Chiang Mai Guide To Sex And Girls

Chiang Mai Sex Guide For Single And Couples

If you would like to get laid in Chiang Mai and want to know the best places to find sexy girls hot for action, this sex guide has all the info you need.

You should enjoy your trip to Chiang Mai, instead of worrying about where to go, what to do, and most importantly how to do it.

I’m going to cover all the things you need to know to experience the ultimate Chiang Mai sex vacation.

This guide for the most part focuses on the P4P scene (Pay for Play) but also explains how to get a holiday girlfriend in Chiang Mai.

This Chiang Mai Sex Guide was last updated on October 2023

It’s a good practice to contact girls online before your trip so you’ll have some good company once in Chiang Mai. Holiday time is precious so don’t waste it!

Just imagine having a young and horning girl waiting for you…

Thai girl online profile



Intro To Sex Tourism In Chiang Mai

Chiang Mai sex tourism is tame compared to Bangkok and Pattaya, but it is growing year after year.

Prostitution is alive and kicking, with new sex venues opening around the city. Most of the action takes place in Loi Kroh Road, a red light area with girlie bars and clubs.

But you’ve also an active nightlife filled with freelancers patronizing the nightclubs.

chiang mai red light district

And if you’re looking to spend some quality time with a young and caring university girl, Chiang Mai is the right place for you. There are many university girls interested in being your holiday Thai girlfriend for a fee.

Also, Chiang Mai is well-known for its sex massage services, particularly soapy massages located throughout the city, along with more discreet and smaller body-to-body parlors unknown to the majority of tourists.

It’s worth noting that one doesn’t always have to spend money to get laid here. Meeting friendly and appealing northern Thai girls online for casual sex is entirely possible as well as flirting with staff working in 7-Eleven shops or various restaurants.


What About Girls & Sex In Chiang Mai?

I consider Chiang Mai a destination for any man seeking romance and love with young and attractive Thai girls. The reason is the many universities in town that attract quality girls from all over the region.

Chiang Mai girls are traditional and shy, but very feminine.

Once you get their trust, they are open-minded in regards to kinks and sex experiences. Expect long nights of intense sex as they get turned on easily.

The Northern type of lifestyle is evident with the girls as they can only be described as relaxed and friendly but still conservative when it comes to intimate relationships.

They are family orientated and focus on their studies to make their parents proud. Their kind of upbringing also makes them very down-to-earth and less materialistic than their counterparts down in Bangkok.

Regarding appearance, what stands out is their lighter skin and beautiful eyes…

chiang mai girl

If you want a holiday girlfriend just go on Thai friendly. If you live here permanently just go out and do things. It’s super easy to meet girls working out at the gym, running at the University and shopping at the market.


Where To Find Sex In Chiang Mai

So let’s go through the best places to meet girls and get laid one by one:


1. Online

chiang mai girl for sex

There are several sites and apps that help you to get laid in Chiang Mai.

For example, on dating sites you can get in contact with girls and set up dates. And end the evening at your place.

Then there are more casual sex sites like Asian Match Mate that not only help you to get in contact with horny girls but also couples that are into threesome and swinging activities.

As you can see, there are plenty of tools online that help you to meet girls and get laid.


2. Bars And Nightclubs

Clubs and bars are great if you love to party and meet girls. If you are into ladyboys, I’m sorry, they aren’t allowed in nightclubs and bars around the city.

There are pick up places exclusively filled with “non-working” girls, and if you want to score there, you need to dress sharp, be young, and know how to approach girls.

Otherwise, there are plenty of nightclubs and bars where you can meet freelancers in Chiang Mai (another name for hookers) or “party girls” that happen to be into foreign men.

As nightlife places close and new places open too often, there is no point for me to write them. Just ask a taxi to take you to Loi Kroh Road or Chiang Mai Entertainment Complex.

Yet, the Zoe in Yellow bar and club has withstood the test of time, and I highly recommend paying it a visit.


3. GoGo Bars

A gogo bar is a place with dancers on a stage and a place to have the company of sexy girls while enjoying a drink.

Chiang Mai has only a handful of gogo bars, and the most popular are:

• Foxy Lady – Considered as one of the best gogo bars in Chiang Mai and much raved upon. Foxy Lady is home to some of Thailand’s hottest ladies who like to perform!

With a modern setting and unbelievable girls, this spot is a must-visit.

Spotlight – A place not as modern as Foxy Lady, it has a more chilled-out atmosphere where you can experience the girls with minimal hassle. The girls are not as pushy and usually just lets you get on with it.


4. Happy Ending Massage Parlors

sex massage in chiang mai

If you are searching for an erotic massage in Chiang Mai, Loi Kroh Road has the highest concentration of massage parlors that offer extras.

However, not all massage shops offer happy endings. If you see girls dressed in traditional clothes, stay away. They offer only regular massages.

Expect to pay 600 baht extra for a handjob and 1.000 baht for a blow job.

There is also a well-known body to body massage in Chiang Mai:

• Absolute Paradise Chiang Mai – The price is fixed at 1.500 baht for a body-to-body massage with a handjob. If you want any more extras, you deal directly with the girl in the room.

Raspberry Spa Chiang Mai – A bit more expensive than Absolute at 1.900 baht. Similar service and girls.

Miss Spa Chiang Mai – A good selection of young girls at 1.800 baht for 80 minutes of relaxation.


5. Soapy Massage Spas

chiang mai soapy massage

If you want to get a wet massage, consider visiting a soapy massage parlor in Chiang Mai.

The girl will give you a massage, hop in the bath together and then onto business. Prices start at 1.700 for a hot girl.

The best soapy massages in Chiang Mai are:

  • Icha Icha Massage – This is the only parlor in Chiang Mai that offers Nuru massage. The price is reasonable and the rooms are comfortable. The only downside is you’ve to choose the girls from an iPad instead then in person. Here you can see the girls.
  • Celebrities Shower Massage – It is located near the Pornping Tower Hotel. There is a fishbowl with many girls.
  • Sayuri Complex – The place is old and run down. The rooms don’t even have a proper hot tub, just a small normal bathtub. But the rooms have mirrors which you can look at yourself.
  • Phing Phayom – Located inside Ping Payom Hotel, you can choose three tiers of girls.
  • Aurora Club – Located in KK Central Park, it’s clean and has willing girls.


Typical Costs

If this is your first time traveling to Chiang Mai, I bet you are wondering how much things cost.

Below is a breakdown summary of what to expect to pay while in Chiang Mai:

• Sex: The prices for sexual services in Chiang Mai are relatively low and the availability of sexy girls is staggering.

Chiang Mai girl prices vary according to your knowledge about the type of girls, the way you approach the matter and lastly the time of the year you are visiting.

But to keep things simple, these are the current prices for sex in Chiang Mai.

Gogo bar girls ask for 2.000 baht for 2 hours of sex. On top of 600 baht and lady drinks at 140-200 baht each.

Beer bar girls ask for 1.500 baht for all night plus a 500 baht bar fine. The girls here aren’t young and sexy as the gogo bar girls.

Freelancers in nightclubs are about 1.500-2.000 baht depending on their attractiveness and your approach.

Girls working in the massage shops ask 500 baht for a handjob, 800 baht for a blow job, and 1.000+ baht for sex. You need to pay the shop for the massage too.

Not everyone wants to meet prostitutes, and the reasons are obvious. The good thing about Chiang Mai is the numerous university girls that you can meet for a date.

University girls are shy and reserved so they don’t hang out on the streets or in sleazy clubs, but they prefer to use the privacy of a dating site like this one.

You can also hook up with couples in Chiang Mai who are usually looking for a bull to pleasure the girlfriend or wife.

• Accommodation: If you are searching for a girl-friendly hotel in Chiang Mai, these are my favorites:

Raming Lodge Hotel: The Raming Lodge is perfect for those looking for nightlife, being in the center of Chiang Mai it is surrounded by restaurants and bars and just a few minutes walk from the Night Market.

Movenpick Suriwongse Hotel: Located in the heart of the city, you are a walk away from all the naughty activities.


How To Meet Sexy Chiang Mai Girls Online

Chiang Mai girl

Online dating is booming in Chiang Mai like the rest of Thailand. You can meet young and beautiful girls willing to tour you around the city during the day while getting intimate at night.

Chiang Mai girls on dating sites are so eager to meet a foreign man that you will receive more replies and messages than on Western dating sites. Meaning the online game in Chiang Mai favors you instead of the girls.

A good strategy is to start using dating sites before your trip. That way you can build a list of girls eager to meet you.

Here’s a list of the best online dating sites to meet Thai girls:

Just upload a few nice photos, introduce yourself, and meet up. It’s easy to meet with Chiang Mai girls online.

And if you want to get into a relationship with a Thai girl but without having to marry her, you can simply rent a Thai girlfriend.






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