Singapore Sex Guide For Single Men And Couples
If you want to get laid in Singapore and to know the best places to have sex, this guide has all the info you are searching for.
There is plenty of action if you live here, not only for singles eager to hook up but also for couples into swinging.
Yet, the scene for casual tourists has dried up with the closure of several pickup places.
There are still plenty of Asian ladies from neighboring countries, Africans, some Latinas and White women playing the trade, but it’s a mostly an online scene. Then there is the domestic helper scene with Indo and Filipina maids if you have time for that.
In this guide, I focus on the casual dating scene as well as the pay for play scene.
This Singapore Sex Guide was last updated on 05 March 2025
Before arriving in Singapore, make sure to contact women online so once you arrive, you’ll have good company.
Contents
Intro To Sex Tourism In Singapore
Prostitution is tolerated in Singapore, and sex tourism is huge thanks to the business travelers visiting the city.
Because the city is a business hub in the region, it attracts prostitutes from all over the globe to sell sexual services. Not only can they make good money, but they can do it legally.
Prostitution and Hookers
Prostitution in Singapore is legal as long as there isn’t public solicitation… Or living on the earnings of a prostitute… Or running a brothel.
This means any girl, either resident or not, can promote and sell her services without fearing breaking the law.
Singapore Red Light Districts
Singapore has an official red-light district called Geylang and unofficial red-light areas like Little India where you can get paid sex in massage parlors, spas and brothels.
As prostitution is regulated, the girls working in the brothels undergo periodic health checks.
• Geylang – This red light area has several brothel houses divided into “Lorongs”. in Lorong 16,18, and 20 you’ll find Thais and Vietnamese hookers while in Lorong 12 and 14 mostly Chinese prostitutes.
Travelers who have a short layover and want to enjoy some local talent should visit the brothel houses in Geylang. There is a wide choice of Asian nationalities and the prices are similar to other red light areas with whores.
• Little India – This is the most downmarket red light district in Singapore. Most working girls are from Bangladesh and India.
• China Town – The last brothel in Keong Saik Road in China Town is been closed in 2021. Now it’s just a tourist destination for those curious about the old red light district.
What About Girls And Sex In Singapore?
Singapore’s population is of mixed ethnicities: there are Chinese, Malay, and Indian.
You can find a wide selection of girls from white skin and small body Chinese to dark skin with a sexy ass Malay.
The majority of Singaporean girls are of Chinese ethnicity – I would say 70% of the total and they are the sexiest ones.
If that isn’t enough, you have so many foreign women come from Europe, Asia, and Australia making your head spin while walking in the streets. Some are working professionals while others are escorts.
Women here are similar to the girls in Taipei, they love to get laid with foreign men.
Unlike most Asian countries, they don’t want any financial compensation. There are even cougar women ready to spend on you for casual sex on adult sites. It’s no secret that a large amount of wealthy Singaporean ladies aren’t happy with their sexual life.
Singaporean women are open-minded, forward sex, and extramarital affairs are a common practice. Some of them also engage in online erotic performances for people willing to tip.
And some couples in open relationships are looking for sex partners. They organize orgies and swinging parties almost every weekend.
Where To Find Sex In Singapore
After Covid, the game of hooking up in Singapore has changed. Most physical venues have been replaced by online hookups, also for the pay-for-play action.
1. Online
The easiest, most convenient, and private way to hook up or find friends with benefits is online. There are several platforms which serve different audiences and fill different needs. Let’s get over each option.
- Friends With Benefits, Rental Girlfriends, and Girlfriend Experiences
If you want to get a local girl or a foreign student, your best bet is to use Seeking. This “dating site” used to be a sugar site but now is a mix of benefits and regular dating.
There are hot girls on the platform looking for all sorts of things, from a boyfriend to a friend with benefits to a sugar daddy. You need to be patient because most women expect to be invited for dinner to get to know each other.
- Hookups For Singles and Couples (No Pay For Play)
The swinger community as well as several horny women in Singapore interested in casual sex use Asian Match Mate to find like-minded people. It’s a community site where people share their sexual preferences and look for sex partners.
- Hookers Online
There are several hookers online offering sexual services.
You can use Locanto, a classified site with offers divided into specific nationalities. There is the Indian girls group, Vietnamese/Korean/Japanese girls, and the Southeast Asian group with Filipino/Malaysian/Thai/Indonesian girls.
