Chiang Mai Sex Guide For Single And Couples
If you would like to get laid in Chiang Mai and want to know the best places to find sexy girls hot for action, this sex guide has all the info you need.
You should enjoy your trip to Chiang Mai, instead of worrying about where to go, what to do, and most importantly, how to do it.
I’m going to cover all the things you need to know to experience the ultimate Chiang Mai sex vacation.
This guide digs into the sexual lifestyle of the city, from the P4P scene (Pay for Play) to hookups and casual dating.
This Chiang Mai Sex Guide was last updated in April 2025
It’s a good practice to contact girls online before your trip so you’ll have some good company once in Chiang Mai. Holiday time is precious, so don’t waste it!
Just imagine having a young and horning girl waiting for you…
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Intro To Sex Tourism In Chiang Mai
Chiang Mai sex tourism is tame compared to Bangkok and Pattaya, but it is growing year after year.
Prostitution is alive and kicking, with new sex venues opening around the city.
Most of the action takes place in Loi Kroh Road, a red light area with girlie bars and erotic massage parlors.
But there is also an active nightlife filled with Thai freelancers patronizing the nightclubs.
Many young and caring university girls are looking for some support. This makes Chiang Mai a great place to hire a holiday Thai girlfriend.
Also, Chiang Mai is well-known for its sex massage services, particularly soapy massages located throughout the city, along with more discreet and smaller body-to-body parlors unknown to the majority of tourists.
There are also local brothels in the Santitham Area, with mainly Burmese girls, where you can have a quick encounter in a nearby love hotel.
What About Girls & Sex In Chiang Mai?
Chiang Mai has many beautiful and young women because it’s a university town.
This is the main reason I consider Chiang Mai a destination for any man seeking romance and love with young and attractive Thai girls.
Chiang Mai girls are traditional and shy, but very feminine.
I had several holiday girlfriends in this town who offered a great time…
Once you get their trust, they are open-minded in regards to kinks and sex experiences. Expect long nights of intense sex as they get turned on easily.
The Northern type of lifestyle is evident with the girls as they can only be described as relaxed and friendly, but still conservative when it comes to intimate relationships.
They are family-oriented and focus on their studies to make their parents proud. Their kind of upbringing also makes them very down-to-earth and less materialistic than their counterparts down in Bangkok.
Regarding appearance, what stands out is their lighter skin and beautiful eyes. But also the small body.
Where To Find Sex In Chiang Mai
The nightlife offers the possibility to hook up with white women on holiday and pick up freelancers in nightclubs and beer bars.
There are also many erotic parlors that offer all types of sexual services.
But it’s online where you can date/hookup with the local Thai girls, especially the university students. There are also couples looking for single males and swingers searching for other like-minded couples.
1. Online
There are a few sites popular in Thailand that are worth using if you plan to visit or live in Chinag Mai.
The first one is Thai Friendly. A popular dating app/site with plenty of women eager to date and hook up. There are also freelancers on the mix in case you’re looking for pay to play activities.
Then you’ve Asian Match Mate that not only help you to get in contact with horny women (usually mature in their 30s-40s) but also couples that are into threesome and swinging activities.
2. Pick Up Bars And Nightclubs
The nightlife in Chiang Mai focuses on the backpackers and travelers. There are many white women eager to hook up as well as Thai ladies selling sexual services.
The main areas for girlie bars are around the Boxing Stadium Complex and the nearby Loi Kroh Road. There you’ll find plenty of fun and flirting, but not young ladies instead milf types.
Just keep in mind that you’ll have to pay a bar fine (about 500 baht) to take the girl to your room, and of course, pay her for the service (about 2000-3000 baht).
Unfortunately, if you’re searching for GoGo Bars like the iconic Foxy Lady and Spotlight, they have all closed. So no more strip tease dances or sexy dancers wearing bikinis. But there is still the Milk Club with its sexy waitresses (see description below).
There are several spots inside the old city (the moat) to chat over a few beers, enjoy live music, and even dance into the early morning hours (video below).
