swingers in Thailand

How To Find Swingers In Thailand

Finding  swingers in Thailand is challenging because of two main reasons:

  • Swinger clubs are illegal in Thailand, so most activities are done privately.
  • Thai Swingers are careful about their privacy and identity. So you can not just bump into them on a regular social platform.

The good news is there are plenty of swinger activities behind closed doors.

In this article, we’d discuss the best places to find swingers in Thailand, and also offer tips on how to network with them.


Where To Find Swingers In Thailand

Unlike Western nations where people wear signs to be identified by other swingers, in Thailand there is no way to figure out if someone is into the lifestyle.

So the only way to connect with them is to go where they hang out. The first place is…


An Adult Community Online

Join an adult community is the easiest way to network with swingers in Thailand. People online can freely express their fantasies and desires without judgment.

At the moment the most popular adult community in Thailand is Asian Match Mate. It’s home for horny singles, couples and swingers looking for hookups, sex parties, and orgies.

The members on this site are straightforward so don’t hesitate to write on your profile what you’re looking for.

When creating your profile upload some hot photos and videos, and be honest about your needs.

Take the time to know the community, and show that you are trustworthy. Remember that discretion is important here.


Nudist Resorts

There are several nudist resorts in Thailand. It is an exclusive place for just a specific type of people.

People usually visit a nudist resort to relax and unwind. And also to connect with people into the lifestyle.

Tourist destinations like Bangkok, Phuket, and Pattaya have several nudist resorts. Except for Bangkok which has only one.

Get comfortable with other couples, have a few drinks, and ask if they are into swinging. If they are into the lifestyle and into you, just invite them to your room.


GoGo Bars With Sex Shows

In Thailand, there are certain bars specialized in sex shows. Besides being a great experience for any tourists, it’s also a great place to meet swingers.

After all, this type of show is something that interests most swingers. It’s a real turn to watch a threesome or an orgy on the stage.

Sit near a couple and try to be friendly. You can easily find out what they are into, especially if they had a couple of drinks already.

It won’t take long before some swingers invite you for a drink or back to their bedroom if you aren’t too creepy or intrusive.


Best Destinations for Swinger Parties in Thailand

The best place to enjoy the kinkiest swinger parties would be in Thailand’s main tourist destinations. Many like-minded foreign couples travel here just to join a sex party.

Let’s explore the best destinations for swinger parties.

Bangkok – Bangkok is the capital city of Thailand, so be ready to meet all kinds of swingers there. From local elite couples to mixed couples from different nationalities, hardly you’ll get bored.

You can also hook up with solo males and females into threesomes.

And do not be surprised to meet swingers into all sorts of kinks and fetishes such as BDSM, Roleplay, Exhibitionism, Voyeurism, etc.

Pattaya – The majority of swingers in Pattaya are usually him foreign and her Thai. Expect her to be young usually in her 20s or 30s, while him to be in his 40s-60s.

Phuket – Similar to Pattaya, Phuket has a lot of mixed-race couples. But also several foreign swingers that come here to relax and fuck.

Chiang Mai – Chiang Mai is out of the beaten path with a timid swinger lifestyle. There are occasional swinger party events, but not that many like Bangkok, Pattaya, and Phuket.


Tips to Swing in Thailand

If you are interested in swinging while in Thailand, it is important to approach the subject with sensitivity and respect. Here are some tips to keep in mind:

  1. Research and find a reputable and consensual swinging community or venue. As said earlier, Asian Match Mate is the best option if it’s your first time in Thailand.
  2. Respect the boundaries and preferences of others. Keep in mind that Thai people feel discomfort being touched without consent.
  3. Be friendly, fun, and easygoing. Swingers in Thailand take life lightly.
  4. Bring some booze and food when hooking up with a couple or attending a sex party. People appreciate the gesture.

It is important to be mindful of the cultural and social norms of Thailand. Always wai, smile and be generous.


FAQs Regarding Swingers in Thailand


Are there any swinger clubs in Thailand?

Swinger clubs are illegal in Thailand so you won’t find any. but they’re strictly invitation-only sex parties.


Is swinging legal in Thailand?

Swinging is legal in Thailand but not widely accepted practice. In fact, it is not openly discussed or advertised.


What’s the best place to connect with swingers in Thailand?

Asian Match Mate is the best place to find and connect with like-minded swingers in Thailand.