Beijing Sex Guide For Single Men And Couples

If you want to meet girls and get laid in Beijing, this guide can help you.

Beijing is well known for the Forbidden City and is the entry point to the “Grand Wall of China”. But also for its nightlife and horny girls.

I’m going to tell you all the good things the city has to offer…

Because you should enjoy the place and the beautiful women instead of worrying about where to go, what to do, and most importantly, how to do it.

It’s always a good idea to contact Chinese girls online before your trip, so you’ll have someone to keep you company and warm at night once you arrive.

This Beijing Sex Guide was last updated on June 2025

Intro To Sex Tourism

Beijing used to be one of the more accessible sex tourism destinations in China, but those days are gone.

There’s no official red-light district in Beijing, and the action is anything but open.

Most of the action happens quietly through massage parlors, KTV lounges, or online via WeChat and Telegram.

You might even find escort service flyers under your door if you stay in a hotel popular among tourists…But I wouldn’t trust it blindly because often they are just a scam.

The dating apps are also full of working girls, but like everywhere, the pictures have heavy filters. The girls rarely look the same as they do in their pictures.

The reason why the P4P scene is so private is that prostitution around China is 100% illegal, and the government isn’t shy about cracking down.

Surveillance is everywhere, seriously, there are cameras on nearly every street, and locals risk heavy punishment if caught.

Foreigners tend to get a bit more leeway, but that doesn’t mean you’re safe from trouble.

That said, most sex businesses know how to play the game. Some close temporarily during inspections, then reopen once the coast is clear.

So yes, sex is still for sale in Beijing; you just need to be smart, discreet, and know how the system works.

Where to Find Sex in Beijing

If you are wondering where to find girls and get laid in Beijing, you can start…

1. Online

WeChat is the main app everyone uses in China. You will find many escorts there, but it’s also good for meeting regular Chinese girls who like foreigners.

Some want to practice English, others just want a casual time. If you stay in the city for a few days and chat with a few girls, something can easily happen.

Then there’s Tantan and Momo. These are like the Chinese versions of Tinder. Lots of locals use them, and many are looking to get laid.

The problem is, you need a Chinese phone number to sign up, so these dating apps aren’t great if you’re just visiting or want to chat before you arrive.

Some working girls also advertise on Telegram, usually with links to their WeChat.

If you’re already in China, WeChat is enough. If you’re planning ahead from outside, Telegram can help you find some contacts.

2. Nightclubs & Pick Up Bars In Beijing

Beijing’s club scene isn’t what it used to be, especially after COVID.

A lot of the old venues are gone, and there aren’t as many Central Asian or Russian girls around anymore.

That said, if you know where to go, you can still find some action.

Sanlitun is the main spot. It’s full of bars, clubs, and restaurants and stays busy until late. It’s touristy, but that’s where most foreigners hang out, so girls who are into foreigners hang out there too.

Another good area is Gulou, which has a more chill, local vibe but still has bars where you can meet cool people.

The best time to go out is after 11 PM. That’s when things start heating up.

Here are a few spots worth checking out:

• Mei Bar (Rosewood Hotel)

This place is upscale and pricey, but you’ll find some working girls here, plus a few Chinese women who like Western guys.

It’s got a live band and a lounge vibe. I once picked up a Ukrainian girl here for 1500 RMB (~$200) for a couple of hours.

• Mango Bar

Right across from where the Chocolate Club used to be. Some nights you’ll see Russian, Uzbek, Mongolian, or African girls, mostly freelancers.

But don’t expect them to come to you. You’ll need to approach, buy drinks, and show some game. Other nights, the place might be completely dead. Hit or miss.

• Beersmith (Hotel Jen)

More of a laid-back, busy bar with live music. There are definitely some working girls here, and regular Chinese women too.

Chat them up, buy a drink, and see where it goes. Some are open to arrangements if they like you.

• New Swing Bar

A small bar that sometimes has one or two Central Asian freelancers. If they’re interested, they’ll let you know, usually with eye contact or a smile.

Not the liveliest place, but worth checking if you’re nearby.

Nightlife in Beijing takes a bit of effort, but if you’re social, confident, and know where to look, it’s still possible to have a good time.

3. Escorts In Beijing

Hiring an escort is probably the most common and straightforward way to get laid in Beijing, if you know where to look.

