How to Plan an Asian Sex Vacation

Asian Vacation – Plan The Ultimate Erotic Holiday

No matter how you spend your time, everyone hits a point where life starts to feel a bit dull.

Between work, chores, and bills piling up, it’s hard to fully satisfy your sexual needs at home.

So why not plan a vacation to add some excitement to your sex life?

Whether you’re a couple looking to spice things up or a single man, Asia is unbeatable for an erotic holiday.

I get it, planning a sex vacation can feel a bit overwhelming.

This is why in this article I’m going to talk about the most sizzling sex destinations in Asia.

And I’ll also share some valuable tips for both single men and swinger couples along with some safety advice.

 

Which Destinations Are Best for An Erotic Holiday?

Hot Girls for an Erotic Vacation

 

Thailand

Thailand is considered to be the best sex vacation destination in the world.

The tropical islands, amazing sex culture, and tourist-friendly enviroment make Thailand the best Asian country to fuck.

No matter your age, ethnicity, or sexual needs, you will always find someone ready to meet you.

And it’s not just for single men, even couples can have a great time.

If you’re into swinging, there are a few naturist resorts where you can hook up with other couples, or just relax.

The most popular sex tourism locations are Bangkok, Pattaya and Phuket.

 

Philippines

The Philippines is another great destination for sex escapes. It’s cheaper than Thailand but services and infrastructure are poor.

It’s easy to find a girl or boy for sex. Also, the ladyboys are beautiful and in abundance especially in Angeles City.

There are also many foreign swingers that live in the Philippines or travel here often for a holiday.

Don’t expect Filipino couples to live the lifestyle. And also no swinger clubs.

 

Indonesia

Indonesia is a Muslim country, and the recent law that penalizes non-couples to book a hotel room might be a turn-off for most visitors.

Personally, I would tell any single men that are into sexual adventures to plant a flag in this country.

The local girls are approachable and eager to sexually experiment. And there are also many couples swinging in Bali.

For a sure bet, Bali is the destination for all sorts of sexual needs. But also Jakarta is great for hookups, not so for swinging.

And let’s not forget that in Bali you can hookup with foreigners too, not only locals. There are even pornstars living/visiting the island.

 

Tips To Get Laid in Asia for Single Men

I’ve talked a lot about where to find paid sex in my travel guides if that’s what you’re after.

In this section, I’ll focus on how you can score more hookups during your travels.

Here are some things that I’ve learned through my experience over the years…

 

Tip 1: Join Hostel Activities

This one is for solo-travelers, hostels in Asia are wild. Girls often feel hesitant to hook up with a guy they met in Asia due to safety concerns.

But if you’re staying at the same place they’ll feel more comfortable.

And not to forget, hostels often organize group activities like walking tours, pub crawls and whatnot.

For example, I once joined a walking tour in Hanoi with 20+ girls and only 5 guys.

I hit it off with a 10/10 girl from Japan. We traveled together for the next 3 days and fucked day and night…no strings attached.

Meeting Girls in Hostel in Asia

 

Tip 2: Don’t Jump Places Too Fast

If your goal is to hook up, choose destinations with beautiful beaches and plenty of alcohol. It sets the right mood.

Indonesia, the Philippines, and southern Thailand are excellent choices.

Take your time and stay in one place for at least 3-4 nights.

This gives you a chance to understand the local scene and find the best spots to meet people.

And I know, you want to hookup with Asian women, but don’t limit yourself to just that.

There will be dry spells now and then, especially if you don’t want to go for paid sex.

I suggest connecting with solo travelers as they are also looking for fun, so it can lead to quick hookups.

 

Tip 3: Get a Private Room When It Matters

Hostels are incredible for finding hookups. But not ideal for privacy.

And without privacy, some girls might not sleep with you even if they’re interested.

The good thing is, in Asia, private rooms can be just as cheap as a hostel bunk.

If you pick up a girl at a bar, don’t bring her back to your hostel room. Instead, go to a nearby hotel.

