Freelancer Girls In Asia
If you’ve spent any time in Asia’s nightlife scene, you’ve probably heard the term “freelancer girl” thrown around.
For many Western tourists, it’s a bit confusing at first. They know a freelancer is an individual who earns money on a per-job basis.
But what does a freelancer have to do with the prostitution world?
Don’t worry, in this article, I’ll explain everything you need to know about freelancer girls in Asia.
That includes who they are, why they choose this life, how to spot them and more.
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What is a Freelancer Girl?
In Asia, the term “freelancer” is just another way of saying independent prostitute.
Unlike bar girls or brothel workers, freelancers don’t rely on a pimp to manage them.
They work entirely on their terms, which makes them a bit like entrepreneurs in the nightlife scene.
Freelancers are often more affordable since there are no bar fines or middlemen involved.
This makes them more flexible when it comes to negotiating prices.
But the drawback is, without a bar or mamasan backing them, there’s no safety net if things go wrong.
For example, if a bar girl causes trouble, you can complain to the mamasan, and she’ll handle it. With freelancers, if she’s drunk and misbehaving, you’re on your own.
Why Do They Choose To Be Freelancers?
Instead of working at bars or brothels where the girls could make a steady income, why do they choose to be freelancers?
You’ll hear all kinds of things like, freelancers can’t get a job in a bar or club that’s why they work independently.
But I don’t entirely agree with that perspective.
I’ve had dozens of short and long time encounters with freelancers. And every time I ask them this question, their simple explanation is that they don’t like working for anyone.
They enjoy the flexibility that comes with being an independent prostitute. They don’t get penalized for being late, skipping work, or taking a day off.
If a freelancer gets booked for a long time or multiple short times, she can go a day or two without going back to the streets.
Also, keep in mind that many students sell their body when they have free time.
Freelancing suits their schedule perfectly: in the morning they go to university, study in the afternoon, while in the evening they can hook up with a man for some cash.
Types of Freelancer Girls
Here are two types of freelancer girls you’ll find in Asia…
Full-Time Freelancers
Full-time freelancers are hardcore hookers and will fuck anyone as far as the price is right.
They don’t have any other jobs or daytime commitments. For them, prostitution is a profession.
They treat their work seriously and see it as a full-time job. No extra side gigs, their livelihood depends on how many men they can sleep with.
Part-Time Freelancers
Part-time freelancers are girls who have regular jobs or university during the day.
For them, sex work is just a way to supplement their income. It could be for paying rent, supporting their family, or maybe even just buying a new iPhone.
They usually hang out at nightclubs, in popular pickup bars and occasionally on the streets.
Some part-time freelancers over time become sugar babies. They offer sex in exchange for cash, expensive gifts, fancy meals, and a good time.
Others become full-time freelancers and some even stop completely.
Check out my relationship economics table to understand better on how to deal with the different types of freelancers.
How to Identify a Freelancer Girl
Figuring out who’s a freelancer girl can depend on where you are. In places like Thailand, it’s pretty easy because many will approach you directly.
But I get it, it can be tricky, and you don’t want to mix up a regular girl with a freelancer. Not only is it rightfully insulting to her but if her boyfriend is around, it could lead to trouble.
So, how can you tell? Here are some signs to watch for:
• Clothing: Freelancers usually wear revealing clothes or outfits that catch your eye. It’s their way of letting you know they’re available without saying anything. But some freelancers don’t have the whore style yet, so let’s see another sign.
• Eye Contact: Freelancers often make direct eye contact and smile at you. She’s pretty much giving you the green light to approach her.
• Location: If you’re in a tourist area or red-light district, chances are the women around you are either freelancers or working at a bar. Pay attention to the areas where they’re hanging out.
Freelancers often hang around popular tourist spots, near bars, or in red light areas with lots of foot traffic.
Where to Find Freelancer Girls
Freelancer girls can be found all over Asia, especially in sex tourist destinations like Bali, Pattaya and Angeles City. Also business cities like Singapore, Hong Kong, Bangkok and Manila have a lot of freelancers
So let’s see the main areas where freelancer ladies hang out:
1) Red Light Districts
This one’s obvious, red-light districts are a hotspot for freelancers. You’ll find them walking around, talking to tourists, or standing outside bars.
If you’re in places like Bangkok’s Nana Plaza or Pattaya’s Walking Street or Angle’s Field Avenue, it’s pretty easy to spot them.
2) Nightclubs
Many freelancers hang out in nightclubs, especially in tourist destinations like Pattaya, Phuket, Manila or Bali.
They might look like regular club-goers, but most of the time, they’re working.
I’ve personally found freelancers in nightclubs to be of better quality.
They’re more relaxed and have a good sense of humor, probably because many freelancers in clubs are part-time workers.
3) Outside Clubs
After the clubs close, go outside and you might be surprised at how many working girls are hanging around.
These are often the ones who didn’t find a customer during the night.
At this hour, they’re more desperate and easier to negotiate with. If you’re looking for a bargain, this is the time to look.
4) Dating Sites and Chat Apps
Meeting freelancers online around Asian countries is easy to do. You can use certain Chat Apps, dating sites, and even X.
Two popular Chat apps are Line and WeChat. You can use their “search nearby people” function to get many freelancers to contact you with their services.
There are also many popular Asian dating sites with plenty of freelancers besides girls looking for a relationship with a foreign man.
Unlike bars or clubs, online platforms make it simple to chat with them first, so you’ll have a better idea of what to expect. Just make sure you don’t pay upfront.
Tips to Deal with Freelancers in Asia
Always Check Their IDs
It’s a common scam in some Asian countries, particularly in places like Manila, where underage girls engage in sex work as part of a setup.
If you solicit them, they might report you to the police or a managing gang, leading to extortion or blackmail.
To avoid this, always ask to see the girl’s ID before taking her to your hotel, especially if you have any doubts about her age. Better safe than sorry.
Don’t Show Too Much Interest
Some Asian girls are incredibly attractive, and it’s easy to get swept away by your desires. However, showing desperation is a rookie mistake.
If she senses you’re overly eager, she might double her price, knowing you’ll pay.
That said, don’t lowball her too much during negotiations, it may affect the effort she puts in later.
Avoid Flashing Cash
Freelancers often size up potential clients based on their appearance and behavior.
If you flaunt your money, wear expensive jewelry, or openly carry large amounts of cash, you’re signaling that you’re willing to overspend.
Worse, it might make you a target for theft or scams. Keep a modest profile, negotiate calmly, and only carry the cash you need for the night.
