Guide To Have A Threesome In Pattaya
Every other guy who lands in Pattaya dreams of pulling off a threesome. The fantasy is simple: two hot Thai girls both all over you.
Finding two hot girls in Pattaya isn’t a problem… The real challenge is to find two bisexual ladies who enjoy having a three-way experience. Most working girls will be happy to bring over their friend to earn some money, but they won’t touch each other.
The result is you’ve to pay double for what feels like an awkward session.
I’ve made this mistake in the past, but now I’ve learned the right way to go about it: pick first a bisexual or open-minded girl, and let her choose the second lady.
She knows who she’s comfortable with. She knows who’s into it. That’s how you get chemistry instead of dead weight.
Now that I told you how to choose girls for a great threesome experience, I’ll tell you the best places where to find open-minded and bisexual ladies for your trio adventure.
And don’t miss out on my tips for a great threesome experience at the end of this guide.
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Where To Find Bisexual Girls For a Threesome in Pattaya
Pattaya, being the most sexualized destination in town, offers several ways to go about finding a threesome. You have foreign couples visiting only to find a third person to have a different sexual experience… You’ve plenty of hookers willing to please you for the right amount, and occasionally you can find a bisexual girlfriend that will be happy to have sex with other bisexual ladies and you.
Having lived here for years, I can tell you I had my share of threesome experiences. Personally, I find them too exhausting. But I don’t regret my time spent with my bisexual ex-girlfriend…
Good memories. Past is past.
So let’s start with the fastest and easiest way:
Online
If you want to set up a threesome before you even land in Pattaya, start online. There are two main platforms.
The first one is Asian Match Mate (AMM). It is the easiest route if you’re open to hooking up with couples for a threesome.
You’ll find swingers and bi-curious pairs here. Sometimes it means the husband’s involved too, if you don’t mind him hanging around, that can actually work in your favor.
A lot of these guys are cucks; they just want to watch. So while he’s sitting in the corner, you get to take his wife and invite another girl into the mix.
You can filter members by kink. There’s no ‘threesome’ option, but ‘cuckold’ is there, and that’s where you’ll find them.
The second option is Thai Friendly. In Pattaya, there are plenty of freelancers (self-employed prostitutes) eager to bring over also their friends for a threesome. These girls will message you first, so you know already who you’re dealing with.
My suggestion is to write a straightforward description, something like:
“Visiting Pattaya short-term, looking for two open-minded girls who like to play together. I take care of the right ladies, no drama, just fun. Threesomes only.”
This sets clear expectations from the start, and filters out all those girls who can’t satisfy your needs.
Then ask specific questions like “have you tried a threesome before?” and “do you know a girl to bring along?”
This will give you some perspective on whether the girl is serious about it or not.
If the online option isn’t for you because you prefer to go in-field, check out the:
Girlie Bars on Soi 6
If you aren’t comfortable dealing with girls online, you can visit Soi 6.
This street is lined with short-time bars (brothels). Several girls working in these bars are up for most things, and it’s pretty easy to find two willing ladies for a threesome.
As written in the Soi 6 Guide, there are a few well-known bars that serve different kinks like anal sex, threesomes, and blowjob experiences in the bar.
The only bars that I recommend for a three-way are:
• Ruby Club. The girls there are fun, not pushy, and many are into both group action and even anal.
Sit down, grab a drink, and if you click with a girl, ask if she is bisexual. Affermative? Ask her to bring her favorite friend upstairs.
• My Friend You
I stumbled on it by chance, and was pleasantly surprised to see the girls are playful, surprisingly open, and a few of them clearly lean bisexual.
That said, no matter which bar you go to, don’t forget the rule. Choose one girl you like, then let her pick the second.
She already knows which of her friends enjoys going with another girl.
If you’re unsure, talk to the mamasan (bar manager). Say you want “two girls together.” Buy her a drink, and she’ll hook you up with the right pair.
She knows which girls genuinely like threesomes, and she’ll save you from wasting time and money.
Gentlemen Clubs & Agogo Bars
More expensive than the bar in Soi 6, gentlemen’s clubs and certain agogos are also good places to find bisexual ladies for a trio.
The setup is simple: tell the mamasan you want two girls together.
She already knows which girls fool around with each other and will line you up with a pair that actually clicks.
For gentlemen’s clubs, think places like Heaven Above. Downstairs, it’s a bikini gogo with topless girls drinking with customers, but upstairs is where it gets interesting.
The VIP lounge runs like a proper gentlemen’s club: smaller, more intimate, and the girls are hands-on.
You don’t sit there nursing beers, you’ve got two girls grinding on you before you even finish your first drink.
That’s the difference compared to regular bars: the girls are already touchy and open, so arranging a threesome is straightforward. (More on this in our Gentlemen’s Club Guide).
On the agogo side, Windmill A Go Go (Soi Diamond) is the classic.
