Tokyo Sex Guide For Single Men
If you’re looking for the best places in Tokyo to find sexy girls hot for action, this sex guide has all the info you need.
Tokyo is well known for its many red light districts and exciting nightlife, but also for the many Gaijin (foreigner) unfriendly places.
It isn’t uncommon to be turned away by doormen just because you are a foreigner.
This happened far too frequently when I visited Tokyo for the first time. And that’s exactly the reason why this guide exists.
I’m going to open up all the good things this city has to offer and talk about places where you’re welcome and girls are open to play, covering both the hookup and the P4P scene.
This Kyoto Sex Guide was last updated in August 2025
Contents
Intro To Sex Tourism In Tokyo
Tokyo’s prostitution scene is well-established all across the city, having a wide range of sex venues. From sex toys, through parlours, to innocent maids in cafes…
However, I wouldn’t recommend it to first-time travelers because there are limited places where foreigners are allowed. Yes, you can’t walk into any sex venues but only the one that accepts Gaijin (foreigner).
Prostitution Law
Also, keep in mind that penetrative sex isn’t openly advertised because it’s illegal to offer it to “unspecified persons” – basically, strangers.
But once a girl gets to know you (even if it’s just serving you tea), it becomes legal under Japanese law. That’s why soaplands and delivery health (DH) spots exploit this by structuring interactions.
Sexual services like handjobs, blowjobs, and even anal aren’t considered prostitution in Japan and can be openly sold, especially in red light areas…
Establishments like pink salons (specializing in oral sex), fashion health (massage with manual/oral services), and image clubs (fantasy-themed non-penetrative acts) operate openly because their offerings fall outside the legal definition of prostitution.
Many places charge a “foreigner tax,” meaning you’ll pay more than a local.
And if you don’t speak Japanese, getting into the higher-end or “Japanese only” venues is impossible unless you go with a local.
Red Light Districts
Several red light districts cater to a variety of crowds:
- For the younger: Shibuya, Harajuku and Kichijoji.
- For the more exclusive and fashionable: Daikanyama, Toyama, Omotesando, Ebisu and Nakameguro.
- For the more mature or professional: Omotesando, Toyama, Roppongi and Ginza.
- For adult entertainment: Kabukicho (Shinjuku) – Tokyo’s biggest red-light zone
A word of caution when looking for women in the red light areas, these places are run by the mafia and are known to be manipulative.
One search and you will come across crazy stories on how tourists were drugged, had their credit cards maxed out, and worse.
Fortunately, you don’t necessarily need to pay for sex. There are other ways to get laid in Tokyo with civilian girls and couples.
What About Girls & Sex In Tokyo?
Most Japanese women have no interest in talking to foreigners (gaijin). However, you can meet some aggressive gaijin hunters who want to get laid with you.
In general, Tokyo girls are passive about sex. That means you’ll run into some who are flaky or unsure.
But don’t let that fool you, many of them are curious, open-minded, and just looking for a good time in a big, lonely city.
You’ll find a mix:
- Some girls are casual and experienced.
- Others might seem innocent, but they’re still down once the mood is right.
- And yes, there are plenty of sugar babies looking for older men with money and confidence.
The thing is, you never know who you are going to hook up with when out hunting for girls.
So, you need to screen the girls as fast as possible to avoid wasting time with women who aren’t interested in sex.
Don’t fall for their innocent looks. They may look shy, but that’s only until you two end up alone at some private place.
Meaning, don’t be afraid to show her that you want to fuck her, she knows why you are talking to her.
Where to Find Sex in Tokyo
You are visiting Tokyo because you want to get laid with beautiful local girls but you don’t know where to get started.
In this section, I’ll cover all of your options.
1. Online
Tokyo has a lot of slutty single girls who are interested in dating or having sex with foreign men. There are also many couples who are happy to have a threesome.
On open-minded dating sites like Asian Match Mate, you can find single girls and couples eager to explore new sexual fantasies.
No need to go for long and boring conversations but straight to the point of the encounter: sex.
2. Nightclubs & Pick Up Bar
The best nightlife areas to find local ladies who are into foreign men are Shibuya and Roppongi.
These areas have the highest concentration of bars/clubs frequented by English-speaking Japanese women who are into gaijin (foreigners).
But honestly, almost every standing bar is great for meeting local women. Avoid places where people are seated at a table in groups.
Keeping this in mind, here are some of my recommendations:
• Voyager Lounge Shibuya
Open till 5 am, you’ll find many drunk and horny local girls here after midnight.
Just don’t miss your last train; some lines stop around 11:30 PM.
• Womb Club
This is the most popular club in Shibuya. 3,500 yen entry, but worth it. You’ll find a 50/50 Japanese and gajin crowd, the majority under 30.
• TASUICHI Bar
A small standing bar in Shibuya with a mix of locals and tourists.
It starts off quiet but gets busy later in the night, making it easy to meet and chat with local women.
• HUB Roppongi
Great place to pick up drunk Japanese girls. Yeah, it’s easy to get laid there.
