Bali Sex Guide For Single Men And Couples

Many travelers are skeptical when it comes to Bali for a sex holiday. The reason is even thought the island is open minded, it’s located into a Muslim country.

But I can tell there are plenty of kinky activates, swingers and pay for play opportunities in Bali.

I’m going to cover all the things you need to know to experience the ultimate Bali sex vacation, whether you are single or a couple.

Things like where to go, what to do, and most importantly how to do it.

This Bali Sex Guide was last updated on November 2024

Intro To Sex Tourism In Bali

Sex tourism and local sexual activities used to be tame, discretely confined to Sanur area or the seedy streets in Denpasar. By the way, these areas are still infamous for the cheap x houses (brothels).

In the last few years, prostitution in Bali has exploded with new sex venues opening everywhere across south Bali island, especially in Ubud and Kuta…

Kuta is close to a number of brothels and massage places (Riverview, Onasis, Delta, RPS, Sway etc.). There are also many freelancers living and working around here.

There is also a new area called Canggu that is taking over Seminyak in terms of high-class venues and hot ladies. There are many freelancers in nightlife venue from Ukraine, Russia and so on.

Mind those areas aren’t cheap but offer the best quality of girls you can buy in Bali.

If you think Bali is the only paradise for single men, think again. There are couples heading there to indulge in orgies and single women to enjoy the company of gigolos.

There are also some guest houses de facto operated as brothels.

All in all, it’s a great destination for everyone that enjoys beaches, nightlife, and sex.

The island is divided into two areas:

• South – the most notorious red light district area in Bali: Kuta, Sanur and Denpasar. But also the center of Bali nightlife which tends to pull in a younger and wilder crowd.

Those areas are the indisputable territory of the majority of hookers in Bali.

Fortunately, there is no need to run the streets like a “hungry dog”. There are plenty of girls on dating apps/sites where you can score heaps of girls.

• Center – only forest. Great for trekking and similar activities like outdoor sex.

• The rest of the island – mostly residential areas with hotels and beaches. Not much going on.

What About Girls & Sex?

In one word: sexy!

There are hot girls all over the place, they love to have fun and to have sex…

Bali girls in general are incredibly passionate and amazing girlfriend material. But there are also many foreign ladies to have fun with.

Here my recommendation based on type of girls and locations.

Seminyak: a good mix of mature and young ladies. In this area there is a lot of parties and a nice beach.

Ubud: you’ll meet women in their mid 30’s and early 40’s. There is a Yoga and spiritual scene.

Canguu: many Russian and digital nomads.

Bali has an infinity of possibilities when paying for sex. But there are plenty of ladies that want just to hook up.

When you see a good looking girl working in a restaurant or shop, with a smile and some persuasion, you can date her after work.

RELATED: 3 Best Dating Sites To Meet Indonesian Girls Online

Where to Find Sex in Bali

There are many places to find sex in Bali. Some work better than others, but in the end is all about preferences.

From top to down best places to get laid…

1. Online

If you don’t enjoy the nightlife or prefer a convenient and discrete way to contact horny women and couples, the best way is to use a site like Asian Match Mate.

Keep an eye on the Bali chat rooms because sometimes the members organize orgies and sex parties. It’s always a cool experience.

Then you have Tinder and Badoo. Keep in mind that most of the girls on these apps are hookers. So when they play hard to get, just be direct with your intentions.

Stay away from Locanto, the photos are fake.

2. Nightclubs & Pick Up Bars

The nightlife in Bali is just insane. There are huge beach clubs, sleezy dive bars, sky bars and so on. For the truly party guys, I recommend to stay in Kerobokan because is between Seminyak and Canggu.

I’ll list only the best bars and nightclubs to hook up based on location.

• Canggu

It’s a small town with outdoor beach clubs. There you’ll find people of all ages, but mostly a younger kind of crowd (by that I mean 25-35ish). Canggu is very tourist-centric.

• Potato Head Beach Club

Mix crowed. There are foreign ladies for hire.

• Finn’s

Full of Russian ladies for hire. It feels like to go into a massive orgy.

• Seminyak

It’s right next to Canggu. Seminyak is very touristy and there is a ton of Russian and white women selling themselves in the clubs.

All the Seminyak spots have a good mix of locals and tourists.

• Motel Mexicola

It’s an happening bar with most ladies from Australia and Indonesia. Age between 25 to 45.

• La Favela

It’s a famous and pricy bar and club that gets busy after 11 pm. Most ladies are hookers.

• Red Ruby

A great club with a chilled atmosphere suitable for single men in their 30s. Half whores and half civilian women.

