Best Places To Meet Kota Kinabalu Girls
I’ve lived in Kota Kinabalu for years and know that the dating scene can be dry at times.
You might feel like every other woman you encounter has strong religious values and isn’t interested in casual stuff.
But that doesn’t mean it’s impossible to pull dates and get laid.
You just have to visit the right places and learn which girls are worth pursuing – all of which I’ll discuss in this guide.
I’ll start by sharing some info about the girls and nightlife here then touch popular clubs and pick up bars.
Then you will be guided through the rewards of online dating.
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Are Kota Kinabalu Girls Interested In Foreigners?
Girls in Kota Kinabalu find foreigners very attractive. But there is a local stigma, so keep that in mind when out at night.
This is especially true for Muslim girls, who make up the majority in Kota Kinabalu. They’re easy to identify by their headscarves.
While it’s not impossible to hook up with Muslim girls, they tend to be more reserved.
They want to avoid being seen with foreigners in public due to the potential “shame” it could bring to their families.
However, on dating apps, it’s a different story. Many Muslim girls are open to casual relationships, but only with someone they trust to keep things discreet.
That’s why they often start by chatting to see if you can be trusted.
I had a friend with benefits for six months, and we had some incredible sex. But we chatted online for about two weeks before she felt comfortable enough to meet in person.
So it really requires a lot of patience, but think of it as a challenge.
The same goes for devoted Christian girls, but some of them are more liberal than Muslim women.
Look for the ones that wear Western outfits as they’re often open to dating foreigners.
You can meet them in bars, clubs and malls which I’ll talk about in the next section.
Kota Kinabalu Nightlife
The nightlife scene is not the biggest but, there are hot babes out every day of the week. However, the weekends are the busiest days.
There isn’t any one area to go out at night like there used to be Waterfront a few years ago so you better pick a place and stick to it because the logistics are bad.
Consider staying in Le Meridien Hotel which is located in the city centre and easily accessible from anywhere around town.
This hotel has a wine bar that’s perfect for taking a date, and afterward, you can head up to the bedroom for a more private setting.
Best Nightclubs & Bars To Pick Up Girls
There aren’t many places to pick up girls, so don’t pass on any opportunities to get a phone number.
Below are some of the current hottest clubs and bars in Kota Kinabalu.
• MYNT Club – I can assure you that booze here is cheap and the staff is friendly. MYNT has good DJs that single and very promiscuous women enjoy dancing to.
• M-Cubbed – It’s a nice karaoke bar that comes to life a little later into the night with single girls and music. You might run into hookers here so be sure to ask politely.
• MAPLE KTV – One of the busiest clubs in the city, which stays open till 5 am. You’ll meet many drunk and horny girls here, and the performers are also hot.
• 999 Bar – One of the largest nightclubs in Kota Kinabalu. The music and the booze are pretty good here.
How To Meet Women During The Day
The night scene doesn’t appeal to everyone, but you can always meet women during the day in malls or by the beach.
Kota Kinabalu women like foreign men just the same way they enjoy shopping, so the two things go hand in hand.
Shopping malls are the hotspots to converse with local women and exchange contact on the go.
This is true with the girls working in the many shops, just approach by asking a general question, make them laugh, and go for the contact number. The best malls to mingle are Oceanus Waterfall Mall, Karamunsing Complex, or City Mall.
A great majority of local women at these malls are usually shopping with friends, so you may not find them alone. That is a good thing because girls in a group feel less intimidated to talk to you.
Chat With Single Girls Online
If you feel frustrated when talking to girls face to face, you can meet local girls online.
Most girls’ actually prefer talking online as it’s way less confrontational.
For me, Bumble, OkCupid, and Coffee Meets Bagel are the best options. Most other sites, in my experience, are packed with bots and scammers.
There is a bit of everything on these dating sites. You’ll meet girls who want to get married as well as adventurous women to just have sex with foreign men.
Then there are also single moms looking for wealthy men to support their children.
I do not recommend hooking up with them more than a few times, otherwise, they’ll try to burden you with responsibilities.
Enjoy Dating Kota Kinabulu Girls
Kota Kinabalu is an awesome place to visit even if you don’t get laid.. However, successfully seducing local women might become one of your greatest memories.
If you want to secure dates before you arrive in the city, use a dating site.
It’s a smart move because local girls need time to warm up and feel comfortable. By the time you arrive, she might feel close enough to meet in person or even offer to pick you up from the airport…
And once you’re in town, visit the bars and clubs I’ve recommended or take a stroll through popular malls.
Women expect men to take the initiative here so don’t be afraid to ask for her number.
Remember, “you miss 100% of the shots you don’t take.”
That ends this dating guide to meet Kota Kinabulu girls. Enjoy your wonderful stay here!
