The Ultimate Men’s Travel Guide To Indonesia
Indonesia is a massive archipelago of disparate islands (17508 islands to be precise) with a population over 238 million making it the fourth most populous country in the world. Indonesia has 108.000 Km of beautiful beaches, which Bali’s beaches are world famous among the surf community.
The majority of the Indonesian population is Muslim with sporadic areas ruled by minority religions.
Sex traveling in Indonesia is a mixture of frequented as much by Indonesian-Indonesian couples as by horny Westerners indulging themselves.
However, before planning your next trip to Indonesia, it’s a good thing learning more about the local law thus experincing an unforgettable adult vacation with peace of mind.
When To Go To Indonesia?
The whole archipelago is tropical, with temperatures at sea level always between 21˚C and 33˚C, although cooler in the mountains.
In most parts of Indonesia, the wet season falls between October and April (low season), and the dry season between May and September (high season). Rain tends to come in sudden tropical downpours, but it can also rain nonstop for days.
Though travel in the wet season is not usually a major problem in most parts of Indonesia, mud-clogged back roads can be a deterrent. The best time of year to visit most of Indonesia is April to October when the climate is relatively cool and dry.
A tragic drop in tourist hordes means that Indonesia’s “tourist high season” no longer presents the same kind of activity and inconvenience it once did.
The December–January festivities period and the school holidays still brings a wave of migratory Australians and Europeans heading to Bali, Java, Sumatra and Sulawesi. In July and August, the same occur. But climatic impediments aside, pretty much any time is a good time to head to Indonesia for an adult holiday.
What About Sex In Indonesia?
I mentioned earlier that sex in Indonesia is not a taboo, public affections are limited but inside the privacy of a hotel room, all the sort of activities can be found. Indonesia sex industry is present and well organized.
In fact, all it takes is a closer look inside any phone booth to notice brochure of the most explicit advertisements representing all the three genders (women, men and lady-boys).
One of Indonesia’s main attraction is the beauty of Javanese women, known to be wild and showcase large breast.
Another important factor is that many Indonesians want to have sex with Westerners for the sake of having sex with a foreigner and not for any financial gain.
Don’t be skeptical if someone offers to spend the night with you but unless she explicitly states money from you, just go with the flow and have an awesome time.
These sort of experiences that truly makes Indonesia a great destination for sexy men looking for “Casanova” vacation’s type, especially in Bali.
Sex Safety – In my experience, Indonesian’s girls are generally easy going and don’t ask to use condoms. The reason is that Indonesia hasn’t run anti HIV campaign for years or took proactive action in educating the population about sex risks.
Another reason is the shy nature of Indonesian women. Local custom don’t allow women to question a man. Avoidance is better than confrontation in their beliefs.
Indonesia Destination Guides
Bali – Jakarta – Bandung – Makassar – Batam – Surabaia – Yogyakarta
- Sex: Indonesia being huge and having wealth gaps between the main cities and towns, the cost for sexual services can be vary. What I love about Indonesia, is the wonderful massage services provided.
The history of what Indonesians refer to as “Massage Parlor Plus Plus” goes back a long way. No one knows exactly when the trade emerged, but it has been a thriving industry in Indonesia for at least 20 years.
Massage parlors can be found in any Indonesia’s city, just ask the taxi driver and he will take you there (Don’t forget to mention that you like young ladies, otherwise, he might pick you up to his aunt).
There is the ‘include all’ package, for which charged Rp 300,000 to Rp 600,000 (US$ 25-50), depending on the type of girl.
“Happy” hotels, provide short time rooms for Rp 50000 to Rp 100000 (US$ 4-8) and offers a selection of girls, sometimes in-house or in-call.
Just ask the mamasang what you like, and she will accommodate your needs (personally I prefer school girls under 20 years old). The optimal time to get Indonesian school girls is 10-7pm.
