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12 Things to Know Before Dating Asian Girls

Today I’m going to share with you some crucial things you need to know before dating an Asian girl.

Preparation is king to success not only with Asian women but women in general.

Dating Asian women is a little different from dating Western women.

The playing phase is much the same, but if you are planning to take it to the next level, there are essential steps to learn.

Following these advises will save you heartbreaks and frustrations in dating Asian women.


1. Asian Girls Aren’t All The Same

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Asia is a big continent with different countries, cultures and girls. There are 48 countries.

A Mongolian woman would be tall, with a big breast, have rice eyes and a “warm” character in general terms, but her Chinese sister would look much different being short, with a small breast, dark eyes and “rigid” personality than the Mongolian sister.

Asia is huge, there are so many nationalities with different esthetic futures, not only in appearance but also in heritage.

An Indonesian girl has more similarities to a Greek girl than a Chinese. That is awkward, isn’t it?

To make up your mind in finding the perfect Asian girl for you, pin out all the Asian girls using Google image to search “Thai girls”, Cambodian girls”, “Japanese girls” and have a look at their physical characteristics.

Pick your favorite to start with.


They might look similar at first, but with time you will notice their differences.

The physical aspect is easy to spot, but personality and culture will take time and experience to learn.

The last two are the most important factors when dating an Asian girl.

What a lot of men focus when choosing a girl to date is by her appearance, but with time she will not be so beautiful and exotic as she was in her 20s, so you better know her and get along with her personality.

As I’ve said before, learn about Asian cultures and differences before jump in the Asian dating world.

2. Appearance Matter

In a land so influenced by media and fashion, appearance is so important that it make the difference between getting laid or not.

Just take for example the airline business. In Europe, most flight attendants are old and not so beautiful. Instead in Asia they are young and hot.

But don’t take my word for it, there is an excellent article talking about how much appearance is important for flight attendants from the two world.

I’ve traveled around Asia, and I confirm the pleasure to look at hostess during my trips, I can’t say the same for Europe.

You might have noticed Asian men don’t have any facial hairs, thinks like beard or mustache. They are considered dirty.

So, if you’ve any facial hairs, you’re going to struggle.

The second point is the way you dress. At least, you want to dress “smart-casual”.

Jeans and a quality t-shirt would do but ideally, wear a shirt.

The good news is Asian men have no clue about fashion so for you will be a piece of cake to out dress your competitors and stand out from the crowd.

If you want to improve your appearance, Bestylish has helped thousands of people around the world.

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Looking “Smart” is going to boost your success with Asian girls instantly. You’ll get noticed in clubs and malls, making you more comfortable in approaching local women.

What a lot of guys don’t understand is that Asian girls want to meet a guy who can make them feel sexually attracted and make her feel proud to show you to her friends.

So, look at yourself in the mirror before going out, and be a bit critical about your appearance and invest some dollars in looking good.

Investing in your look is going to pay big dividends.


3. Polite And Sincere


The general conversation for the first date in the West would be all around her.

Negative comments pepper the conversation like “My boss is an asshole” or “I want to be a model“.

By the end of dinner, your head would be spinning, and your only wish is to get the bill and get out of the situation ASAP.

Does it sound familiar? There is more…

Once the bill arrives, not only she pretends to want to pay the bill (she doesn’t), but she will not have sex with you.

It’s all about to play “hard-to-get” games.

Your Asian date would proceed in a different way.

For an Asian girl, this means listening and politely asking questions while showing a genuine interest.

She doesn’t interrupt the conversation and be genuinely happy to be there with you.

The conversation is pleasant, and she answers all your questions with refreshing authenticity.

After dinner, you will take her back to your room to have some romantic moments together, perhaps a kiss and something more.

For Asian girls is natural to have SEX if two people are attracted to each other, no need to wait or play games.


4. Asian Girls Love Social Online Sites


Asian girls love the internet, especially social media. You can become a friend on Facebook or meet girls ready to date/marry on Asian dating sites.

If you didn’t live under a rock for the last ten years, you know already Facebook. So, I don’t need to explain what is all about.

Asian girls interested in dating/marrying foreign men flock to Asian dating sites. They are the easiest way to connect the two worlds.

I’ve used this site successfully to meet and date Asian women. Sometimes for a fling and other times for something more.

The online dating arena has grown in the last five years and it appears to be speeding up, not slowing down.

Asia now has the highest penetration of social network usage among internet users of anywhere in the world.

This is good news for men looking into a digital alternative for dating Asian girls.


5. Age Matter Less With Asian Girls


You’ve undoubtedly heard stories about Asian girls in their 20’s dating American, Canadian, and European men in their 40’s, 50’s, 60’s and beyond.

When visiting Asia, you’ll notice senior men with young girls, sometimes 10-20 years or younger.

You might think “they are desperate” or “she is ugly“, sorry to disappoint you, that isn’t the case.

I saw stunning girls walking hand in hand with fat and old men; I thought they might be rich but after investigating, I’ve found a different reality.

Being a young guy helps to attract Asian women, but isn’t a priority for an Asian girl.

The truth is many times girls prefer dating men considerably older than themselves, even more than dating men of their age.

Most Asian girls aren’t self-independent and rely on you to lead the relationship, take decisions and provide safety.

Mature men are providers, this is a key attraction component for young Asian girls.


6. Asian People Are Obsessed With White Skin

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You have a natural advantage when dating Asian girls: you are white!

