How To Hook Up In Bangkok And Get Laid
Most first-timers traveling to Bangkok think it is easy to get laid simply because sex tourism is rampant.
However, despite what you may think, the local girls can be a tough catch and might require several dates before sleeping with you. Again, this can vary based on various factors, including background and education.
The good news is that they’re open to foreigners. So, with the right approach and understanding of the local hookup culture, you can get laid relatively easily.
In this article, I’ll talk about the best places to meet girls for hookups (not prostitutes), followed by some actionable tips to get laid, fast!
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What Is Bangkok Hookup Culture Like?
Bangkok, as a cosmopolitan city with a vibrant nightlife and diverse population, does have a prevalent hookup culture. But it’s important to understand the differences between regular girls and girls for hire.
While the second group is much more aggressive and sexually inviting, the regular girls often stick to themselves. In fact, Bangkok girls have a mixture of conservative and liberal traits.
Although they might have sex with you on a first date, they will do so discreetly. While having sex isn’t taboo, changing partners all the time is looked down upon by society.
For example, they don’t mind having sex with you in a hotel room away from indiscreet eyes, but they will never invite you to their home because they are conscious about what their neighbors might think of her.
Regardless, most of them have the hots for Western men who are perceived as exotic goods. This is especially true if you’re a kind and well-mannered foreigner.
That is a rare occurrence as most tourists don’t behave according to Thai expectations.
Best Places To Hook Up In Bangkok
Expats and tourists have numerous options at their disposal for finding sexy Thai girls, including hookup apps and sites, pick-up bars, and nightclubs.
The most important thing to note is that many pick-up bars and clubs in Bangkok are frequented by freelancers (girls for hire). So, it’s important to differentiate between these women and regular girls if you don’t want to end up sleeping with a hooker.
If you want to avoid most Bangkok freelancers, simply use hook up sites to connect with singles and couples for casual sex.
1. Hook Up Sites
There are mainly two apps and sites for foreigners to go for hookups.
The first one is Asian Match Mate. It’s an adult dating site where you can find no string-attached sex experiences like one-to-one meet-ups, a threesome, or swap partners in case you’re into swinging.
Occasionally Bangkok members on this platform organize private sex parties and send out invitations.
Then you’ve Thai Friendly, which is an app/site for casual and serious dating. Unlike Asian Match Mate, where people aren’t shy to create sexually explicit profiles, on Thai Friendly, people are less obvious.
2. Pick Up Bars
Like other places in Thailand, Bangkok features various types of bars. Visitors have to be careful when visiting some of them, as different bars entail different things.
Go-Go bars are the most notorious ones, serving as a front for prostitution. They’re similar to striptease bars in Western countries.
The main areas for this type of bar are Nana and Soi Cowboy. You can find more info in my Bangkok red light strict guide.
In the red light areas, you’ll notice also beer bars with many girls. Those girls work for the bar and they are there to offer companionship and more.
If you want to make sure a girl isn’t a prostitute, your best bet is to visit luxurious rooftop bars. The venues are chill and visited by “normal” women and expats.
The majority of luxurious bars are spread on the banks of the Chao Phraya River and Sukhumvit Road.
I recommend The Bamboo Bar located in the Mandarin Oriental Hotel. It’s one of the priciest entertainment venues in the city. Don’t expect cheap, lewd-dressed girls in this place; getting it on with a regular can be a struggle.
Then you have Thaipioka located in Thonglor. Thaipioka is renowned for its cocktails and stiff drinks. Like Bamboo Bar, the venue is mostly visited by educated Thai ladies looking for something extra in a man.
Khaosan Road is another fantastic option for those with a low budget. The area is extremely cheap and often full of backpackers, making it an ideal choice for a younger and chill crowd.
Visit Mulligan’s Irish bar which features live music has TVs for sports games, and hosts pride events. Here you can meet drunken foreign women as well as some Thai girls who are into hookups.
3. Nightclubs
Parties in Bangkok are generally much more luxurious and fancy compared to those in Thailand’s countryside and coastal areas. You can also find venues where girls are wasted, and alcohol is cheap.
The best clubbing areas in the city are RCA (Royal City Avenue), Sukhumvit Soi 11, and Khaosan Road. And as you can see in this video, there are plenty of hotties eager to have night stand…
To help you out, I’ve made a list of the most know nightclubs in Bangkok for hookups:
• Onyx Bangkok – Onyx is a major venue located on Royal City Avenue. The place can pack up to 2,500 visitors, and it hosts some of the best dance artists.
As for girls, you can meet various types from wealthy Bangkok elite to university ladies looking for some fun.
• Sugar Club – If you’re looking for Hip Hop girls in their teens and early 20s, this is the right place for you.
• Levels – The cool thing about Levels is that is spread across two floors, with four massive stages. This makes it a perfect spot to hook up with as many girls as possible for a night.
You can basically go from area to area, hitting on everyone you meet without anyone noticing.
• The Club – It’s a fantastic nightclub for hooking up with Thai girls as well as foreign ladies. Being located in Khaosan Road, expect to find an easygoing vibe in this place.
Ladies’ night is on Thursday, so don’t miss out if you want to get laid with some hot girl.
Tips To Hook Up In Bangkok
Here are a few tips that will help you hook up in Bangkok:
• Choose the right platform – There are a variety of popular hookup sites and apps catering to different preferences. Whether you’re looking for a casual encounter or a more ongoing arrangement, select a platform that aligns with your desires.
• Don’t be touchy – Many guys tend to be touchy when communicating with women. Although Thai girls tolerate this behavior, it’s a turn-off for them.
• Pay for meals and drinks – According to the local culture, it’s expected that a guy pays for meals, drinks, and entertainment.
So when you meet up with a girl for the first time, make sure to pay for everything if you want to have sex with her.
• Lighten the mood with humor – Bangkok women are attracted to the excitement and enjoyment that comes with hooking up.
To capture their interest, be outgoing and entertaining, injecting humor into your interactions. A well-placed joke can be a powerful turn-on and make the experience more enjoyable for both of you.
• Genuine compliments go a long way – Take the time to notice and appreciate her unique qualities, whether it’s her sense of style, intelligence, or captivating smile. Compliments will make her feel desired and attracted to you.