Note: It’s also worth a visit to Kabukicho in Shinjuku and Dogenzaka in Shibuya after dark. There are several hostess bars.
3. Oppai Pubs – Girlie Bars
Oppai pubs are Japanese adult bars that offer companionship and light flirting with young Japanese ladies (oppai means “breasts” in Japanese).
You sit, have a drink, and a hostess flirts with you, presses her chest against you, and might allow light touching and sometimes kisses on the mouth and tits.
Some places offer lap dances, body-to-body contact, or even “face in boobs” fun. There’s no full sex or nudity, and the vibe is more playful than explicit.
Prices are usually 3,000 to 6,000 yen for 30-60 minutes, sometimes with drinks included.
Each pub has its own rules, and some may not allow foreigners, especially if you don’t speak Japanese.
You’ll find most oppai pubs in Kabukicho (Shinjuku) and Ikebukuro.
Names change often, so don’t stress about finding one specific place, just explore the area or go with someone who knows it.
If you want to play with tits without going all the way, oppai pubs are a great in-between option.
4. Delivery Health – Deriheru (Escorts)
Delivery Health, often shortened to DH or “Deriheru” is Japan’s version of an escort service.
Instead of going to a club or a soapland, the girl comes to you. That means you can relax in your hotel room and wait for the fun to arrive. You can also meet in a love hotel if needed.
Despite the name, there’s nothing “healthcare” about it. DH usually includes things like kissing, showering together, handjobs, blowjobs (BBJ), and sometimes more, depending on the shop and girl.
FS (full sex) isn’t officially on the menu but may happen if there’s chemistry. Some shops are open about what’s available, others play it safe with vague terms.
You’ll often find flyers or ads for these services in mailboxes, phone booths, or even public restrooms. Prices start at around 24,000 yen and go up depending on the girl, the extras, and whether you’re booking incall or outcall.
Here are a few Delivery Health services that are known among foreigners:
• Tokyo Amateur Escort (TAE)
One of the more well-known agencies based in Shibuya.
The girls range from B-tier to C-tier looks-wise, and while their photos are usually heavily photoshopped, the physical stats like height and bust size tend to be accurate.
• THC (The Hentai Club)
Known for its wide range of fetish services. You can also get GFE elements like kissing, 69, FIV, and eye contact.
Like many DH spots, your experience here depends a lot on the girl you get.
• Robo Deli
You can chat with its staff in English over LINE, WhatsApp, or email, and around 60% of their customers are reportedly foreigners.
Robo Deli also offers a range of fetish packages and is considered a good option if you’re into themed play and want something a little different.
5. Pink Salons – Blow Job Bars
Pink Salons are dimly light bars with sofas where the girls service you. They cost between 3,000 yen to 9,000 yen for 30 minutes.
I’ve already talked about where to find the top pink salons in Tokyo.
Yet, I can say that they are one of the least foreigner-friendly sex services available in Tokyo.
In fact, I only discovered a few pink salons in Tokyo that accept non-Japanese nationals. And these places open and close all the time.
The working girls at pink salons suck hundreds of cocksper month with only a small wet hand towel used to “disinfect” each client’s penis before service.
Meaning the chances of catching a “Sexually Transmitted Infection” are extremely high.
6. Soaplands
Soaplands are one of Tokyo’s most iconic adult experiences. They operate in a legal gray zone but are widely accepted and regulated.
The setup usually involves a full bath with a girl who gives you a massage, followed by a range of erotic services, including full service (FS), depending on the venue and your connection with the girl.
You’ll find the highest concentration in the Yoshiwara area, with about 60 erotic bath houses. Though you’ll find a few in Kawasaki and Yokohama, as explained in the Tokyo Soapland Guide.
Foreigners are welcome at some places, but expect to pay a “foreigner tax” and face language barriers unless the shop explicitly caters to tourists.
To keep it simple, here are three types of soaplands that offer good value…
• Kira Kira
Kira Kira is about 35 minutes from Shibuya by express train, making it easy to reach from central Tokyo.
It’s well-known as foreigner-friendly, has an English website, and is often recommended for beginners. A 70-minute session costs about 31,000 yen, with an additional 5,000 yen foreigner tax.
The quality of girls can vary, and you might occasionally end up with a “dud,” but overall it’s a great introduction to the world of soaplands.
• Casanova
It’s often called the easiest soapland for foreigners who don’t speak Japanese. Everything is simplified; you just show up, pay one fee at the counter, and get matched with a girl.
They allow English communication and handle everything in-house, even using love hotel rooms located in the same building.
Expect to pay 55,000 yen for 80 minutes FS, 77,000 yen for 100 minutes, or up to 80,000 yen for 130 minutes. Still, many say the peace of mind and comfort are worth the premium. And their lineup of girls is also excellent.
• Etoile
If you’re ready to go all-out and want a luxury experience, this is one of the highest-end soaplands in Yoshiwara.
It’s not cheap, expect to pay around 83,000 yen for 120 minutes, but this place is all about pampering. Expect services like GFE sessions with mat play, a blowjob, and even a “floating blowjob” in the bath.