Like whenever I’m in Pattaya, I go to hotels near Soi 6. Most of them are not only cheap but also girl-friendly.

And if I can’t pick a girl, there are many hot freelancers in the area. Pay one and she’s yours for the night.

Freelancers in Pattaya

I’ve also prepared a Pattaya sex tour itinerary, in case you need one.

 

Tips for Swinger Couples

Swinging is illegal in most Asian countries so you’re unlikely to find any swinger clubs.

But that doesn’t mean the scene doesn’t exist, it just takes some more work.

Here are a few tips to help you connect with other swinger couples:

 

1) Choose Your Destination Wisely

Swinging is still considered taboo in many Asian countries, so picking the right location is key.

For example, even though Thailand is famous for its sex tourism, there are no legal swinger clubs.

However, there are many sex parties hosted privately and you can meet couples online.

A good way to start is by joining SDC, posting in the travel section, or searching for local couples. The site has an active swinger community in most Asian countries.

Singapore is another spot with a pretty big swinger scene. I’ve shared more details on finding swingers in Singapore in another guide.

 

2) Stay in Resorts

Instead of booking hotels, consider staying in resorts, especially nudist resorts.

Resorts often have a more social environment, so you can interact with more couples.

Again, there’s no guarantee to meet swingers at these places, but the chances are definitely higher than at a hotel.

Thailand has several nudist resorts that are worth checking out.

 

3) Look for Foreign Couples

Local Asian couples tend to keep a low profile because swinging is a big taboo in many Asian cultures.

They don’t want to openly admit it and risk their friends or family finding out.

This is why Asian swingers usually stay very discreet and prefer keeping things online.

But you’ll find many foreign couples, especially Caucasians who are more open about swinging.

You can meet them in upscale bars and clubs or popular tourist hangouts.

Of course, there’s still no guaranteed way to tell if a couple is into the lifestyle.

If you have doubts, then just ask upfront. The worst that can happen is that they’d say no and leave.

You’re unlikely to meet them ever again anyway, so might as well take your shot.

 

Safety Advice for Your Sex Vacation in Asia

I’ve seen countless guys get scammed out of hundreds, even thousands of dollars in Asia.

I’m not saying it happens all the time. But if you’re unprepared, especially as a sex tourist, you’re just inviting trouble.

So, I’ll share some safety cues for first-time travelers to help you have a smoother trip.

 

1) Watch Out for Prostitutes

Prostitutes in Asia

In some Southeast Asian countries, like Thailand and Vietnam, there’s a big sex industry.

If you’re not into prostitutes (or ladyboys, no judgment if you are), just be aware that they tend to target tourists, especially when you’re tipsy.

Always make sure you’re clear about your intentions and that you’re not stepping into a situation where money is involved.

If you’re looking for casual sex, make sure the person you’re with is genuinely interested, not just in it for the cash.

 

2) Learn the Local Rates

If you’re going as a sex tourist then remember, there’s almost always some room for negotiations.

Learn the local rates before visiting a city. You can probably get the rate to 20% less than what’s quoted.

I’ve written many guides that talk about hooker prices in different countries. You can go through them to get an idea of the market rates.

 

3) Check Your Bills

Drink Costs in Asia

Always keep an eye on your drink bill and pay frequently to avoid any surprise charges.

If you do find yourself in a scam situation, talk to the manager.

If that doesn’t work then the best is to just pay whatever they’re asking and walk away.

Remember, you’re unlikely to win any confrontations in Thailand, so it’s better to keep the peace and save yourself the hassle.

 

4) They Don’t Love You, Bro

If you’re sleeping with hookers then always remember: they’re fucked by new men everyday, it’s their job…and they will not fall in love with you.

These girls are pros at making you feel special, but for them, it’s just business as explained in the Asian Relationship Economic Table.

When you part ways, you might even get a message claiming something dramatic, like her family’s buffalo dying or her grandma being in the hospital.

The classic line? “I’m pregnant with your baby.” all of it is probably just a scam, ignore the messages.

 

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