• Shishi Nightclub

ShiShi has 2 club floors with EDM music and hiphop/top 40. They have free flow from 9-10 pm. The entry for men is 150k which u can use for two beers or 2 shots or 1 cocktail.

• Kuta

Kuta has the infamous all you eat buffet in Sky Garden. But there are quieter bars along the strip. Lots of Aussies on boozy holidays and younger backpackers

• Boshe VVIP Club

This club is for Asian guys. The setup is a table and sofa where groups of people party together. Most ladies are hookers and hostesses from the nearby KTV.

• Sky Garden

The biggest club in Bali with 6 different music rooms. Youngsters in their 20s with a balanced mix of Indonesian and foreign women. Plenty of prostitutes freelancing in the club. Entry fee is 150k.

• Ubud

Ubud has lots of bars but not really a party place. After 11pm is quite. It’s more of a chill place to socialize.

• Gili T

Gili T is the party island, where all the crazy shit happen. The place is tailored towards the really young people between 18 to 23 years old.

3. Erotic Parlors – Bali Sex Massage

If you would like a dirty massage, there are many small massage parlors offering a happy endings in Kuta (see pic above). You’ll get a decent massage plus an hand job or blow job. The price for the extra service is about 250k.

For a full service, you’ll have to visit a SPA specialized in erotic massage. The girls are more outgoing and wild, but don’t expect a good massage.

Check out my favorite sex SPAs in Bali at the moment. I’ve listed all the services provided, quality of girls, prices and personal experiences.

4. Bali Street Hookers

I have marked the areas with street hookers in Bali at the bottom of this article.

You can find most freelancer prostitutes in the nightlife areas in south Bali when bars and nightclubs close down.

A strategic place to find the most street hookers after midnight is Ground Zero Monument in Kuta. Walk up and down Jl Legian Street during the evening and at night. Be careful there are also ladyboys in the mix.

The standard price for girls walking the streets in Bali is 500k Rupiahs for a short time. Rates are negotiable, of course.

5. Escorts – Call Girls

There is plenty of escort services in Bali. A quick search on the internet will result in countless escort directories and agencies offering European and Indonesian girls.

The thing is that they are costly, it’s about 1.5 to 3 mil. per hour. Also they photo-shop the pictures heavily. But the worst is the common practice of agencies sending different girls than the one advertised.

The reason for all this setup is that the Indonesian Mafia is running the escort thing in Bali.

If you really want to meet sexy girls who aren’t pimped and enjoy a hassle-free experience, I explain how to rent an escort girl in Bali without breaking the bank.

6. Brothels – X Houses

In Ubud and Sanur there are brothels that can be recognize by “number plus X”. These places are usually located in dark streets out of the beaten path, but there is no security risks. You can also visit in the late afternoon before nightfall.

If there is a man soliciting customers at the door of the brothel, ignore him or you’ll pay more.

Usually there are about 10-20 girls to choose face to face. But expect only a few attractive. Most brothels open at 6pm, but it’s best to go after 8pm to find many ladies.

Expect to have a cold showers in a small and dirty rooms. The girls don’t speak any English, and they don’t want to be kissed. It’s just a mechanical sex experience.

The cost is about 300-400k for 20 minutes of sex.

Typical Costs

• Entrainment and Companionship

You can get a happy massage for 300k Rupiahs and for 800k a short time with street girls.

The most expensive companionship services are definitely the call girls in Bali. They work for escort agencies and charge about 2 million Rupiahs for a mere hour of pleasure. That’s insane.

Freelancer prostitutes mingling in the nightclub offer a good value for money at 800k Rupiahs for all-night sex. Add a couple of drinks for you and her on top of that at 70k Rupiahs each.

The cheapest option is to contact girls on a dating site and meet up once in Bali. You can find model type for about 1.8 mil and milfs for 1 mil.

I talk more in detail about girl’s prices and nightlife venues in my Bali nightlife girl price guide.

• Girlfriend Experience

If you are wondering what’s the price to rent a girlfriend in Bali, it depends where you get her from and for how long.

Civilian girls are way cheaper than working girls and do a better job to look after your needs. To give you an idea of the cost of a Balinese girlfriend, budget 3-18 million rupiahs per month.

On the lower price scale, you’ll get an everyday girl that speaks broken English and has lower education. You’ll have to educate her about life and fine things.

When you start to spend more than 10 million rupiahs per month, you can get yourself a worldly Balinese girlfriend. A beautiful and smart girl with fine taste that knows how to charm a man.

• Accommodation

Bali not only offers cheap accommodations but also luxury places at a reasonable price.

