Batam Sex Guide For Single Men
If you want to hook up in Batam and learn the best places where to find sexy girls and couples hot for action, this guide has all the info you need.
You should enjoy your trip to Batam, instead of worrying about where to go, what to do, and most importantly, how to do it.
I’m going to cover all the things you need to know to experience the ultimate Batam adult vacation, whether you are single or a couple.
If you want to get a holiday girlfriend or get into a long-term arrangement, I recommend these sites where you can find Indo girls eager to meet foreign men.
This Batam Sex Guide was last updated on 26 March 2025
Contents
Intro To Sex Tourism In Batam
Batam is only 40 minutes away from Singapore. It’s a gateway for travelers who are looking for sexy girls but don’t want to break the bank.
The interesting part is that several Singaporeans have sugar babies in Batam thanks to the growing popularity of arrangement sites. And of course, the availability of young and hot girls looking for sugar daddies.
If you plan to visit Batam and hope to have wanderlust nights out, think again. Men don’t go out to parties, but to hook up with the locals.
The most popular sex venues are erotic massage SPAs and karaoke bars. But you can also find working girls freelancing in nightclubs and bars.
Indonesian girls from all over the country come here to work. The majority of ladies are from Sumatra and West Java.
The whoring is happening in Batam but you can’t compare it to popular tourist destinations like Bali or even Singapore itself.
What About Girls & Sex In Batam?
In one word: hot!
Not only are girls in Batam beautiful, but they are hot for action in bed. It’s hard to find ladies so willing to please, and dedicated to your needs.
During the day, there aren’t many girls out and about, but at night, the place comes to life, even though in a modest way.
There is an area called “NED” also known as “Nagoya Entertainment District” which is located in downtown Nagoya. Most of the nightlife revolves around Nagoya and Batam Center.
When out at night, it’s hard to predict what will happen once you leave the hotel room. You might hook up with a sexy girl in a nightclub or get the best happy ending massage of your life.
Girls in Batam speak English at about the same level as Thai ladies and much lower than in the Philippines.
Quality girls, hi-so-ish who drive their cars and call themselves models, speak better English as they have a university education.
You’ll find women in Batam have round asses, generous tits, wear high heels more than their other Asian counterparts. That makes them look sexy and sluttier…
I’m talking about westernized locals, not the ones in burkas who are conservative.
It’s hard to find hot girls in shopping malls, on beaches, or walking around because they prefer to drive around in cars. If you are into 7-10s girls, you better meet them online.
It’s not easy to date them cause they tend to be flaky. But in my past experiences, once they agree to meet up, 9 times out of 10, sex is on the plate.
The first time in Batam, I met a girl online and banged in her car on the first date because I had a terrible schedule and logistics.
She drove me around in some ridiculously tuned Japanese cars, think “Kitty inner lining”.
If you think Indonesia is a strict Muslim country, think again. I had a threesome situation when I was kissing two girls in a car, and let them touch my dick simultaneously while I was playing with their tits.
Where To Find Sex
If you are wondering how to hook up in Batam or simply want to know the best places for casual sex, I would start with…
1. Online
Surprisingly there are many couples from Indonesia as well as Singapore that holiday in Batam and look for a third to have some fun on Asian Match Mate.
I’ve seen also swingers searching for other like-minded couples and middle-aged ladies that need a good fuck. I have met a horny Muslim lady wearing the hijab, and she was great fun!
For the “pay to play” activities, it’s best to download the WeChat App on your phone and enable the “search nearby” function. You’ll get flooded by all sorts of offerings and friend requests, but be aware that behind there are agents with a pool of girls.
Make a video call first to see the lady or meet her in a nearby cafe before inviting her to the room. Besides heavily Photoshopped profile photos, there is also the risk of bait and switch. It happens that you get a different lady.
The standard rate is 600k for ST and 1.3M for LT.
