Shenzhen Sex Guide For Single Men
If you plan to visit or move to Shenzhen and want to know the best ways to find sexy girls hot for action, this guide is for you.
Shenzhen is the most appealing city in China to live in for young people. This means there is an enormous number of girls in their 20s and 30s interested in hooking up.
It isn’t so straightforward to hook up with the locals if you are new here. That’s why I’ve prepared a list of the best places to get laid in Shenzhen.
This Shenzhen Sex Guide was last updated in December 2025
Contents
Intro To Sex Tourism In Shenzhen
Shenzhen has seen better years for sex tourism. A few years back, the government clamped down hard on prostitution, with most restrictions imposed on erotic saunas and KTVs (karaoke bars).
As the situation is very strict, I recommend avoiding illicit venues because it is risky. The police might spot check while you’re getting serviced, resulting in a detention.
If you are hungry for a full-service body-to-body massage, just take the bullet train to Hong Kong (check out the HK sex guide). In 14 minutes, you will be there.
No need to worry about the police knocking on the door while having an erotic massage.
The hotspots for prostitution are concentrated in the Luohu and Futian districts, especially neighborhoods like Xiang Xin Cun and Hubei Xin Cun.
Several venues and clubs have a “strict no foreigner policy”, and the ones that allow foreigners are targets for price gouging.
What About Girls & Sex In Shenzhen?
Girls who have some exposure to foreigners feel that they get treated better than Chinese guys. Known as “foreign hunters”, they love to meet foreign men because they get better treatment.
Some girls in Shenzhen are conservative and won’t have sex on the first date or even the second date… And some of these women want a serious relationship, not only sex.
They think that by putting the brakes on for one night, the relationship will be a serious one. Go figure out what they have in mind.
And expect her to bring a friend for the date to make sure nothing happens.
Don’t get too bothered about it; it’s their culture, and you can’t do too much about it, but play along.
Yet, if the girl feels comfortable with you on the first date, the other might leave, so you can get intimate. And if you know how to treat her, she’ll do whatever you want.
Older women are more open-minded about sexual exploration than younger ones. But with patience and kindness, everything is possible…
If you prefer sexual performance over young age, there are plenty of Shenzhen women in their thirties and forties who need a good fuck.
There are many neglected married women or single career ladies. They view foreigners as a discreet opportunity for their sexual fulfillment.
Not only do most of them still look sexy, but they are liberal. They will do just about anything sexually: give great heads, swallow cum, enjoy anal, partake in BDSM, fuck multiple times, take pics, and send erotic texts.
Where to Find Sex in Shenzhen
If you are wondering where to meet girls in Shenzhen for sex, here are the best places, starting with…
1. Sites & Forums
While dedicated apps and websites like Asian Match Mate connect locals interested in threesomes and sex group encounters, they are less prevalent in China than in other parts of Asia.
My preferred method is through a popular live-streaming platform. I browse for performers I find interesting, send a small tip, and then politely ask for their private contact information.
This approach allows me to get to know them before suggesting a meeting, which has led to several successful encounters.
There are also Chinese-language forums like gzpd11 and 020 FJ-4 that serve this purpose. However, they can be challenging for non-native speakers to navigate due to the heavy reliance on local slang and abbreviations.
2. Nightclubs & Pick Up Bars
If booking girls online isn’t your thing, you can pick up girls face-to-face in bars and nightclubs. The best nightlife areas are Shekou and Futian.
The first area is the most touristic, with a higher number of prostitutes but also open-minded Chinese women.
Instead, Futian is a party place for locals with many young girls, especially the nightlife around Coco Park. It’s worth visiting if you have Chinese friends or speak Mandarin.
The best spots to get girls at night are:
- Revolucion Cocktail
Great bar/club with a dance floor, and a younger crowd of Chinese and expats.
- Sauce Club
A Hip Hop club with a small dance floor, an authentic Chinese vibe.
3. Erotic Massage Parlors
If you are hungry for an erotic massage in Shenzhen, there are several blowjob parlors in the Luohu District. Go to the train station, and the road parallel to it has several shops.
Avoid any shop that offers massages below 300 RMB; those are boring foot massage parlors. A sensual massage is in the 330-370 RMB range. Go around 1 pm to see the hottest girls before they get booked.
There are also 24h SPAs that are great to relax, like Queen SPA and Mulberry in Longhua District, but the happy ending consists of only an HJ for 300 RMB. Best to ask for the WeChat contact so you can ask the lady to visit your room.
4. Escorts – Call Girls – 楼凤
There are many independent escorts (楼凤) working around the city. They can be found through Telegram groups, using WeChat, and websites like 51fengliu.com.
The students’ price range is between 600 and 1200 RMB. For older working girls, the rate drops between 300-600 RMB.
Just keep in mind that the photos are highly filtered and enhanced, so don’t expect a model to turn up.
5. KTVs
Karaoke bars are places where you go with friends to drink and have a good time in the company of girls.
I recommend going only with locals because it’s easy to rack up a massive bill if you don’t understand the KTV system. Expect to drop at least 3000 RMB.
These places are everywhere in Shenzhen, but the most popular area for KTVs is Luohu District, where you can find hot girls. Usually, they allow only 3 to 5 girls in each room, depending on the KTV rules.
The girl’s rate is 600-800 RMB for sitting and drinking for 3-4 hours with you. No touching any private areas or kissing or anything else for that matter. You pay for the company, not for sex.
If you want to take a girl home, expect to pay 1.600-5.000 RMB. If you ask me, it is not worth it.
6. Streets with Prostitutes
Around any major hotels, there are streetwalkers. Luohu District is a popular area, especially opposite the Sunshine Hotel in the city center and off Xiangxi Road.
Also in the historical red-light districts like Xiang Xin Cun, hookers are approaching potential customers. Check out the Hubei metro station.
Keep in mind that streetwalkers are the lowest grade of prostitution, and the girls can’t speak any English. It isn’t uncommon to get in trouble with their pimps, and the hygienic conditions are horrible.
In conclusion, proceed at your own risk.
Map Of Shenzhen Sex Venues
Typical Prices
• Entrainment And Girls
Shenzhen is an expensive city, but you can get laid cheaply.
Prostitutes in the street are on a low-scale price starting at 300 RMB for a shoot. You can find hookers on Telegram groups and WeChat, starting at 400 RMB up to 1000 RMB for the hottest one. More than that is just a rip-off.
There are also SPAs offering erotic massages with a hand job for 1000 RMB, not worth it.
• Accommodation
If you want to monger in Shenzhen, stay in the Luohu area. There are erotic spas, streetwalkers, and many KTVs.
A good starting point is to stay at the Sunshine Hotel. There are several alleys off Xiangxi Road in the Xiangxicun neighborhood with prostitution.
• Food
Several local eateries are cheap; for about 50 RMB, you can have a meal. For international restaurants, the price is similar to the West, but the quality of food isn’t that good.
• Transportation
Shenzhen has modern transportation. The metro is only 3-9 RMB for fare, taxi starts at 15 RMB with a 3 km included.
Tips & Tricks
• Contact Girls In Shenzhen: Don’t arrive in Shenzhen unprepared; spend a few days/weeks before your trip online to build up connections.
• Be Concise: It’s normal in Shenzhen to offer a gift or money to the girls. Don’t fluff around, tell her what you want and what you offer. It saves everyone time.
• Scammers: Some girls tell you they don’t want money, but after sex, they ask for ridiculous money. No pity for scammers.
• Shy? Young girls can be conservative and sexually inexperienced. It’s easier to open them up with some money.
This concludes this sex guide to Shenzhen. I wish you a happy journey.
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