Two things to keep in mind. You won’t get the girl shown in the ads, and you are never chatting with the girls on Telegram or WhatsApp, but the handler.
It’s best to tell the handler your sexual preferences and the type of girls you like. Hopefully, he’ll send one that fits your needs.
2. Nightclubs & Pick Up Bars
After Covid, the nightlife in Singapore isn’t vibing like before. Especially when it comes to pay-for-play as most freelancers are using chat apps instead of attracting customers in the bars and clubs.
Areas like Clarke Quay and Marina Bay Sands are great locations for hooking up with women visiting Singapore for fun. Also, Arab Street has several bars with pro and non-pro eager to hook up.
But keep in mind that most people go out with friends to have a good time with drinks and music, not so much to hook up. I suggest collecting contact details and planning dates during the week instead of trying to hook up the same night.
Several popular night venues like 1-Altitude, F Club Singapore, and Kilo Lounge are been closed unfortunately. And let’s don’t forget the now defunct Orchard Tower which was known as the “whore tower”.
These are the best places to pick up girls at the moment:
- Zouk Club
Zouk is an institution in Singapore popular with the younger crowd. It’s known for its electrifying atmosphere and high-energy vibes (and loud music). Great to hook up with teens and ladies in their early 20s.
- Marquee
This is a popular nightclub/bar known for its chic ambiance and quality service. Her you’ll find women of all ages, even milfs.
- Ipanema
Despite advertising itself as a live music venue, this place is a pick-up joint. There are African ladies, Indonesian, Chinese, and other Southeast Asian nationalities. Expect to pay $500-600 for all-night company.
- Brix
Brix, an old-fashioned bar in the Grand Hyatt Singapore with live music, was once a top pick-up spot, but its popularity has waned since the hotel’s renovation. Still some expensive hookers around, but first pay a $45 entrance fee.
Those are only a few of the many options where to pick up girls in Singapore.
The local ladies are hard to get and you need to have an excellent game if you want to end the night with sex. Instead, foreign women are a better proposition, but keep in mind that many are prostitutes.
3. Private Sex Parties
There are many private sex parties in Singapore taking place behind closed doors. You’ll find people from all over the world as well as Singaporeans, and there are singles and couples.
The thing is, you need an invitation to get to this kind of party because everybody expects privacy.
If you would like to know how to get invited and what to expect, I wrote in detail about how to join a sex party in Singapore.
4. SPAs – Erotic Massage Places
Erotic massages in Singapore are quite common. Many parlors and spas are fronts for unlicensed brothels selling erotic services rather than therapeutic massages.
They are called “health centers,” but in reality, the only thing they take care of is your manhood and wallet.
It’s best to search online for a massage parlor that offers happy endings in your area. So you can conveniently walk to it.
You can opt to use this Telegram channel or visit this website to find all the erotic parlors in most parts of Singapore.
The price stated is only for the massage service, which goes to the business owner. For extras, you need to deal directly with the therapist.
The standard rates start at 50$ for HJ, 80$ for BJ, and 120$ for full sex.
If you happen to be near Little India, there is a block with a few Chinese massage parlors. The massage is 50$ plus the $100 for full service.
An outcall sensual massage parlor worth mentioning is:
- Chakra Tantra
This is an outcall erotic massage service that offers Lingman, Tantric, and even Yoni massage for the ladies. This service will be appreciated by the singles and couples who require privacy.
Rates from $200 for 60 minutes to $300 for 90 minutes.
5. The Casino at Marina Bay Sands
At the bar inside the casino, there are always pretty girls waiting for punters. Easter European ladies, Filipinas, Chinese, and Thai girls are prominent, but there are also some African.
Expect to pay about $700-1200 for the privilege to spend the night together.
6. Escorts – Call Girls Sites
You won’t find escort agencies because it’s illegal to organize prostitution in Singapore… But some independent girls advertise on escort directories.
Just Google “Singapore escorts” and you’ll have a list of escort sites. You’ll find several nationalities with rtes starting at $150 per hour for Asians and up to $500 for white women.
If you’re on a budget, you can book Chinese call girls for $150 per hour here.
In case you’re looking for a young and beautiful girl to dine and wine, plus having an intimate night, I suggest contacting girls on Seeking. There are many university students.
7. Red Light Districts – Brothels
The sure way to have sex in Singapore is by visiting the brothels in the red light districts. It’s a good option especially if you’re transiting for a night in Singapore.