2. Nightclubs & Pick Up Bars
Most nightclubs and bars where you can meet girls in Batam are located in NED (Nagoya Entertainment District).
Don’t expect great clubs like in Jakarta or Bali… But definitely, you’ll find friendly women. The party girls are craving to hook up with foreign men, especially after a few drinks.
There are also several freelancers patrolling the clubs if “pay for play’ is your thing.
Weekend days are best to hook up with office girls who are there to have fun. Before 1 am is best to pick up girls in the bars, after that visit a nightclub.
A few well-known places have been closed down during Covid and never opened again. Some notable mentions: No Name Pub.
The best nightclubs and pick-up bars in Batam are:
• F1 Club
It’s a crowded nightclub even on Sundays and Mondays. It’s cheap with beers at 85k and cocktails for 150-200k.
The interesting thing is that when it closes at 4 am, they offer VIP rooms where you can host private parties for up to 10 people. The cost is 300k on weekdays and 500k on weekends for 3 hours. There is also a private bathroom and bedroom to have sex.
• Pacific Discotheque (now VG)
It’s a happening club inside the Pacific Palace Hotel. It’s almost impossible to get in on Saturdays because there is a long queue of people who want to get in. I recommend booking a table.
You’ll find beautiful girls to keep you company.
• Square Club
Until COVID was a happening place with a lot of freelancers. Unfortunately, not anymore. Now there are only a dozen PR girls and rich locals.
• Newton Discotheque
It’s not as good as it used to be before COVID-19, but on weekends, you can find teen girls out having fun. There are also many freelancers.
• Barfly in Kampung Bule
It’s a bar where you can play pool and meet mature Indo girls in their 30s. Sidy as fuck, and the girls are horny as hell and good fun.
• Holywings
It’s a high-class nightclub with good music and a comfortable environment. The girls who party here have money, so you need to be confident to pull a chick.
3. Erotic Massage Parlors
If you like erotic experiences and don’t mind a dirty massage, many Spas around the island offer sex massage services.
The area near the Diamond City Mall is to explore with many small parlors offering happy endings. There are hidden gems but the problem is the time needed to find them. The ongoing rate in this area for a full sex package starts at 550k up to 1,100k.
Check out Lavendar Spa for a full package at the price of 550k with a private room. The girls are on the chubby side, but good fun. The thing I don’t like is choosing the therapist from a photo menu.
A better parlor always in this area is Hello Kitty. The total package is 860k, but their rooms are better than Lavander and the girls comply with most sexual requests. Also, you get the girls to line up in front of you.
In case you don’t want to walk around the DC Mall, just visit a SPA that offers happy endings like:
• Delta SPA has hot girls and offers excellent massages with HJ included in the price. The price is 900k for 2 hrs plus 200k for the happy ending (optional).
• Octopus SPA has different tiers for ladies. The Gold-tier ladies are older and less attractive. Platinum-tier girls are better, and the Diamond-Tier is super with model-type ladies. The facility offers sauna, cold water and hot water pools.
• Fame Spa & Lounge is a posh and high-class local adult massage place. The masseuses are professional and pretty.
If you don’t ask at the reception that you want to choose the therapist, they’ll assign a random one. Their facilities are great and worth experiencing after the massage. The price is 535k for a 90-minute massage plus 700k for the extra service.
To learn more, I’ve written a guide about erotic massages in Batam, not only in the Spas but also on how to get a sex massage directly to your room.
4. Hostess Bars
Not far from Pasar Jodoh Mall, forward to the McDonald’s, there is a small street home to several Hostess Bars. The most known is Fat Willy’s Dirty Dick’s Bar & Cafe, but you’ve also Barfly, Daddy’s Bar and so on.
The girls offer company for a lady’s drink that costs 80k. If you want to take one to your room, the standard rate is 1ml negotiable. The quality varies a lot, so walk bar to bar until you find your princess.
In the area, there are also two local nightclubs called Kotta and Foreplay Club.
