Meeting attractive local Thai women is critical for a successful holiday. I mean, no women, no fun, right?
Before the internet was accessible, the only way to meet quality Thai women was to know someone locally to get you the “right” girls if you were looking for marriage, or take you on tour around the most notorious nightlife area if you were on holiday looking for lust and sex.
It was an uncertain and laborious way which didn’t provide guarantee results, and you needed to have some connection to make it work. Fortunately, now the internet is accessible for everyone, and that’s is good news for you.
Today, I’ll show you how to use ThaiFriendly to date Thai girls even if you’re on the another side of the planet.
One of My Favorite Dating Site
Five years ago, I was searching for an easy system to hook up with Thai women during my trips. My problem was the uncertainty of getting laid with quality local women while visiting Pattaya and Bangkok.
I stayed out till late in clubs, blow money in drinks and I didn’t have full control of the outcome.
It wasn’t unusual for me setting for an average girl because the 8/9 girls were already hooked up with some dude, or were asking “big” money.
So, I decided to explore the dating site world to plan ahead my dates. And I came across Thai Friendly.
After using it for a while, it has become an indispensable tool to pick up Thai girls online.
I can pre-select the best girls, build a friendship and meet them at destination ready to have some good time, and of course, get laid.
All you have to do is to create an interesting profile and select women who best match your preferences, send a message or just “show interest.” If she is online, she will reply in minutes and from there you can expand your conversation in any direction.
I’m not the only one finding ThaiFriendly valuable, check this out:
I have read a lot of your postings.
I joined Thai Cupid a few weeks ago. I have messaged hundreds of girls. Spoke to a few, and am talking a lot to one.
I will probably go to Bangkok in the next couple months and see her!
There Are Enough Girls Online?
Thai Friendly has around 300.000 active members, basically is like a medium size city all well organized in one platform. Not only there are plenty of fish in the sea, but it’s easy with a simple click of a mouse to search and filter by age, location, education, weight, children, currently online and has a photo.
How cool is that?
Here a little secret; search by newest member first because it’ll be much easier to get their attention. Older members, especially the attractive one, might be overwhelmed by messages and notices so that they will lead the game.
Be smart, get results!
Her Profile Online
There are girls which are searching for different arrangements. Some are looking for love, some for money and other just an adventure.
You need first to clear your mind about what you want. Let’s take me as an example.
When I visit Bangkok, I look for cute girls which I can dine with in some good restaurant and after, have an exciting night of sex.
So, my typical girl must be on her 23 to 30 years old, speaking good English and have a vast experience in dating foreign men. She’ll be used to dine in high-class places, know how to carry a conversation, so I don’t fall to asleep and please me once in the room with some sexy lingerie and wild sex.
Let’s take another example, Tom.
Tom is in his late fifties, financially free and looking for a young companion to spend time together. Tom want to be looked after, feel young again and meet a girl on her twenties still innocent and able to please.
She’ll be able to speak some English, curious and looking for a good man to support her and the family. This is a perfect match.
The girl for Tom will be someone similar to the profile below. She is cute, traditional Thai and knows how to carry herself.
What about the conversation?
You can start a conversation by simply write a message. When dating Thai girls, I just ask what is going on in the city so to keep the conversation as much as open and on an easy topic. Every girl can talk about their city.
Keep your conversation simple and smart, at least in the first messages till you get an understanding of her language skill. Many Thai girls are shy and not so confident writing in English, and they need to be praised and encourage.
I prefer to keep the messages short, to the point and build trust as fast as possible so I can move the conversation on Skype.
You don’t need to send a message to every girl you like. You can “show interest” by clicking a simple button below the profile picture.
You can organize your favorite girls by clicking “add favorite” button. A good rule of thumbs is to select only ten girls as the favorite, which let you focus and achieve your goal.
Don’t let the situation go out of hands. I understand you’ll be tempted to meet all the beautiful girls on Thai Friendly, but they are too many, and one life will not be enough.