Booking can be tricky, some people reserve by adding the girl on LINE directly. Etoile is for those who want the full fantasy with one of the top-tier girls in Tokyo.
7. Strip Clubs
Strip clubs in Tokyo come in many forms, some are famous for their shows, others have topless dancers who provide companionship.
You pay for the dancer’s time as well as the drink itself, which is very expensive. In other words, it’s an expensive way to meet Japanese girls.
Most strip clubs are located in the Roppongi entertainment district and Kabukicho. The best are:
- Black Rose Bar – An expensive strip club that provides amazing ambiance and shows.
- Tantra Tokyo – Located in Roppongi, Tantra combines burlesque, pole dancing, and themed performances. Shows include fire acts and modern geisha-style dances.
- Seventh Heaven – Also in Roppongi, this is more like what you’d expect in a Western strip club, stage shows, lap dances, and private rooms.
- Shibuya Galaxy – This strip club employs several college girls. The entry fee is 8500 yen, which includes two 10-minute show tickets. Some options are free, while others cost extra.
8. Sex Clubs
There are several clubs for swingers. Bliss Out is probably the most foreign-friendly if you don’t speak Japanese. There is also a place in Shinjuku called Ubu that’s pretty neat.
However, those places have a Japanese-based clientele that prefers to get involved only with people who can speak Japanese.
If you want a swinger experience in Tokyo, the best way is to hook up with singles and couples on Asian Match Mate. Local people speak fluent English and feel comfortable hooking up with foreigners who don’t speak Japanese.
Typical Prices For Sex In Tokyo
Several businesses sell sex in Tokyo, and you can choose the service from their menu.
Also, you can contact independent escorts who clearly state their prices online, and they are fixed.
To give you a better idea, here is a list of prices for sex in Tokyo:
• Pink Salon: Blowjob bars offering 3,000–5,000 yen for a standard session. Rotational BJ sessions (multiple girls) start at 7,000 yen for 20 minutes.
• Soaplands: Average prices for foreign-friendly soaplands range from 30,000 to 60,000 yen. Budget options start around 25,000 yen, while high-end services can go up to 80,000+ yen for 90-120 minutes.
• Delivery Health (Deriheru): Expect to pay 20,000 to 35,000 yen for a 60–70-minute outcall session. Incall sessions at shops (if offered) are usually a few thousand yen cheaper. Most do not offer FS but include kissing, handjobs, blowjobs (BBJ), and Sumata (genital rubbing).
• Strip Clubs: Entry is usually 2,000-3,000 yen, and a handjob in a private booth costs around 3,000 yen extra.
If you don’t want to pay for sex, maybe because you value genuine intimate moments, you can get a temporary girlfriend in Tokyo. There are many Japanese girls in Tokyo with a fetish for foreign men.
How To Get a Girlfriend in Tokyo
Do you want to get a girlfriend in Tokyo? Maybe someone who would show you around the city, have intimate moments together, and enjoy each other’s company.
A temporary girlfriend helps to plan all sorts of nice things during your visit and becomes your best friend in Japan. Even if sex isn’t on your mind, there is no better way to learn about Japanese culture and enjoy Tokyo.
But most girls in Tokyo don’t understand English, and maybe you don’t have time to learn Japanese.
In that case, the best way to meet Japanese women who can interact in English and have a fetish for foreign men is to use the online game. Use dating apps and sites that Japanese women use to meet foreign men.
Going to Tokyo without knowing the Japanese language and not using dating sites and apps is just crazy because it helps you to meet locals before you arrive.
Why try to pick up girls in random places when you can simply meet girls with a fetish for foreign men conveniently on a dating site?
Just create a profile, introduce yourself, message a few girls, and meet up once you are in Tokyo. That is how easy it is to meet up with Tokyo girls online.
Must-Do During a Tokyo Sex Tour
If you are visiting Tokyo for sex, you want to visit places and do things to make your adult holiday memorable.
Here is a list of things to do during your sex tour in Tokyo:
Get A Blow Job In A Pink Salon
It’s an exciting experience to sit on a sofa, having a drink while a girl blows you off…
Also, you can do erotic activities such as kiss, body touch, finger fuck, eat pussy, etc. except for sex.
Go For A Soapy Massage
When in Tokyo, you can’t miss out on visiting a soapland for a happy ending massage. It is a recommended sexual service when you want to enjoy it slowly while relaxing…
Girls wash you and body to body massage on an air mattress before sex. It’s a pleasant feeling.
Get Laid With An Everyday Girl In Tokyo
What is better than getting laid with a genuine girl who is into you, not your money. Hookers are an easy option for sex, but they are robotic, dirty and banging a dry p…y isn’t inviting.
Imagine visiting the country with a sweet and loving caring woman next to you… And at night making love to her…
Instead, spending a day or even the whole vacation with an everyday Japanese girl is going to make your holiday – unforgettable!
This concludes this sex guide to Tokyo. I wish you a happy journey.