Let’s say your skin is very white, and for you is a down point in your home country because women prefer tanned men.

THere you are, trying to get sun bath whenever possible to please girls. What to do instead?

Keep your skin white of course and look for Asian girls!

For example, my fellow friends from Berlin is white, and he isn’t even the whitest.

But whenever we go out to meet singles in the Philippines, girls go crazy for him.

White skin is a very long-honed determinant of beauty in Asia, and go back in time long before Marco Polo ever set foot in Asia.


7. She Might Be A Virgin

I never had anything to do with a virgin in my life, perhaps isn’t my karma.

Years ago while touring the Philippines, I noticed Filipina dancers in Angeles City bars wearing “virgin badges”.

You might think “They are underage.” No, they were not.

I learnt it was their choice to give up their virginity to the lucky man who would marry them or offer big cash for the privilege.

According to a worldwide study of sexual behavior and contraceptive use published by Durex Network

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Japanese girls lose their virginity first, with Malaysian lacking behind with a staggering 23 years old age for the first time sexual experience.

The Philippines is out of this chart, but I assume to be between Thailand and China.

What I do know is that Malaysia being a Muslim country has an impact on sexual behaviors.

When I was living in Malaysia, I had a hard time to get laid with girls in their early 20s. They might have been virgins, and I wasn’t the right man to give it up.


8. Be A Gentleman Still Work


Asia girls appreciate a man that show proper manner and treat them well.

The West has lost time ago this treat, in fact, is better to be a bad boy when comes to Western women.

Offer your jacket if she feels cold. Gift some flowers to show your love and respect. She will respect your kindness and not abuse it.

I’ve date Asian girls for years now, and I always treat them with gentle manners.

Not only they appreciate, but they pay me back in the form of great sex. As I please them, they feel obligated to please me.

Don’t feel shy to show the gentleman in you, be natural, because is a normal way a confident man should treat an Asian woman.


9. Asians Have Large Families

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Traditionally, Asians tend to have a large extended family, usually up to four generations living together.

Asian family’s members are much closer to each other compared to the Anglo families, and members have an obligation to care for each others.

For example, grandparents and older siblings care for the young and adult children care for their aging parents. Family relations are clearly defined.

So, if you get involved in a relationship with an Asian girl, expect to be part of the family and have obligations forward their aging parents.

In this regard, I suggest marrying middle-class girls who have enough wealth to sustain stressful events like parent’s hospitalization.

In the case you marry a poor woman, be ready to shell out money for her parent’s welfare.

I’m not saying that you need to avoid completely poor girls, but I am saying that you should understand your role as a provider and know that her parents will always play a significant role in her life.

If this concept is a turn-off, you should probably reconsider dating an Asian woman.

You will have to get used to being the second after her family if you want to have a successful relationship or marriage.

I believe Westerner should learn from Asian people in this regards, instead of sticking their parents in homes and neglecting them after they have given us everything they could.


10. You Are Going To Be Authoritarian

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Women in traditional Asian cultures are considered subordinate, so the dominant part is taken by you.

A girl is taught to obey her father; when she marries, she is taught to obey her husband.

Be ready to lead and take the decisions that matter, and be willing to be responsible for consequences.

When dating a Western woman you might ask her where she would like to go out or what to do, but in Asia this is unthinkable.

Of course, there are exceptions if you date an highly educated and wealthy woman, she is more inclined to Western thinking.

Sometimes can be irritating to take all the decisions because an open discussion is stimulating and usually the outcome is better.

Unfortunately, this isn’t common in Asia.

There isn’t anything wrong to ask her what movie she would love to watch, but don’t expect much of an answer.

In a relationship with an Asian girl, you will feel more masculine and respected because you are the leader, the man looks upon by your new girlfriend.


11. Asian Girls Will Change (but not really)


Globalization is changing the face of the world, and Asian culture isn’t immune to it.

I will not go into details about these changes, either I’ll offer my opinion on the globalization matter.

But something I’ve been noticing in recent years is the bad habits Asian girls are embracing, like smoking and get trashed with alcohol.

There is only a minority at the moment, maybe a 5% percent of the entire population, but with time, this trend is going to increase.

The key here is to avoid Asian girls with bad habits. There are so many girls out there with traditional manners and proud to be feminine.

Ask yourself, “Am I so desperate to accept anyone in my life?”.

So please, avoid girls that behave like truck drivers.


12. Asian Girls Are Eager To Please

Asian girls treat their boyfriends very well with honest and love caring attentions, no matter where they come from.

They don’t usually make their own decisions or have philosophic thinking because throughout their life have been told what to do by their parents, teachers and bosses.

They conform well with society, and Asia society is male-dominated culture.

Your Asian girlfriend will take care of you to make sure you feel well, the few treats are:

~ Massage you in wonderful places.

~ Cook for you homemade food is the best.

~ Remind you to eat if she notices that you jump meals, she will ensure to buy or cook food for you.

~ Take you around show you their beautiful country.

~ Pick another girl if you like a threesome, get her to find the third girl for you, it’s easier than do it by yourself.

There are more I could add to the list, but I think you get the point. Treat them well, and they will treat you like a king in return.

These are the few reasons Asian girls are my favorite in the world. At this point, it’s pretty obvious why.

In conclusion, consider dating an Asian girls at least once in a lifetime for the experience and you might find out if they are your cup of tea… And make sure to use the best Asian dating site for your needs.