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Bali sex guide

Bali Sex Guide For Single Men

If you’re craving for a sex holiday in Bali and want to know the best places where to find sexy girls hot for action, this sex guide has all the info you need.

You should enjoy your trip to Bali, instead of worrying about where to go, what to do and most importantly how to do it.

I’m going to cover all the things you need to know to experience the ultimate Bali sex vacation, either you are single or a couple.

So, if you’re serious about having sex in Bali every day, please take 10 minutes of your time to digest the full article.

This guide is going to focus mostly on P4P scene (Pay for Play). If you prefer to meet and date everyday Indonesian girls, the one working regular jobs in hotels, restaurants or shops, then get on a popular Indonesian dating site instead.

This Bali Sex Guide was last updated on 25 March 2020




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Intro to Sex Tourism in Bali
General information about Bali sex culture

Where to Find Sex in Bali
An overview of the best places and ways to get laid

How To Meet Sexy Bali Girls Online
Best dating sites to meet Indo Girls

Typical Costs + Tips
General prices in Bali to help you budget your adventure

How To Get A Holiday Girlfriend In Bali
How to meet and date Bali women during your vacation

Must to Do During a Bali Sex Tour
Mongering activities in Bali

Best Sex Hotels In Bali
Girl-friendly hotels for your erotic activities


Intro To Sex Tourism In Bali

Sex tourism and local sexual activities in Bali used to be tame, discretely confined to Sanur area or in the seedy streets in Denpasar.

In the last few years, prostitution in Bali has exploded with new sex venues opening everywhere across south Bali island.

bali sex tourism

Girls working in the new sex massage Spas in Kuta

If you think Bali is the only paradise for single men, think again. There are couples heading there to indulge in orgies and single women to enjoy the company of gigolos.

All in all, it’s a great destination for everyone that enjoys beaches, nightlife, and sex.

The island is divided into two areas:

• South – the most notorious red light district area in Bali: Kuta, Sanur and Denpasar. But also the center of Bali nightlife which tends to pull in a younger and wilder crowd.

Those areas are the indisputable territory of hookers and prostitutes, not the less the best sex venues on the island.

If you are a naughty boy, you should head south. 

• The rest of the island – mostly residential areas with hotels and beaches, not much happening.

The center part is a forest, so if you enjoy trekking and similar activities, you might want to have sex in the wild with a Bali girl.


What About Girls & Sex In Bali?

In one word: it’s sexy!

There are hot girls all over the place, they love to have fun and to have sex…

sex in bali at night
The thing is, you never know what is going to happen once you step out of your hotel door. A massage girl might grab you in the street or you might get the best sex massage of your life in a SPA.

There are so many ways how you can meet a girl in Bali, that is almost impossible to spend a lonely vacation.

Here my hands-on experience in Bali:

I was out partying in Kuta when I saw this super hot babe with a small body but with massive boobs.

A simple smile and some small talk… the next morning I woke up on her big rack. I never slept better in my life 🙂

Bali girls after having sex

Bali has an infinity of possibilities when paying for sex, but there are as many quality girls interested to get laid with a foreign man.

When you see a good looking girl working in a restaurant or shop, with a smile and some persuasion, you can date her after work.

If approaching women make you feel embarrassed, meeting Bali girls online is easy while less stressful.

You know their intentions: they want to meet a foreign man and you want to meet a girl in Bali.

It’s a Win-Win!

RELATED: 3 Best Dating Sites To Meet Indonesian Girls Online


Where to Find Sex in Bali

There are many places to get girls for sex. Some work better then others, have different type of girls that offer different services.

From top to down best place in Bali:

1. Online

bali girl online offering sex

Most girls in Bali own a smartphone and use it to meet men. Some are looking for hookups, others for a serious relationship, others are scouting for customers.

You can easily meet Bali girls on sites like Indonesian Cupid. A lot of Indonesian girls looking for a foreign man.

It’s an excellent way to get in contact with girls before you arrive in Bali. That way you can build a list of girls eager to meet up with you. The moment you land in Bali, you can get intimate the same night.

That makes it not just the most convenient way to meet Indonesian girls but also the cheapest.

2. Nightclubs & Pick Up Bars

Bali girls in the red light distric in Bali

Most nightclubs and bars where you can pick up single girls are located in Kuta (Bali main red light district), Legian and Seminyak, and several spots around Bukit.

There are prostitutes freelancing as well as good girls, so pay attention who is who.

Before midnight mingles in the bars where most girls chill out with friends and after that hit the nightclubs for the rest of the night.

The best nightclubs and pick up bars are:

• Sky Garden

The biggest club in Bali with 6 different music rooms. Youngsters in their 20s with a balanced mix of Indonesian and foreign women. Plenty of prostitutes freelancing in the club.

• La Favela

It’s a bar and club that gets busy after 11 pm. Most girls are Indonesian hookers.

• Red Ruby

A great club with a chilled atmosphere suitable for single men in their 30s. The girls are half prostitutes and half normal girls.

