Philippines Sex Guide For Single Men

I’ll share the best ways to get laid and also how to find intimacy and companionship that only a girlfriend can offer.

Some parts of this guide focuses on the P4P scene (Pay for Play) like renting a Filipina girlfriend, where to find freelancers, and so on.

The other sections will cover the intimacy and companionship part.

This Philippines Sex Guide was last updated on December 12, 2024

Intro To Sex Tourism

The Philippines is the second-largest sex tourism destination in Southeast Asia after Thailand.

Single men from all over the world come here, drawn by the beautiful Filipino girls who are often an easy catch.

Not only can you find many sexy girls in the red-light districts across the country, but there are also plenty of local girls with a fetish for foreign men.

This makes sex holiday tours in the Philippines very popular.

Most Filipinas can speak proper English and offer a great “girlfriend experience”. Meaning men not only can find sex but also companionship, friendship and intimacy.

Instead, in other Southeast Asian countries communication is an issue.

In fact, most foreign men who live or travel for extended periods of time prefer to rent a Filipina girlfriend instead of getting into a serious relationship.

It’s convenient, cheap and you avoid unnecessary drama.

“Love has a cost in the Philippines” Quote by Rocco

Yet, it isn’t only about relationships with benefits. Many men travel to the Philippines to indulge in sexual pleasures.

Prostitution is widespread across the country, and there are even towns built around the sex trade like Angeles City and Subic Bay.

The red light district areas have clubs and bars with sex workers employed as singers, dancers, waitresses and “guest relations officers” that can leave with any client who pays a fee.

Prostitution is so well regulated with girls working in the industry undergoing regular health check-ups.

That might make you think that prostitution is legal, but in reality, it’s only tolerated.

If you aren’t into pay-for-sex, but still want to hook up, there are plenty of easy-going girls craving to meet a foreign man on these apps and sites.

Are The Girls Open To Foreigners?

Girls in the Philippines are extremely open to the idea of meeting a foreign man. The reason is the Western influence in the country.

The dating market is favorable to foreigners because the Philippines doesn’t get mass tourism like Thailand… And most foreigners are usually in their senior years and engage in the P4P scene (Pay for Play). Use the Economic Relationship Table to decide the type of arrangement is more suitable for you.

There is massive social segregation in the Philippines: rich or poor, no much middle class.

Most of the country has poor girls desperate for money and the main reason for so much prostitution.

The good thing is you can easily meet quality girls if you stay in good locations.

There are places for the upper class that are safe and clean. Of course, in the top areas, you are going to find sexy and intelligent Filipinas…

They know how to dress, move, flirt, and are horny as hell in bed.

Yet the majority of Filipina are shy and reserved. So they will never approach you, but give you eye contact and smile, giggle and laugh with their friends to allow you the opportunity to start a conversation with them.

The exception is on dating sites where it’s normal to get contacted by the ladies.

Is It Easy to Get Laid?

Most girls are down to fuck once you bring them to your room. They know why you brought them there, and get horny pretty quickly.

They are really horny even if they are doing it for money, and offer incredible girlfriend experiences.

But don’t expect any crazy sex sessions like anal or deepthroat blow jobs. You better pay a prostitute for that.

Regular girls aren’t very open-minded about sex, yet they try their best to please you.

The majority of girls in the Philippines are nice and can become good friends. Only the working girls who have sex for money are scammers and cheaters.

So stay away from the red light areas in the Philippines, there are plenty of horny Filipinas that aren’t gold diggers.

Where to Find Sex…

The best places to meet girls and get laid in the Philippines are…

1. Online

If you’re heading to the Philippines, the online dating scene is where the magic happens.

In my experience, Filipino girls are often crazy about foreigners, making it easy to connect.

Before visiting the country, I hop onto sites like Asian Match Mate.

It’s perfect for solo travelers looking to get laid, and also for couples seeking threesomes or swinging partners.

Of course, that’s just one of the many sites you can try.

I’ve covered plenty of other dating platforms in the Philippines where you can meet hot Pinays.

2. Nightclubs

The nightlife in the Philippines is active, especially in the big cities and tourist destinations.

There are nightclubs exclusively filled up with independent prostitutes. But usually there is a mix of regular girls and freelancers.

