China Sex Guide For Single Men
If you would like to meet sexy Chinese girls hot for action and know the best ways to get laid in China, this guide is what you need.
China is known as the factory of the world, but only a few people know that this country is a pussy paradise too.
In this guide, I’m going to reveal the best destinations to hook up in China and talk about Chinese sex culture, how to get a temporary girlfriend, and much more.
This China Sex Guide was last updated in November 2025
Contents
Intro To Sex Tourism In China
China isn’t a popular sex tourism destination in Asia, but there is a massive commercial sex market operating underground in all major cities.
In the last decade, the strict prostitution laws and strong police enforcement pushed activities from more overt venues like KTVs and street-level salons into a more clandestine model reliant on digital platforms and discreet establishments.
But there are plenty of Chinese girls who crave the attention of a foreign man, so it isn’t necessary to buy the service of a hooker. Several young girls want to improve their English or need money to pay their school tuition, great for a beneficial relationship.
Not all cities are the same when it comes to sexual services.
Guangzhou has been heavily cracked down on by the police in the last decade. Shanghai and Beijing are still happening, even though you need to be discreet about it.
What About Girls & Sex In China?
Most men think girls in China are short, with white skin and without curves.
That is true for typical Chinese girls from the northern cities like Beijing. But girls in the South are usually tall, tanned, and well-equipped.
Besides physical characteristics, you’ll meet these three groups of Chinese women…
1. Countryside girls who have gone to the big cities for work. Most are ready to jump into bed with any foreign man for obvious reasons.
2. Then you have the highly educated girls who started their careers at 25 when they left the university. They work hard and don’t have much time for intimate relationships.
As a result, they become ‘Sheng nu’ (leftover) women unless they are from a rich family. Unmarried women in China are like a Christmas cake – unwanted after the 25th. They speak excellent English and mingle with foreign men in the hope of getting married.
3. The last group is the divorced women. They have been dumped by their Chinese husband and now struggle financially. Any support is welcome, you can find plenty of them on dating sites.
Usually, the girls able to speak English are the ones carefree in their approach toward life and sex. They typically have been born in a mixed-race family or studied for years abroad.
In the cities, many girls are financially independent and strong-minded. Unless you hook up with a countryside girl who just arrived in the city.
Understand that Chinese men’s idea of true beauty is young (under 24), ultra-slim, 170cm tall, and rock-hard C tits.
Keep in mind that peaking Chinese is a significant skill to have in your arsenal. Chinese girls can hardly resist a foreigner able to speak their language.
Where To Find Sex In China
Having sex in China isn’t that hard if you know where to look for it… And the best places to start your search are…
1. Online
For any city you’re living in or working in, I suggest downloading Telegram and searching for adult groups where you’ll find the contacts of the girls.
Of course, you need to read and write in Mandarin if you’re in the Deep South, and Cantonese in all other regions. You also need a local bank account so that you will be able to pay the deposit and then the balance.
For those just visiting, sign up on Asian Match Mate to find couples and local women able to speak English and into no strings attached sex.
Another option is this streaming site with hundreds of Chinese ladies performing sexually online. They are open to meeting in person, just tip a streamer asking for the personal contact.
2. Nightclubs & Pick Up Bars
Every city in China has a nightlife area that caters to foreigners. You can find nightclubs and bars with party girls as well as working girls.
It isn’t that easy to pick everyday girls because of their poor English skills and the noise in such venues. The best way is to buy a drink for the girl and get out of there as soon as possible.
3. Escorts – Call Girls – 楼凤
All over the country, you can find independent escorts and escort agencies. If you have money to spend and not enough time to recruit girls by yourself, escort services are the way to go.
Just be careful because there are a lot of bait-and-switch tactics going on. It means the girl you see on the site is not the one you’ll get.
That isn’t a bad thing if you aren’t picky. From experience, 2/3 of the girls are pretty, while the remaining 1/3 aren’t worth the money.
If an ugly Chinese escort shows up, just reject her. The pimp will arrange a new girl for you.
For a decent call girl, expect to pay at least 800 RMB. When paying less, you risk a grandmother showing up.
4. Barber Shops
For a quick blow job or hand job, barber shops in China are a good value. Expect to pay 300-500 Rmb, but that doesn’t include the haircut 🙂
5. Sauna
Most high-end hotels have a sauna that offers happy ending massages. There are also several independent saunas that offer extras.
You can get relaxations as well as extras, but in most cases, there is no full sex service. Shenzhen is a well-known city for blow job saunas, but only in Hong Kong you’ll find full-service saunas.
Other Chinese cities have clamped down on parlors that offer erotic massages. The result is you can get no more than a handjob.
Anyhow, you can always ask the masseur to give you her phone number for a private full service in your hotel room.
For a massage with HJ (handjob), the price is around 300 RMB, while a massage plus blow job is about 350-400 RMB.
6. Street Hookers
The lowest type of prostitution in China is street hookers. If you walk the small alleys in the red light areas, you can find pimps and streetwalkers.
They are cheap, dirty, and they can’t speak a single word of English.
But if you love adventure, risk, and a cheap fuck, you can get laid with a Chinese streetwalker for 200 rmb.
Typical Costs
• Accommodation
There are three options:
- local hotel
- international hotel
- Airbnb
Local hotels are cheaper than International hotels. The price for a decent room is about 300 rmb, less than that you are asking for trouble.
International hotels offer comfortable stays and international standards. Prices start at 700 rmb to the moon for a luxury suite.
Airbnb is pretty popular in China, especially in Shenzhen and Beijing. With prices similar to local hotels, you can have a condo all for you and your lady guests.
• Food
Chinese food is delicious and cheap. You can have a meal for 60 RMB.
If you want to eat your home country’s food, there are several restaurants in the big cities. but the quality and the price of food aren’t that great.
So, stick to the local food, and try the scorpions!
• Transportation
Chinese cities have modern transportation with metro, taxis, and buses. The metro is the cheapest way to move around the city, with fares at 2-7 RMB. Taxis start at 10 RMB.
• Girls
Independent hookers’ standard rates are 400 RMB for CIM (Cum In Mouth) and 800 RMB for FS.
Erotic massage parlors and SPAs offer a massage plus HJ for 400 RMB. Full service isn’t always available, but when there is expect to pay around 1000 RMB.
Top Cities To Get Laid In China
The major destinations for hookups in China are:
Beijing Sex Guide – The capital of China has great nightlife. The girls in Beijing are hot for action, and there are a variety of sex venues to keep you busy for days.
Chengdu Sex Guide – Delicious Sichuan cuisine and horny girls are the attractions of this city.
Dongguan Sex Guide – This city has so many girls compared to men that it is the norm to have two or more girlfriends.
Guangzhou Sex Guide – Located in the South of the country, the weather is favorable for parties year-round. Chinese girls in this city are tall, dress well, and know how to please.
Shanghai Sex Guide – It’s the fashion city of China. The girls know how to dress and impress while open-minded forward hookups and sex.
Shenzhen Sex Guide – It is one of the youngest cities in China. Meaning there are enough young girls in their 20s.
Best Cities For Sex In China
This concludes this sex guide to China, have fun!
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