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How To Use Thai Friendly To Meet Women in Thailand

If you are looking to meet Thai women online, Thai Friendly is a must-have tool in the arsenal.

One thing that most foreign struggle when in Thailand is to meet attractive women that aren’t after only their money.

The reason is simple, they visit the wrong places like the red light districts.

When you visit such places you can only get prostitutes that are after your money. Any decent Thai woman would never even think to go close to those areas.

That’s why you need to go to places where good women hang out if you to meet, date and get laid with attractive women genuinely interested in you, not your money…

Thai friendly girls

Here’s a little snippet of how Thai Friendly can help you to meet local women in Thailand by:

  • connecting with women having a fetish for foreigners
  • using search and filters that allow you to narrow down potential dates
  • talking to Thai women even if you are not in Thailand

Yesterday I got this an email from Mike:

Hey Rocco,

I have read a lot of your postings.

I joined ThaiFriendly a few weeks ago. I got hundreds of girls contacting me, spoke to a few and I’m going to meet one.

I will probably go to Bangkok in the next couple months and see her!

Many thanks

So, in this post, I’ll show you how to use Thai Friendly to date quality Thai girls, and specifically how to excel at it so that you get all the attention from the hottest Thai Women.

But first, a question that I get asked often:

There Are Enough Girls On Thai Friendly?

Thai Friendly has around 300.000 active members, it’s like a medium-size city all well organized in one platform.

Not only there are plenty of fishes in the sea, but it’s easy to connect and search your matches by using filters: by age, location, education, weight… You got the point.


How cool is that?

Here a little secret: search first the newest member before other men get to talk to them. That way you can get their attention before anyone else, set up a date and take it from there.

But first, you need to clear your mind about what you want so you can find the right match.

For example, when I visit Bangkok, I look for cute girls who I can take out for dinner, a talk and warm night of sex.

So, my typical girl usually is between 23 to 30 years old, speak decent English and have experience in dating foreign men.

She’ll be used to dine in foreign restaurants, know how to carry a conversation (so I don’t fall to asleep) and please me once in the room with some sexy lingerie and wild sex…

My Tyipical Thai girl on Thai-Friendly

So, what is your perfect match?

Think deeply about what type of experience you are looking for, then think about the right type of woman to make it happen.

Let’s take my friend Tom for example:

Tom is in his late fifties, financially secure and looking for a young companion to spend his remaining lifetime together. Tom wants to be looked after, feel young again and meet a girl on her twenties still innocent but able to please.

She’ll be able to speak some English, curious and looking for a good man to support her. This is a perfect match.

The girl for Tom will be someone similar to the profile below – She is cute, traditional and knows how to carry herself…

First conversation online


How To Get Started On Thai Friendly

Preparation is key to your success on Thai Friendly, and here I’m going to show step by step how to do it.

First, sign up with Thai Friendly, then write a proper profile description without taking short cuts. Girls notice the well-written profiles and admire men that know what they want in life…

Personal profile on Thai Friendly


Profile’s Pictures

The most important part of your profile is the photos. Pictures have an enormous impact on attracting the top girls on Thai Friendly, and don’t worry – you don’t need to be tall, handsome or fit.

So, what Thai women consider cute and attractive? This might surprise you.

1 – White Skin

2 – Big Noise

3 – Clean and Shaved

4 – Well Dressed

5 – Friendly and Social

The five points are key in succeeding to attract your next Thai woman.

Upload 5 pictures that clearly showcase each of the five points.

The first picture will be your face taken with a certain light to increase the whiteness of your skin. Take few snapshots till you get the whitest tone.

This will be your main profile picture. Why?

Because Thai people love white skin, actually all Asia is into this trend.

Just watch any Thai TV program or ads and you’ll notice the actors be white as snow.

This video is being criticized internationally to take on the white skin so extremely offering a “magic” pill which can turn black people into white people, a kind of Michel Jackson trick.

The second picture will be taken at a 45 angle to show the size of your noise indirectly, the bigger, the better. Don’t be shy about it.

The third picture isn’t mandatory because the main profile picture can show the same, just make sure to be shaved and polished, Thai women are immaculate and want to hang out with clean men.

The fourth picture will have you dressed “smart”, like when you are going to work or out for dinner. Avoid to show yourself in home attire; that look too sleazy.

Remember, the background is important too, maybe take a picture in the main street of your town with shops in the background.

The fifth picture will be taken in a social environment such a dinner with friends, a night out or a social gathering.

For Thais, company and friendship are a vital part of a complex social structure.


Profile Description

Thai friendly update personal profile to meet thai women

Most men write too much about themselves and are considered shellfish, not highly appreciate in Thai society. Instead, talk about yourself briefly and write more about what you are looking for and what your plans are.

In my case I wrote that I’m moving to Thailand, clearly stating that I’m looking for friends and knowing people. Indirectly I’m indicating that I’m not the usual sex tourist coming to town.

Unfortunately, in Thailand foreigners are seen as hooker hunter. So you will need to fight your way in and remove this stigma from the eye of Thai girls.

If you speak some basic Thai language is a plus, so make sure to mention it, Thai women will love it. Ok, done, you are ready to go. Scout out for women and wait for the messages to come in.


Start a Conversation

You can start a conversation by simply write a message like “Hey, what is going on in Bangkok”. Something simple, different and that require an answer from her.

When dating Thai girls, I just ask what is going on in the city so to keep the conversation as much as open and on an easy topic. Any girl can talk about their city.

Keep your conversation simple and smart, at least in the first messages till you get an understanding of her language skill. Many Thai girls are shy and not so confident writing in English, and they need to be praised and encourage.

I prefer to keep the messages short, to the point and build trust as fast as possible so I can move the conversation on Skype.

You don’t need to send a message to every girl you like, you can “show interest” by clicking a simple button below the profile picture.

show interest on Thai Friendly

You can organize your favorite girls by clicking the “add favorite” button.

A good rule of thumbs is to pick only ten girls and focus only on them. I understand you’ll be tempted to meet all the beautiful girls on Thai Friendly, but they are too many, and one life will not be enough.

When you start to get attention from the girls and the messages will flow your way, it is better to upgrade your membership to remove the 10 minutes/one message rule.

You want to engage the girls at once, so you save yourself time while getting to know them deeply.

There are four different options when upgrading your membership:

~ 1 month for $24.95; Equal to $0.83 per day

~ 3 months for $49.95; Equal to $0.55 per day

~ 6 months for $69.95; Equal to $0.38 per day

~ 1 year for $99.95; Equal to $0.27 per day

thai friendly upgrade to premium

They also give you other incentives to get their premium membership like your profile and messages appearing on top of the girl’s search results and inbox as well as checking who viewed your profile, who marked you as a favorite, etc.

I’d recommend you use the free account first and if you feel like you don’t want to wait 10 minutes between messages or you want to get in contact with girls in high demand, then you can always upgrade your account anytime.

I hope you found my review of Thai Friendly useful and if you want to sign up for it here’s the link again: