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How To Pick Up Hong Kong Girls And Get Laid

If you like sexy, sophisticated, and outgoing Chinese girls that can speak proper English, Hong Kong is one of the best places in Asia to pick up girls.

I consider it better than hooking up in Singapore because most women in Hong Kong are single working professionals which makes them easy to hook up with…and don’t get me started with the domestic helpers.

Not interested in the Chinese locals?

Hong Kong has an exciting blend of girls like European, Russian, English, Japanese, Korean, Thai, and Filipina girls.

Going for a hookup and possibly getting laid in Hong Kong may sound scary to most men, that’s why I’m giving you a low down of how you can score.

But first of all, let me answer the one question that’s probably been bagging you since you thought of Hong Kong…

Is It Hard To Hook Up In Hong Kong?

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Well, the answer isn’t so straight, so let me try and expand on it just a little bit.

Most girls in Hong Kong will generally go for foreign men because of three things:

  1. They believe that foreign men are sophisticated and hardworking.
  2. They see foreigner men as exotic as you see girls in Hong Kong exotic to you.
  3. Colonial mentality.

Let’s now try and break it down a little bit further.

Hong Kong women have this idea that foreign men’s wallets are generally fat. That is a plus, especially in the Chinese culture, which gives a lot of importance to status.

That doesn’t mean you need to be rich to score, and it’s the impression that matters. And no, they aren’t hookers – they are just regular girls with ambitions.

So, to answer your question, it’s a yes and no depending on your ability to impress the girls.

Again, you don’t need to dress like a million-dollar guy but at least have the decency to wear a shirt, a pair of pants, quality shoes, and a blazer. Only that can put you on top of the 20% of men in Hong Kong.

Here some more tips…

Tips To Score With Hong Kong Girls

Let me give you some helpful tips on how you can score with Hong Kong girls, fast!

  • Patience Is Key

You might have the impression that women in Hong Kong are mature.


Hong Kong girls are generally childish, so it will take patience if you want to get laid.

  • Be Stylish

Dress sharp and be stylish in your speech as well, it will go a long way. Hong Kongians put a lot of weight on appearance.

  • Be Sure To Show Her That It Isn’t All About Getting Laid

One thing that most girls don’t want is a guy that is very obvious that he wants only to get laid. Hong Kong girls aren’t different in this area as well. So, fly under the radar, you are just friendly.

  • Be Bold About Your Advantage

The moment you are in Hong Kong as a foreigner, always know that you have an added advantage. Be bold in this aspect. You can snatch a girl from any Hong Kong guy just like that.

Be careful about this approach though, Hong Kong men have a reputation for cockblock.

  • Use Your Spending Power

If you can afford to take her out for a nice meal, do that. Hong Kong women, especially Chinese, get wet fast when they see shiny things 🙂

Meet Girls Online

Most women are too busy working and don’t have the time to hang out in bars or clubs to meet Mr. Right.

So the best solution is to hook up on a site like Asian Match Mate. There are girls and couples interested in no string attached sex.

Basically, you can get yourself a temporary sex partner or just a nightstand.

It has worked for me on several occasions, and this is my last encounter.

She was an office girl who enjoyed good things in life (sex was one of them). She also liked to role-play and wear black lingerie.

When I arrived, she was wearing a tight “black dress” and high hill shoes. When walking, her ass was moving left and right. I was hypnotized.

I was glad to get a tour of Hong Kong with a beautiful and intelligent woman. The best part was she was all flirty and mushy, telling me about her black underwear, in detail!

Let me conclude with – if you haven’t gotten laid in Hong Kong, you are missing out.

The thing is, I hooked up with this girl without giving her any gifts or spending on expensive dinners. When you use the proper tools, you can score in Hong Kong easily.

Best Nightlife Places To Pick Up Singles

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If you like to go out at night, the nightlife in Hong Kong is vibrant and exciting. It is also extremely competitive when it comes to scoring with girls.

Not only you must look sharp, but be ready to spend a lot of money on drinks to impress the girls. Other guys spend big to impress… It’s a fight of the wealthiest.

Having said that, the best place to start the night for single guys is to look for girls in Lan Kwai Fong (aka LKF) district. Between 11 pm – 3 am, there are horny girls all over the place.

I’m going to tell you the best nightclubs and bars to pick girls, starting with…


Night Clubs

If you surely want to meet single girls at night, there are two clubs that you should have a look at:

Volar, this is one of the clubs that have the hottest girls in Hong Kong. Expect to meet models type of girls, but you need to have big money if you want to score here.

The second club you should check out is Ce La Vi, which is right in the heart of Hong Kong. This place is vast, having a restaurant, sky bar, and a club all under one roof.

Other noteworthy clubs are Dragon I, Déjà vu, Play, and Levels, but there are also plenty of alternatives.



If you love to hook up with single girls early in the night, you better visit pick up bars known to have women hot for action.

The best pick up bars are:

  1. Joe Bananas
  2. Carnegie
  3. Bar 109
  4. Bar De Luxe

These are just some of the best pick up bars, but you can scout out Aberdeen Street for other options.

This area is well known by the expat community to visit for happy hours after work.

Where to Meet Girls During The Day?


Malls are quite an interesting place to meet girls in Hong Kong.

Since approaching during the day is a rare thing in Hong Kong, when you do it, you really stand out from the crowd. Girls love it!

It shows confidence, and women are attracted to confident men.

The three best Malls to meet singles are:

  1. Harbour City
  2. The Landmark
  3. IFC Mall

In these malls, your chances are quite high to hook up with single women.

If you picking up girls either at night or during the day isn’t your thing, you can use an indirect approach without fear of getting rejected…



Online dating in Hong Kong is fast-growing, and if you send out messages to a good number of girls, most will reply.

Therefore, online dating sites should be considered by anyone looking to hook up and get laid.

There are even arrangement sites like Seeking Arrangements where you can find student girls for all types of relationships.

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In conclusion, you decide whether you want to visit Hong Kong to meet girls.

There are other things to see besides the beautiful women, like The Peak or Nan Lian Garden. Overall the city is safe and well organized.

This concludes this guide on how to pick girls in Hong Kong.