5. Strip Club
There is a strip club in Batam above Lucy’s Oarhouse in Kampung Bule called PP Banana Lounge.
Don’t expect young spinners but rather girls in their 30s happy to take off their cloth for 200.000 Rupiah. Add 500k if you want to take the girl upstairs for sex.
5. KTVs – Karaoke
Karaokes are upscale bars/lounges usually located in hotels that employs young and beautiful hostesses offering company.
You rent a room by the hour, sometimes it includes drinks, and you pay the girls sitting with you by the hour.
If you need more than companionship, KTV’s girls’ prices range from 800k to 1.2m for a pop.
The best KTVs in Batam are:
• Morena Pub & KTV is a smoky hall with 15-20 girls waiting for you. Decent food and a good selection of drinks.
• Grand Dragon Pub & KTV is an upscale place with beautiful to stunning ladies wearing short, skimpy but elegant dresses. The price is 1M for sitting and drinking.
• THRIVE KTV has professional pool tables and hot girls eager to play with you. The karaoke rooms are massive, and some have even a lap dance bar. Girls cost 900k only to keep you company, but no action.
6. Escorts – Call Girls
You can find girls on the Locanto escort directory. These advertisements are posted by pimps that have a few girls.
The problem is that they employ bait-and-switch tactics. So, don’t expect the girls in the photo to show up.
In conclusion, I don’t recommend call girl services in Batam. For that kind of service, nearby Singapore has high-quality Indonesian escorts offering a hassle-free experience. You can find the information in the Singapore Sex Guide.
Typical Prices
If this is your first time traveling here, you might be wondering how much things cost in Bata
Here is a list of standard prices for each business type:
- Hostesses working in bars – Pay 200k to the bar owner (bar fine), 1.2 million to the girl for a short time. Lady drinks 80k.
- Call girls: 900k per hour.
- Masseurs in erotic massage spa – About 1100k for the full service.
- Karaoke girls – 1k – 1.6m.
- Freelancers in the nightclubs: 600-900k, depending on the time of the year and her attractiveness. This refers to girls who work for themselves, like freelancers or everyday girls who need a side income.
How To Get a Holiday Girlfriend
If you are searching for a beautiful Batam girlfriend, either for a long term relationship or for the time you are in Batam, this is one of the easiest destinations in Indonesia.
Having a girlfriend in Batam is the best way to experience the local culture, try new things and not only in bed.
When you are with her, you feel energized and young again.
No need to wasting money on dirty hookers, there are many quality girls eager to meet you for a simple affair or a serious relationship.
The best way to find a girlfriend in Batam is to use a site like Seeking. There are hot Indo girls looking for a foreign boyfriend that hardly you won’t find what you’re looking for.
Visiting Batam without using a dating site is foolish because it connects you with local girls interested in foreign men. What is the point of spending the night in clubs and bars when you can simply connect with eager girls in a matter of minutes.
To get started, upload a few groomed photos, well-dressed and look at best. Not drunk, stoned or posing in front of a Maserati that isn’t yours.
Fill up your profile with a realistic view of your life and what you are looking for in a Batam girl. Keep it brief.
Make sure to verify your profile as this offer to your profile more visibility. That “verified badge” is going to land you more attention and response from the girls.
Then search for girls in “Riau” which is the province of Batam. That’s it!
Where To Stay
All the accommodations I recommend are girl-friendly, meaning you can bring any guests without getting charged extra or looked down on by the service staff.
• Citra Plaza – Next to Formosa Hotel, home to one of the best erotic massage parlors in Batam.
• Pacific Palace Hotel – swimming pool, gym, and an erotic massage parlor on the 8th floor. For 400k you can get a happy ending massage (hand job) or full sex service for 1.2 m.
• Nagoya Hill Hotel or Harmoni Hotel – great hotels to pick up hookers. There is a nightclub in the basement packed with working girls.
This concludes this sex guide to Batam, I wish you a happy journey.
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