The girls are very naughty and experienced. They play with each other on stage in front of a crowd, so when you take them upstairs or back to your room, they don’t suddenly freeze up.
Expect to spend 6,000-9,000 baht depending on time, drinks, and whether you go short-time or long-time.
It’s not cheap, but it’s about as close as you’ll get to a guaranteed threesome in Pattaya.
Erotic Massage Places
There are erotic parlors in Pattaya that offer a four-hand massage that includes a happy ending (hand job, blow job or full sex).
These girls are comfortable with each other and don’t mind giving you a double tong blow job.
Think about it, they’re massaging dozens of guys side by side every day, so teaming up to please one customer for a fat tip is second nature.
That’s why threesomes from massage parlors usually feel smoother than dragging two random freelancers into a room.
Just keep in mind that some girls will try to “sit in the chair” while the other does the work. Before you go upstairs, make it clear you expect both girls to participate fully.
The best spots are Soi Honey and Soi Post Office, both lined with erotic massage shops. I’ve talked about the best erotic massage parlors in Pattaya in another guide in more detail.
Rates are usually 1,000–1,500 baht per girl, plus a barfine if you take them out. The girls often have great chemistry with each other.
Beach Road
Beach Road is freelancer central. Dozens of girls walking up and down, most in pairs or groups.
And yeah, sometimes you’ll hear the magic words: “You want my friend too?” That’s your green light for a quick threesome.
But you need to lay down the rules before you go to the room. Tell them you want action from both girls, not one playing dead while the other earns her keep.
If they hesitate or laugh it off, walk away. Plenty more options are a few meters down the street.
My Advice for Beach Road:
• Let her pick. If you like one girl, ask her to bring a friend she’s comfortable with. Better chemistry, better play.
• Set terms early. Say straight up: “Both of you, same time.” Don’t be shy.
• Negotiate smart. Expect 1,200–1,500 baht each, depending on looks and time. Pay after, not before.
• Test the vibe. Ask the girl to kiss her friend. If she is shy and prudish, they just aren’t into this sort of sexual performance. But if she goes straight with the tongue, you’ve found the perfect pair.
Beach Road can deliver wild, dirty threesomes, but it’s a gamble. Play it smart, and you’ll score.
Play it dumb, and you’ll end up with one girl working while her “friend” scrolls TikTok.
Tips to Have an Awesome Threesome in Pattaya
A threesome isn’t just about finding two girls; it’s about finding two who actually enjoy playing with each other and you.
That’s where most guys screw up. Here’s how to stack the odds in your favor:
• Ask specific questions. “Have you fuck another girl? Have you tried a threesome before? Did you like it?” If she looks disgusted, you’ve your answers.
• Let her pick the partner. You choose girl #1, then ask her: “Who’s your favorite friend?” She’ll bring someone she’s comfortable with, and that chemistry is what makes it hot.
• Don’t fall for fake enthusiasm. If she says, “Yeah, sure, I can do it,” that means nothing. Words are cheap; action is what counts. Test her.
• Test her. If she is proposing her friend for a threesome, ask to kiss her. If she is shy and prude about it, that means she isn’t into women. But if she goes with the tongue, don’t hesitate.
• Be clear about expectations. Tell them what your expectations are, and don’t be afraid to direct the action. Most girls appreciate the guidance. Ex. “I want both of you to lick each other”. Spell it out. Don’t assume they’ll magically figure out your fantasy.
• Mamasan is your best ally. In bars and gentlemen’s clubs, just say straight up: “I want two girls together.” Buy the mamasan a drink or slip her 500 Baht, and she’ll point you to the girls who actually enjoy girl-on-girl.
• Throw in a bonus. If you want them to really put on a show, offer 500-1,000 Baht each as a tip if they go all-in. Most girls step it up when they know extra cash is on the table.
FAQs
• How much does an FFM threesome cost in Pattaya?
It depends where you pull the girls from. On Beach Road, you can sometimes take two freelancers for 3,000-4,000 Baht total, but you need to be clear they’re both actually joining in.
If you want the bar scene, gogo bars, or gentlemen’s clubs, it jumps higher. Expect 6,000-9,000 Baht total once you cover drinks, bar fines, and the girls’ short-time or long-time fee.
• Where’s the best place to find a threesome in Pattaya?
Soi 6 bars like Ruby Club are your best bet, since the mamasan knows which girls enjoy group play. Windmill (agogo) and gentlemen’s clubs are solid options too.
Massage parlors on Soi Honey or Soi Post Office also offer two-girl setups with good chemistry.
• Can I get an FFM threesome with freelancers on Beach Road?
Yes, but it’s risky. Girls walking Beach Road often suggest bringing a friend, but many times it’s just a money grab, one girl works while the other sits there. If you want a real FFM threesome, spell it out clearly: both girls need to play together, not take turns.