Cost from Rp 250000 to Rp 500000 (US$ 20-40). If you are looking for an overnight girlfriend experience, visit a popular nightclub and hundred of freelancer girls will be happy to sleep with you overnight for Rp 30000 to Rp 1000000 (US$ 24-75).
- Sex Activities: Most of the action will be found in Bali, Jakarta and with Batam on the rise.
In other major cities, there are sex activities in moderate quantity and usually cater to the local people.
Indonesia offers a wide range of sex entertainment such massage parlors, karaoke, bars and night clubs. The brothels activities are covered up, but girls are willing to go for dinner or directly to the bedroom for a “tip”.
You can take the girls out, to a hotel or lounge for drinks, costing 250,000 Rupiah (US$21) for 2-3 hours or checking in a room for as high as 600,000 Rupiah (US$50).
Bars and restaurants are also prominent places for these activities, costing up to 1 million Rupiah (US$83).
- Accommodation: There are a variety of hotels for all budget, from the luxury resort in Bali to the cheap rooms in West Java.
Personally, I never spend less than US$ 40 per stay because below this price the rooms are usually not welcome.
You can check quickly and easily the price range for your destination below by entering:
- Destination; Bali, Jakarta, etc.
- Check in and Check out date; In other words, the length of your stay.
- Number of room; 1 if only for you, multiple if traveling with friends
- Adult; This is tricky because you would think to select 1, only yourself, right? That would create an awkward situation when bringing an unregistered guest back to your room.
So, what to do?
Select 2 guests. When checking in the hotel and get asked about the second guest, just say that she’ll join you later. Obviously, this isn’t valid if you’re planning to change girlfriend every single day.
Make sure do not leave anything behind like a lingerie. There are instances when hotels returned such items to the mailing address. You don’t want your spouse to find out, right?
- Food: Local food is extremely cheap, starting at Rp 12000 (US$ 0.5). You will spend around Rp 24000-72000 (US$ 1-3) for a full local meal for street food. Western food can be found in stand-alone restaurant or in five stars hotels.
In stand-alone restaurants, is affordable at around Rp 96000 (US$ 8) for a meal and drink with prices rising to the sky for a five-stars experience.
- Transportation: Local transportation is cheap, costing only a few dollars. For traveling between islands, ferries cost around Rp 12000 (US$ 0.5) and up, for a ticket from East Java to West Bali, and the rates go up from there for other routes.
A ten-hour journey on a bus costs around Rp 120000 (US$ 5). Overnight bus will start at around Rp 96000 (US$ 8).
Tips & Tricks
- Negotiate Price: Always negotiate price before heading to your hotel. Indonesian girls will try their luck, don’t be surprised to hear offers in millions of Rupiah.
- Valuables in the safe. When you leave the room and while you are showering, keep your value locked up.
- Go local – The easiest way to save money in Indonesia is to simply live like a local. Take local buses; You can pick up tasty local fare for around Rp 12000 (US$ 0.5). Eat Street side snacks, soups, and noodles will keep your wallet fat!
- The legal age of consent is 18 and you are strongly advised to stay clear of anything younger than that. Being a Muslim country, they might jail you for a while. Age of consent is 16 years old.
- Body Test – Before negotiating price, spend some time to talk to her. This will give you the opportunity to touch and feel her body. Don’t be shy. Tight jeans, push-up bra and high heels are the few common tricks that women uses to look sexy. Don’t be a fool, heading to your room and while undressing her, “surprise.”
DATE INDONESIAN WOMEN
If you are looking for more than just a pop or bang, wish to meet an Indonesian woman to spend your holiday together, and why not, fall in love, I have the right and easy solution for you to date a local woman.
Indonesian women love the idea to meet a foreign man; we look exotic as much they look exotic to us. We have white skin, are tall and look handsome to their eyes (much better than the typical Indonesian man that has dark skin and short body).
There are hundreds of university and office girls that would love to spend time with you to improve their English language skills. This can be mutually beneficial, and more interesting than bang just bar girls and hookers.
