Pattaya Sex Guide For Single Men And Couples

If you want to meet sexy girls in Pattaya and get laid every day, this guide has all the info you’ll ever need.

Pattaya is a whore town, and there is more pussy per square meter than any other city in Thailand.

But it isn’t all about pay sex, there are also everyday girls dreaming of meeting a foreign man for a romantic relationship. Just have a look at any popular dating sites in Thailand for this purpose.

This guide covers for the most part the P4P scene (Pay for Play Scene) in Pattaya for obvious reasons.

But I also share tips on how to find a decent holiday girlfriend so you’ll never feel alone during your vacation in Pattaya.

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This Pattaya Sex Guide was last updated in September 2025

Intro To Sex Tourism In Pattaya

The statistics about the sex tourism industry in Thailand are clear: Pattaya is a whore town!

I’m not exaggerating, Pattaya prostitution can be seen all around town. There are countless red light areas in the North, Center, and South of Pattaya.

But Walking Street is the main red light area with hundreds of night venues with hot girls and ladyboys…

The you’ve the beach road called “Promenade” is known to be the most significant red light area in the world, stretching for one kilometer and packed with street hookers day and night.

As you can see, there are prostitutes everywhere in Pattaya, and sex sells cheaply. But keep in mind that sexually transmitted diseases are real, so cover up with a condom.

It isn’t worth risking the health to have sex with cheap prostitutes… But fortunately, there are plenty of girls with regular jobs who want to be your holiday girlfriend.

Not only do they offer an incredible Thai girlfriend experience, but the chances of getting some STDs are low. Unlike prostitutes, they don’t sleep with every single guy who offers money.

If you find Pattaya prostitution too much for your taste and prefer a beach resort town less touristy, Hua Hin is a great alternative only a few hours away by ferry.

What About Girls & Sex In Pattaya?

Girls in Pattaya are wild! They love to party, have fun and of course… have sex.

It’s hard to find a destination with so many sexy and horny girls. On this site, you’ll get an idea of what I’m talking about.

Even though this town is full of prostitutes, there are plenty of girls who dream of meeting a decent foreign man for a relationship.

But be careful, they can easily fall in love with you and become jealous.

If you want to get into a relationship without any drama, you can easily rent a Thai girlfriend for a few weeks, months, or years. It’s all about being upfront about the relationship terms.

Do you think to be too old to romance a young girl in Pattaya? Don’t worry that much. The age gap isn’t so important because what matters is how you treat and make her feel.

Keep in mind that good girls don’t go out in clubs, bars, or the red-light districts.

Also, remember that 95% of the girls you see out at night are freelancers. So you should avoid the Pattaya nightlife if you aren’t into paid sex.

Where to Find Sex in Pattaya

If you want to get laid in Pattaya, there are several places to find girls hot for action…

1. Online

There is no better way to find girls and couples hot for action than online. Most girls and couples are real freaks in the sheets!

There are hook up apps and sites for all sorts of needs. From no string-attached sex to friend with benefits arrangements to threesomes.

There are also cam girls streaming online. Search on the top bar for “Thailand”.

Find a girl you like, tip her regularly, and then ask for her private contact. Once ready, meet her in person and have a good time.

I’ve been successful in getting laid with this system.

2. Nightclubs & Pick Up Bars

If you love to go out at night and party, early evening bars are the best way to go. After midnight, visit the nightclubs…

In the bars in Pattaya, you will find only bar girls. Instead, in nightclubs, the majority are freelancers. But sometimes you can pick up nice girls without paying them in the morning.

In the red light areas, you can meet girls in the gogo bars or beer bars. Agogo girls are more expensive and usually have better-looking girls while the beer bars are cheaper and have older women.

Check out my Pattaya nightlife guide for information about all the best areas where to party and the types of night venues available.

3. Strip Clubs – A Go Go Bars

The strip clubs in Pattaya are called GoGo Bars. In some GoGo bars, the girls dance naked, while in others they dance in bikinis or sexy uniforms.