A good hotel like Harper Kuta located opposite the most popular nightclub in Bali (Sky Garden) cost only 30-40US$. And yes, you can bring back girls to your room.

You can have a full apartment (Petitenget 501) located in the middle of Seminyak nightlife for 120-150US$ per day. For the same price there are also bedroom villas.

This gives you the option to date local girls because it makes them think you live in Bali.

• Food

Local restaurants are dirt cheap, especially in the street, you can have a meal for 50k Rupiahs.

If you crave foreign food, the price starts at 100k up to 500k per meal, And if you can’t dine without wine, the bill is going to be harsh.

• Transportation

Most local trips cost less than 100k by motorbike taxi. For example, from the airport to Kuta it’s going to cost you only 60k.

How To Get a Holiday Girlfriend in Bali

Bali girls are hot, classy and know how to please.

If you are looking for a Bali girlfriend for a week or two to get lost in long conversations and longer nights of passionate sex, I’m going to show you where to find her.

Just imagine spending days and nights in the company of a young, attractive and slutty woman while visiting the island and the beautiful virgin beaches.

And while there are prostitutes in Kuta looking for your attention trying to get money out of you, there are also quality girls dreaming of meeting a foreign man for a serious relationship or merely an affair.

That’s the reason why I rarely visit red light areas nowadays. Instead, I prefer to date ladies in Bali met online for an intimate experience like only a girlfriend is capable of offering.

Before I fly to Bali, we get to learn about each other on things like favorite food, hobbies and why not, personal sexual preferences.

It’s not only about money as when you are dealing with a prostitute, but it’s about feelings too.

Just think about this: you are at home chatting with this adorable girl waiting for the moment to meet each other in Bali.

She feels strongly attracted to you, and you want her so badly. How is it going to be once you meet each other face to face in Bali? Finally, when you and she are behind closed doors.

Meeting attractive and love caring women is wonderful, but it’s only one benefit… Experience new locations, eating different food, and clashing with a new culture are all common side effects of traveling.

The best way to get a girlfriend in Bali is by using a site like Seeking Arrangement. There are many beautiful and intelligent Indonesian girls available for any type of arrangement.

To get started, upload a few good photos where you are groomed, well-dressed, and look at your best. Feel up your profile with a realistic view of your life and what you are looking for in a Bali girl. Being clear respects everyone’s time evenly.

Build your list of potential girlfriends, and once in Bali, just meet up.

Must Do During a Bali Sex Tour

• Visit a Spa That Offers Happy Endings

The spas in Bali are just amazing. Most buildings are luxurious, looking more like 5 stars hotels than Spas. You can get a simple massage with a handjob as far as a body to body massage with sex.

If it’s something of interest, I’ve written my experiences and thoughts in the Bali happy ending massage guide.

• Meet Local Ladies Who Aren’t Sex Worker

Before your trip, get in contact with a bunch of Bali hot girls on a dating site. You don’t want to arrive empty-hand and hope to find someone of your like in a short period of time.

• Play With a Ladyboy in Bali

If you want to try out something “different” during your stay in Bali, visit Bali Joe Bar and F Bar next to Mixwell.

Ha! Mixwell is a popular gay bar with one of the best drag shows in the world.

Best Sex Hotels In Bali

In Bali, you can find accommodations for any taste, from cheap hotel rooms to private villas with swimming pools and other stuff.

But what really matters if you are visiting Bali for a sex vacation is to get accommodation that enhances your sexual adventure. Things like mirrors in the room to see yourself and her in different positions, a guest-friendly policy, and of course, a location close to the nightlife entertainments and pick up points.

Having said that, this is the list of my favorite sex hotels in Bali:

• Dash Hotel

This isn’t your typical Bali hotel. It gives off a brothel/porn star like vibe thanks to the industrial modern hypersexual hipster art.

The rooms have sexual references, an awesome big mirror to watch yourself, and you can also purchase candles from the room service.

It’s located in the middle of Seminyak, a great spot for nightlife.

• Harper Kuta

It’s located opposite the most popular nightclub in Bali (Sky Garden). If you love to pick up girls at night and party, this hotel is the best in Bali.

The rooms are modern, clean and have more than the essentials. The beach is 800 meters away.

• Vision Villa Resort

If you would like to relax with a local girlfriend, this place is for you. The rooms are just amazing, spacious and totally build in the Balinese style.

You’ll love the swimming pool where you can play with your girlfriend at night after a wonderful dinner in the resort’s restaurant.

Map Of Bali Sex Venues

That wraps up this Bali sex guide. Enjoy your Bali sex holiday!

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