It’s hard to figure out who is who at times. So have a lengthy conversation before asking how much she wants to have sex.

3. Girlie Bars

Girlie bars are pick up places for foreign men that want to have sex with girls.

The typical bars around the Philippines are:

• beer bars
• bikini bars
• karaoke bars

In some beer bars you can find freelancers, but most only serve drinks and company.

Bikini bars have girls dancing on the stage with a tag price.

Karaoke bars have private rooms where you sing with friends and girls.

I’ve talked about some of the best KTV bars in Manila in case you want to visit one.

4. Erotic Massage Parlors

Erotic massage parlors aren’t very common around the Philippines. The majority can be found in Manila, offering full service. In other destinations, you can get a handjob or blowjob at best.

I suggest to have a massage in a small shop. Have a friendly conversation with the masseaur, and at the end of the massage ask if she can come to your room after work. Make sure to give a good tip before the proposal as incentives work.

5. Escorts

In most cities, you can find escort services, but they are expensive and sometimes a pain in the ass.

For example, call girls in Manila turn up usually 1-2 hours late, and they don’t always look like in the photo.

However, if you have the money, you can get some top-notch babes.

Meaning escorts in the Philippines are worth it only if you can afford to spend big. Otherwise, it’s better to hire a freelancer.

6. Street Hookers

There is an abundance of street prostitutes in the Philippines. But most are underaged, desperate, sick, or inclined to make troubles.

Refrain from getting involved with hookers in the street unless you know what you’re doing. There are many better ways to get laid without risking your life.

In nightclubs, you can pick up freelancer prostitutes for cash as well as in the numerous girlie bars around the country. And don’t miss out on the sex working girls online.

Typical Costs

• Entrainment And Companionship

The most expensive girls are escorts charging between 4,000 pesos up to 8,000 pesos per hour.

Instead bar girls working in the red light areas are in the middle price range. Expect to pay 2,000 pesos for 2 hours or 5,000-7,000 for all night.

If you want to save some money, hook up with freelancers in nightclubs for 1,000-2,000 pesos for all night.

• Accommodation

Outside the capital Manila, budget travelers can get by for around 700-1,000 pesos in low to mid-level hostels.

Mid-range travelers should budget around 1,500 pesos for reasonably comfortable hotels or simple resort accommodations.

Once you enter the top-end territory, the sky is almost the limit: top-end accommodation prices will almost always be quoted in US dollars.

They average around 5,000 pesos for a resort or standard hotel (though this can go much higher).

Of course, as far as prices go in the Philippines, location is the operative word. Manila’s accommodation (especially mid-range) tends to be pricey compared to the provinces.

Likewise, the internationally famous resort Boracay is a lot pricier than most other islands, though bargains can be found even there.

• Food

It’s very cheap to eat in the Philippines, but it is also shitty quality.

Street food will cost you about 100 pesos per meal, and restaurant food will cost between 100-300 pesos per meal.

Western meals at nice restaurants cost more, from 400 pesos and upwards.

• Alcohol

The Philippines is the second cheapest country in Asia to buy alcohol, whether beer, wine, or even premium imported brands.

I honestly cannot think of a single duty-free purchase of liquor, in any country where I have traveled, where alcohol is cheaper than local supermarket prices.

In bars, local beer will cost you 100-150 pesos and in a girlie bar between 100-200 pesos.

• Transportation

Travel within the Philippines isn’t difficult if you don’t mind riding the sometimes rickety public transportation.

Public transportation starts as little as 20 pesos up to 600 pesos for long bus trips.

Tips & Tricks

• Build a contact list: Don’t arrive in the Philippines unprepared, get in contact with a few Filipino girls online.

• Don’t waste time: Filipino girls on dating sites are horny as much as you. Be on point: “Hey beauty, my name is Rocco. Are you free to meet tomorrow evening?

• Backups: Sometimes a girl can’t make it to the appointment. Keep a girl in reserve.

• Keeping your belongings secure: Theft is a relatively low risk in the Philippines, but snatch-theft and theft from hotel rooms are not unknown.

