Beijing Sex Guide For Single Men And Couples

If you want to meet girls and get laid in Beijing, this guide can help you.

Beijing is well known for the Forbidden City and being the entry point to the “Great Wall of China”. But also for its nightlife and horny girls.

I’m going to tell you all the good things the city has to offer, without worrying about where to go, what to do, and most importantly, how to do it.

It’s always a good idea to contact Chinese girls online before your trip, so you’ll have someone to keep you company and warm at night once you arrive.

This Beijing Sex Guide was last updated in September 2026

If you aren’t in Beijing just yet, or can’t be bothered to go out to find some action, you can find plenty of naughty Chinese girls online to please you in a private show. Check out my SC Guide to learn how I’ve fun telling girls to do my favorite sexual acts.

Intro To Sex Tourism

Beijing used to be one of the more accessible sex tourism destinations in China, but those days are gone.

Most of the action happens quietly through erotic massage parlors, KTV lounges, and online. For foreigners, Telegram channels, escort websites, and hookup apps are the best ways to get laid.

There aren’t any red-light areas in the city, so you can’t just roam around in a place hoping to find some working girl. You need to know how to get contacts, and the sections below will help you with that.

For foreigners is best to get in contact with girls working from their apartment.

The reason is that the brothels know how to play the game with the police crackdown by closing temporarily during inspections, then reopening once the coast is clear. Or they just relocate. It isn’t easy to stay updated if you don’t have local connections.

What About Girls & Sex

In Beijing, there are women who come from all over China for working, studying, and traveling. I met two hostesses speaking fluent English during Chinese New Year.

One girl didn’t have a place to go, so she stayed with me the same night I met her. It was memorable.

But keep in mind that men here value women who are ‘pure’ and ‘innocent’. So don’t expect them to exhibit ‘sluttiness’ or ‘sexual desire’ at all.

Because she doesn’t want to feel responsible for hooking up with you, the situation needs to be orchestrated to have ‘accidental’ sex.

In my case, she didn’t have a place to sleep (hooo poor girl). So she slept in my hotel room, and it was just an accident that I fucked her. She couldn’t imagine that happening.

This keeps in line with her fitting into society’s ideal of a ‘good’ girl.

So when you meet girls in social places, make sure her friends don’t know she is going to your place. The girls who will directly go to you for a bang, they’re generally ok doing it because absolutely no one knows what they’re doing.

Where to Find Sex in Beijing

If you are wondering where to find girls and get laid in Beijing, you can start…

1. Hookup Sites & Apps

The two major slutty Apps for hookups are MoMo and Tantan. To filter out the girls looking for the one, add kinky photos like a girl tied up with rope or something similar. Make it clear what your intentions are.

The main reason is that most girls don’t know what they are looking for until you show them. They think they are there looking for a serious relationship, until they find a profile that turns them on.

There are swingers and horny women who are uninhibited on Asian Match Mate. Great site to find hookups, threesomes, and get invitations to sex parties. Skip it if you’re not okay with nudity.

My favorite is to opt in SC. There are several Chinese ladies open to all sorts of sexual fetishes and are willing to perform sexually privately with you online. Also, they’ll hook up in real life for the right amount.

This approach allows me to get to know them before suggesting a meeting, which has led to several successful encounters.

2. Nightclubs & Pick Up Bars

The Beijing nightlife is happening. Always start with the bars in Houhai and Hutongs area, then move to the massive clubs in Gongti West to finish off the night.

Here’s a breakdown of my favorite areas to go out to pick up girls:

• Houhai (后海): Around the lake is Houhai Bar Street. There are several live music bars, and some have a dance floor. Being a tourist area, it attracts Chinese girls who are into foreign men. It’s easy to hook up.
• Sanlitun Village South & Courtyard Areas: It’s a club hub with many open bars.
• The Hutongs/Gulou: Famous for gritty live music joints, punk venues (like School Bar), and indie rock performance spaces.
• Gongti West: The strip features large EDM mega-clubs such as Supermiami and PH. Late-night hotspots; don’t go before 1 am.

Now let’s dig into my favorite spots to get girls:

• Mei Bar (Rosewood Hotel)

This place is upscale and pricey, but you’ll find some working girls here, plus a few Chinese women who like Western guys.

It’s got a live band and a lounge vibe. I once picked up a Ukrainian girl here for 1500 RMB (~$200) for a couple of hours.

•  School Bar in Hutongs

This is the best-known punk bar in Beijing. If you’re into subversive girls, this is the place to visit.

• New Swing Bar

A small bar that sometimes has one or two Central Asian freelancers. If they’re interested, they’ll let you know, usually with eye contact or a smile.

Not the liveliest place, but worth checking if you’re nearby.

3. Call Girls – Escorts – 楼凤

There are plenty of outcall and in-call options. Most escorts in Beijing work from their apartments.

To connect they use Telegram groups, WeChat, and websites like 51fengliu.com.

Personally, I prefer to use a private agent called Angel. She has Mongolian and Eastern European women these days (she used to have more Chinese girls). They’re generally young, pretty, and priced fairly.

Prices vary, but here’s a general idea:

• 1200 RMB for one hour
• Around 1300 RMB, including taxi
• Two rounds: about 1200 + 900 RMB
• A full night can range from 2800 to 4000 RMB (though some girls might leave early)

Note: I can’t share Angel’s contact details here for privacy reasons. But you can join my newsletter, where I share exclusive info like this and more tips on how to get laid in different cities.

4. KTV Bars

KTVs (karaoke bars) are one of the flashiest and most expensive ways to meet girls in Beijing. These places are packed with girls, and some of them are absolute stunners.

You pay them to sit, drink, and sing with you. Light touching is allowed, but don’t expect to have sex unless you take them outside on a private arrangement.

I’m not naming any specific KTVs here because these places shut down and reopen under new names all the time to avoid attention from the authorities.

But these are the main areas:

• Chaoyang District
• Wangjing & Lufthansa (Liangmaqiao) Area

• Prices: Just keep in mind that KTVs are not cheap. You’ll easily drop over 7,000 RMB in one night, room fee, drinks, tips for girls, and that doesn’t include sex. You’re basically paying to hang out first.

5. Erotic Massage Parlors

The erotic massage parlors are hidden in small Alleys, and unless you have local connections, you won’t find them. Even if you find them, the language barrier is a real problem.

For foreigners is best to go for outcall erotic massage directly to your room or visit a local sauna. Both options work well if you want to relax while finishing with a happy ending.

Most large hotels have a sauna with girls offering extras in the basement. Just ask the receptionist, and they’ll let you know where to go.

If you’re looking for a Nuru massage, body-to-body massage, or some kinky activity, opt for these services:

• Hidden Dragon Beijing

They are located close to Westgate at the Workers Stadium… But I suggest getting the outcall service (just pay the taxi fee).

They offer Nuru massage, B2B massage, 4 Hands, and more. Check their site for more info on prices and services.

• Wonderful Massage Club

As you can see here, the prices for a happy ending massage range from 800-1,200 RMB. Most erotic massage providers offer only handjobs or blowjobs as extra.

Typical Prices

Beijing is the most expensive city in China, but still cheap compared to Hong Kong.

Prices vary a lot depending on where and how you’re looking for action in Beijing. Here’s a rough breakdown of what you can expect to pay:

That said, it’s ridiculous to pay for sex in Beijing when you can easily get laid by using hook up apps and sites in China.

The girls here are horny and down to fuck. It only takes a few drinks or dinner to make their mind up.

This concludes this sex guide to Beijing. I wish you a happy journey.

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