There are two main areas for this sort of establishment: Walking Street and Soi LK Metro.

Walking Street is slightly more expensive, but the quality of ladies and service offered are pretty much similar in both areas.

Some of the best GoGo bars in Walking Street at the moment are:

• XS Gogo: Perhaps “the hottest girls in walking street,” with a roster of over 40 women.
• Kink: It’s a wild venue. Don’t miss the show where you can “make it rain” with 20 baht banknotes over naked girls who enjoy being spanked.
• Windmill: Having the naughties girls in Walking Street.

If you visit LK Metro, I recommend stopping by Sugar Sugar. There are some really beautiful girls in there.

Prices: The bar fine to the bar is 700-1000 Baht. Pay the girl 3000 Baht for short time or 7000 Baht for all night.

4. Erotic Massage Parlors

In Pattaya, there are plenty of parlors offering happy endings.

You’ve the soapy massage parlors that are massive hotels with rooms with a jacuzzi and a mattress that offer a body-to-body massage experience.

Then you have several small erotic massage shops located especially in Soi Honey, Soi Post Office, and Soi Buakhao.

More locations are listed in the sex massage parlor guide. I’ve also included my personal experience on how to get cheap sex massages directly to your room at the end of the guide.

The best massage shops that offer happy endings at the moment are:

• Sabai Dee is a soapy massage parlor with a wide selection of girls who offer full service.
• Up To You in Soi Honey is an institution. There are always hot girls eager to please.
• Tyrus Massage in Soi Post Office specialized in 4-hand massages.

For massages and skin care, I recommend having a look at my latest guide to barber shops in Pattaya. Some places offer more than a trim!

5. Blow Job Bars

If you love getting sucked, several blow job bars around Pattaya specialize in giving head.

The two main locations are Soi 6 and Soi Bong Koch 8. Definitely, Soi Bong Koch 8 is more specialized, but also the girls working in some bars in Soi 6 are great at it.

Girls working in BJ bars suck cocks every day, so it’s a sure bet to get a fantastic head job.

And remember that the best girls performing oral are in their 30s and 40s. Simply because they’ve proven over the years to enjoy what they are doing.

The standard rate is 800 Baht for a blow job in Pattaya.

6. Gentleman Clubs

Similar setup to BJ bars but with a better standard of girls, where you can have a full service, not only blow jobs.

The gent clubs are only open from 2-3 pm until 7 pm, and most men patronizing these sorts of venues are in their 40s-50s.

You can have drinks, food, and girls while spending an afternoon with your buddies. Check out my Pattaya Gentleman Club Guide for prices, tips, and a list of the best venues.

7. Brothels

The only street in Pattaya with brothels is Soi 6. You can find hundreds of bar girls waiting to have a drink with you and go for a quickly in the room upstairs.

You can find all sorts of girls, from the shy girls who arrive fresh from the farms to the pros.

It’s a fun red light area to spend a different afternoon playing with the girls. Check out my detailed Soi 6 Guide for more info and to avoid getting scammed.

8. WS and Beach Road Hookers

There are many types of freelancers in Pattaya, but the most common you’ll see during your vacation are the freelancers in the street and nightclubs.

The most popular areas to pick them up are Walking Street and Beach Road.

In Beach Road, there are prostitutes 24/7, but the best time is between 6-8 pm.

Walking Street becomes the biggest Pattaya girls’ market from 8 pm until 5 am, thanks to the many nightclubs where they hang out.

Typical Prices

If you would like to create a budget for your trip to Pattaya, you need to know the costs for girls, hotels, food, transportation and so on.

Let’s start with the costs for the girls:

If hardcore prostitutes aren’t your cup of tea, there are many “sideline girls” on TF. “Sideline” refers to young women who often have a regular job or are studying and make money on the side by sleeping around.