• Boshe VVIP Club

This club is for Asian guys. The set up is a table and sofa where groups of people party together. The girls are mostly hookers and hostesses from the nearby KTV.

• Pyramid Club

After-hours clubs that get busy when all other discos close. Cheap hookers, not the best looking.

3. SPAs – Bali Sex Massage

bali happy ending massage girls

If you would like a dirty massage, there are many massage parlors offering a happy ending.

The Spas that I recommend below, not only have sexy girls, but they know how to give a blissful Balinese happy handing massage:

• Zona Spa – What I love about this place is that the girls wear different costumes each day.
• Swell Spa – It’s the only place I’m aware that offer body to body massage.
• Riverview Spa – They offer luxury happy ending in Bali. The girls are hot!

If you would like to learn more, I’ve written a guide about erotic massages in Bali. I don’t talk only about the best Spas offering happy endings, but also how to get a cheap sex massage directly to your room.

Bali Street Hookers

Bali street hookers at night

I have marked the areas with street hookers in Bali at the bottom of this article.

You can find most freelancer prostitutes in the nightlife areas in south Bali when bars and nightclubs close down.

A strategic place to find the most street hookers after midnight is Ground Zero Monument in Kuta.

The standard price for Bali girls walking the streets is 500k Rupiahs for a short time. Rates are negotiable, of course.

5. Escorts – Call Girls in Bali

sexy bali escort

Bali escort women visit you at your apartment or hotel. Meaning, it’s a discreet affair to your doorstep.

You can find hundreds of Bali call girls offering escort services around the internet.

The thing is that they are costly and photo-shop the pictures heavily.

It’s not uncommon that a different girl shows up than the one you booked. The reason for all this set up is that the Indonesian Mafia is running the escort thing.

If you really want to meet super sexy Indonesian call girls who aren’t pimped and enjoy a hassle-free experience, you can find the information in my guide: sex in Singapore.

6. Bali Bar Girls

To conclude this section on where to find sex in Bali, bars are your last option.

Most of the girly bars are located between Jalan Benesari and Ground Zero Monument along Jalan Legian street in Kuta.

The general prices are:

  • 30-60k for your drink
  • 60k for a lady drink
  • 1 million for a short time

Yes, you hear me right, it isn’t a typo… Bali bar girls have horrendous price expectations.


How To Meet Sexy Bali Girls Online

Online dating is booming in Bali and in the rest of Indonesia. You can meet beautiful and young women who will accompany you during your trip and make getting around a lot easier and fun.

sexy bali girl

There are many Indo girls hot for action on dating sites, and you will receive more replies and messages than western dating sites.

A good strategy is to start messaging with Bali girls before your trip. That way you can build a list of girls eager to meet you.

Here’s a list of the best online dating sites to meet Indonesian girls:


Online Strategy To Meet One Girl Per Day

On Filipino Cupid and Asian Dating as your profile picture use one with you and your grandma or an infant to maximize the number of matches. On Asian Match Mate, use a naked photo of you with a sexy girl.

For all sites, don’t send more than 4-5 messages before you invite them for coffee.

Most conversations can be brief and business-like. Because of the favorable dating market, most girls are very eager to meet and don’t need a lot of chat beforehand.

So don’t try to impress… And teasing remarks should be saved for the meeting, to build comfort.

Meet in a coffee place in a nice neighborhood, have a relaxed conversation and after an hour, take them to your room.

Make sure your apartment is in an area with not too many hookers, sex tourists or criminals. It makes the girls nervous.


Typical Costs

• Sex: The prices in Bali start at 300k Rupiahs for a massage with a hand job or 500k for a short time with a street hooker up to 1 million Rupiahs for a sex massage.

The most expensive sex services are definitely “call girls.” They work for escort agencies and charge more than 1 million Rupiahs for a mere hour of pleasure. That’s insane.

Freelancer prostitutes mingling in the nightclub offer a good value for money at 500k Rupiahs for all-night sex. Add a couple of drinks for you and her on top of that at 70k Rupiahs each.

The cheapest option is to meet girls on this site. Most girls are sideliners who are happy to get some tea money like 300k Rupiahs.

I talk more in detail about girl’s prices and nightlife venues in my Bali nightlife girl price’s guide.

• Accommodation: Bali not only offer cheap accommodations, but also luxury places at a reasonable price.

A good hotel like Harper Kuta located opposite the most popular nightclub in Bali (Sky Garden) cost only 30-40US$. And yes, you can bring back girls to your room.

You can have a full apartment (Petitenget 501) located in the middle of Seminyak nightlife for 120-150US$ per day.

This gives you the option to date local girls because it makes them think you live in Bali. That separates you from other sex tourists in her eyes, resulting in an easy lay.

• Food: Local restaurants are dirt cheap, especially in the street, you can have a meal for 50k Rupiahs.

