Pay members can communicate and get to see the women’s private gallery. So when you upgrade to premium, you have full access and flexibility to use the site.

Besides the essential functions, the premium membership boosts your profile in the search and offers more visibility. This means you get more attention and replies from the ladies.

The premium subscription is 109.99 USD per month if billed monthly or 96.66 USD per month when subscribing for three months. There is also a Diamond subscription for 274.99 USD per month.

The girls on SeekingArrangement take seriously only men with a subscription for obvious reasons.

One reason is that it is easier to believe that someone’s a real person if they’re paying for the membership… And it’s self-evident that they are serious gentlemen.

The Final Verdict

Everyone used to use the site by stating clearly what they wanted, but after the rebranding in 2023, it has become a mess.

Now, if you suggest a sugar arrangement, you might be scolded by some women or banned from the site.

One woman claimed she joined Seeking for someone to buy her a “shopping list” of things. I don’t know why a man should do that, but those were her words.

An “astounding” number of women seemed to have no clear idea why they were on the platform, giving noncommittal answers like “I don’t know what I am looking for.”

After the rebranding of the site in 2023, you can find what you’re looking for, but it takes more time and effort than it used to. And the high price of membership isn’t a justification for inefficiency.

In conclusion, Seeking is no longer a reliable site to seek a girlfriend on your terms. You’re better off using the sites.

Good luck — and if you would like to share your success story or you have any questions, contact me at [email protected]