The majority of single men visiting Pattaya have sex with prostitutes and bar girls simply because they are unaware of sideline girls. They aren’t in your face like bar girls, and you can’t find them in nightclubs either.

• Accommodation: Pattaya in terms of accommodations is cheap, especially in the low season between May and November.

You can find basic hotel rooms for 300 Baht that include a basic breakfast. For around 800-1200 Baht per day, you can get a quality 3-4 stars hotel with swimming pool and gardens.

Above 2.000 Baht, you get a 5-star hotel with several amenities and services.

I’ve written a guide to book the accommodation that includes a girl if you’re looking for an happy start of your holiday.

• Food: Eating locally at street food stalls or markets (e.g., Thepprasit Food Market) costs around 150–250 THB for a meal like pad Thai, grilled seafood, or curry rice.

Mid-range restaurants (e.g., Maha Thai or Cafe Beach clubs) charge 300–600 THB per person for a full meal, while premium experiences like seafood buffets (e.g., Jao Samut Seafood Pattaya) start at 705 THB/person.

High-end dining (e.g., omakase or international cuisine) can exceed 1,000 THB. Imported Western dishes or luxury ingredients cost significantly more, similar to Western prices.

• Drinks: Local beer (e.g., Chang, Leo) starts at 80–100 THB in restaurants or bars. Spirits (e.g., Thai rum like “285 Gold” or local whisky) begin at 100–150 THB per shot, often served with mixers.

In nightclubs or beach clubs (e.g., Moon Whale), buying bottles is cost-effective for groups, with prices ranging from 1,500–3,000 THB for spirits like vodka or whisky. Cocktails or imported beers typically cost 200–350 THB

Using Dating/HookUp Sites To Meet Pattaya Girls

There are plenty of hookers in Pattaya, but you don’t necessarily need to pay girls to spend time with you.

You can meet everyday Thai girls on dating sites who are either looking for adventure and fun with a foreign man or looking for a boyfriend. There are also couples searching for a third to have fun with.

Most travelers who visit Pattaya end up with a prostitute only because they are unaware of how easy it is to meet regular Thai girls online.

The best way to go about it is to sign up with a popular dating site before your trip (the longer, the better) so you can build a list of eager girls excited to meet you once in Pattaya.

Here is the list of the best sites to meet Thai girls:

• Thai Friendly – Popular dating site in Thailand for finding a holiday girlfriend.
• Sugar Daddy Meet – The best site in Thailand to find a friend with benefits. Most are students.
• Asian Match Mate – An adult site with naughty girls and couples in Pattaya looking for sexual experiences.

To get started, create a profile and search for girls or couples in Pattaya. Start a few conversations, get to know each other and meet up once in Pattaya.

Best Adult Hotels In Pattaya

You’re going to be spoiled with the choice of hotel rooms in Pattaya. You can get cheap rooms near the red light districts or luxury accommodations by the sea. And there are also accommodations with plenty of girls waiting for you.

The cost of a decent hotel room starts at 800 baht without breakfast.

However, there are plenty of places where you can have a good breakfast for less than 100 baht or a quality one for 250 baht.

Whenever I’m in Pattaya, there are three hotels where I usually stay:

• If I want to party hard and change girls every day, I’m going to stay in Aya Boutique Hotel near Walking Street or LK Residence near LK Metro.
• If I want to relax while enjoying the vacation with my girlfriend, I stay in the Hilton Central.
• The Penthouse Hotel has “kinky ass rooms” with jacuzzis and dance poles.

There are either cheaper or more expensive options, depending on your travel standards.

However, if you’re serious about bang girls in Pattaya, stay away from the hostels. Do as Rocco does, stay in a girl-friendly hotel.

Most accommodations are guest-friendly in Pattaya, meaning you don’t get charged extra for bringing back girls or ladyboys to your room.

That concludes this sex guide to Pattaya. I wish you a happy journey.

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