Mongolia Sex Guide For Single Men

If your primary purpose of traveling to Mongolia is to meet and have pleasure with the local women, this guide is for you.

But keep in mind that I’ll mostly cover its capital, Ulaanbaatar. It’s the largest city in Mongolia, and frankly, the only place that’s worth visiting for a sex expedition.

Other than that, you’ll find small towns, capped at a population of 45,000, with hardly any nightlife or erotic services.

This Malaysia Guide’s last update was December 2025

Intro To Sex Tourism In Mongolia

There isn’t anything to brag about sex tourism in Mongolia. I doubt anyone comes to Mongolia with the sole purpose of mongering.

The scene is limited and fundamentally different from major sex tourism destinations like Thailand or the Philippines.

First, there aren’t any red light districts, as prostitution in Mongolia is illegal. But some underground businesses run brothels.

The primary sex services are offered by erotic massage parlors that hardly offer full service (sexual intercourse). It’s up to the masseur to decide what to offer, but usually you need to visit often to get a quality and complete service.

The commercial sex scene takes place in Ulanbaatar, but it’s small and discreet. The reason for the industry’s low profile is the cultural context of a relatively small population where “everyone knows everyone.”

At night, there are a few prostitutes who hang out in clubs and bars, hunting for customers. But I’ve never seen a hooker in the streets.

A word of caution: approaching girls who appear to be alone but are actually with other guys is the best way to get beaten up.

So, don’t assume that girls sitting at the bar alone are hookers. It’s better to think that girls who appear to be alone aren’t working girls until they show interest in you in some way.

Anyway, traveling to Mongolia for commercial sex isn’t worth the effort because the pay-for-play scenes are pretty bleak.

What About Sex & Girls In Mongolia?

Mongolian girls are one of the most beautiful Asian races.

They have wide cheekbones with sharp and deep-cut eyes. And I must say that their full and bright lips against their white skin is a real turn on.

Ready for the real kicker?

Mongol women have one of the curviest bodies in Asia… And more often than not, they have big breasts.

However, you won’t often see tiny waists or flat stomachs here like in Thailand and the Philippines, but stronger and thicker bodies.

Talking about strength, most Mongolian girls have athletic bodies. If you like women with firm muscles, this is the only country in Asia to find that.

What about their temperament?

Generally, they dress conservatively and act shy. They rarely are on the prowl or inviting attention, but keep their eyes down. Meaning if a Mongolian girl doesn’t look at you, don’t think she might be disinterested.

All these feminine attributes might convince you that they are weak and submissive, but the reality is that they are very independent and often the head of the household.

They aren’t docile and quiet as you’d expect from submissive women in other Asian countries, so if that’s what you’re looking for, then turn the other way.

I’ve also found a certain rigidity on the sexual side, with a reluctant attitude towards oral sex. And it seems that anal sex is a cultural “no go zone,” making it exceptionally rare.

Where To Find Sex

The best places to meet girls and get laid in Mongolia are…

1. Tinder

In Mongolia, almost everyone over 40, and many women in their late 30s, views interracial and international relationships as taboo.

For a quick fling, Tinder is the go-to app, but you can finish swiping the whole city in an evening.

The user base is mostly inner-city people who speak English or have been to a foreign country for study or work.

If you’re attractive and give a good vibe, the girls will come to you.

The play here is to message several ladies, get to know them, and go on dates. You’ll eventually get laid more often than not on the second date. So patience is key.

2. Nightclubs & Pick Up Bars

When referring to Mongolian nightlife, the only city worth visiting is Ulaanbaatar. There are several pick-up joints around the city.

The girls seem quite receptive, but I found them to be quite closed off in character, especially if you don’t already belong to a certain group.

Furthermore, since local men are very jealous and hostile towards foreigners when you approach their women, you need to be careful.

Ulaanbaatar nightlife takes place around Peace Avenue, but there are also Karaoke bars on Seoul Street.

Best to visit on Friday, and Wednesday is okay because some places offer free entry for ladies.

Let’s go over a list of the best nightlife venues in Ulaanbaatar.

• Zu Club

Located on Seoul Street, this club is popular among the youth and tourists of Ulaanbaatar. The best time to meet local women is on Friday nights, but it gets so busy that there’s hardly any space to walk.

• Choco Club

This is one of the best nightclubs in Ulaanbaatar. Visit on Friday after midnight for a great time.

• Mint Club

Situated at Khoroo 15, this club is a local favorite for night owls. It stays open till 5 am, and you’ll meet many girls here willing to talk to strangers. I just wish their dance floor wasn’t as small as it gets congested fast.

• Fat Cat Jazz Club

Located at Jamiyangun Street, this club often invites famous bands to perform, so you’ll need to make a reservation. But it’s worth visiting because it appeals to some of the classiest girls you’ll meet in Mongolia.

3. Erotic Massage Parlors

There are many erotic massage parlors in Mongolia, especially in Ulaanbaatar. The problem is that these venues are often unmarked and difficult to locate.

Also, the overall quality of services is highly variable as the masseur decides what type of service to offer. The most common services are Body-to-Body (B2B) and Handjobs (HJ).

Full service is offered at times, but not guaranteed.

Here are my favorite erotic massage parlors in Ulaanbaatar:

• Asian Spa

Near Bona Massage on Seoul St., with fairly young and cute girls. With 40k she removed the underwear.

• Spa near Central Sport Palace

FS available for 180k (250k with massage).

• Legendary FS Place

Near Bumbugur, it’s a pretty straightforward erotic parlor. FS is 170k, FS + B2B is 220k.

• FS Spa in the yellow building

It’s a great parlor that offers Nuru massage plus full sex for 200k. Located near the central sport centre.

4. Escorts – Call Girls

There are escort girls in Mongolia, but it isn’t very easy to get one. Also, there is the potential for scams.

The best way is to ask a taxi driver if he can find girls for you. Usually, they have connections with escorts operating in the area.

But this approach is a bit shady and can potentially get you scammed.

5. Strip Clubs

trip clubs have young and sexy girls available for a private lap dance.

When they sit on your lap, you can touch them everywhere and even suck their nipples.

If she is into you, you can easily meet her after work for a private session at your place.

Famous strip clubs in Ulaanbaatar are Orange Strip Club and G Club.

Typical Prices

On average, a Mongolian girl’s price for all night is around 450k tugrik. The rates are open to negotiation, of course.

A quick rundown of rates based on venues:

• Erotic massage parlor prices range from 80k for only massage to 140k for gulgaa massage, scrub, and HJ. If they offer full sex, expect to pay around 200k.
• Strip clubs offer sensual dances on the lap for 2 songs at the rate of 20k tugrik. You can arrange to meet her after work for about 300k tugrik.
• Escorts’ prices range from 150k tugrik for one shot to 250k tugrik for all night.