How to Meet Local Women in Indonesia
When it comes to meeting Indonesian women you basically have three options.
- Walk around the country looking for cute girls working in restaurants, shops, malls and so on. It is a bit like to flirt with women back to our western countries but much easier.
Just smile, give a compliment and carry on the conversation till the right time to ask for a go out together. This approach works 30% of the time, thus every three girls, one will accept your offer. I have personally tested over an over again.
- Visit discos and nightclubs. There are few type of girls in these clubs; educated girls, freelancers, and curious girls.
– The educated girls will be found mostly in local nightclubs away from the tourist spots, which are packed with office and local women, and just a small percentage of hookers mixed with the crowd.
If you are young, dress smart and know how to flirt with Indonesia women (you need to have some basic of Basa language), this place might work out well for you.
– Freelancers are girls looking for money, but they can’t bother to work in beer venues and Ago-go bars. You will find many in the clubs frequented by foreigner and tourist.
They will pretend to have a daily job, or study and tell you they are there just to have fun with friends, but it is a lie. You will recognize them by the way they dress (extremely sexy) and make up, plus they can speak proper English. They are great companion if you are planning a sex holiday around Thailand and you need a tour guide with you.
– The “curious girls” are usually young and they can speak little English, they work or study and they want to meet with Western men to learn more about our world.
These girls are rare to be found, but they are the perfect girlfriend experience with real feelings and dedication to you if you can hook up with one.
I have met few on dating websites and usually, they write on the profile things like “I am looking to meet men for friendship that are polite and kind”.
- Online Dating Sites in Indonesia. With the rise of smartphone devices and internet, many Thai girls have taken this new approach to meet Western men. It is convenient and easy enough, plus they avoid to face a stranger face to face for the first time.
Meeting Indonesian women on dating sites is the most convenient way because she will not feel shy to speak to you, both of you can take some time to know each other and at the same time build excitement for your first date.
Indonesia women love the idea of meeting first-time foreigners in Indonesia (you are not a sex tourist in their mind). They get excited, and if you ask them, they will meet you up even at the airport.
Do you feel lonely – and worry that you’re doomed to a single life?
What if there was a way to meet 1, 3 – even 10 or more – attractive girls right now – even while you’re on the other side of the planet?
Don’t waste your life. There are hundreds of beautiful Indonesian girls ready to meet you.
– Indonesian Cupid – It is the biggest dating site in Thailand with thousand of women looking for romance, relationship and why not, a night stand.
You can find girls online anytime to chat with. The chat is easy to use and you can talk with multiple girls at the same time because Indonesian women write very slow because sometimes they have to check the dictionary for words. This can maximize your time and effort to create multiple “relationships” at the same time.
By signing up with Indonesian Cupid you will access to thousand of local girls all around the country.
TIPS: You can meet sweet countryside women looking for love, or some slut in the major tourist destinations for one-night stand.
Make sure to complete your profile with some good picture of you (no naked) and a clear description of what you are looking for, what you can offer them and about yourself briefly. This will help you to get the right woman. Avoid to pretend to be a romantic man when in reality you love to get tied up to the bed and wiped by women in leather g-strings. Be yourself!
– Asian Dating – You can find and chat any kind of women; student, executive, singles from any background in Asia.
The girls on AsianDating.com mostly hope to develop a romantic relationship, occasionally you can find some university girl that need some extra cash to buy the new Iphone.
AsianDating offer free membership with basic feature as messaging, etc, but I suggest to get the premium account so you can chat with multiple girls, get preferential search and video chat online.
I hear horror stories all the time from travelers being cheated by women online. I never have them with AsianDating.com beside the usual lady-boy try to trick me.
The website management does a good job in keeping their users in check, trying to remove scammers and fake accounts.
TIPS: Same tips as above, make sure to spend some time to write a clear description about yourself and what you are looking for. Be yourself.
Upload at least three pictures of yourself in different situations, for example while playing tennis, with friends and having a dinner with papa and mama.