If you crave for foreign food, the price starts at 100k up to 500k per meal, And if you can’t dine without wine, the bill is going to be harsh.

• Transportation: Most local trips cost less than 100k by motorbike taxi.

For example, from the airport to Kuta is going to cost you only 60k.


Tips & Tricks

• Negotiate Price: Always negotiate the price with freelancers and street hookers. The starting price is at least double than the actual price.

• Valuables in the safe: use the locker in your room, you’ll not regret.

• Lady drinks: Drinks are expensive in Bali and don’t help to get her to perform better in bed.

• The legal age of consent is 18 and you are strongly advised to stay clear of anything younger than that.

• Sex with condoms might not feel so good, but always better than some disease.


How To Get a Holiday Girlfriend in Bali

Bali girlfriend for a week

Bali girls are hot, classy and know how to please.

If you are looking for a Bali girlfriend for a week or two to get lost in long conversations and longer nights of passionate sex, I’m going to show you where to find her.

Just imagine spending days and nights in the company of a young, attractive and horny woman while visiting the island and the beautiful virgin beaches…

Sexy Bali girl in the beach

And while there are prostitutes in Kuta looking for your attention trying to get money out of you, there also quality girls dreaming of meeting a foreign man for a serious relationship or merely an affair.

That’s the reason why I rarely visit red light areas nowadays. Instead, I prefer to date local girls met online for an intimate experience like only a girlfriend is capable of offering.

Before I fly to Bali, we get to learn about each other on things like favorite food, hobbies and why not, personal sexual preferences.

It’s not only about money as when you are dealing with a prostitute, but it’s about feelings too.

Just think about this: you are at home chatting with this adorable girl waiting for the moment to meet each other in Bali.

She feels strongly attracted to you, and you want her so badly. How is it going to be once you meet each other face to face in Bali? Finally, when you and she are behind closed doors.

Meeting attractive and love caring women is wonderful, but it’s only one benefit… Experience new locations, eating different food, and clash with a new culture are all common side effects of traveling.

The best way to get a girlfriend in Bali is by using a popular dating site like Indonesian Cupid. Girls on dating sites are there because they want to meet a foreign man, and you want to meet a girl in Bali. It’s a Win-Win for both of you.

To get started, upload a few good photos where you are groomed, well dressed and look at best.

Not drunk, stoned or posing in front of a Maserati that isn’t yours 🙂

Feel up your profile with a realistic view of your life and what you are looking for in a Bali girl. Being clear respects everyone’s time evenly.

Make sure to verify your profile as this puts you straight up on the search and that “verified badge” is going to land you more attention and response from the girls.

Just search for your perfect match and start the conversation with the girls. That’s it!

Build your list of potential girlfriends, and once in Bali, just meet up.


Must To Do During a Bali Sex Tour

sex tour in bali

• Visit a Spa That Offers Happy Endings

Spas in Bali are just amazing. Most buildings are luxurious, looking more like 5 stars hotels than Spas. You can get a simple massage with a hand job as far as a body to body massage with sex.

If it’s something of interest, I’ve written my experiences and thoughts in the Bali happy ending massage guide.

• Meet Local Girls 

Before your trip or while taking a rest in your hotel room, get in contact with local girls in Bali.

On my last trip to Bali, I sent out a few messages to a bunch of girls by saying: “I’m in town, let’s meet for a drink.”

After two hours, I was out of my room with a date…

sexy bali girl dating

• Play With a Ladyboy in Bali

If you want to try out something “different” during your stay in Bali, visit Bali Joe Bar and F Bar next to Mixwell.

Ha! Mixwell is a popular gay bar with one of the best drag shows in the world.


Best Sex Hotels In Bali

In Bali, you can find accommodations for any taste, from the cheap hotel room to the private villa with swimming pool and other stuff.

But what really matters if you are visiting Bali for a sex vacation is to get accommodation that enhances your sexual adventure. Things like mirrors in the room to see yourself and her in different positions, a guest-friendly policy, and of course, a location close to the nightlife entertainments and pick up points.

Having said that, this is the list of my favorite sex hotels in Bali:

Dash Hotel

This isn’t your typical Bali hotel. It gives off a brothel/porn star like vibe thanks to the industrial modern hypersexual hipster art.

The rooms have sexual references, awesome big mirror to watch yourself, and you can also purchase candles from the room service.

It’s located in the middle of Seminyak, a great spot for nightlife.

Harper Kuta

It’s located opposite the most popular nightclub in Bali (Sky Garden). If you love to pick up girls at night and party, this hotel is the best in Bali.

The rooms are modern, clean and have more than the essential. The beach is 800 meters away.

Vision Villa Resort

If you would like to relax with a local girlfriend, this place is for you. The rooms are just amazing, spacious and totally build in Balinese style.

You’ll love the swimming pool where you can play with your girlfriend at night after a wonderful dinner in the resort’s restaurant.


Map Of Bali Sex Venues

That wraps this Bali sex guide. Have fun!


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