You aren’t going to meet any local Singaporean prostitutes in those places. Most girls come from Malaysia, Thailand, China, and Indonesia.
The Singapore red light district areas are:
- Geylang
A street home of legal brothels and illegal massage parlors where you can have sex with Asian girls. There are several nationalities, with Thai and Vietnamese mostly in Lorong 16,18, and 20, while Chinese ladies are in Lorong 12 and 14.
There are also freelancers on the road between the brothel houses, but the prices are the same or even more than the house prices.
Prices: In the brothels, expect to pay $50-$60 for Thai and Vietnamese for 30 minutes, and $100 for an hour. Chinese start at $80-$110 for 30 minutes, and $200 for the hour.
In the massage places along Geylang Road, $30 for 30 minutes and $60 for an hour. Some offer extras, mostly HJs for $50.
- Orchard Towers
Orchard Tower was known as the “Four Floors of Whore” because at night this shipping mall would transform itself into a brothel. The night venues have been shut down, and it will be redeveloped.
- Petain Road
Petain Rd is in Little India. It’s an old and run-down area with working girls ranging from mid-30s to old grandmas.
The best time to visit is from 11 am to 9 pm because that’s when most hookers are working.
When walking down Petain Road, look for the small alley between Flanders Sq and Marne Rd. There are house with numbers and a lot of guys going in and out.
If you don’t like trannies, avoid House 9.
Prices: from $30-$50 negotiable.
- Desker and Rowell Road
This is a red light district home to ladyboys and transgenders. The rate starts at $50.
8. Paya Lebar and Lucky Plaza – Domestic Workers
On Sundays, these areas get crowded with domestic workers because it’s the day off. Lucky Plaza Mall is full of Filipinas while City Plaza with Indonesians and Peninsular Plaza with Myanmar helpers.
In case you’re looking for a friend with benefits or would like to create a roster of ladies available when you visit Singapore, a domestic worker is what you need.
Not only they are horny as hell because they can’t have a dating life, but every Sunday they will satisfy your needs.
Typical Costs
• Girls: Prices ranging from $90 to $500 and up for a good girlfriend experience.
Singaporean and Western ladies are the most expensive, expect to pay about $500. Regarding Asian women, Chinese goes for $150-$200 per hour, Vietnamese about $250-300, and Thais/Filipina for less than $200.
The girls working in massage places ask at least $50 for a HJ and up to $150 for full sex. Street hookers have similar prices to massage ladies.
Asian maids working in Singapore are convenient. You can get a friend with benefits by offering about $80 every time you see her.
• Accommodation: Singapore isn’t cheap when it comes to accommodations, either for short or long rental.
The cheapest hooker-friendly hotel in Singapore starts at $60. Don’t expect much for it, but small and badly furnished rooms.
The best option if you are on a budget is the Ibis Hotel – Ruby, conveniently located in Geylang, the central red-light district in Singapore.
If you want a decent room or something to enjoy your erotic experiences, consider spending at least 100 US$ per night. Especially if you want to host a sex party in Singapore with couples and singles alike.
• Food: If you love to eat, you are going to love Singapore… Almost got an orgasm.
You can eat cheap food anywhere in the many small shops in the streets and malls for $10. Mostly you will find Chinese, Malay, and Indian cuisine.
I recommend the many buffets in the five-star hotels where you can have seafood and other delicacies for a mere 30 US$ per person — no better place to take a date and spend the evening together.
There are countless fine dining eateries all around Singapore with prices starting at 50 US$ per meal.
• Transportation: The three main modes of public transport in Singapore are the Mass Rapid Transit (MRT), buses, and taxis.
Public buses serve almost every corner of Singapore, while the MRT provides speed and efficiency.
Taxi is somewhat a better option when going around Singapore at night because there isn’t any traffic.
Buses cost 80 cents to $2 and the train is about the same. Taxis are expensive compared to trains and buses that start at $5.
Tips & Tricks
• Approach freelancers in nightclubs and bars only to get their contact numbers. Call them the next day, and ask to come over in the morning or afternoon at a discounted rate.
• Several university girls are willing to date and dine or to get into a relationship with benefits. They are young, beautiful and fun. Just contact them on popular dating sites.
• On Sundays, go to Paya Lebar to hook up with maids. They are willing to please for little, ad more fun then get laid with a professional hooker.
I hope the Singapore sex guide has been helpful. Enjoy your time in the city.