Make sure to shave your face, look “clean” and dress properly. Asian women pay a lot of attention on appearance, this will make the difference to attract the cutest, most attractive Indonesia women that are genuine.
Bali – is a popular travel destination, well-known for its vibrant nightlife. Famed “Island of the Gods”, stakes a serious claim to be paradise on earth in Indonesia. Bali is probably the most famous of Indonesia’s islands and for good reason.
Beaches are popular among surfers, good restaurants, beautiful hotels and an amazing nightlife. Although often crowded with travelers, there is no escaping the fact that this place is beautiful. Bali is open minded forward sex activities with hundreds of “undercover” karaoke and massage parlors.
Jakarta – is the capital and largest city of Indonesia, located on the northwest of the island of Java. Jakarta is the the most populous city not only in Indonesia but in Southeast Asia as a whole. The selection of beauties is amazing, nightlife is hot, and you’ll be spoiled for choice in Jakarta.
Batam – is an island located 20 Km from Singapore. Batam has cheap drinks, happy ending massages and a lot of beautiful Indonesian girls! NED or Nagoya Entertainment District is entertainment center of Batam.
There is a high number of girlie bars, pubs, dodgy massage parlours and plain brothels in this area.
There are also a number of ordinary discos and pubs where you can meet local lasses.
Unlike other sex tourist destinations, there do not appear to be activities of girl’ s freelancing in this area.
MUST TO DO
Legian street & Seminya – When visiting Bali, Legian Street will take you in the Balinese nightlife scene with nightclubs, bars and clubs. In this area most of the girls are honest workers with a say time job, but if they like you, you might find that they will go home with you for some cash.
Sanur – Sanur is Bali’s oldest upscale resort area and is a mature beach-side town. Sanur hide something more; it is the red light center district in Bali. The atmosphere around Sanur at night is calm, but behind the scene, sex services can be found. These businesses are generally intended for tourists and are found in homes. To tell which house is “hot”, look for the house’s number ending with the letter X (eg, 10XXX or 10X or 10XX).
Dive in the Gili Islands – For a true sense of an island paradise, head to the Gili Islands. Relaxing and quite islands where you can bring your Indonesian girl or girls to spend an erotic holiday away from indiscreet eyes; Activities; bike travel or horse and cart are the ways to see all that Gili has to offer. You’ll find excellent scuba and snorkel facilities, as well as nightlife on the party island of Gili Trawangan.
Kalijodo – Jakarta’s largest red-light district, located on the border of West Jakarta and North Jakarta, which is probably the oldest site in Indonesia (good excuse for visiting pretending to be an architecture lover).
Bongkaran & Cipinang – Infamous red light districts in Jakarta where ladyboys can be found but not only. The custom rates are Rp 50,000 (US$4.5) for a short time in a small tent beside the railways near the Jatinegara station, or Rp 250,000 (US$4.5) in nearby accommodations.
Dive in Bunaken – The Bunaken National Marine park is where you’ll want to go if diving are your thing. These deep waters offer fantastic visibility and some of the world’s most biodiverse marine life. Keep an eye out for tuna, sharks, rays, turtles, and sea snakes.
Visit Yogyakarta – Known as Yogya for short, this city is considered to be the main tourist city of Java. This city is populated with beautiful Javanese girls, don’t miss out the chance to spend time with a Java girl. There are a number of historical sights, restaurants, clubs, shopping areas, and museums to check out.
Villages Tours – The popular places of girl hunting in west Java are Bandung, Bogor (Cipanas), Cianjur (Cibodas), Sukabumi (Sukabumi town, Pelabuhan Ratu etc).
- Javanese Girls: Beauty of Indonesia
Sex Holiday in West Java: home of the sexiest Indonesian girls
- Holidays in Indonesia: Villages sex tour
Adult Holidays in Bandung; Best Sex Venues
Yogyakarta’s Red Light District: Rules of Ramadam
Nights of Fun in Makassar
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