When you start to get attention from the girls and the messages will flow your way, it is better to upgrade your membership to remove the 10 minutes/one message rule. You want to engage all the girls at once to save yourself time and get to your goal as soon as possible.
There are four different options;
~ 1 month for $24.95; Equal to $0.83 per day
~ 3 months for $49.95; Equal to $0.55 per day
~ 6 months for $69.95; Equal to $0.38 per day
~ 1 year for $99.95; Equal to $0.27 per day
You don’t need to be a rock science to opt for the one-year membership which cost a mere 27 cents per day.
How to Create A Rock Solid Profile To get Noticed
Let’s step back, and get into creating your personal profile to get noticed by hundreds of attractive Thai girls. I repeat myself here, preparation is key to your success, and to succeed on dating Thai girls online, creating an excellent profile will carry 50% of your success.
When you sign up for Thai Friendly, you might have written a quick profile without much of thinking just because you wanted to meet girls as fast as possible.
Now that your blood pressure is down to normal levels let’s have a look how you can improve your personal profile to attract the best girls.
Log in your Thai Friendly account, on top and right, click the arrow and select “edit profile”
The most important part of your profile is the photos. Pictures have an enormous impact on attracting the top girls on Thai Friendly, and don’t worry; you don’t need to be tall, handsome or fit.
So, what Thai women consider cute and attractive? This might surprise you.
1 – White Skin
2 – Big Noise
3 – Clean and Shaved
4 – Well Dressed
5 – Friendly and Social
The five points are key in succeeding to attract your next Thai woman.
Upload 5 pictures that clearly showcase each of the five points.
The first picture will be your face taken with a certain light to increase the whiteness of your skin. Take few snapshots till you get the whitest tone.
This will be your main profile picture. Why?
Because Thai people are obsess with white skin, actually all Asia is into this trend. Just watch any Thai TV program or ads and you’ll notice the actors be white as snow. This video is being criticized internationally to take on the white skin so extremely offering a “magic” pill which can turn black people into white people, a kind of Michel Jackson trick.
The second picture will be taken at a 45 angle to show the size of your noise indirectly, the bigger, the better. Don’t be shy about it.
The third picture isn’t mandatory because the main profile picture can show the same, just make sure to be shaved and polished, Thai women are immaculate and want to hang out with clean men.
The fourth picture will have you dressed “smart”, like when you are going to work or out for dinner. Avoid to show yourself in home attire; that look too sleazy. Remember, the background is important too, maybe take a picture in the main street of your town with shops in the background.
The fifth picture will be taken in a social environment such a dinner with friends, a night out or a social gathering. For Thais, company and friendship are the vital part of a complex social structure. Who you hung out with determine who you are.
Most men write too much about them-self and is considered shellfish, not highly appreciate in Thai society. Instead, talk about yourself briefly and write more about what you are looking for and what your plans are.
In my case I wrote that I’m moving to Thailand, clearly stating that I’m looking for friends and knowing people. Indirectly I’m indicating that I’m not the usual sex tourist coming to town.
Unfortunately in Thailand, foreigners are seen as hooker hunter at first, so you will need to fight your way in and remove this stigma from the eye of your Thai girlfriend.
If you speak some basic Thai language is a plus, so make sure to mention it, Thai women will love it.
Next, you will be learning how to send messages and start communicating with the girls so you can plan to have video conversation on Cam and meet each other in real life.
Wrapping It Up
Thai Friendly is an excellent tool to get warm up with Thai girls. I’ve used it for years in planning my dates for my holidays in Thailand.
For men looking for a serious relationship or marriage, there are plenty of girls looking for the right man. And for the singles looking for FUN, don’t worry, you’ve got the possibility to hook up Thai girls for a night stand.
It saves you a bunch of time. You can make the dating process much quicker and filter the women to match with your interests.