There are tons of outcall services, a few incall options, and even some freelancers working from their apartments.

The most well-known name in the game is Angel. They mostly offers Mongolian girls these days (she used to have more Chinese girls). They’re generally young, pretty, and priced fairly. Some are straight-up stunners, others are just decent, but overall, most guys walk away happy.

Just keep in mind that their English isn’t always great, so you might need to use a translation app to chat.

Angel offers both incall and outcall. For incalls, she often sets up a serviced apartment, so you don’t need to worry about booking a hotel.

Prices vary, but here’s a general idea:

• 1200 RMB for one hour
• Around 1300 RMB, including taxi
• Two rounds: about 1200 + 900 RMB
• A full night can range from 2800 to 4000 RMB (though some girls might leave early)

Note: I can’t share Angel’s contact details here for privacy reasons. But you can join my newsletter, where I share exclusive info like this and more tips on how to get laid in different cities.

Besides Angel, there are also professional escort sites like Secret Hostess or China Girl Escorts.

The prices are similar, but I can’t vouch for the looks. Don’t let the listings deceive you because you’re unlikely to get what’s advertised.

4. KTV Bars

KTVs (karaoke bars) are one of the flashiest and most expensive ways to meet girls in Beijing.

These places are packed with girls, and some of them are absolute stunners.

They never openly advertise sex because KTV bars are often targeted during police crackdowns whenever the cops need a little “bonus money.”

Everything is super discreet. The girls know the game, but they play it safe.

Most of the safer KTVs these days are in smaller towns just outside Beijing, near the Hebei border. That’s where they can operate with a bit more freedom. Inside the city, it’s more risky.

Just keep in mind that KTVs are not cheap. You’ll easily drop over 7,000 RMB in one night, room fee, drinks, tips for girls and that doesn’t include sex. You’re basically paying to hang out first.

Most of these places have a lineup of girls you choose from. You pay them to sit, drink, and sing with you. Light touching is sometimes allowed.

You can touch her legs, her butt, sometimes even her tits under her dress, but don’t expect to have sex on the premises. That’s a huge risk if there’s a raid.

Instead, you can negotiate with the girl quietly. If she likes you (or your money), you can take her back to your hotel for full service.

Prices vary a lot depending on the girl, but expect it to be way more than a standard escort.

I’m not naming any specific KTVs here because these places shut down and reopen under new names all the time to avoid attention from the authorities.

But yeah, KTVs are all about the experience. If you’re into the whole VIP karaoke vibe with beautiful girls pouring your drinks and flirting all night, you’ll probably enjoy it.

However, if your main goal is just to get laid, there are cheaper and easier ways to do that in Beijing.

5. Barber Shops

Erotic barber shops in Beijing offer more than a cut.

They provide an erotic massage with a happy ending, usually a hand job and a blow job.

You can notice them because they employ sexy girls wearing short skirts.

Not the most hygienic of establishments, many of the women speak no English at all.

6. Sex Massage In Beijing

You can opt for an outcall erotic massage directly to your room or visit a local sauna. Both options work well if you want to relax with a girl.

Most large hotels have a sauna with girls offering extras in the basement.

Erotic massages in Beijing that have English speaking staff are:

• Hidden Dragon Massage Beijing
• Wonderful Massage Club

As you can see, the prices for a happy ending massage range from 800-1,200 RMB. Most erotic massage providers offer only handjobs or blowjobs as extra.

7. Strip Clubs In Beijing

There are no strip clubs in Beijing. The reason is Chinese girls are reserved and feel comfortable to do sex acts behind closed doors.

If you want a Beijing striptease, rent a girl, buy her lingeries and ask to dance on a chair in the bedroom.

Otherwise, the closest experience you’ll find to a strip club are KTV bars that are crazy expensive as I’ve discussed above.

Typical Prices

Beijing is the most expensive city in China, but still cheap compared to Hong Kong.

Prices vary a lot depending on where and how you’re looking for action in Beijing. Here’s a rough breakdown of what you can expect to pay:

That said, it’s ridiculous to pay for sex in Beijing when you can easily get laid by using hook up apps and sites in China.

The girls here are horny and down to fuck. It only takes a few drinks or dinner to make their mind up.

This concludes this sex guide to Beijing, I wish you a happy journey.

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