Visiting or living in Thailand and fancy going to a sex party? Then you’ll find all the info that you need in this article.
Everyone knows that Thailand is a great place for nightlife and sex, but no one talks about the private parties happening behind closed doors.
The swinger community in Thailand is huge but it’s also reserved.
Yet, it welcomes everyone without discrimination. This means no matter you’re a single or a couple… White or black… Asian or Caucasian… There are plenty of opportunities for no string attached sex.
Most people think about sex parties in the form of gang bangs where several people meet up to fuck each other. But in Thailand, you’ll find several intimate parties like threesomes or couple swaps.
The thing is swinger clubs in Thailand are illegal so the only way to go for a sex party is by invite-only. And in this article, I’m going to show you exactly how to join one.
But first, let’s clear up some confusion about the sex parties that take place in Thailand.
What Are Sex Parties In Thailand All About?
Sex parties also known as swinger parties take place in a private residence or hotel room and are host usually by an experienced couple. So you shouldn’t worry if it’s your first time, they know how it feels like.
Some couples search only for a female or male while other couples prefer to swing with like-minded couples. And then there are people with fantasies like to get their wife gang bang by several men or are into fetish acts.
Sex parties in Bangkok are usually exclusive among people knowing each other. And they don’t meet up only for sex bus also to celebrate occasions outside the bedroom.
So if you want to participate you need to get invited by one of the members. Later I’ll show you how to network with them.
Instead, outside Bangkok in popular tourist destinations like Phuket and Pattaya, swinging and group sex are mostly organized by couples on holiday.
When going for a sex party, you’re encouraged to dress up sexy to stimulate the situation, and then there are a few basic rules to follow:
- Respect other wishes and limits
- Only protect sex
- Sometimes same-sex isn’t allowed.
And each sex party has a verbal agreement that everyone can stop any time without being judged or pressured to carry on.
How To Participate In A Thailand Sex Group Party
The best way to join a sex party in Thailand is by getting invited by an experienced couple in this sort of affairs.
Below a few of my favorite methods to network with like-minded people…
Go To A Tantra Workshop
There are several Tantric workshops in Thailand, especially in Bangkok.
The couples who participate want to deepen their sexual knowledge and learn about new ways of pleasure. Meaning they are the perfect place to meet open-minded people forward sex.
Often you’ll make new friends that are into swopping partners and regularly attend sex parties.
I recommend joining a Tantric course to make new friends, however this method isn’t bulletproof. It isn’t a guarantee you’ll meet people into swinging or similar activities.
Join An Adult Community
A sure way to meet swinging couples and find sex partners for any sexual needs or fantasies, it’s to join an adult community.
The most popular adult community in Thailand at the moment is Asian Match Mate. Horny singles, couples and swingers use it to find fuck buddies, hookups, sex parties and even orgies.
You just create a profile, add a few kinky photos or videos, and a few lines to your bio. Then search for singles or couples in Thailand.
Get to know the people in the community, exchange sexy photos, let out your sexual fantasies and when you find the right people, just meet up for a good time.
There a board where people post regularly the upcoming sex parties around Thailand. Just message them and they’ll invite you to join.
Make sure to build some proper trust and connection before join a sex party, you’ll feel more comfortable.
Sometime people on Asian Match Mate might ask you to meet first for a drink to get to know each other better. That’s ok, be patient and you’ll have a great time in the bedroom later.
Is It Free To Join An Adult Party?
It is usually free to join, but you might usually bring some booze or a gift for the host to show your gratitude. And in case the event takes place in a hotel, you might have to pay for your own room.
Sometimes single males get asked to pay 3.000 baht admission to prevent undesirable men to join. Anyway, for single men to join a sex party alone isn’t as much fun to go with a sex partner.
Think about going to dinner alone, is it fun?
When joining a swinger party alone there are awkward moments when others are doing their own things and the single guy is left out. With a sex partner, the problem is solved.
And it’s so easy to find sex partners on adult dating sites, that doesn’t make any sense to go solo for a sex party.
To conclude, if you’re a couple and want to go for a sex party in Thailand, make friends on an adult community and you’ll get invited. Instead, if you are alone, first find yourself a sex partner and then join group sex.