• The legal age of consent: It is 18 and you should obviously steer clear of anything younger than that. Be aware of street girls connected to the police that organize scams. Make sure she shows you her ID.

•Don’t buy drugs from the streets: The drug laws in the Philippines follow a pattern set by the drug laws in the rest of Southeast Asia – they’re strict and ready to make an example of any tourist foolish enough to be caught indulging in illegal drugs while on the island.

• Taxi scams: Probably the most prevalent scam the tourist will run into when taking a taxi cab in Manila, Cebu, Davao, or any other major city, is the driver’s claim that his “meter is broken,” or not working for some other reason. Offer him a tip if he uses the meter.

• Money exchange: Upon landing in the Philippines, it is a good idea to change a couple of hundred dollars at one of the money changers booths right at the airport. Most reputable hotels change money, and some at a better rate than the banks.

• Don’t fall in love: Remember that she is with you only because you’re offering money. She doesn’t love you. Use the Economic Asian Relationship Table to have a clear idea about the arrangement you’re into to. 

How To Get A Holiday Girlfriend In Philippines

If you are wondering how to find a girlfriend in the Philippines to spend your holiday together while having intimate moments… I’m going to show you where to find one.

I’ve already written about how to find a Filipina travel companion for a short holiday or a sugar baby in the Philippines if you want to have a young and hot girlfriend.

Can you imagine spending time with a young, attractive and horny Filipino girlfriend?

Enjoy activities with her, explore places, and get intimate at night… But most importantly, never feel alone in a foreign country.

A Filipino girlfriend is the way to experience an unforgettable holiday in the Philippines. No need to look for companionship in the seedy red-light district or wander around all alone.

When I travel to the Philippines, I make sure to find the right girls and only after I book the flight and accommodation.

Unfortunately, most travelers do the opposite. They get busy searching for a cheap flight and hotel while leaving the most critical task last: find a girl.

No wonder they end up with a prostitute and feel disappointed about their journey. You don’t need to pay a hooker for companionship in the Philippines. That’s insane!

There are so many girls desperate for attention and intimacy, that it’s illogical to pay for companionship.

The best way to find a holiday girlfriend in the Philippines is to use a dating site. There are so many girls eager to meet a foreign man.

To get started, sign up, create a profile and be upfront about what you’re looking for.

Best Cities In the Philippines To Get Laid

I have already covered in detail the best Filipino cities to get laid. And not only the one popular among sex tourists but also the top cities where you can hook up with everyday girls.

Angel City Sex Guide – Travelers who are more price-conscious or simply prefer a more relaxed pace often travel to Angeles City.

Angeles City is gaining world fame today as the entertainment capital of the Philippines.

Manila Sex Guide – The sex scene is quite developed with options for all types of travelers.

Nightclubs, A gogos, and bars abound where you pay a fee to the establishment (also called a bar fine) to take the lady back to your hotel. Manila has the most beautiful hookers in the country.

Makati Sex Guide – The business district of Manila with the hottest girls. Where the money goes, the sexiest women follow. If you have money to spend and you like top ladies, Makati is the right place for you.

Cebu Sex Guide – Cebu is a big island one hour away from Manila, easily accessible by plane.

Cebu is the middle ground between Angeles City and Manila. Between pure naughtiness and a chaotic metropolis.

Beautiful beaches, green hills, and vibrant nightlife make Cebu the place to go for parties and relaxation.

Subic Bay Sex Guide – Subic Bay is a small resort town in the Philippines worth visiting.

There are beaches and most importantly, HOT girls!

You’ll find many activities to keep you entertained during the day and enough bars for 2-3 naughty nights out.

Boracay Sex Guide – If you love the beaches, Boracay is the place for you.

Besides stunning beaches and diving sites, the island attracts an international crowd.

You can meet so many hot Asian girls from Japan, Korea, Malaysia, and more. It is the favorite gate away for open-minded Filipino girls coming from the major cities.

Bohol Sex Guide – A quiet destination where you can meet provincial Filipino girls.

The bar scene is tame but fun. If you are looking for a long-term relationship with a Filipina without wanting to get married, you can hook up with the many bar girls who want a way out.

Now that you know about the sex life in the Philippines, read up about the best apps in the Philippines to get you laid.

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