How To Take Asian Girls Back To Your Room After A Date
If you wait for an Asian girl to invite you in, you can wait forever. Asian women are passive, while men are the aggressor.
You’ve to make the move, it’s a natural occurrence.
Please, don’t feel ashamed of yourself to take her back to your bedroom.
She is going to feel desired and happy to know that you like her. By being hesitant, she might think that you aren’t into her.
I’ve never in my life lost an Asian woman because I pushed her to have sex with me during the first date.
You put in so much effort with your dates hoping to get the final price (get laid). Why to wait?
I know how feels to be rejected or look down. The good news is, there is a solution.
In this article, I’m going to show how to overcome your fears and become a confident man by using my game system to get Asian girls back to your room at the first date.
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What Is Holding You Back
First, is important to overcome your fear of rejection. I would say most men struggle with this problem sometimes in life, and the earlier you tackle it, the better.
Below I present the most common problems men faces when asking her to visit your place.
1. Being The Nice Guy
I’m sure you heard about being a nice guy with women doesn’t work, and why women like bad boys.
We often make the mistake of thinking that isn’t NICE to ask her to have a drink in our condo, particularly at first date.
But if we pull our head out of our butt and think about it, it doesn’t matter how much nice you can be to a woman – because being nice isn’t going to make her feel more attract to us.
You have the same chances to get laid at the first date or after several dates. All boil down to expectations.
What I like about Asia and Asian girls is the way they think about dating. In her mind, you’re being a nice guy to take her on a date and eat delicious food. She would feel very bad to reject your invitation back to your room.
It’s a cultural expectation and goes something along this lines…
Asian women will be grateful and thrill if you take her out for a lovely evening. For them is only natural to give you something back and make you happy.
What can make a man more happy than having sex?
So, don’t “pretend” to be a nice guy. Western society has made a full of you by making you think that asking women for SEX at the first date is BAD. Not only is counterproductive (you don’t get laid) but you are trying to be someone you aren’t.
I’m always clear about my expectations, and I let her know in a nice way that I expect to take her back to my room at the first date.
2. Low Self-Confidence
It’s all about confidence, isn’t it? Yes and No.
If you aren’t confident on your requests, don’t expect she’ll accept your invitation to get back to your room. Two simple scenarios to make this point clear.
Scenario 1
After a wonderful evening out, it’s time to get back home. You’re wondering how to convince her to visit your room because, after a so good meal, you want to lick her pie (that pie don’t make you fat :)).
Good boy… Who doesn’t like a pie.
But you wonder how to pass the message without being rejected or worst, create an awkward situation for both of you.
So, before getting into the taxi, you feel the need to ask her permission to get back to your room; “Would you like to have a coffee/drink to my place?”
You feel safe because you are asking permission, and if she say “yes”, great! You are going to get laid.
If she say “no“, not so great but you didn’t ruin – the moment.
Do you know what I think about this approach?
I don’t see anything terrible wrong going in this way, but I’m confident to say that you have a 10% chance to get laid. Every ten women you date, one will accept your offer and that is sucks.
From a financial point of view, you are better off to meet prostitutes.
Let me explain.
Taking out a girl for a classic date (have few drinks, dinner, cinema,etc) will cost you in average US$10-US$100 per date. Let’s take the middle cost; US$50 and multiply by 10 times you need to take a woman for a date to get one bang. TOTAL = US$500.
Well, in Asia you can have an orgy with top women (9-10 scale) and spend less than that.
If you decide not to learn the game with women but instead frequent prostitutes, I respect your decision because it makes financial sense.
Scenario 2
After a wonderful evening out, it’s time to get back home. I’m not wondering how to convince her to visit my room because I’ve a clear plan.
I want to lick her pie.
I’m not wondering how to pass over the message without being rejected. I’m in control of the situation thanks to a clear plan.
She and I will be disappointed if we don’t have sex today.
So, I get into the taxi and ask the driver to take us to my place. I inform my partner we are going for a coffee/drink.
I feel confident and masculine because I took the decision. And she’ll feel feminine because I took the decision for her too.
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Strategies That Works Every Time
With these 3 simple strategies, you can get most Asian girls in your room at the first date. These strategies apply to different type of girls and situations, so don’t mess up.
1. Invite Her To The Hotel
Who I Used This Strategy For – Women which are naïve or are looking for some fast cash.
These type of girls are from a low education. So what is the point to go for fine dining and talk about social-politic staff?
Strategy
She knows that you’re unfamiliar with her city. Ask her to meet you at the hotel. Once there, tell you aren’t ready yet, just come up while you getting dressed.
There are few typical situations which you might experience;
- She’ll go straight to your room, no question asked. This action rings some bell; she is a freelancer and some $$$ will be required after the deed because you are gentlemen and don’t take advantage of poor girls.
- She’ll text you from reception by saying “I wait for you downstairs.” Just reply “you aren’t ready yet, will take another 30 minutes.” Ask to go buy some food next door for you and her because you are starving. Have a romantic lunch/dinner in your room the two of you and get her pie.
- None of the above, she is stubborn and won’t agree to anything. You might have a good girl here, go for the challenge!
Take her out and have some fun together, but not too far from your hotel room. Focus on your goal, getting laid ASAP. Let her know you’ve forgotten the camera in your hotel room, and you would be pleased to get some picture together. If she still doesn’t accept, dump her immediately. Your time is precious, and she is going to waste it.
2. You’ve Forget Camera or Phone in Your Room
Who I Used This Strategy For – Perfect to date university and office girls. Basically ladies with a strong personality and values. These type of women need to be persuaded before accepting to get back to your room.
Strategy
Meet the girls nearby my hotel room for logistic reasons. It’s nice to have a coffee, night out or dinner to build up an intense sexual feeling.
I love to tease the girls even before we meet. I usually send a reminder message (it’s very important to confirm your appointment one day before and same day of your meeting) with write something along this line; “Hi …., tomorrow we are going for dinner and you should dress properly; white skirt, high hill black shoes and the rest is up to you”.
From there the conversation can take multiple ways, but I keep my objective in mind; dress her as I’m pleased. Asian women are amazing in satisfying your requests, and why not to start from pre-meeting.
I’ve got a short story for you.
Once in Bangkok, I met up with a naughty school teacher which I convinced to dress all in red for me. Once we met, I was so pleased that she follow my instructions and my desire to bang her, was skyrocketing while having dinner together.
So, please do me a favor, think what you want and plan accordingly.
Going back how to get the girls back to your room after met her somewhere in town.
A trick which has worked very well for me is to tell her that I’ve forgotten the camera or need to charge the phone in my room. She’ll feel comfortable to go back with your to the hotel room, after all, you only need to take your camera, but once in the room, she can start to pose for you.
3. You Don’t Have Much Time
Who I Used This Strategy For – Business women and self-employed. Women into the business world which value and understand the importance of time.
Strategy
This technique uses “time constraint” which is great because the girl will feel safe to come to your room.
I usually say that I need to meet a friend of mine in one hour. However, I can meet for a quick drink. Before she arrives, I buy some groceries and wait in the hotel’s lobby.
Once she comes, I will take her back to my room with the excuse to drop the grocery with the assumption that she can’t get into any trouble because I have to go to meet my friend later.
These strategies have worked for me and hopefully will serve you well. There is still room for improvement, and you can develop more techniques along the way. Never get tired to experiment, my friend.