The pickup bars and nightclubs that are worth a visit are:
- Zoe in Yellow
This is a nightclub that gets busy after 11 pm. It’s frequented mostly by travelers and a few Thai ladies eager to hook up.
- The Spicey
This is a bar that turns into a nightclub until late hours. Great place to hook up with foreign ladies as well as Thai women. Not so many Thai hookers. The only reason girls dwell here late at night is to get laid.
- Candy Club
Less crowded than the previous two nightclubs. It’s modern and offers good value for money. After midnight, you can find girls.
- Milk Club
It’s a restaurant/bar with a live band. Young ladies are acting as hostesses who serve food, pour drinks and also play games with you. They can speak English. If you tip well, after work, they might agree to go to your room.
- After Bar Club
This place plays techno music, has two pool tables, and a large dance floor. Go only on Friday and Saturday because during the week it is empty.
- ReD Bar CNX
It’s an intimate bar/club that plays house music. Busy on weekends, most foreign ladies are eager to hook up.
- Differ
This is a local Thai-style drinking place with a live band. Plenty of quality local ladies, but only go if you’re a group of friends and you can speak some basic Thai.
3. Erotic Massage Parlors
Chiang Mai offers a variety of options for those interested in erotic massage parlors. They are a significant part of the adult entertainment landscape.
I’ve already created a comprehensive guide to the erotic massage in Chiang Mai, highlighting the main areas of happy ending parlors and the SPAs offering full service packages.
Below are the main hot spots I recommend visiting:
• Loi Kroh Road
Besides the numerous beer bars in this area, there are also small erotic massage parlors that offer happy endings.
Most offer handjobs (HJ) and teasing, with full service (FS) and blowjobs (BJ) being less common but sometimes possible. Look for the provocatively dressed staff.
- Prices: 300–500 baht for the massage, plus 800–1500 baht for extras.
• Kamphaengdin Road
All the massage shops on this road offer full service. Once you become a regular, some therapists might agree to go raw.
Some recommendations are Sweet Massage, Thara Massage (Thara Song) and Puththaraska Massage.
- Prices: In Kamphaengdin Road and Loi Kroh Road is 300 Baht for the oil massage, plus the tip to the lady, which is 1000 Baht for an HJ or 2000 Baht for full service.
• Nimmanhaemin Area
This area is just Northwest of the old city (outside the moat).
There is a minimalistic erotic parlor called “All About Touch Massage” that offers sensual massage techniques like Lingam and Karsai in a well-managed environment. There are about 10 girls to pick: young, beautiful, and they know how to please.
- Prices: the typical rates are 1,500 to 2,500 baht, depending on the session length and style.
4. Spas (assembly line)
What I refer to as “assembly line” are all those shops that offer this simple experience: you go in, select a lady out of a lineup of girls, pay up front at the counter for what you want, and then go to the room.
These places offer erotic massages like Nuru and Sopay Massages that end with a full sexual service (HJ, BJ ,and sex).
The best SPAs at the moment are:
• Icha Icha Massage
The only parlor in Chiang Mai that offers Nuru massage. The price is reasonable and the rooms are comfortable. The only downside is you’ve to choose the girls from an iPad. 60 minutes for 2.500 Baht or 90 minutes for 3.000 Baht.
• Aurora Club
Located in KK Central Park, it’s clean and has willing girls. They have three tiers of service, from 1800 Baht to 2600 Baht.
• Pink X
Pink X is a body-to-body massage parlor that offers a selection of girls with tiered pricing.
The lowest tier costs around 2,800 baht, which includes full service for an hour. The rooms are nice and include a shower.
• Miyabi
Across the street from Pink X. They have a lineup of about 8 girls, not so impressive. The price is 2800-3300 Baht for 60 minutes.
• Absolute Paradise Chiang Mai
Fix price at 1.500 baht for a body-to-body massage with a handjob. If you want any more extras, you make a deal directly with the girl.
• Sayuri Complex
Sayuri (ซายูริอางอบนวดเชียงใหม่) is the oldest soapy massage parlour in Chiang Mai. The premises need renovation, but fortunately, the girls are worth the visit. About 8 to 15 girls with two-tier prices: 1800 Baht & 2200 Baht.
• Miss Spa Chiang Mai
A good selection of young girls at 1.800 baht for 80 minutes of relaxation.
5. Take Away Brothels
There are about five brothels where the local blue-collar workers go when they have money to spend. Most of them are nameless and relocate constantly, but they are always in the Santitham Area (Chang Phuak Soi 4).
These whore houses are known as “Brothels Santitam”, and they employ Burmese girls and ladies from the nearby tribal hills. They are all take-away brothels, meaning you walk in, pick a girl, and go to a love hotel nearby to do the deed.
• Girls: Most are from Myanmar, some Taiyai, and some Thai. Young girls, and sometimes you can find some real gems.
• Standard procedure:
- Walk in and choose a girl.
- The pimp take you and the girl to a love hotel nearby.
- Half an hour of action. Don’t expect kissing and a blow job.
• Price: ranges from THB 400-600 for half an hour to THB 1,300 for an hour. Some girls expect a tip, better to give it before having sex.
• Note: Some brothel owners reject foreigners, others charge more, and some girls may refuse to go with you because fearing the the big tool. You need guts and Thai language proficiency to visit a take-away brothel.
Typical Costs
If this is your first time traveling to Chiang Mai, I bet you are wondering how much things cost.
Below is a breakdown summary of what to expect to pay while in Chiang Mai.
The prices for sexual services in Chiang Mai are on Bangkok levels, high compared to the prices in Pattaya. But the quality of the ladies is high.
To keep things simple, these are the current prices:
– Beer bar girls ask for 2.000 baht for a short time and 3.000 baht for all night. Plus a 500 baht bar fine.
– Freelancers in nightclubs are about 1.500-2.000 baht for all night, depending on their attractiveness and your approach.
– Girls working in the erotic massage shops ask 1.000 baht for a handjob, 1.200 baht for a blow job, and 2.000 baht for sex. You need to pay the shop for the massage too which is about 300-400 bhat.
– SPAs offer full service starting from 1.800 baht up to 3.330 baht for 90 minutes and the “hottest” girls.
Not everyone wants to meet prostitutes, and the reasons are obvious.
The good thing about Chiang Mai is the numerous university girls that you can meet for a date. University girls are shy and reserved so they don’t hang outbars or nightclubs, but they prefer to use the privacy of a dating site like this one.
You can also hook up with couples in Chiang Mai who are usually looking for a bull to pleasure their girlfriend or wife.
How To Find A Holiday Girlfriend In Chiang Mai
Online dating is booming in Chiang Mai like the rest of Thailand. You can meet young and beautiful girls willing to tour you around the city during the day while getting intimate at night.
Chiang Mai girls on dating sites are so eager to meet a foreign man that you will receive more replies and messages than on Western dating sites. Meaning the online game in Chiang Mai favors you instead of the girls.
A good strategy is to start using dating sites before your trip. That way you can build a list of girls eager to meet you.
Here’s a list of the best online dating sites to meet Thai girls:
- Thai Friendly – The most popular dating site in Thailand.
- Asian Match Mate – The naughtiest dating site in Thailand.
Just upload a few nice photos, introduce yourself, and meet up. It’s easy to meet Chiang Mai girls online.
And if you want to get into a relationship with a Thai girl but without having to marry her, you can simply rent a Thai girlfriend.
Where To Stay
The accommodations that I recommend are girl-friendly and located strategically to enjoy the nightlife as well as the local sexual services. And of course, great value for money.
– Raming Lodge Hotel: The Raming Lodge is perfect for those looking for nightlife, being in the center of Chiang Mai it is surrounded by restaurants and bars and just a few minutes walk from the Night Market.
– Movenpick Suriwongse Hotel: Located in the heart of the city, you are a walk away from all the naughty activities.
– Duangtawan Hotel is close to the action on Loi Kroh Road and is girl-friendly.
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